Daily Devotional for May 31, 2103

Psalm 86:15
But you, O God, are both tender and kind,
    not easily angered, immense in love,
    and you never, never quit.

 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
Today, our little great-niece Zola celebrated her second birthday.  My husband and I took gifts to her this morning and spent some time playing with all three children… Timothy, Zola and Nathan… and visiting with their mom.  One of Zola’s gifts was a new shirt that says “Little Sister” and a ruffled skirt to match.  Zola promptly had her mom help her change shirts so that she could wear the new one… but she didn’t really think about the skirt for another twenty minutes or so.  When she rediscovered it, she decided to put it on… over the shorts she was already wearing!
 
We all watched as she struggled… first taking off her shoes… then trying to put the skirt on upside down… then turning it over in the right direction and pushing her feet through the bloomers that were attached.  Then she tried to stand up!  Finally, Zola was able to stand to her feet, but she could not get the skirt pulled up completely over the other pair of shorts she was wearing.  But she never quit.  She kept trying until they were fairly well in place… and her mother helped her get them fixed the rest of the way.
 
I have mixed emotions as I watch these little ones do things for themselves.  I love them so much I can’t explain it.  I want so badly to jump in and help…to do things for them…to give them that little boost they need to get over the hump.  And sometimes, when I am frustrated with their frustration… or they won’t stop crying and take their nap… or it’s “one of those days” and they have multiple meltdowns… I want to throw up my hands and walk away.  It would be so easy to call their mom and say, “Here… you can have them back!  I’ll let you deal with this!  Call me when they are 25!” But I keep trying to soothe ruffled feelings… I keep rocking a crying baby and hoping he/she will settle down and drift off to a peaceful slumber.  I wait and watch and marvel at how they figure out things and grow and learn – even from their mistakes.
 
God does the same thing with us… on a far grander scale.  He must be so tempted to walk away and give up on us… probably many times each day!  He must be terribly frustrated as He watches us fumble and bumble our way through life.  It must be all He can do not to simply do things for us and make everything right when we are confused or struggling.  I can’t imagine how hard it must be for Him to watch us falter and fail… knowing we need to learn from our mistakes – but hurting for us all the same.  But God never quits.  He never stops loving us… never turns His back and walks away.  We test His patience and try his resolve… we insult Him, disrespect Him, and cause His heart to break… and still He offers us love, kindness, and tender mercy.
 
I wonder… do we really stop to consider how patient God is with us?  Do we use His example as a model for how we treat our own children, friends, family members, and acquaintances?  Do we offer the same tender kindness and love to others that God extends to us?  Do we see that we are often God’s two-year-old trying to put on a skirt over our shorts?
 
Every single one of us has moments of frustration and impatience.  And each of us has the perfect example of what to do in these situations… and what not to do!  Stop and consider God’s longsuffering patience, love, kindness and mercy toward you.  Thank Him for being so enduring and tolerant… for His tenderness and understanding. Learn from His rhythms and offer hefty doses of these traits to everyone you encounter.  God will never, ever quit caring about you… pursuing you… nurturing you.  What will you learn from Him?  Will others see these qualities in you?  Shouldn’t they?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 30, 2013

May 30 ~ Psalm 40:1
I waited and waited and waited for God.
    At last he looked; finally he listened.

 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
Two years ago, my husband and I attended a James Taylor concert in North Little Rock.  Believe it or not, I discovered there are people who don’t know who James Taylor is… so if you are one of these folks, James Taylor is an international icon in the world of pop music.  This singer-songwriter’s albums were incredibly popular when my husband and I were dating and attending college… and he still has a world-wide following today.  Such notable hits as “Fire and Rain,” “Mexico,” Carole King’s “You’ve Got a Friend,” and “Copper Line” have stood the test of time and are still sung and widely recognized today.
 
What is incredible to me is that we had never attended one of James Taylor’s concerts until two years ago.  We were able to obtain second-row seats on the floor with a birds-eye view of Taylor and the band.  We sat next to veteran attendees of James Taylor’s concerts who told us, “He will sign autographs during intermission.”
 
We found this hard to believe, but the couple next to us had their items and a Sharpie® marker ready to go.  So we started wondering… “What could we ask him to sign?”  We had not brought any album covers… or a magazine like our seat neighbors.  We had nothing.  Then it hit me… I could have him sign the denim jean jacket I was wearing.  I had a waterproof black marker in my purse.  I would take off my jacket during intermission and see if James Taylor would sign it.
 
When the break came, I walked to the front of the stage and stood next to the man who had been sitting next to us.  We were standing almost dead-center in front.  James Taylor came out and started at one end of the stage, signing all sorts of items as he made his way toward us.  But the time was short, and the crowd was huge.  I convinced myself long before he made it near us that we would not be successful.  Surely James would say, “That’s it, guys!  I have a concert to perform,” and he would dismiss us.  But he kept signing, and as he neared us, my very tall seat-neighbor grabbed my jacket and put it with his magazine and handed them to the performer.
 
James Taylor took my marker and my jacket and looked at me with a shrug and a grimace as if to say, “I’m not sure how I’m going to do this.” Then he crooked one knee, knelt, and placed the back yoke of my jacket across his leg…and signed his name.  James Taylor had looked at last… and he had “listened”… and now I am the proud owner of a jacket with his signature!
 
Now I in no way compare James Taylor to God.  But how many times have you been “in line” so to speak… trying to get God’s attention… waiting… and waiting… and waiting?  And just about the time you were ready to give up… just when you felt like God was simply not noticing you… He answered!  What is the take-away from this?  Keep praying!  Keep asking God… and believing He sees and hears you!  I know it seems like He will never answer.  I know you feel like things won’t ever change.  But that is simply not how God operates!
 
Will God respond on our time-table… and exactly as we expect?  Possibly… but most likely, the schedule will be totally different… and the outcome may be very dissimilar to what we wanted.  But I assure you, everything will be perfect.  Last Christmas, as I prayed for my grandmother, I begged God to let her go “home” for Christmas… to be in heaven where she longed to see Him and her friends and family members who preceded her.  She was tired, sick, and so weary. Christmas came and went… and my grandmother lived.  Then a dear friend and tablemate died, and my grandmother sobbed uncontrollably and asked, “Why not me?  Why not me?”… and again, I asked, “LORD, why not her?”  And then one morning in early March, the nurse called to say, “We cannot wake Mrs. Polly.”  A little more than 36 hours later, she was “home.”
 
Now I see that God afforded all of us a happy Christmas holiday with my grandmother… and with our other family members, including my little nephews and niece who are just beginning to understand what Christmas is about.  I see that God chose a time for my grandmother to die when there were not a million other things that I needed to do… a time when I could focus on all of the things that must be attended to when someone dies.  I don’t have room in this devotional to share all of the ways God orchestrated things perfectly for that single event.  While the death of a dear loved one is significant, it is still one single event in a world of zillions of occurrences that God choreographs every minute of every day!
 
Had I given up and sat down before James Taylor got to me in the line… or had he truly stopped signing autographs and returned to the second act (as a grumbling crowd persuaded him to do at one point)… the world would not have come to an end.  But when we give up on God before He answers, we truly miss out on some incredible blessings.  When we fail to yield to His timetable and exercise patience, we may miss some of the subtle brushstrokes in His painting of our lives… and that would truly be a shame.
 
Keep waiting… and waiting… and waiting.  God does see you… He is listening… and He will answer.  Make sure you stick around to hear what He has to say!
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 29, 2013

Proverbs 29:1
For people who hate discipline
    and only get more stubborn,
There’ll come a day when life tumbles in and they break,
    but by then it’ll be too late to help them.

 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
If you are old enough, you remember the ads for Coppertone sunscreen with the little girl in pigtails and blue swimsuit bottoms… a dog tugging at her pants, revealing a pale white bottom!  If you are too young to remember this ad, go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coppertone_girl.  When I was growing up, we were told to “tan, don’t burn,” but our suntan lotion was designed to aid us in achieving a golden tan… not to protect us from the sun’s harmful rays.
 
By the time I was in my 30s, everyone knew about studies that revealed the dangers of sun exposure… how the harmful UVA and UVB rays could cause everything from premature wrinkling to fatal skin cancers.  Like many, I continued to tan long after I knew the potential consequences.  And just last week, I had cryosurgery on an ugly “sunspot” on my chest, while another raised area near my collarbone had to be biopsied for potential Basal Cell Carcinoma!  Thankfully, it was a benign keratosis… but now I have these two raw places that must be babied and tended while they heal… and I have once again been warned to stay out of the sun and to wear sunscreen at all times.  Not suntan lotion… sunscreen with an SPF (Sun Protection Factor) – the higher the number, the better!
 
I was stubborn.  I liked the looks of a deep tan, and I worked hard to maintain one!  And then the day came when some suspicious spots began to appear on my body, and the doctor began to tell me that some were “pre-cancerous.”  Thankfully, I have dodged the fate of many… my mother had to have plastic surgery on her nose last year following the removal of a cancerous lesion (and she wasn’t even a sun worshiper like I was!)… and I recently read a magazine article about a woman in Texas who had to have multiple plastic surgeries on her lip following the removal of a very deep malignancy.  For them, it was too late to think about sunscreen, wearing a hat, or staying out of the harmful rays… at least in that instance.  And for me, it’s too late for the creamy smooth skin of my grandmother, who wore a hat, long sleeves and even gloves whenever she was out in the sun for most of her 100 years…regardless of the temperature.  I am forever freckled and marked for my dogged obstinacy!
 
This is not totally about staying out of the sun!  There are countless ways in which we think we know better than the experts… including God!  We are often more concerned with pleasing ourselves than with doing what we know we ought to do… or pleasing God.  How many times have you said, “LORD… one of these days, I’ll do this or that for You.”?  How often have you said, “I’ll give up XYZ and do what God wants… but not today!”?  Just how often do you listen to God… and to others He sends into your life to guide your path?
 
Here’s the deal… God is incredibly patient with us… to a point.  When He has had enough… or He sees that we are not going to change our ways and listen to Him, God starts to allow us to experience consequences.  In my case, cryosurgery and biopsies have caused me to become quite diligent about wearing sunscreen and protecting myself from the sun’s harmful rays.  For an elderly friend of mine, three near-misses with other drivers in the same day have caused her to reconsider driving.  As she put it, “When God gives you THREE signs in one outing, I think you ought to listen!”  Hopefully she will really follow through, put down her keys, and allow others to chauffeur her around from now on.
 
What about you?  Where are you being stubborn and insisting on your own way?  Do you see that you are trying God’s patience… and possibly that of many in your midst?  Don’t you think it’s time to consider your actions… and potential consequences… to make the necessary changes before things go too far?  Isn’t it time to start listening to God and those He sends to guide you?  Aren’t you ready to operate fully in His wisdom… or are you willing to test the limits of God’s tolerance?  What will it take to fully get your attention?  Is it worth the risk?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 28, 2013

Numbers 14:17-18
Show us your great power, Lord. You promised that you love to show mercy and kindness. And you said that you are very patient, but that you will punish everyone guilty of doing wrong—not only them but their children and grandchildren as well.
 
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
 
Last night, a cousin posted a photo on Facebook that I had never seen of my paternal great-grandfather, my great-grandmother, and five of their nine children.  The photo was probably taken in 1906.  I had never seen a picture of my great-grandfather Chandler… and none of my great-grandmother at such a young age (26).  I studied the photo and looked at their features… could I see any of my own in their faces?  My great-grandfather’s face reminded me of my uncle (his son - my grandfather’s brother).  If I looked carefully, I could see that my grandfather more closely resembled his own mother… and I probably have some of her features, as well.


I was discussing this picture with one of my cousins, and she said, “Now we know where we came from!”  Indeed, we are largely a compilation of our ancestors, from physical characteristics to mannerisms… and possibly even talents and abilities. We may belong to a “musical family,” or one that has a rich history of athleticism.  Our family may have a lineage of scholars who achieved great success in business and were respected in their roles as pillars of the community.  At the same time, we sometimes carry genes that make us prone to such things as heart disease, obesity, diabetes… and even alcoholism.  And all too sadly, some of us carry the “gene” or “family curse” for afflictions such as depression or mental illness, a variety of addictions, or even a propensity for physical abuse and more.
 
As I study my family’s photographs, I wonder… who do I resemble – both physically, and in other ways?  What was handed down to me?  It’s daunting to think that the things you and I do today could have such a powerful impact on the lives of our children, grandchildren and even our great-grandchildren and beyond.  But in some ways, I believe they do.
 
Am I saying that God looks at us and says, “I don’t like what Tom is doing, but I’m going to wait and punish his great-grand-daughter for it!”?  Not exactly.  But I believe very strongly that people are watching… especially our children… and they pick up our little peculiarities and habits, even when we don’t realize this is happening. This is why someone develops a sharp tongue just like his/her father or a “worry wart” attitude like Grandmother’s.  This is how families develop a mindset of bigotry and racism… how some become known collectively for such things as laziness, negativity, elitism… or even general sinfulness.  And this is how we pass these things on to future generations.
 
Inclinations toward certain attitudes and/or vices are often instigated by the adults in our circle, and the devil takes great delight in fanning the flames to cause a firestorm.  God allows us free will and the option to act and think whatever we choose.  How many times have you heard someone say, “If it was good enough for Mom or Dad, it’s good enough for me!” or “I can’t help it… I’m just like my Mom/Dad/Grandma/Grandpa/Uncle Joe…” (you fill in the names)?  God is patient with us and gives us the freedom to decide whether to be like Mom/Dad/Grandma/Grandpa… or to be like Him.  The ultimate decision is totally ours.  He allows us to choose… even when we elect poorly or follow the wrong examples.  But the stakes are high… the consequences can be costly… and the devil is ready to take even the smallest spark and ignite it for his own advantage.
 
What if we started making a concerted effort today to live differently… to polish and perfect the good characteristics we inherited... to combine them with God’s strength and power in order to combat the not-so-good traits?   What if we vowed to break the curses of past sins… and never to perpetuate them to future generations?  What if you and I lived – and served – in such a manner that we didn’t have to fear God’s retribution?  I don’t know about you, but if any of my “children” say, “Oh, I got that from my Aunt Debbie,” I want it to be something that pleases God rather than something of the devil!
 
What “curses” from your past do you struggle with even today?  Are there areas in which you need to say, “LORD, I know you have patiently waited for me to surrender this to you… and today is that day!”?  Wouldn’t this be a great time to wipe the slate clean… to allow God to have control over your past, present and future?  What are you waiting for?  Make this the day you more closely resemble Jesus Christ than anyone else.  Let this be the start of a brand new chapter… and a whole other story - for you and future generations.
 
What will you decide?  Who will you look like today?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 27, 2013

Nahum 1:2-3
God is serious business.
    He won’t be trifled with.
He avenges his foes.
    He stands up against his enemies, fierce and raging.
But God doesn’t lose his temper.
    He’s powerful, but it’s a patient power.
Still, no one gets by with anything.
    Sooner or later, everyone pays.
Tornadoes and hurricanes
    are the wake of his passage,
Storm clouds are the dust
    he shakes off his feet.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

From our living room windows, we can see boaters and skiers on Greers Ferry Lake.  The larger boats create powerful wakes as they barrel across the water.  If you have ever water skied, you know about a boat’s wake…how the motor churns up the water and causes it to ripple like a ribbon that trails behind.  If you stay in the middle of that trail – centered on the wake – you have fairly smooth skiing.  But if you venture out over the edges where the water curls in mini-waves, you’d better know what you are doing!

I like the analogy of this translation from Nahum… the thought that when God becomes angry, upset or disappointed with us, His power is evident - but patient.  He doesn’t bring tornadoes, hurricanes and storms to punish us… but their strength and power are a solid comparison to how intensely – and seriously – He takes our disobedience and disrespect. If you think about storm debris as the dust from God stomping His feet, you get a pretty good idea of how deeply He cares… how passionate He is about our relationship.

I wonder… are we as passionate about our relationship with God?  Do we take our covenant seriously?  Do we extend to others the same love and care that is offered to us?  Are we patient with them?  Are we firm in our insistence that relationships be respectful and fair to all parties… but long-suffering when others disappoint – just as God is toward us?  Are we quick to operate in “tornadoes, hurricanes and storm clouds”… or do we show grace, mercy, tenderness, and forgiveness?

I have no desire to experience the “storm cloud power” of God in my own life.  In fact, I am doing all I can to live in a manner that is pleasing to Him and does not try His patience – although I know I fall short of this many times each day.  My goal is not to avoid God’s wrath… but rather to enjoy His pleasure – and His companionship.  And in much the same way, there may be people in your life whom you tiptoe around…spending your time avoiding their anger, frustration and general unpleasantness instead of relishing a joyful, loving connection.

None of this is God’s desire for us.  Ask Him today to show you where and how to take positive steps toward operating in fellowship with Him… and with others.  Let God show you how to create an atmosphere in which sweet communion is the order of the day… where you ride the middle of the wake and avoid the pitfalls and perils of the edges.  Develop a bond with God where His power is both present and patient – in your relationship with Him and with others.

©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 26, 2013

May 26 ~ Matthew 25:41-43
“Then he will turn to the ‘goats,’ the ones on his left, and say, ‘Get out, worthless goats! You’re good for nothing but the fires of hell. And why? Because—
 
I was hungry and you gave me no meal,
I was thirsty and you gave me no drink,
I was homeless and you gave me no bed,
I was shivering and you gave me no clothes,
Sick and in prison, and you never visited.’
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
Last week, for the first time since my grandmother’s death more than a couple of months ago, I returned to the assisted living facility where she had resided.  I visit with several residents and staff members there… many who have been lifelong dear friends.  One man told me, “You missed my birthday!  I’ve gotten a year older since you were here last.”  He celebrated 95 years on May 18th, and clearly, it was important to him that we acknowledge this milestone .  Another man, whom I only know as an acquaintance, told me that his wife passed away eleven days after my grandmother died.  I had no idea that this had happened, and I spent a few minutes offering my condolences to him - and remembering her. Still others were eager to hug me and tell me how much they miss my grandmother – and how glad they were to see me.  I promised to visit again… and I will.
 
There was a time in my life where I made giant “to-do” lists.  I spent hours/days/weeks/months trying to accomplish everything on the lists.  I set schedules and mental deadlines… and when things didn’t happen as they should, I beat myself up pretty badly over it all.  If only I were more organized… more focused.  Could I sleep less… or skip over something that was less significant? Many days, I hurriedly moved from one task to the next… eager to mark things off the list – and often more concerned with this than the quality of my work!
 
It took a long time, but I finally realized that a lot of the things on my list were never all that important in the first place… except in my own mind. Just because I say I’m going to clean the house on Tuesday doesn’t mean I can’t postpone these tasks in favor of a day trip with my husband – or a trip to the park with Timothy, Zola and Nathan.  It won’t be the end of the world if someone drops by and my house is not spotless!  When I get sick or someone needs my help and I don’t find time to write this daily devotional, the world will not fall apart!
 
If I never get all of my photos organized, closets cleaned, and all of those old greeting cards recycled into new ones, life will continue.  The fabrics calling to me from my “stash” may or may not become cute outfits for my little ones… but they will not go naked.  Thanks to restaurants and “take-out,” we will not go hungry if meals aren’t prepared… and there is nothing wrong with an occasional bowl of cereal for dinner!
 
On the other hand, these little ones won’t be little forever.  The opportunities to nurture and mold them - and teach them about the love, grace, mercy and tender care of Jesus - will wane as they grow…and outgrow us in the process!  The opportunities to visit elderly friends and loved ones will not last.  The tray of cookies or a hot casserole we deliver to a family going through a crisis will have a far bigger impact than missing a hot meal on our own table for one night.  Skipping an afternoon on the couch channel surfing in favor of a visit to someone who is house-bound – or in the hospital or in jail – will be far more impactful in the long run.  Working at the local soup kitchen or volunteering for a church or community event will mean more than getting your car washed, that shopping trip you were anticipating, or hanging out at the lake with your friends.  Taking time to write a note of encouragement – or thanks – or to drop someone an e-mail just to let them know you love them is more important than spending a half hour playing Angry Birds, Words with Friends, or Farmville!
 
Don’t misunderstand me… keeping things in order – keeping your homes, yard and vehicles clean…spending time with friends and family members… and even resting… are all important.  It’s great to have hobbies and goals.  But too many of us have become slaves to our schedules… and in doing so, we have become like “worthless goats” rather than Disciples who please God with our service and witness.  We have placed our focus on things that are short-term.  We are impatient.  We cannot see the bigger picture and how what we are doing now relates to God’s overall plan.
 
When I was visiting with the man at my grandmother’s facility who was recently widowed, he shared a compelling analogy with me.  He said someone had told him that God’s love and plans for us can be compared to a father and son who are standing behind a fence watching a parade.  The father is tall enough to look over the fence and see the entire parade, from beginning to end.  The son can only peer through a knothole in the fence.  He only sees what advances in front of him.  He cannot see the entire length of the parade until it passes before him.  This is a great description of our life in Christ.  He sees the entire parade… we only see the limited view from our “knothole.”  And often, we grow impatient… weary… bored and/or disgruntled… and too often, we move away and focus on our own personal agendas.
 
The time has come to stand still and wait for the entire parade.  We must re-evaluate our priorities and our “to-do” lists.  We need to spend time in prayer and meditation and ask God, “Is this really where you want me to expend my efforts and energy?”  When God presents us with an unexpected task or opportunity, we need to be prepared to say, “Sign me up!  I’m ready!”  - knowing that His plan will be far superior to our own.
 
In most instances, God’s “parade” looks altogether different than ours… but His is so much better!  If we follow God’s “parade,” He will grant us plenty of time for many of the things that we want to do.  If we are patient – and obedient – He will grant us plenty of opportunities for the things we feel are significant – and fun.  Won’t you ask Him to show you where you need to rearrange your priorities and your “lists”?  Are you ready to exchange your “worthless goat” agenda for the blessings and joy that come from His approval?  Will this be the day that you start to trust God for the “whole parade”… or will you continue to live with a “knothole” view?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 25, 2013

Luke 8:15
And the seeds that fell on the good soil represent honest, good-hearted people who hear God’s word, cling to it, and patiently produce a huge harvest.
 
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
The major news networks continue to present story after story of courage from the devastating tornadoes in Oklahoma last week.  In particular, there have been numerous profiles of brave teachers who hunkered down – and hovered over – their precious charges…singing with them, praying, and assuring them that “This will be over soon.”  One teacher said, “I just kept telling them, ‘It’s almost over!  It’s almost over!’”  Like most teachers and former teachers, these will tell you that our students become like our own children… each one precious to us.  After all, for some nine months or more, teachers spend as much time – or more – with their students than their own parents do!  I can tell you firsthand that a deep bond develops.
 
Last Monday in Moore, Oklahoma, the patience and perseverance of these teachers and students paid off hugely.  Monthly tornado drills that suddenly became a reality helped to keep the children safe.  The love and courage of dozens of teachers shielded these children… both physically and emotionally.  And while there were heartbreaking losses… there were tremendous harvests of safe, relatively unscathed students and teachers.  Experts of all kinds have asserted that nothing further could be done to protect those children.  Even where students perished, the teachers and those involved were doing what they had trained to do… they were following protocol and heeding the instructions they had been given.
 
While earthly lives were lost, there are blessings and positive points even in these deaths.  We have come to know a lot about the precious children who died… and their families.  God has shown us courageous parents who are facing unbelievable heartache with boldness and resolution.  We have learned about little ones who crammed more living into 9 years or so than many of us who live three, four, or even ten times that long!
 
Just as these teachers and students heeded the safety instructions they had been given… we must listen to God’s word.  Just as these teachers planted seeds of love and devotion for their students and channeled that courage and conviction into becoming a human shield and shelter… we must plant seeds of the Good News of Jesus Christ with total conviction.  We must nurture and shield others as we sew God’s love into them… and we must patiently wait on His harvest.  And just as those children who lost their lives spent what time they had on earth embracing love and blessing others, we must do the same.
 
I’m sure that it seemed like the tornado roared over these Oklahoma cities for hours... even though it was minutes.  And often, it seems like God’s answers and evidence of our efforts on His behalf are taking far too long.  But I assure you, “It’s almost here… it’s almost here!”  God’s answers are always perfect… and right on time.  Our job is to stay hunkered down and keep working until He delivers.  Are you patiently working – and waiting – on God?  Are you anticipating a huge harvest?  Isn’t it time you were?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 24, 2013

May 24 ~ Luke 21:16-19
Even those closest to you—your parents, brothers, relatives, and friends—will betray you. They will even kill some of you. And everyone will hate you because you are my followers. But not a hair of your head will perish! By standing firm, you will win your souls.
 
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
I have a friend who tells the story of his grandfather…a Jew who became a Christian.  The grandfather’s family told him that he was dead to them if he made such a decision.  My friend’s grandfather chose to follow Jesus anyhow.  A church member I know tells of how he and fellow members of his army platoon met in secret while deployed to Afghanistan during the first Gulf War… just so they could hold worship services.  In doing so, they literally feared for their lives… as do countless others around the globe who worship in places where Christianity is forbidden.  That is something most of us cannot fathom.  We cannot begin to consider possible betrayal or death – especially at the hands of a friend, family member or loved one because of our faith.  Imagine living in a country where your worship of Jesus Christ might be so daunting that your own parents would turn you in to the authorities for doing so, just to save their own necks!
 
Few of us can imagine doing this.  But maybe you grew up in a family where you were persuaded to “skip church and do something fun” with the family. You might have been the only person in your household who desired to worship and serve Jesus… and the others might have berated you for doing so.  Perhaps you have been laughed at and ridiculed by your classmates and friends because of your faith.  Maybe you have been labeled as a “goody two-shoes” or a “Jesus freak” – and excluded from certain circles and invitations to more than one event. Maybe you have decided to follow Jesus… and in doing so, you had to give up friends – and even family members – and distance yourself from those who engage in immoral, illegal, and/or sinful activities.
 
Whatever ridicule, exclusion, physical or emotional abuse or discomfort of any sort you may experience because you love and serve Jesus, know this… He has your back!  You will come out on top.  As this scripture indicates… “not a hair on your head will perish!”  You may be bruised and scraped… wounded emotionally, if not physically… but you will survive.  You can handle it, because Jesus is with you.  He is your shield and your protector.  There is nothing anyone else can say or do to you that can matter more than Jesus.  There is a catch… you must be patient.  This may not happen overnight.  You may very well have to suffer indignation and mistreatment for a while… and it may seem like an eternity.  But God will NOT leave you hanging.  He will bless you… and use your Discipleship and faithfulness.  He will honor those who honor Him with their obedience, steadfastness and commitments.
 
Last night, I read through my prayer journal for the last year.  I noted the many requests I had placed before God… for people to be healed – physically and emotionally… for this one or that to get a job or a restored relationship… for countless children…for some dear souls to be allowed to enter Heaven…and more.  I made a list of some of the requests that God answered… and I took notice of how He answered.  Most of the time, His answer was at least a little bit different than my request… but it was always perfect.  The timing was better… the outcome was impeccable…the response made more sense and had a more positive impact overall.
 
So why do I doubt?  Why do I try to impose my timetable?  Why can’t I be patient and trust God in all things?  Why do I worry that for one minute, He might allow a hair on my head to perish?  Why would we ever fear following Jesus?  I know the answer… our own human frailties and the inroads these provide for Satan to get a stronghold.  Because we all know that fear comes from the devil… it’s one of his favorite tools!
 
Today, my prayer is that God would make me more patient and trusting.  I am reminded of how faithful He is to care for me… and how I should be more faithful and trusting in my Discipleship.  Truly, nothing – and no one – matters more than Jesus.  The day we begin to understand this fully is the day we really arrive as Christians.  Where does this leave you?  Are you willing to put Jesus before everything – and everyone – else?  Have you arrived in your Spiritual journey? Are you even on your way?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 23, 2013

Jeremiah 44:22
So that the Lord could no longer bear, because of the evil of your doings, and because of the abominations which ye have committed; therefore is your land a desolation, and an astonishment, and a curse, without an inhabitant, as at this day.
 
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
I know it’s hard to believe, but there will be “Christians” who crawl out of the woodwork and use this scripture and the surrounding verses of Jeremiah 44 to claim that the devastating tornadoes in Oklahoma this week were a result of God’s impatience with His people. Nothing could be farther from the truth!  For starters… we have to consider all Scripture in context.  This was an Old Testament declaration…before God sent Jesus to live among us and die on the cross for our sins.  Things were different before Jesus arrived.  God used a variety of methods to get the attention of His people… and there were dozens of rituals and sacraments required to demonstrate love and loyalty to our Heavenly Father.  And on more than one occasion, God had to use incredibly drastic measures to get the attention of His people.  ALL of that changed with the coming of Jesus.
 
We cannot pick and choose which verses we will utilize in order to make a point.  As Christians, we have been given a new life in Christ.  He took our sin and changed the Spiritual landscape forever.  Does this mean that God doesn’t grow impatient – even angry – with us from time to time?  Absolutely not!  Are we accountable for our actions and disobedience?  Most certainly!  But God has plenty of ways for dealing with us.  While He could very well wipe all of us out in a tornado, earthquake, or other natural disaster, this is not how He operates!
 
While I do not believe that God directly causes natural disasters to befall us, I believe that there are times when He allows these horrific tragedies to occur.  Why?  Is God punishing us for our sins?  I don’t think so!  This is my own interpretation, but here’s how I see it… I envision Satan and his armies stirring the pot… twisting the winds, aggravating the bowels of the earth to cause earthquakes and tsunamis, drying out the land in a catastrophic drought – or flooding it with a seemingly unending water supply.  And all the while, he is saying, “Look, people!  God is punishing you!  Look what He is doing!”
 
Meanwhile, I believe that God is twice as busy… orchestrating blessings and positive outcomes…sparing countless lives, bringing people together in ways they never imagined, drawing attention to the needs and burdens of others, and creating beauty out of chaos.  We’re seeing that already in the news reports…as the focus shifts from the horror of the tragedy to the wonders and strength of the human spirit, the love and kindness of neighbors and strangers, and the grace of God as people recover and rebuild.  I know you may ask, "Why were some allowed to perish?"  And I honestly don't know.  But I know that God did not allow this without a purpose - whether we ever readily see it or not.
 
In the days to come, you will no doubt hear someone suggest that God did this… that He caused this latest natural disaster.  Don’t believe it!  I urge you to combat such thinking by speaking positively about the present and future results.  Share stories of hope and courage… how and where God is at work!  Donate to the Red Cross and other service organizations and speak of reconstruction and the power of God to bring about blessings in the midst of such tragedy.  We’ve already seen residents of Moore, Oklahoma - and the entire state - on camera stating that “we’ll be back.”  The news reporters have acknowledged that some of the first people on the scene were church members.  I heard two well-known national news anchors note that even before FEMA representatives arrived, the “Baptist Men” were there passing out meals!
 
I firmly believe that God will someday look at all of us and ask, “What did you do to help?”  He will mete out his impatience with us by withholding blessings and opportunities… and He might even allow our home to be knocked off its foundation.  But God will show us how to overcome any and all adversities… and He will help us every step of the way.  At the end of our lives when we stand before Him as born-again Christians, God will not ask us to account for our sins any more than He will want to know how we handled challenges and adversity as His disciples.  He will hold us accountable for how we dealt with anything and everything the devil threw our way… including physical and material destruction, mental and emotional exasperation, and even loss of life.
 
God will allow our faith and patience to be tested.  He wants to see whether we are “all in” for Him… or just along for the ride.  He’s looking for growth and increased strength through patient endurance… Christians who pick themselves up by the bootstraps, dust themselves off, and become better Disciples because of their experiences – and their faith in Him to persevere.  When your day of judgment arrives… what will you have to say for yourself?  How will you answer when God reviews your life?  Isn’t it time to start trusting Him and recognizing His power and presence?  Will you allow this latest disaster to drag you down… or strengthen your faith?  Will this day in your Discipleship be one of tragedy… or triumph?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 22, 2013

James 1:2-4
Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.
 
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
On Monday, May 20th, Special Education aide Suzanne Haley sheltered her two daughters and several students in a classroom as an F5 tornado barreled down on Briarwood Elementary School in Moore, Oklahoma.  When the storm passed, Haley said she “felt a heaviness” on her right leg, as if something was pinning her down.  She could not lift her leg at all, and she asked one of her daughters to take a look and see if there was something in the way that could be removed.  The daughter screamed when she saw that her mother’s leg had been impaled by the metal leg of what appeared to be a child’s school desk or table.  Remarkably, the teacher’s aide/mother remained calm in front of her students.  In an interview with CNN’s Piers Morgan, Haley later said, “"Amazingly by the grace of God I kept it together. If it's shock, it's shock. I couldn't go into hysterics in front of my children, in front of the other students. I had to be calm for them. Not even until after surgery, when I came out of anesthesia, did I lose it."
 
This heroic single mother of two protected her students and children at risk of her own life.  In her interview with Morgan, she related that First Responders had whisked her away to the nearest available hospital…which was not a facility that honored her insurance coverage. While the table leg missed any bones and pierced the flesh and muscles underneath her leg, Haley still faces three months of therapy and recovery.  On top of this, she reported, “My car is now in a pond near the school.”  Haley said a fund had been established already to help defray her expenses, but that she didn’t truly know how she would make ends meet.  Morgan assured her that a link to information about her expense fund would be posted on CNN’s website.
 
This morning, Piers Morgan’s blog included a post that announced that Suzanne Haley’s insurance company plans to cover her entire hospital bill.  Whether this will include the therapies she will require is unknown… but it’s a start.  Surely, Suzanne Haley’s faith – and that of countless other Oklahomans – was tested on May 20th… and rewarded.  And I can’t help but believe that her endurance will grow as a result.  She will no doubt be a better mother, teacher’s aide, friend, and servant because of her troubles and the chance to strengthen because of them.
 
It shouldn’t take an F5 tornado to get our attention.  We should be fully developed in our faith and without any need.  But that is simply not the case for 99.9% of us.  We do have doubts, challenges, and frustrations.  We often have no clue how strong we truly are… much less Who is responsible for that strength!  But we can grow and learn… even from the horrific experiences of others like Suzanne Haley and the people of Moore, Oklahoma.
 
The next time your faith is tested, think of May 20th.  Remind yourself that the God who gave men, women and children Supernatural strength and courage in the face of what must have appeared to be most certain death and destruction will do the same for you.  I pray that your faith is never tested in this manner.  But I know that we will all be tested in some way.  How will you react?  Will you patiently endure your trials and grow through them?  Will you come out stronger and more sure of God’s love and care for you?
 
Just how needy are you today?  What is missing in your life and your “faith walk?”  Are you patiently working through whatever God has allowed to come your way?  Do you know that He is with you every step of the journey?  Won’t you allow Him to help you work through your tests… and to find joy on the other side?  Aren’t you ready to lack for nothing in the LORD?  Isn’t today a good day to start the process?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 21, 2013

Hebrews 6:9-12
I’m sure that won’t happen to you, friends. I have better things in mind for you—salvation things! God doesn’t miss anything. He knows perfectly well all the love you’ve shown him by helping needy Christians, and that you keep at it. And now I want each of you to extend that same intensity toward a full-bodied hope, and keep at it till the finish. Don’t drag your feet. Be like those who stay the course with committed faith and then get everything promised to them.
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
We cannot escape talking about what happened in Oklahoma yesterday.  As a former teacher, and the aunt to nieces, nephews, cousins and other little ones for whom I would walk across hot coals, I was heartbroken to learn that young children were missing and/or injured – and dead.  When I heard that a third grade class was involved, I immediately thought of my precious 3rd-grade cousin, Olivia… and my eyes filled with tears.  I tried to busy myself with other things…but I kept being drawn back to the television news reports. I prayed for those involved… particularly the little children – “LORD, please don’t let them be afraid.  Shelter them.  Comfort them, as only You can.”
 
Very clearly, I was reminded of a passage in William P. Young’s novel, The Shack.  A six-year-old girl has been abducted while on a family camping trip. She has been brutalized and killed… and her father is understandably distraught.  Jesus comes to sit beside the father, who says that he keeps thinking about his little girl being all alone with her deranged attacker.  Jesus tells him that she was not alone – not for one minute.  He and the Holy Spirit never left her… He could never do that! 
 
This greatly comforted me.  I felt as if God was saying, “I never left the people of Oklahoma.  They were not alone for one instant.”  And somehow, I felt that they were wrapped safely in Jesus’s arms… and they were peaceful, sheltered – and unafraid in those horrifying moments.
 
We are heartsick for this community and its residents.  We are eager to help.  For several hours last night, my Facebook wall “lit up” with comments like “Prayers for Oklahoma,” and “Our hearts are with the tornado victims.”  But by this morning, people were beginning to post recipes, pretty pictures, and other mundane thoughts that crowd this social media venue on a daily basis.  It didn’t happen to us directly, so a lot of us have moved on already.  And to a degree, we are supposed to get back to living our lives.  But we must not forget completely.  We must not drag our feet in doing what we can to help…sending donations and manpower – or even stopping to pray.
 
In any situation where our immediate instinct is to “do something,” we must not let our adrenaline wane as time passes.  We must remain vigilant in checking on those who are in need, whether it is tornado victims, someone who is sick, elderly, shut-in, or hurting emotionally.  We must continue to reach out to others… to think of the person who is grieving six months later - and not just for the first six days… to encourage those who are struggling financially even after they find a job or obtain some sort of assistance… to pray for those who might appear to have rebuilt their homes and lives after a “disaster” of one sort or another.
 
We were playing with Timothy and Zola in a local park a few weeks ago when our high school football coach and his family arrived… the mom and younger children by car… the coach and his two older sons by bicycle, where they had ridden over from a nearby nature trail to play with the rest of the family.  When they were all ready to leave, the mom suggested they go for frozen yogurt.  The coach/father said that sounded good… but he and the boys would have to ride their bikes back to the trail and get their car, which would take about twenty minutes.  One of the boys did not want to do this… he wanted to load his bike into Mom’s car and ride over. His dad told him that he must ride his bike.  He explained to the boy… “Son, it’s not how you start… it’s how you finish!”
 
I’m sure the coach has told his football team this more than once.  But it was great advice for all of us… especially as Christians.  How we start to care for others is important… but how we finish is even more so.  We must be diligent in our efforts to help others… and patient with them as they grapple with the struggles and challenges of rebuilding and recovery.  We are all a work in progress.  The GOOD NEWS is that we are not alone on the journey… Jesus never leaves us – not for one instant!  This should give us courage and incentive to persevere with patient endurance.
 
As you pray for the people of Oklahoma – and others who are in need – thank God for never leaving us, especially in the midst of such horrific disasters as the Oklahoma tornado.  Ask Him to show you “salvation things”.  Ask God to reveal how and where He wishes you to minister to others… and call on Him to grant you a hefty dose of patience and persistence.  As important as it is for us to get up and get going, it’s equally important that we not drag our feet in ministry and service.  The question we must ask ourselves today is “Where do I begin?”… but just as importantly, “How will I finish?”
 
©2013 Debbie Robus
 
The Shack – ©2007 William P. Young – Published by Windblown Media.

Daily Devotional for May 20, 2013

Hebrews 12:1-3
Do you see what this means—all these pioneers who blazed the way, all these veterans cheering us on? It means we’d better get on with it. Strip down, start running—and never quit! No extra spiritual fat, no parasitic sins. Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we’re in. Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed—that exhilarating finish in and with God—he could put up with anything along the way: Cross, shame, whatever. And now he’s there, in the place of honor, right alongside God. When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility he plowed through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls!
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
One of my favorite hymns is “Be Still My Soul”… published by Katharina A. von Schlegel, in 1752.  These words were set to the tune Finlandia, composed by Jean Sibelius in 1899.  This hymn was became popular during World War II, as the words offered hope and encouragement to countless soldiers and citizens who were enduring horrific tragedies and hardships.  They desperately needed to hear, “Don’t give up!” – and this hymn offered this message and more.
 
The words of this hymn are just as significant for us today.  I don’t know what challenges you face.  I don’t know what has caused you to feel discouraged, ashamed, tired and worn down.  But I do know that we have a hope in Jesus Christ, Who never gave up!  I know that a lot of us need to strip down and “trim the spiritual fat”… to remove the parasitic sins that trouble us day in and out.  We need to focus on where we are headed… and Who is with us along the way.  We must “keep our eye on the prize”… eternity in Heaven at the feet of Jesus… and a place of honor at the King’s table.  We would do well to study the words of this hymn and take them to heart… to internalize them and make them a part of our daily living.
 
Here are the lyrics to “Be Still My Soul”...may they encourage you today and energize you for your Spiritual journey. May you take heart and truly “be still” as you realize that the LORD is on your side… that we can “bear patiently the cross of grief or pain” because of Jesus and all that He endured on our behalf.  My prayer for you today is that you would thoughtfully read these verses and take a few moments to still your soul.  In the words of this scripture passage, “we’d better get on with it!”  I believe this is a great place to begin… don’t you?
 
Be Still My Soul
 
Be still, my soul: the Lord is on thy side.
Bear patiently the cross of grief or pain.
Leave to thy God to order and provide;
In every change, He faithful will remain.
Be still, my soul: thy best, thy heav’nly Friend
Through thorny ways leads to a joyful end.
 
Be still, my soul: thy God doth undertake
To guide the future, as He has the past.
Thy hope, thy confidence let nothing shake;
All now mysterious shall be bright at last.
Be still, my soul: the waves and winds still know
His voice Who ruled them while He dwelt below.
 
Be still, my soul: when dearest friends depart,
And all is darkened in the vale of tears,
Then shalt thou better know His love, His heart,
Who comes to soothe thy sorrow and thy fears.
Be still, my soul: thy Jesus can repay
From His own fullness all He takes away.
 
Be still, my soul: the hour is hast’ning on
When we shall be forever with the Lord.
When disappointment, grief, and fear are gone,
Sorrow forgot, love’s purest joys restored.
Be still, my soul: when change and tears are past
All safe and blessed we shall meet at last.
 
Be still, my soul: begin the song of praise
On earth, believing, to Thy Lord on high;
Acknowledge Him in all thy words and ways,
So shall He view thee with a well-pleased eye.
Be still, my soul: the Sun of life divine
Through passing clouds shall but more brightly shine.
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 19, 2013

Hebrews 10:32-39
Remember those early days after you first saw the light? Those were the hard times! Kicked around in public, targets of every kind of abuse—some days it was you, other days your friends. If some friends went to prison, you stuck by them. If some enemies broke in and seized your goods, you let them go with a smile, knowing they couldn’t touch your real treasure. Nothing they did bothered you, nothing set you back. So don’t throw it all away now. You were sure of yourselves then. It’s still a sure thing! But you need to stick it out, staying with God’s plan so you’ll be there for the promised completion.
 
It won’t be long now, he’s on the way;
    he’ll show up most any minute.
But anyone who is right with me thrives on loyal trust;
    if he cuts and runs, I won’t be very happy.

But we’re not quitters who lose out. Oh, no! We’ll stay with it and survive, trusting all the way.
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
On the television show “The Biggest Loser,” contestants discover that losing weight and seeing results happens more quickly at the beginning than the end.  In fact, as these participants become lighter and leaner, it becomes harder with each passing week to shed the last pounds and inches.  Progress is still possible, but the thrill of those first few weeks and the truly drastic changes are gone.  This is where the real work begins.
 
It’s easy to become discouraged… or at least complacent.  After all, some of these contestants have dropped 100 pounds or more.  Losing that last stubborn 15 to 50 seems akin to climbing Mt. Everest.  There is a temptation to reward all of the hard work with a favorite dessert… or to skip a workout here and there.  After all, the entrant has come so far… what would it hurt?  OR… the challenge may be finishing.  The desire to keep going and lose the rest may wane… settling for the current weight and size may seem appealing.  This is when the patient endurance must kick in and keep these contestants going.  They have made it this far… reached countless milestones… and they must keep going and finish strong!
 
In our Christian faith, we often seem to lose steam after a while.  The spark and excitement of our initial salvation experience may pale.  Our encouragement and support from others may wane… and our inner resolve to forge ahead and continue to grow with the Holy Spirit can fade.  We’ve come so far… God has given us so much… maybe we could just stop and rest here a while!  And many of us do exactly that.  The trouble is… too many of us grow stale at our “resting point.”  We settle for a “good enough” relationship with the Holy Spirit - and miss out on all He wants to give us by doing so.
 
Just as in a weight-loss program that we hope will bring permanent, lasting results, we must practice patient endurance as we grow in our faith.  We must keep on “keepin’ on,” continue to study, pray, fellowship and learn.  We must not “rest on our laurels” – or on the blessings we have received from God already.  We cannot quit!  We have to keep trusting God for outcomes, learning how He works, and expecting His promises to be fulfilled.  We have to wait on the LORD in all things… and believe that He will show up, right on time!
 
This is a tall order… but such a “sure thing” as the blessings and rewards of a life in Christ is certainly worth it!  Are you ready to press forward and persevere?  Are you still “in the game” and trusting all the way?  Will you make it to the Finish Line with Jesus… or will you give up and quit?  The choice is yours… what will you decide?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 18, 2013


May 18 ~ Genesis 6:3
Then the Lord said, “My Spirit will not put up with humans for such a long time, for they are only mortal flesh. In the future, their normal lifespan will be no more than 120 years.”
 
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
In a few months, I hope our four-year-old Timothy will start to pre-K.  Today, my almost-18-year-old cousin graduated from high school.  My Jr/Sr-high Sunday school students from a few years ago are now graduating from college, beginning careers, getting married and starting their own families. All throughout these life stages, there will be rules and expectations… limits and consequences.  For instance, young children have to be reminded over and again about certain things… don’t throw rocks, come when called, don’t hit your sister/brother!  We try to be patient as they learn these lessons.
 
As children become teenagers, the “second chances” diminish.  Older kids know that “No means no!” – or they should!  By the time we are young adults, there are still instances in which we “test the waters”… but hopefully, most of us understand that life is full of choices, rules, and rewards.  There are also consequences when we choose poorly or fail to comply.
 
This is no different for Christians.  God is patient with us... to a point.  He waits for us to choose to follow Jesus…granting us free will.  He nurtures us in the first weeks/months/years after we become a Christian.  God allows for our “humanness” – He understands that we are not perfect and never will be.  But there comes a time when His patience wears thin.  He will not tolerate “pre-K Christians” forever.  And while God will not retract your salvation…He will withhold blessings and rewards.
 
God will not allow us to fully self-destruct… and possibly take down those around us… at least not indefinitely.  He has given us clear guidelines for how to live… rules to follow and a distinct indication of the potential for blessings.  God has also detailed the surety of consequences when we choose to go our own way.  Just as our patience runs thin with children who don’t seem to learn as they grow… God loses patience with us when there is no progress in our Spiritual journey.
 
We all know the feeling when our patience wears thin with someone or something.  This is not a sentiment that I want God to experience about me and my faith!  What about you?  Are you trying God’s patience?  Isn’t it time you re-examined your life in Christ and determined where you need to make adjustments to get you back on track?
 
None of us will live forever.  But let’s make the most of every minute God gives us on this earth.  Let’s live in a way that indicates a deep desire to grow and serve Him each and every day.  Let’s live a long, full life in Christ … and give God every reason to be pleased with our progress.
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 17, 2013

Galatians 5:22-24
But what happens when we live God’s way? He brings gifts into our lives, much the same way that fruit appears in an orchard—things like affection for others, exuberance about life, serenity. We develop a willingness to stick with things, a sense of compassion in the heart, and a conviction that a basic holiness permeates things and people. We find ourselves involved in loyal commitments, not needing to force our way in life, able to marshal and direct our energies wisely.


Legalism is helpless in bringing this about; it only gets in the way. Among those who belong to Christ, everything connected with getting our own way and mindlessly responding to what everyone else calls necessities is killed off for good—crucified.
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
Timothy is learning about rewards and consequences.  When he eats all of his dinner, a “treat” afterward is often offered.  Last night it was ice cream and a small piece of chocolate.  Sometimes it is a special video or a trip to the park.  And this morning, I surprised him with a big fat marshmallow – one of his favorite treats – because he had been polite, obedient, and well-mannered.  I hope he and his siblings will learn to develop patience, compassion, and an innate sense of holiness.  Last week during his birthday party (which happened to be on Mother’s Day), Timothy climbed the ladder to his little slide, stopped and said, “Hey, Happy Mother’s Day everyone!”  I count that a victory… an unforced expression of love and kindness that was followed a few minutes later by an unprompted “Thanks for telling me ‘Happy Birthday,’ guys!”
 
Every day is different, and today, Timothy wanted to be a superhero.  He asked for a cape and a mask, and I tied a kitchen towel around his neck and gave him a quickly-fashioned paper eye mask.  He was delighted.  He didn’t need a fancy, store-bought costume.  He was every much “Super Timmy” in his home-made duds.  All the television commercials in the world for fancy toys and wacky-flavored cereals cannot compete with a quick home-made costume and a marshmallow for this kid!
 
Let’s be honest… not all four-year-old boys develop patience, kindness, and a loving heart and spirit so early. And in any given minute, Timothy is anything but all of these things - because he is only four and still learning.   In fact, he had a "meltdown" as I wrote this, because I would not produce another marshmallow on demand!  Sadly, many forty-year-old (or older) men and women  behave in much the same way!  They still have not developed a heart for the “fruits of the Spirit”… they operate in the things of this world – the unwritten laws which dictate that we must have this or that… and everything should always go our way! So they experience all sorts of dilemmas and challenges… debt, disappointment, lack of respect in the home and workplace, frustration, failed relationships, and a reputation for being disagreeable or a hothead, just to name a few.  Worse yet, many people fail to receive all of the good gifts that God wishes to send their way.  Like a little boy who didn’t eat his dinner or couldn’t play nicely, there is no “treat” or surprise.
 
When we fully experience a transformation from the ways of this world to a life in Christ… when we allow the Holy Spirit to have complete authority over our heart… we are forever changed.  And everyone notices.  We operate from a totally different perspective than other people.  We are kinder and more patient… we have more compassion for others and the circumstances of the world… and we operate with a sense of inner peace and calm in even the craziest and most challenging situations.  And God responds by blessing us beyond what we could ever have hoped or imagined.
 
I don’t know about you, but I want this kind of life… for myself, and for my family and friends.  That’s why I am sharing this message with you.  I want you to understand what a hope we have in Jesus Christ… how much God wants to give us, if only we will allow Him to fill our heart.  When we make serving God – and serving others in His name – second nature, we are free of the world’s “rules” and ways and able to fully experience all that He has in store for us.  Won’t you ask God today to help you fill your heart with His Holy Spirit?  Won’t you learn to walk in the ways of the LORD and to experience life like never before?  Whether you are four or forty-four… or even twice that age… God still has plenty in store for you.  Are you ready to receive His good gifts?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus