Showing posts with label how God shields us from heartache. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how God shields us from heartache. Show all posts
1 John 2:12-14
I remind you, my dear children: Your sins are forgiven in Jesus’ name. You veterans were in on the ground floor, and know the One who started all this; you newcomers have won a big victory over the Evil One.

And a second reminder, dear children: You know the Father from personal experience. You veterans know the One who started it all; and you newcomers—such vitality and strength! God’s word is so steady in you. Your fellowship with God enables you to gain a victory over the Evil One.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I’ve been talking with a few of friends who are in the throes of some difficult situations, including struggles with the issues of aging, terminal illness, and challenges at work.  I have tried to offer hope and encouragement to them as someone who - as one friend put it – “has been through the fire” on a few of these fronts. Indeed, like anyone who has lived nearly 60 years, I’ve experienced a few “life events.”  And I feel very much like a “veteran who knows the One who started it all.”

This morning, I woke and looked around our house (which is still fully “dressed” in Christmas decorations) and thought about all that has happened to me and my family in just one year.  Last winter, I didn’t get the Christmas decorations put away until nearly the end of January, so I am counting my blessings that I am somewhat ahead of the game today!  But for the moment, I look around the house and see decorations everywhere…and a part of me is asking, “How on earth will I ever get this all put away?”  The simple answer is, “one piece at a time.”  I can’t fully explain how this will happen, but I know that I will roll up my sleeves, get in there and get started…and soon it will all be done.

You probably know that 2016 was a year that tested – and strengthened - our faith.  I hope that we have demonstrated to others – especially our children – that even when we don’t know how we will “get it done,” God is making a way.  If I have learned anything, I’ve learned that even when we don’t know how we will manage a situation…how we will ever survive the  situations and circumstances that cause us to feel like the world is crumbling around us…God is busy working everything out and meeting our needs.

Yesterday, Nathan slipped out of a kitchen counter chair – and bumped his head.  I’m sure it really hurt, and he cried big ole “crocodile tears.”  I cuddled him in my lap with a cold “owie bag” and assured him that it would be okay soon.  He tearfully said, “No, it won’t!”  But it was…and soon, he was playing – and climbing back into that chair for another snack!

Yes, there are days when I want to curl up in a ball and say, “This is too much!”  That happens to all of us.  And I believe those are the days when God cradles us in His lap, much as I did Nathan, and says, “It’s going to be okay. I know you don’t see it…but I promise, I’m right here with you.” God is always fighting the Evil One behind the scenes.  When we sit in His lap and pour out our heart and soul, He is holding us with one arm…and swinging His sword at the devil with his other.

When I tell others that “this will be okay,” I do not say this smugly…but rather, as one who has faith and confidence that it truly will. I am quick to tell you – I have not lost a child or a spouse – or suffered a lengthy and debilitating illness…and I cannot fathom the anguish of these situations.  But I have observed many who have experienced these heartbreaks and difficulties, and I have seen how God carried them through – and healed their hearts to a point where they could continue to function and bless others.  I truly believe that God can bring us through anything…the really “big stuff” like death, illness and personal struggle…and the relatively small stuff of taking down our holiday decorations!

When you stop and think about it, there is no other who has the all-encompassing power – and compassion, grace and mercy – to accomplish all of this.  God is the be-all, end-all…the winner over the Evil One…and our incomparable LORD and Master.  Do you feel His power and presence in your life today?  Whether you are doing pretty well right now – or you need some “lap time,” God is ready, willing and able to meet your needs.  Will you claim Him and cling to His promises?  Don’t you think you should?


©2017 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 16, 2016

Matthew 5:1-3
When Jesus saw his ministry drawing huge crowds, he climbed a hillside. Those who were apprenticed to him, the committed, climbed with him. Arriving at a quiet place, he sat down and taught his climbing companions. This is what he said:

“You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
         
I don’t even have to ask if you’ve ever been “at the end of your rope.”  We all have “been there – done that”…sometimes more than once!  But how often have you considered this a blessing?  I can assure you, there have been times when I have been out of viable options…when things looked about as bleak as they could be and there was no way to “fix” this…when I had no choice but to concede that “the handwriting was on the wall” – and I could not change anything.

As I look back on these times, I see that God made the difference.  He filled in the gaps and gave me hope.  He equipped me for whatever I was facing…and yes, at times, He shielded me from the devastation and grief over what I was experiencing.  Often, when we are at the end of our rope, God doles out the impact in [relatively] more manageable doses so that we are not overwhelmed…and I am so grateful for this blessing.

I don’t know what your “rope” looks like today – or where your hands are positioned.  But I do know that God has you in HIS grip…and He will never let you go. God is ready, willing, and able to give you more of Him to compensate for less of you.  Your job is to surrender and trust Him to supply your every need – and then some!

My prayer today is that we would all come to the point where we are able to recognize God’s blessings - even in what seems like the worst of circumstances. I pray that when we reach the end of our rope (and we all will at one time or another)…we are able to trust God to tie a knot and sustain us as only He can.  With less of us, there is room for more of God. And that is always a good thing…and a blessing.  Are you ready to let Him bless you in every circumstance?  Will this be the day that you let God control the rope?  


©2016 Debbie Robus 

Daily Devotional for August 23, 2016

Psalm 94:18-19
When I felt my feet slipping, you came with your love and kept me steady. And when I was burdened with worries, you comforted me and made me feel secure.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Today, our friends’ newborn baby is having open heart surgery.  Doctors have told them since mid-pregnancy that such a procedure would be necessary.  Still, the thought of such an intricate operation on a 7-day-old baby makes anyone stop and take a deep breath.  The surgery is expected to take eight hours…and a 2-to-3-month hospitalization will be required afterward. Most of us are inadequately grateful for the health of our children.  When I hear of the challenges that face families like this one, I stop and thank God that all of our little ones are so incredibly well.

When Timothy was two, he awoke one morning wheezing so loudly that we could hear him all over the house. Greg and I rushed him to our ER, where the staff went to work to determine the problem.  When a nurse put a blood pressure cuff on Timothy, he went ballistic…and by the time the Respiratory Therapist put a mask on his face to administer a breathing treatment, our little guy was in all-out hysteria.  An x-ray was ordered, and Timothy would not stop screaming or clinging to me long enough for the image to be made.

In total frustration, the x-ray technician ordered Greg and me to leave the room.  I refused, but a kind nurse friend appeared and assured me that she would stay with Timothy…that he would be fine, and the x-ray wouldn’t take long. As Greg and I stood in the hallway outside listening to our little one scream, I cried in helplessness.  Greg assured me that Timothy would be fine (and I’m sure he silently prayed that this was the truth!)…and he was right.  Antihistamines and an inhaler were ordered for what was apparently an allergic reaction to grass and leaves…and we were back at home later that morning.

This was one of the most helpless moments of my life…knowing that I HAD to leave this child…and yet not knowing how in the world I could possibly do such a thing.  I have also felt this way as I watched a loved one slip from this world… and in times when circumstances such as a natural disaster or a “world event” like 9-11 caused pain and destruction that I could not fathom – nor control.

Every time I have “felt my feet slipping,” God has steadied me.  More times than I can count, He has shielded me from more grief and heartache than I could otherwise bear…calmed my fears…and given me an uncanny sense of peace in the midst of the “storm.”  I have also seen Him do this time after time for others.  And I know that He will do the same for you, as well.

I am praying for my friends today who had to endure the heartwrenching “see-you-later” as their precious baby was wheeled away on a “giraffe gurney” for heart surgery.  I am praying for those who have had to say “Good-bye” to a loved one…and those who have had to leave their precious “babies” at college in recent days.  I am praying for the people of Louisiana who have lost everything in the floods and wonder how they will make it through another day…and those in war-torn countries who wonder whether they will (literally) survive the next few hours.

I am praying for all who are suffering, sick, frightened, in despair, and broken-hearted.  I believe that God can come to them with love, and steady them…that He can surround them with a “force field” of peace - and protection from unbearable pain and heartache.  I KNOW that He can make a way out of their darkness and set them back on their feet, no matter what their present circumstances.  And I know that He will do this for you, as well.

My prayer today is that you know this peace…that God is at work in your heart and mind.  I pray that He is giving you everything you need for this day, and filling you with hope for tomorrow.  If your feet are slipping, God can steady you and give you confidence and calm.  I thank God for His incredible power, grace, mercy and compassion.  I pray that He shields you this day…and that you always feel His presence.


©2016 Debbie Robus