Showing posts with label how we pray. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how we pray. Show all posts

Daily Devotional for November 1, 2016

Matthew 6:7-13
When you pray, don’t talk on and on as people do who don’t know God. They think God likes to hear long prayers. Don’t be like them. Your Father knows what you need before you ask.

You should pray like this:

Our Father in heaven, help us to honor your name.
Come and set up your kingdom, so that everyone on earth will obey you, as you are obeyed in heaven. Give us our food for today. Forgive us for doing wrong, as we forgive others. Keep us from being tempted and protect us from evil.

​Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

The second/third graders and I studied an excellent model for prayer a few weeks ago, and I think it bears offering today for us to consider.  I’m paraphrasing, but it goes something like this:

P – Praise God for all that He has done for us.
R – Repent - humble yourself before God and confess that you have sinned.
A – Ask God to meet your needs and those of others.
Y – Yield to God’s will.

This is a simplified version of Jesus’ guideline…perhaps one we can more readily understand and put into practice. Many of our prayers tend to be dull…and somewhat repetitive and monotonous.  If we are not careful, we can get into a rut of offering God our words…but not our heart.  Using this guideline helps us to tailor each conversation with God to what is happening in that moment.

In the course of a day, there are moments when all we need to say is simply, “Father, help me.”  There are other times when we need to talk to God and thank Him for all of His blessings. I have read recommendations that immediately upon waking up each morning, we should tell God how grateful we are for Him and ask Him to bless and guide our day. This would be a good time to use the “P.R.A.Y.” model to get things off to a good start!

When a prayer request or need pops up on my Facebook wall – or I hear of something during the day – I like to stop right then and whisper a prayer for that person or situation. My point is that while there is a time and place for the “P.R.A.Y.” model to be enacted fully…there are dozens of opportunities throughout the day for us to reach out to God through brief communications. No utterance is too small…God cherishes every conversation!

HOW you pray is not as important as the fact that you maintain a continual dialogue with God. Let’s stop getting caught up in ritual and man-made notions that we have to be lengthy and eloquent - and simply begin a prayerful conversation.  God already knows what we will say…He’s just waiting to hear you say it!  Have you spoken with Him lately?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 19, 2014

Matthew 7:7-11
"Don’t bargain with God. Be direct. Ask for what you need. This isn’t a cat-and-mouse, hide-and-seek game we’re in. If your child asks for bread, do you trick him with sawdust? If he asks for fish, do you scare him with a live snake on his plate? As bad as you are, you wouldn’t think of such a thing. You’re at least decent to your own children. So don’t you think the God who conceived you in love will be even better?

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

It's almost that time of year again...Halloween! Our little "goblins" are already busy working on their costumes. One wants to be Minnie Mouse...another a Power Ranger...Timothy wants to be a vampire - and Zola says she is going to be a "dhost" or a ladybug! They will ring the doorbell and shout "Trick or treat!" But there will be few tricks, if any...and plenty of candy and other goodies.

I doubt many children fully understand the meaning behind the phrase "Trick or treat!" If a homeowner replied, "Trick!"... they would probably look perplexed. And while a few adults may actually try this, we all know that in the end, the kids get what they were after...candy - and lots of it!

Imagine if we asked God for help, and He gave us something ridiculous instead. What if we beseeched God to heal our bodies, and He presented us with even more diseases...or we asked for help with a struggle at school, work, or church, and instead, He said, "Here's a pet alligator!" This wouldn't make a lick of sense...would it?!

I am so grateful that God does not play "Trick or treat!" I am blessed by the knowledge that anything I ask for with humility and sincerity, God will consider. That doesn't mean I will receive it exactly. But God will take my prayers and requests and consider what is best for me and my situation...and He will answer - and meet all of my needs and more!

This leads me to one more thing...we don't often pray specifically enough. Yes, God already knows that you are having a problem with your girlfriend or that your back is killing you. But He wants you to express this. He doesn't want to hear a broad-spectrum request for "complete peace and healing in all areas". This doesn't mean that God won't answer anyway...but He really, really wants us to be specific, transparent, and fully communicative with Him. And aren't we glad?!

We don't seem to grasp what an honor, blessing and privilege it is to be able to speak directly to God...about anything and everything...and to expect Him to answer! Let's not take this for granted. Let's get busy talking to God and letting Him know what we need and how we feel. Let's trust Him to answer in the best way possible for every situation. With God, there are no tricks. But "treats" abound at every turn. You just have to know how to ask.

©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 15, 2014

October 15 ~ Mark 11:22-24
Jesus told his disciples:

Have faith in God! If you have faith in God and don’t doubt, you can tell this mountain to get up and jump into the sea, and it will. Everything you ask for in prayer will be yours, if you only have faith.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Several years ago, I watched a certain televangelist’s morning program every week.  In fact, I recorded his “sermons” and studied them each Sunday afternoon. Do not judge!  I gained a lot of Bible knowledge from this exercise.  That is not to say that I believed everything this man taught – or his interpretation of the scriptures he presented each day.  He took the scripture promise of Mark 11:22-24 in a totally different direction – and he quoted other scriptures in an attempt to support his stance. 

This man believed that God wanted us to all live in “McMansions”, drive an expensive vehicle (or own a fleet of cars), wear expensive watches and diamond jewelry, own private jets and more.  He assured us that all of this was within our reach...if we would believe for it AND “sow seeds” of money gifts to the church – even when we couldn’t pay our light bill!  This is called “prosperity teaching/preaching”, and it’s become quite popular in certain “Christian” circles.  No apologies are made for having excessive wealth...this is considered God’s reward or “favor” for faithfulness and obedience.

One of the things I did learn from all of this was how to study the scriptures for myself...to dig deeply and discover what God intended me to glean from His word.  And here’s what I feel He tells me about this particular set of verses...”the rest of the story”! 

If you continue reading in Mark 11, verses 25-26 say, “Whenever you stand up to pray, you must forgive what others have done to you. Then your Father in heaven will forgive your sins.”  Oh, but wait!  You mean...I have to forgive others in order to “move that mountain”?  Certainly!  John 15:16 says “You did not choose me. I chose you and sent you out to produce fruit, the kind of fruit that will last. Then my Father will give you whatever you ask for in my name.”  So I have to ask for GOD’s will rather than my own?  Most definitely! 

In Isaiah 55:9, God tells us, “Just as the heavens are higher than the earth, my thoughts and my ways are higher than yours.”  Then we must not only have faith in God...but also in His ways – even when they are not what we expected or desired?  Absolutely!

So while we may grow up wanting to be an architect or ballerina...believing with every fiber of our being that we will end up in the NBA or the NFL...or that we will marry the person of our dreams, have 2.5 children and the proverbial “house with the picket fence, two cars a dog and a cat” and live happily ever after...God may have far different plans.  We can believe all day long that all we have to do is ask God for something, and He will give it to us...but if it doesn’t fit into His perfect plan, this simply will not happen. If we operate with anger, hatred, ill will or unforgiveness in our hearts and ask God to produce certain results, we’ve gotten it all wrong.

Understand this...God is in the business of miracles and moving mountains.  He is ready, willing, and able to answer our prayers...to help us soar to heights beyond any we could ever imagine.  But this only happens within His will and the parameters that He has outlined for us.  We must have obedient faith...we must get rid of any ulterior or selfish motives...we must come to Him with a humble attitude and a genuine confidence that His answer is the best one.  If all of these things come together as God desires, the “mountain” will be moved.  If it is not...we must be ready to accept this and ask, “What did YOU have in mind, LORD?”

I don’t know what “mountains” you are asking God to move today.  Perhaps you are asking for healing for yourself or someone you know. Maybe you are struggling at school or in the workplace...looking for a job...grappling with bills and a way to make ends meet...fighting for your marriage or resolution in another personal relationship...coping with the challenges of aging (your own or someone else’s)...seeking a deeper spiritual connection and/or grappling with relationships that involve fellow believers and/or your church family.  Whatever your situation entails...God has a plan.  He already knows what is best for us. But He wants us to ask for His help...in the right way, with the right attitude and expectations.

A lot of people want to tout the “power of positive thinking”...the notion that if we just believe strongly enough...if we just envision what we want with enough conviction...it will happen.  Don’t leave God out of this equation.  There is no “secret”, as some would have you believe.  Everything is clearly spelled out in the scriptures...and everything you ask for in prayer – according to God’s perfect will – can indeed be yours.  What are you asking for today...and how did you ask?  There is faith...and then there is faith.  In which will you choose to operate?  How you answer may spell the difference in what happens to the “mountain”!


©2014 Debbie Robus