Acts 1:14-22
The apostles often met together and
prayed with a single purpose in mind. The women and Mary the mother of
Jesus would meet with them, and so would his brothers. One day there
were about one hundred twenty of the Lord’s followers meeting together,
and Peter stood up to speak to them. He said:
My friends, long
ago by the power of the Holy Spirit, David said something about Judas,
and what he said has now happened. Judas was one of us and had worked
with us, but he brought the mob to arrest Jesus. Then Judas bought some
land with the money he was given for doing that evil thing. He fell
headfirst into the field. His body burst open, and all his insides came
out. When the people of Jerusalem found out about this, they called the
place Akeldama, which in the local language means “Field of Blood.”
In the book of Psalms it says, “Leave his house empty, and don’t let anyone live there.”
It also says, “Let someone else have his job.”
So
we need someone else to help us tell others that Jesus has been raised
from death. He must also be one of the men who was with us from the very
beginning. He must have been with us from the time the Lord Jesus was
baptized by John until the day he was taken to heaven.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
There
is much about the story of “Holy Week” that is sad and horrific. But
for me, one of the most hopeless parts is the story of Judas Iscariot.
Jesus knew that Judas would betray him…and yet, He washed his feet in
the Upper Room alongside the other disciples. Jesus shared the bread
and the cup with Judas. And Judas took a bribe of 30 silver pieces in
exchange for kissing Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane to “make” Him for
Roman soldiers.
Many are shocked to read this account in the
Book of Acts about how Judas died. In Matthew 27:3-10, we are told that
Judas threw the money at the high priests and then went out and hanged
himself. The silver was used to buy a “Potter’s Field” for burying the
poor and homeless, and it was given the name of “Murderer’s Meadow.”
There
is much argument about which account is more accurate…but the bottom
line is that Judas Iscariot realized that he had done a terrible thing.
He committed a truly egregious sin…he denied His Lord and Savior. But
Judas was not the only person who did this. Peter denied his own
association with Jesus THREE TIMES before the night was out. Yet he did
not take his own life. And the difference in the choice these two men
made had eternal consequences.
What does this mean for us? I
truly believe that had Judas come to Jesus and humbled himself, Jesus
would have forgiven him, just as he did for Peter and the thief on the
cross. Jesus forgives each of us when we ask Him to do so. And that is
the primary message of this passage from Acts 1. There is NOTHING that
can separate us from Jesus when we humbly admit our sins and failures
and ask for His forgiveness. We are human…we will all sin and fall
short. But Jesus stands ready, willing, and more than able to redeem
us. This promise turns a devastatingly dismal passage of scripture into
one of hope and promise!
I also find the last verses to be
interesting. The Disciples are told to choose a replacement for
Judas…someone who knew and loved Jesus and could speak of His teachings
to others. It seems to me that there is a message for us there, as
well. We can sit and wring our hands over all that is wrong in our
world. We can gripe and complain about those who speak and act in a
manner that is detrimental to the work of Jesus and furthering God’s
Kingdom. But we are instructed to get up and get going…to move forward
with the work of our discipleship…to select and encourage those who are
involved in this mission with us – and to nurture their efforts
alongside our own.
Two messages of hope vs. a choice mired in
despair. We can opt to wallow in our sin and self-pity…and maybe even
completely turn our backs on Jesus. Or we can learn from Judas’
critical mistakes and renew our efforts to serve in Christ’s army…to
seek His forgiveness and follow Him for all of our earthly lives – and
into Eternity. The choice may not be an easy one…but the path of Hope
and Promise seems pretty clear to me. What about you?
©2016 Debbie Robus
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Daily Devotional for February 3, 2015
2 Corinthians 6:14-18
Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark? Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust hold hands? Who would think of setting up pagan idols in God’s holy Temple? But that is exactly what we are, each of us a temple in whom God lives. God himself put it this way:
“I’ll live in them, move into them; I’ll be their God and they’ll be my people. So leave the corruption and compromise; leave it for good,” says God. “Don’t link up with those who will pollute you. I want you all for myself. I’ll be a Father to you; you’ll be sons and daughters to me.” The Word of the Master, God.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Someone once gave my mother-in-law a box of fine chocolates from Scotland. “You must try them!” she insisted to Greg and me. The trouble is…I’m allergic to chocolate. “One little taste can’t hurt!” she suggested. Greg responded…”It might only put her in the ER and not the actual hospital!”
Thankfully, I am not one of those people who can merely inhale the aroma of chocolate or corn (my other allergen) and start to have an anaphylactic reaction. But an accidental sampling of either can sometimes cause a case of hives or give me stomach cramps - or even make areas of my body redden and swell. So I do all I can to avoid these triggers, and I make sure that I take an antihistamine every day.
Paul is explaining to the Corinthians that we can’t have “just a smidge” of our old life. We can’t sample “just a taste” of the life we had without Christ and maintain a healthy, pure and complete relationship with God. You cannot share your heart with God…AND the devil!
If you have found yourself wondering where God is…if you have questioned your relationship with Him in recent days/weeks/months and wondered what happened…search your heart and see where you may be sampling “just a taste” of your life “BC” – before Christ became the Lord of your life. Let your commitment and devotion to your fellowship with God serve as a “daily dose” of protection and care against the devil’s attempts to lure you away.
God is not in the business of sharing with the devil…He wants us all for Himself. When we reciprocate, we will find that He has been with us all along…waiting for us to “come clean” and fully commit to Him. Will this be the day that you renew your efforts? As the adage says, “If you don’t feel close to God…guess who moved!”
©2015 Debbie Robus
Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark? Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust hold hands? Who would think of setting up pagan idols in God’s holy Temple? But that is exactly what we are, each of us a temple in whom God lives. God himself put it this way:
“I’ll live in them, move into them; I’ll be their God and they’ll be my people. So leave the corruption and compromise; leave it for good,” says God. “Don’t link up with those who will pollute you. I want you all for myself. I’ll be a Father to you; you’ll be sons and daughters to me.” The Word of the Master, God.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Someone once gave my mother-in-law a box of fine chocolates from Scotland. “You must try them!” she insisted to Greg and me. The trouble is…I’m allergic to chocolate. “One little taste can’t hurt!” she suggested. Greg responded…”It might only put her in the ER and not the actual hospital!”
Thankfully, I am not one of those people who can merely inhale the aroma of chocolate or corn (my other allergen) and start to have an anaphylactic reaction. But an accidental sampling of either can sometimes cause a case of hives or give me stomach cramps - or even make areas of my body redden and swell. So I do all I can to avoid these triggers, and I make sure that I take an antihistamine every day.
Paul is explaining to the Corinthians that we can’t have “just a smidge” of our old life. We can’t sample “just a taste” of the life we had without Christ and maintain a healthy, pure and complete relationship with God. You cannot share your heart with God…AND the devil!
If you have found yourself wondering where God is…if you have questioned your relationship with Him in recent days/weeks/months and wondered what happened…search your heart and see where you may be sampling “just a taste” of your life “BC” – before Christ became the Lord of your life. Let your commitment and devotion to your fellowship with God serve as a “daily dose” of protection and care against the devil’s attempts to lure you away.
God is not in the business of sharing with the devil…He wants us all for Himself. When we reciprocate, we will find that He has been with us all along…waiting for us to “come clean” and fully commit to Him. Will this be the day that you renew your efforts? As the adage says, “If you don’t feel close to God…guess who moved!”
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for July 29, 2013
Malachi 2:4-5
I am telling you this, so I can continue to keep my agreement with your ancestor Levi. I blessed him with a full life, as I had promised, and he kept his part of the agreement by honoring me and respecting my name. He taught the truth and never told lies, and he led a lot of people to turn from sin, because he obeyed me and lived right.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Recently our church held a baptism at our city’s public beach. Ten children and youth and 2 adults were baptized. After the service, a friend approached us and began to share how she had been touched by this event. One of the young girls baptized was a member of her “small group”, and she explained that she loved her “girls” like her own daughters. She said (I’m paraphrasing here)…“We talk about everything. I have told them that I made my share of mistakes… and they will, too… and God will still love them.”
This is the message of today’s scripture passage. I went back to Genesis and Exodus and refreshed my memory about Levi, the third son of Jacob and Leah. In Genesis 34, we read how Levi and his brother Simeon sought revenge on the family of Shechem, who had raped their sister Dinah. The brothers killed Shechem and his family and pillaged their home and property… and Jacob was not pleased. In fact, he cursed Levi and Simeon for this. (Does this sound like “Real Housewives – or House Men – of the Bible?!”)
We also read in Exodus 32 how the people of Levi’s tribe (Levites) waited for Moses to bring the tablets with God’s commands down from Mt. Sinai. They did not worship the golden calf that had been created by Aaron and his followers. For this, God blessed the tribe of Levi. He didn’t promise them land, which was a common reward in that era. Instead, God promised them something far more valuable and enduring... God promised to scatter His love and care throughout the subsequent generations of Levi. He promised to bless their honor, respect and obedience with the gift of a full life in Him.
Remember, these were Old Testament writings. Jesus had not come to die on the cross. He was yet another of God’s gifts to those who are respectful, honest and obedient… those who trust in Him to meet their every need. I tell you all of this to reiterate what my friend said… we all make mistakes. We may not kill and loot an entire village of people… rob and steal, abuse animals and people alike, as Levi and Simeon did to Shechem’s family. But we will sin, just the same. And there is nothing we can do that God cannot forgive – if we are truly repentant and humble. There is nothing we can do to make God stop loving us!
The only way we could possibly make God turn His back on us would be to turn our backs on Him and renounce Him for good. Trust me… some have tried this for a while. They have wandered away from God for a season… maybe even claimed that God does not exist. But even these people can experience God’s love and blessings again… if only they will turn around and claim Him once more. This should give us all tremendous peace and comfort!
Someone needs this message today. Someone needs to know that God still loves them! One or more of us need to hear that God will take us back…set us upright…forgive us whatever it is we have done that seems so horrid and shameful… and bless us beyond anything we could ever imagine! All we have to do is turn to Him… give Him our honest, humble, obedient love and respect… acknowledge His son, Jesus Christ, as our savior…and earnestly ask for forgiveness. It truly is that simple.
Peace and restoration are just a prayer away. What are you waiting for?
©2013 Debbie Robus
I am telling you this, so I can continue to keep my agreement with your ancestor Levi. I blessed him with a full life, as I had promised, and he kept his part of the agreement by honoring me and respecting my name. He taught the truth and never told lies, and he led a lot of people to turn from sin, because he obeyed me and lived right.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Recently our church held a baptism at our city’s public beach. Ten children and youth and 2 adults were baptized. After the service, a friend approached us and began to share how she had been touched by this event. One of the young girls baptized was a member of her “small group”, and she explained that she loved her “girls” like her own daughters. She said (I’m paraphrasing here)…“We talk about everything. I have told them that I made my share of mistakes… and they will, too… and God will still love them.”
This is the message of today’s scripture passage. I went back to Genesis and Exodus and refreshed my memory about Levi, the third son of Jacob and Leah. In Genesis 34, we read how Levi and his brother Simeon sought revenge on the family of Shechem, who had raped their sister Dinah. The brothers killed Shechem and his family and pillaged their home and property… and Jacob was not pleased. In fact, he cursed Levi and Simeon for this. (Does this sound like “Real Housewives – or House Men – of the Bible?!”)
We also read in Exodus 32 how the people of Levi’s tribe (Levites) waited for Moses to bring the tablets with God’s commands down from Mt. Sinai. They did not worship the golden calf that had been created by Aaron and his followers. For this, God blessed the tribe of Levi. He didn’t promise them land, which was a common reward in that era. Instead, God promised them something far more valuable and enduring... God promised to scatter His love and care throughout the subsequent generations of Levi. He promised to bless their honor, respect and obedience with the gift of a full life in Him.
Remember, these were Old Testament writings. Jesus had not come to die on the cross. He was yet another of God’s gifts to those who are respectful, honest and obedient… those who trust in Him to meet their every need. I tell you all of this to reiterate what my friend said… we all make mistakes. We may not kill and loot an entire village of people… rob and steal, abuse animals and people alike, as Levi and Simeon did to Shechem’s family. But we will sin, just the same. And there is nothing we can do that God cannot forgive – if we are truly repentant and humble. There is nothing we can do to make God stop loving us!
The only way we could possibly make God turn His back on us would be to turn our backs on Him and renounce Him for good. Trust me… some have tried this for a while. They have wandered away from God for a season… maybe even claimed that God does not exist. But even these people can experience God’s love and blessings again… if only they will turn around and claim Him once more. This should give us all tremendous peace and comfort!
Someone needs this message today. Someone needs to know that God still loves them! One or more of us need to hear that God will take us back…set us upright…forgive us whatever it is we have done that seems so horrid and shameful… and bless us beyond anything we could ever imagine! All we have to do is turn to Him… give Him our honest, humble, obedient love and respect… acknowledge His son, Jesus Christ, as our savior…and earnestly ask for forgiveness. It truly is that simple.
Peace and restoration are just a prayer away. What are you waiting for?
©2013 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for May 17, 2012
John 15:4-8
Stay joined to me, and I will stay joined to you. Just as a branch cannot produce fruit unless it stays joined to the vine, you cannot produce fruit unless you stay joined to me. I am the vine, and you are the branches. If you stay joined to me, and I stay joined to you, then you will produce lots of fruit. But you cannot do anything without me. If you don’t stay joined to me, you will be thrown away. You will be like dry branches that are gathered up and burned in a fire.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
My husband planted beautiful pink “knock-out” roses in our front yard. While my grandmother was in the hospital, we clipped several blooms and shared them with her. She loved how they made her room a little more cheerful and fragranced the room. But after a couple of days, they began to wither and fade – even standing in a container of water. Apart from the bush where they grew, they could not sustain life and vitality.
We are like this in our walk with God. We may look and smell pretty good for a day or two, but we can’t last very long on our own. We lack the sustenance that fed us and gave us strength, courage, wisdom, and grace. And sooner or later, we will fall flat on our faces.
If you pull up a rose bush filled with blooms, it might continue to look pretty good for a day or two. But eventually, it would wither and die. The bush would still be a rose bush… but its former luster and purpose would be gone. The same can be said for our Christian faith walk. Separated from God, we are still Christians… but we lose our mission and purpose. We become lethargic and ineffective… and often we make costly mistakes.
Don’t let this be said of you. Stay connected to God. Communicate with Him… study His word… listen for His voice. Fellowship with others who are connected to God, and let Him speak to you through their friendship and counsel.
When it comes to the life of a Christian, independence is highly over-rated! Let God feed you and nurture you… and enable you to produce good fruit. Bloom for Him like a “knock-out” rose. Bask in His grace and sustenance. Boldly live in the confidence of God’s constant care… and never wither and fade.
©2012 Debbie Robus
Stay joined to me, and I will stay joined to you. Just as a branch cannot produce fruit unless it stays joined to the vine, you cannot produce fruit unless you stay joined to me. I am the vine, and you are the branches. If you stay joined to me, and I stay joined to you, then you will produce lots of fruit. But you cannot do anything without me. If you don’t stay joined to me, you will be thrown away. You will be like dry branches that are gathered up and burned in a fire.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
My husband planted beautiful pink “knock-out” roses in our front yard. While my grandmother was in the hospital, we clipped several blooms and shared them with her. She loved how they made her room a little more cheerful and fragranced the room. But after a couple of days, they began to wither and fade – even standing in a container of water. Apart from the bush where they grew, they could not sustain life and vitality.
We are like this in our walk with God. We may look and smell pretty good for a day or two, but we can’t last very long on our own. We lack the sustenance that fed us and gave us strength, courage, wisdom, and grace. And sooner or later, we will fall flat on our faces.
If you pull up a rose bush filled with blooms, it might continue to look pretty good for a day or two. But eventually, it would wither and die. The bush would still be a rose bush… but its former luster and purpose would be gone. The same can be said for our Christian faith walk. Separated from God, we are still Christians… but we lose our mission and purpose. We become lethargic and ineffective… and often we make costly mistakes.
Don’t let this be said of you. Stay connected to God. Communicate with Him… study His word… listen for His voice. Fellowship with others who are connected to God, and let Him speak to you through their friendship and counsel.
When it comes to the life of a Christian, independence is highly over-rated! Let God feed you and nurture you… and enable you to produce good fruit. Bloom for Him like a “knock-out” rose. Bask in His grace and sustenance. Boldly live in the confidence of God’s constant care… and never wither and fade.
©2012 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for October 29, 2011
John 15:4-7
Stay joined to me, and I will stay joined to you. Just as a branch cannot produce fruit unless it stays joined to the vine, you cannot produce fruit unless you stay joined to me. I am the vine, and you are the branches. If you stay joined to me, and I stay joined to you, then you will produce lots of fruit. But you cannot do anything without me. If you don't stay joined to me, you will be thrown away. You will be like dry branches that are gathered up and burned in a fire.
Stay joined to me and let my teachings become part of you. Then you can pray for whatever you want, and your prayer will be answered.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
If you have ever lost one piece to something in a set, you know how incomplete the rest becomes. Take earrings, for instance. Once in a while, it happens… you lose one of your favorite earrings. You don’t know where or how it happened, but now the other one is pretty much tossed to the back of the jewelry box and forgotten… rendered useless. Or maybe you throw away the odd piece altogether.
Another is buttons. We need buttons on our shirts and other items of clothing. But often, when we lose a button, a suitable replacement just cannot be found. So we toss the shirt into the trash or rag bin… or at best, we stick it in the back of the closet and wear it when we are doing odd jobs around the house.
Of course, we all know that leaves and fruit that fall from a tree or vine quickly wither and die without the strength and sustenance of the plant itself. And this may be exactly why Jesus chose this illustration. Apart from Him, we will wither and die… and ultimately be tossed away to join Satan in the depths of hell. I’m not saying this to scare anyone… but the fires of hell are like the fires that burn dead, dry branches – only worse – and the idea of Satan’s misery and darkness for all eternity does not interest me in the least!
The bottom line is that we must stay connected to God. We must be continually joined to Him in communication and prayer, faith and trust, service to Him and to others, and fellowship with other believers. We must never pull away or get so arrogant as to think we don’t need God… even for the smallest task or for even one minute from your day.
You wouldn’t think of wearing only one earring just because you lost the other. You probably would be uncomfortable wearing a shirt with missing buttons. Shouldn’t you be uncomfortable even thinking about spending any time apart from God? Are you attached to the Vine today?
©2011 Debbie Robus
Stay joined to me, and I will stay joined to you. Just as a branch cannot produce fruit unless it stays joined to the vine, you cannot produce fruit unless you stay joined to me. I am the vine, and you are the branches. If you stay joined to me, and I stay joined to you, then you will produce lots of fruit. But you cannot do anything without me. If you don't stay joined to me, you will be thrown away. You will be like dry branches that are gathered up and burned in a fire.
Stay joined to me and let my teachings become part of you. Then you can pray for whatever you want, and your prayer will be answered.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
If you have ever lost one piece to something in a set, you know how incomplete the rest becomes. Take earrings, for instance. Once in a while, it happens… you lose one of your favorite earrings. You don’t know where or how it happened, but now the other one is pretty much tossed to the back of the jewelry box and forgotten… rendered useless. Or maybe you throw away the odd piece altogether.
Another is buttons. We need buttons on our shirts and other items of clothing. But often, when we lose a button, a suitable replacement just cannot be found. So we toss the shirt into the trash or rag bin… or at best, we stick it in the back of the closet and wear it when we are doing odd jobs around the house.
Of course, we all know that leaves and fruit that fall from a tree or vine quickly wither and die without the strength and sustenance of the plant itself. And this may be exactly why Jesus chose this illustration. Apart from Him, we will wither and die… and ultimately be tossed away to join Satan in the depths of hell. I’m not saying this to scare anyone… but the fires of hell are like the fires that burn dead, dry branches – only worse – and the idea of Satan’s misery and darkness for all eternity does not interest me in the least!
The bottom line is that we must stay connected to God. We must be continually joined to Him in communication and prayer, faith and trust, service to Him and to others, and fellowship with other believers. We must never pull away or get so arrogant as to think we don’t need God… even for the smallest task or for even one minute from your day.
You wouldn’t think of wearing only one earring just because you lost the other. You probably would be uncomfortable wearing a shirt with missing buttons. Shouldn’t you be uncomfortable even thinking about spending any time apart from God? Are you attached to the Vine today?
©2011 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 8, 2011
Ecclesiastes 1:4
People come, and people go, but still the world never changes.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
When I was a little girl, I had a small circle of close friends. I was friendly with other kids in my class and at church, but four girls – Becky, Carla, Martha and Robin – were especially dear. I didn’t have bridesmaids when we married, so these girls served cake and punch at our wedding. After high school, we did a fairly good job of staying in touch for several years… often getting together for brunch during Christmas break. But over time, we got together less often. We all married and moved in different directions… and as husbands and babies came along and lives got busy, we grew apart in some ways.
But the bond never left. We all grieved when breast cancer took Becky from us a few years ago… and when Robin’s daughter was tragically killed in a car wreck. We supported Carla through the illnesses and subsequent deaths of her parents. We celebrated the accomplishments of each other’s children along the way … and the birth of Becky’s grand-daughter and namesake.
On Christmas Eve, my friend Carla dropped in at our house to purchase a copy of a book my mother has written. We quickly snapped a couple of photos, not knowing when we will see each other again. I keep up with Robin on Facebook… and Martha sent a Christmas card with a photo of her two teenage sons. We don’t see each other very often any more, but I still feel a bond with these women. I have witnessed the ebb and flow of similar relationships between my mother and some of her childhood friends… and the underlying bond that remains.
We tend to romanticize the friendships of our childhood. We fondly remember long days spent playing together or working on a class project. We build up the conflicts and clashes, and they become epic events that forever shape our personalities. As we mature, we come to recognize that friends come and go in our lives. Some of my closest friends now are childhood friends with whom I lost touch for a number of years and have reconnected. Other people with whom I developed friendships as an adult have, for the moment, gone in different directions, and we seldom – if ever – communicate.
The thing is… we often treat our relationship with God like a friendship. And while Jesus is our “Forever Friend,” as we tell our children, the relationship we have with God and His Holy Spirit should not change. There should be no periods of distance… no need for reconnection. We should work hard to keep in constant touch with God, regardless of our circumstances… because I assure you, HE has not gone anywhere! Nothing has changed on God’s end… but we allow the things of this world to get in the way and affect our relationship.
If you need to reconnect with God today, I urge you to make this change. Rekindle your relationship with Him… rebuild your friendship… and NEVER, EVER move away again. People come and people go, but GOD is always there. The question is… where are YOU?
©2010 Debbie Robus
People come, and people go, but still the world never changes.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
When I was a little girl, I had a small circle of close friends. I was friendly with other kids in my class and at church, but four girls – Becky, Carla, Martha and Robin – were especially dear. I didn’t have bridesmaids when we married, so these girls served cake and punch at our wedding. After high school, we did a fairly good job of staying in touch for several years… often getting together for brunch during Christmas break. But over time, we got together less often. We all married and moved in different directions… and as husbands and babies came along and lives got busy, we grew apart in some ways.
But the bond never left. We all grieved when breast cancer took Becky from us a few years ago… and when Robin’s daughter was tragically killed in a car wreck. We supported Carla through the illnesses and subsequent deaths of her parents. We celebrated the accomplishments of each other’s children along the way … and the birth of Becky’s grand-daughter and namesake.
On Christmas Eve, my friend Carla dropped in at our house to purchase a copy of a book my mother has written. We quickly snapped a couple of photos, not knowing when we will see each other again. I keep up with Robin on Facebook… and Martha sent a Christmas card with a photo of her two teenage sons. We don’t see each other very often any more, but I still feel a bond with these women. I have witnessed the ebb and flow of similar relationships between my mother and some of her childhood friends… and the underlying bond that remains.
We tend to romanticize the friendships of our childhood. We fondly remember long days spent playing together or working on a class project. We build up the conflicts and clashes, and they become epic events that forever shape our personalities. As we mature, we come to recognize that friends come and go in our lives. Some of my closest friends now are childhood friends with whom I lost touch for a number of years and have reconnected. Other people with whom I developed friendships as an adult have, for the moment, gone in different directions, and we seldom – if ever – communicate.
The thing is… we often treat our relationship with God like a friendship. And while Jesus is our “Forever Friend,” as we tell our children, the relationship we have with God and His Holy Spirit should not change. There should be no periods of distance… no need for reconnection. We should work hard to keep in constant touch with God, regardless of our circumstances… because I assure you, HE has not gone anywhere! Nothing has changed on God’s end… but we allow the things of this world to get in the way and affect our relationship.
If you need to reconnect with God today, I urge you to make this change. Rekindle your relationship with Him… rebuild your friendship… and NEVER, EVER move away again. People come and people go, but GOD is always there. The question is… where are YOU?
©2010 Debbie Robus
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