Ephesians 4:1-5
As a prisoner of the Lord, I beg you to live in a way that is worthy of the people God has chosen to be his own. Always be humble and gentle. Patiently put up with each other and love each other. Try your best to let God’s Spirit keep your hearts united. Do this by living at peace. All of you are part of the same body. There is only one Spirit of God, just as you were given one hope when you were chosen to be God’s people. We have only one Lord, one faith, and one baptism.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Recently, I watched an interview that Oprah Winfrey conducted with rap artist 50 Cent… a.k.a. Curtis Jackson. I found it interesting to learn that the cold, harsh, often-profane “50 Cent” is a public persona. The real Curtis Jackson appears to be a tender, intelligent, loving man who was reared by his grandparents after his mother was murdered when Curtis was only eight. While I do not condone the violence and profane message - or the delivery - of 50 Cent’s “music” in general, I may have misjudged him overall. At the very least, I should learn to patiently put up with him.
Stop laughing… I realize that 50 Cent is not often – if ever – on my radar screen. But we do have a number of people who rub us the wrong way all the time, for one reason or another… people we may have judged unfairly… people who are “hard to love.” And the truth is… this may be exactly how quite a few people view us!
“Me?” you may be asking. “What’s not to love about me?” For some, there may be plenty… from attitude to personality and more. “But I’m a Christian!” you may shout. And those who don’t particularly care for you may be, too! The point is, we are not called to LIKE everyone else… but we are called to show Christian love and patience - and to make every effort to get along.
Oprah asked 50 Cent, “Who really loves you?” She admitted that this is a daunting question, if you really think about it. For Curtis Jackson, the first person who came to mind was his grandmother. And then he had trouble thinking of others. Who really loves you? Who accepts you unconditionally, treats you gently and respectfully, and always puts up with you? We can probably all name dozens of “acquaintances” who appear to like us well enough… but who do you know for certain loves you, warts and all? Sadly, the lists are probably pretty short for all of us. I believe the devil dances on his head with joy at the thought that we have so much trouble getting along and genuinely loving others.
What if Jesus loved us like this? What if His list of people He truly loved rose and fell with His mood - and our behavior? Thankfully, this is not the case. And the same Jesus who died for you, died for me - and that neighbor you can’t stand, and the woman in your church who drives you crazy, or the classmate or co-worker who gets on your last nerve!
We need to do a better job of getting along – of at least tolerating others and not judging them so quickly. We need to take a long, hard look at each person we meet and remind ourselves that he/she is equally a child of God – and truly loved by Him every bit as much as we are. We need to “give peace a chance,” as the John Lennon song says... and live and love in a way that honors God’s love for us. As the Apostle Paul admonishes us in this passage, we must “live in a way that is worthy of the people God has chosen to be his own.” How are you doing so far?
©2012 Debbie Robus
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