Romans 14:6-9
What’s important in all this is that if you keep a holy day, keep it for God’s sake; if you eat meat, eat it to the glory of God and thank God for prime rib; if you’re a vegetarian, eat vegetables to the glory of God and thank God for broccoli. None of us are permitted to insist on our own way in these matters. It’s God we are answerable to—all the way from life to death and everything in between—not each other. That’s why Jesus lived and died and then lived again: so that he could be our Master across the entire range of life and death, and free us from the petty tyrannies of each other.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
When I was very young, there was a “shouting match” at our church service one evening. At least one man sitting in our congregation began to try to “shout down” the pastor as he spoke while standing at the pulpit.
I was too little to understand why they were arguing, but my mother said it centered partly on comments the pastor had made to choir members who did not attend the Wednesday night prayer meetings. This man told the choir members that when they came into the sanctuary on Sunday morning, and he saw the faces of those who had not attended prayer meeting, they were an “affront” to him.
Do you see a problem here? Christian people who honored God by devoting their time and energy to participate in a church choir on Sundays were berated because they weren’t attending a prayer service on Wednesdays! This offended the pastor – and obviously he judged their Christian faith and witness accordingly.
I’ll be the first to tell you that there is a LOT about the Bible that I do not know or understand. But I honestly don’t know of any scripture that says you have to attend every service that your church holds each week. Just because you have a lovely voice doesn’t mean you have to sing in the choir. We are supposed to read God’s word, but I’m not familiar with any scriptures that say, “You must go to Sunday school and attend organized Bible studies.” I don’t recall Jesus sharing His last supper with the disciples and saying, “You can only do this in remembrance of Me at certain churches or in specific settings.”
We humans have created a plethora of rules about our Christian faith…and nothing could be more of a paradox. A holy Christian relationship that encompasses grace, mercy, acceptance and love is often used as a justification for some of the worst judgments and persecutions of others. And I have to believe that God hangs His head in heartache and disappointment.
But we can change this…and it starts with you and me. We can dig deeply into God’s word and spend some serious time in conversation with Him. We can genuinely ask Him, “Where – and how – do you wish for me to serve and witness?”…and DO IT! We can leave judgment and intolerance of others - and how THEY worship - out of our lives…and let every person work out his/her discipleship as God directs them.
As Paul explained to the Romans…Jesus died to release us from such “petty tyrannies”. Isn’t it time we let them go once and for all?
©2015 Debbie Robus
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Daily Devotional for January 24, 2015
Revelation 2:14-16
“But why do you indulge that Balaam crowd? Don’t you remember that Balaam was an enemy agent, seducing Balak and sabotaging Israel’s holy pilgrimage by throwing unholy parties? And why do you put up with the Nicolaitans, who do the same thing?
“Enough! Don’t give in to them; I’ll be with you soon. I’m fed up and about to cut them to pieces with my sword-sharp words.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Most of us have heard stories about – or actually know of - a teenager who attended a party where there was under-age drinking and other activities that should not have been happening. When this activity was discovered, the teen said, “But I wasn’t doing it!” While the kid felt this exonerated his/her presence…it really was no excuse. Or maybe you know of a child who broke a window because he/she was throwing rocks…or started a fire when a pack of matches was discovered…or had some sort of accident because friends dared him/her to do something crazy…but they were just “in the wrong place at the wrong time”. It really wasn’t their fault.
There is a fine line between tolerance and poor judgment. I would guess that virtually every single one of us has been in a situation or circumstance where we said, “I shouldn’t be here.” Or maybe we sensed that something did not feel “right”…yet we couldn’t seem to drag ourselves away. Some would argue that they were there to “help a buddy” – or even to “witness” to those in the wrong. But these lines of reasoning won’t hold up very well in most cases.
In this passage, God is using John to tell the people of Smyrna that they have been hanging out with the wrong crowd…and He has just about had enough of it. They have been dabbling in things they know they shouldn’t…and teetering on the brink of disaster. And this message applies to many of us today just as well. We’re dancing on the edge…testing the waters…trying to “have our cake and eat it, too”…and God is not amused.
I honestly don’t think man people grasp how terribly we grieve God on many occasions. We don’t often stop to consider that the One who loves us beyond description has feelings, too. And we break His heart over and again on a regular basis– if not every single day. But we can change…and don’t you want to?! Don’t you want to honor God for all that He has done for you? Don’t you want to live in a manner that says, “I am so very grateful for your love, grace, mercy and patience.”?
Isn’t it time we started living with more purpose…with deliberate thought and consideration for our words and actions? If we really love God, shouldn’t we stop and consider what HE would think before we say and do many of the things we do without any consideration? Will this be the day that you begin to “let go and let God” in EVERY area of your life? Or will you continue to hope that your “excuses” are good enough to merit a “pass”?
©2015 Debbie Robus
“But why do you indulge that Balaam crowd? Don’t you remember that Balaam was an enemy agent, seducing Balak and sabotaging Israel’s holy pilgrimage by throwing unholy parties? And why do you put up with the Nicolaitans, who do the same thing?
“Enough! Don’t give in to them; I’ll be with you soon. I’m fed up and about to cut them to pieces with my sword-sharp words.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Most of us have heard stories about – or actually know of - a teenager who attended a party where there was under-age drinking and other activities that should not have been happening. When this activity was discovered, the teen said, “But I wasn’t doing it!” While the kid felt this exonerated his/her presence…it really was no excuse. Or maybe you know of a child who broke a window because he/she was throwing rocks…or started a fire when a pack of matches was discovered…or had some sort of accident because friends dared him/her to do something crazy…but they were just “in the wrong place at the wrong time”. It really wasn’t their fault.
There is a fine line between tolerance and poor judgment. I would guess that virtually every single one of us has been in a situation or circumstance where we said, “I shouldn’t be here.” Or maybe we sensed that something did not feel “right”…yet we couldn’t seem to drag ourselves away. Some would argue that they were there to “help a buddy” – or even to “witness” to those in the wrong. But these lines of reasoning won’t hold up very well in most cases.
In this passage, God is using John to tell the people of Smyrna that they have been hanging out with the wrong crowd…and He has just about had enough of it. They have been dabbling in things they know they shouldn’t…and teetering on the brink of disaster. And this message applies to many of us today just as well. We’re dancing on the edge…testing the waters…trying to “have our cake and eat it, too”…and God is not amused.
I honestly don’t think man people grasp how terribly we grieve God on many occasions. We don’t often stop to consider that the One who loves us beyond description has feelings, too. And we break His heart over and again on a regular basis– if not every single day. But we can change…and don’t you want to?! Don’t you want to honor God for all that He has done for you? Don’t you want to live in a manner that says, “I am so very grateful for your love, grace, mercy and patience.”?
Isn’t it time we started living with more purpose…with deliberate thought and consideration for our words and actions? If we really love God, shouldn’t we stop and consider what HE would think before we say and do many of the things we do without any consideration? Will this be the day that you begin to “let go and let God” in EVERY area of your life? Or will you continue to hope that your “excuses” are good enough to merit a “pass”?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 23, 2015
Psalm 133:1
How wonderful, how beautiful,
when brothers and sisters get along!
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I just read a book called 1-2-3 Magic*, written by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. This book is subtitled “Effective Discipline for Children 2-12”. Phelan has an interesting approach to parenting effectively – and with joy – and he discusses sibling rivalry in several sections of his book. Some of Phelan’s statistics were quite interesting. He notes that all siblings will fight, and those ages 3-7 fight about three or four times per hour, while some younger children fight as much as 6 times an hour. Phelan claims that kids ages 10-15 have the highest rate of sibling rivalry!
I won’t detail how Phelan recommends handling sibling rivalry…but he admits that there are times that a separation – or “time out” – is necessary for all parties. He advocates a “1-2-3” approach of “3 counts” and then a “time out”. I couldn’t help but think of counting to Timothy one day, and when I got to “2”, he said, “Don’t make me count to THREE!”
All you have to do is read the book of Genesis to see that sibling rivalry is nothing new! But here’s where I think this verse in Psalms applies to us as Christians. In too many areas of our life, we have stopped trying to get along. We’ve adopted the philosophy that “It’s my way or the highway”…and everyone else is just plain wrong if they disagree with us!
I believe that Psalm 133:1 is about getting along with ALL of our brothers and sisters…not just those with whom we share parents. God delights when His creations live in harmony…are patient, kind, tolerant and loving toward one another. Jesus demonstrated grace, mercy, and forgiveness…and He called on us to share these “fruits of the Spirit” with others…to honor God and all that He has bestowed upon us. And this means that we must hold our tongue (more often than most of us would like!)…and sometimes walk away and/or take a physical break from a “sibling” who is upsetting us in some way.
Ask God to show you how to operate more in love rather than “sibling rivalry”. Don’t take the “count” to three…learn to call on the power of the Holy Spirit and stop with the first hint of animosity or disagreement. Honor your relationship with God by developing love and tolerance for others…even if they make you “count to three”!
©2015 Debbie Robus
* http://www.amazon.com/1-2-3-Magic-Effective-Discipline-Children/dp/1889140708/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1422029621&sr=1-1&keywords=123+magic&pebp=1422029624302&peasin=1889140708
How wonderful, how beautiful,
when brothers and sisters get along!
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I just read a book called 1-2-3 Magic*, written by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. This book is subtitled “Effective Discipline for Children 2-12”. Phelan has an interesting approach to parenting effectively – and with joy – and he discusses sibling rivalry in several sections of his book. Some of Phelan’s statistics were quite interesting. He notes that all siblings will fight, and those ages 3-7 fight about three or four times per hour, while some younger children fight as much as 6 times an hour. Phelan claims that kids ages 10-15 have the highest rate of sibling rivalry!
I won’t detail how Phelan recommends handling sibling rivalry…but he admits that there are times that a separation – or “time out” – is necessary for all parties. He advocates a “1-2-3” approach of “3 counts” and then a “time out”. I couldn’t help but think of counting to Timothy one day, and when I got to “2”, he said, “Don’t make me count to THREE!”
All you have to do is read the book of Genesis to see that sibling rivalry is nothing new! But here’s where I think this verse in Psalms applies to us as Christians. In too many areas of our life, we have stopped trying to get along. We’ve adopted the philosophy that “It’s my way or the highway”…and everyone else is just plain wrong if they disagree with us!
I believe that Psalm 133:1 is about getting along with ALL of our brothers and sisters…not just those with whom we share parents. God delights when His creations live in harmony…are patient, kind, tolerant and loving toward one another. Jesus demonstrated grace, mercy, and forgiveness…and He called on us to share these “fruits of the Spirit” with others…to honor God and all that He has bestowed upon us. And this means that we must hold our tongue (more often than most of us would like!)…and sometimes walk away and/or take a physical break from a “sibling” who is upsetting us in some way.
Ask God to show you how to operate more in love rather than “sibling rivalry”. Don’t take the “count” to three…learn to call on the power of the Holy Spirit and stop with the first hint of animosity or disagreement. Honor your relationship with God by developing love and tolerance for others…even if they make you “count to three”!
©2015 Debbie Robus
* http://www.amazon.com/1-2-3-Magic-Effective-Discipline-Children/dp/1889140708/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1422029621&sr=1-1&keywords=123+magic&pebp=1422029624302&peasin=1889140708
Daily Devotional for January 22, 2015
Proverbs 16:24
Kind words are like honey—
they cheer you up
and make you feel strong.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
There is really not much I can add to this! Speak kind words to others today…particularly those people to whom you may not feel so loving or tolerant, for whatever reason. Let your “kindness” serve as a balm for their souls...and let them see the love of Jesus in your words and body language. You might catch a few people off guard…but it will all be good in the end. And as you lift another person, you will feel stronger, more lighthearted, and confident in your relationship with Jesus. You will be blessed to be a blessing!
So get going! Who will be the first to feel the love of Jesus in your kind words this day?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Kind words are like honey—
they cheer you up
and make you feel strong.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
There is really not much I can add to this! Speak kind words to others today…particularly those people to whom you may not feel so loving or tolerant, for whatever reason. Let your “kindness” serve as a balm for their souls...and let them see the love of Jesus in your words and body language. You might catch a few people off guard…but it will all be good in the end. And as you lift another person, you will feel stronger, more lighthearted, and confident in your relationship with Jesus. You will be blessed to be a blessing!
So get going! Who will be the first to feel the love of Jesus in your kind words this day?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 19, 2015
Matthew 7:12
“Here is a simple, rule-of-thumb guide for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them. Add up God’s Law and Prophets and this is what you get.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Today, we honor the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., a well-known and respected civil rights activist, pastor, and humanitarian who led the fight for justice and fair treatment of all people – but especially African-Americans – in the 1960s. In many cities across the country, there will be parades, speeches, rallies, and other gatherings to remember Dr. King and his efforts…where we’ve been…and how far we still have to go.
This morning, I watched an interview with Eric Braeden - a soap opera star from CBS’s The Young and the Restless, of all things – who was the keynote speaker at a Martin Luther King, Jr. celebratory breakfast in Little Rock, Arkansas. Braeden, who is white, explained that he emigrated to the United States from Germany in 1959, with empty pockets and a heart filled with hope. He remembers firsthand the famous “I Have a Dream” speech delivered by Dr. King at the Lincoln Memorial. He recalls all of the challenges and struggles that were meted toward him as a post-WWII German trying to “make it” in America. And he noted that his discriminations and difficulties paled in comparison to those of African-Americans.
When asked how he would address the group on this day, Braeden said that he would…“reflect on the process of blacks, whites, Christians, Jews, Protestants, Catholics, and Muslims all getting along with each other. We are all one, you know…all children of God. And as such, we should behave kindly toward each other.”
The interviewer asked Braeden why he accepted the invitation to make this speech, and he explained that it appealed to him as someone who had seen discrimination firsthand – and also growth and improvement in the area of human relations. But he pointed out that there is still much work to be done. And indeed, this is the case. God is calling us to “grab the initiative”…to be the first in line to “behave kindly toward each other”…to obey God’s law and treat ALL others as we wish to be treated.
Dr. King was shot and killed on March 29, 1968, in Memphis, Tennessee. While speaking at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta, Georgia, on February 4th of that year, he was asked how he would like to be remembered. In part, King answered…” I'd like somebody to mention that day that Martin Luther King Jr. tried to give his life serving others. I'd like for somebody to say that day that Martin Luther King Jr. tried to love somebody.”
A component of many celebrations of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., will be some form of service activity to honor his legacy – and God’s call on our lives as Christians. I cannot think of a better day for all of us to begin to serve others and “love somebody” in Jesus’ name…can you?
©2015 Debbie Robus
“Here is a simple, rule-of-thumb guide for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them. Add up God’s Law and Prophets and this is what you get.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Today, we honor the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., a well-known and respected civil rights activist, pastor, and humanitarian who led the fight for justice and fair treatment of all people – but especially African-Americans – in the 1960s. In many cities across the country, there will be parades, speeches, rallies, and other gatherings to remember Dr. King and his efforts…where we’ve been…and how far we still have to go.
This morning, I watched an interview with Eric Braeden - a soap opera star from CBS’s The Young and the Restless, of all things – who was the keynote speaker at a Martin Luther King, Jr. celebratory breakfast in Little Rock, Arkansas. Braeden, who is white, explained that he emigrated to the United States from Germany in 1959, with empty pockets and a heart filled with hope. He remembers firsthand the famous “I Have a Dream” speech delivered by Dr. King at the Lincoln Memorial. He recalls all of the challenges and struggles that were meted toward him as a post-WWII German trying to “make it” in America. And he noted that his discriminations and difficulties paled in comparison to those of African-Americans.
When asked how he would address the group on this day, Braeden said that he would…“reflect on the process of blacks, whites, Christians, Jews, Protestants, Catholics, and Muslims all getting along with each other. We are all one, you know…all children of God. And as such, we should behave kindly toward each other.”
The interviewer asked Braeden why he accepted the invitation to make this speech, and he explained that it appealed to him as someone who had seen discrimination firsthand – and also growth and improvement in the area of human relations. But he pointed out that there is still much work to be done. And indeed, this is the case. God is calling us to “grab the initiative”…to be the first in line to “behave kindly toward each other”…to obey God’s law and treat ALL others as we wish to be treated.
Dr. King was shot and killed on March 29, 1968, in Memphis, Tennessee. While speaking at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta, Georgia, on February 4th of that year, he was asked how he would like to be remembered. In part, King answered…” I'd like somebody to mention that day that Martin Luther King Jr. tried to give his life serving others. I'd like for somebody to say that day that Martin Luther King Jr. tried to love somebody.”
A component of many celebrations of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., will be some form of service activity to honor his legacy – and God’s call on our lives as Christians. I cannot think of a better day for all of us to begin to serve others and “love somebody” in Jesus’ name…can you?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 17, 2015
Luke 9:51-56
When it came close to the time for his Ascension, he gathered up his courage and steeled himself for the journey to Jerusalem. He sent messengers on ahead. They came to a Samaritan village to make arrangements for his hospitality. But when the Samaritans learned that his destination was Jerusalem, they refused hospitality. When the disciples James and John learned of it, they said, “Master, do you want us to call a bolt of lightning down out of the sky and incinerate them?”
Jesus turned on them: “Of course not!” And they traveled on to another village.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
This passage reminds me of the classic “Want me to beat him/her up for you?” scenario of a zealous friend or big brother/sister from our childhood! The notes surrounding these verses indicate that the Jews had referred to the Samaritans as “half-breeds”, which obviously did not go over well.
Information found at Catholic Answers* explains…“Because of their imperfect adherence to Judaism and their partly pagan ancestry, the Samaritans were despised by ordinary Jews. Rather than contaminate themselves by passing through Samaritan territory, Jews who were traveling from Judea to Galilee or vice versa would cross over the river Jordan, bypass Samaria by going through Transjordan, and cross over the river again as they neared their destination.”
Everyone is entitled to their opinion…even the Samaritans who didn’t approve of Jesus visiting Jerusalem. But this doesn’t give us reason to make a scene…and actually, to do so tarnishes our Christian witness. We saw a good example of this recently in Ferguson, Missouri. People felt strongly on both sides of this issue…and there were proper channels for expressing disapproval and outrage. But the rioting and burning of buildings and businesses…some of which were in no way involved in this whole debacle…was just plain wrong. And anyone who participated in these acts while claiming to be a Christian dishonored their faith and discipleship.
Like the reactions of our childhood, sometimes we want to lash out. It’s a natural, human tendency. But we are called to be better than this…and we have the Perfect Example of how and why it’s a bad idea. If anyone ever had reason for retaliation, it was Jesus…and yet, He never lost His cool. So what makes us think this should ever be okay for us?
©2015 Debbie Robus
*http://www.catholic.com/quickquestions/who-were-the-samaritans-and-why-were-they-important
When it came close to the time for his Ascension, he gathered up his courage and steeled himself for the journey to Jerusalem. He sent messengers on ahead. They came to a Samaritan village to make arrangements for his hospitality. But when the Samaritans learned that his destination was Jerusalem, they refused hospitality. When the disciples James and John learned of it, they said, “Master, do you want us to call a bolt of lightning down out of the sky and incinerate them?”
Jesus turned on them: “Of course not!” And they traveled on to another village.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
This passage reminds me of the classic “Want me to beat him/her up for you?” scenario of a zealous friend or big brother/sister from our childhood! The notes surrounding these verses indicate that the Jews had referred to the Samaritans as “half-breeds”, which obviously did not go over well.
Information found at Catholic Answers* explains…“Because of their imperfect adherence to Judaism and their partly pagan ancestry, the Samaritans were despised by ordinary Jews. Rather than contaminate themselves by passing through Samaritan territory, Jews who were traveling from Judea to Galilee or vice versa would cross over the river Jordan, bypass Samaria by going through Transjordan, and cross over the river again as they neared their destination.”
Everyone is entitled to their opinion…even the Samaritans who didn’t approve of Jesus visiting Jerusalem. But this doesn’t give us reason to make a scene…and actually, to do so tarnishes our Christian witness. We saw a good example of this recently in Ferguson, Missouri. People felt strongly on both sides of this issue…and there were proper channels for expressing disapproval and outrage. But the rioting and burning of buildings and businesses…some of which were in no way involved in this whole debacle…was just plain wrong. And anyone who participated in these acts while claiming to be a Christian dishonored their faith and discipleship.
Like the reactions of our childhood, sometimes we want to lash out. It’s a natural, human tendency. But we are called to be better than this…and we have the Perfect Example of how and why it’s a bad idea. If anyone ever had reason for retaliation, it was Jesus…and yet, He never lost His cool. So what makes us think this should ever be okay for us?
©2015 Debbie Robus
*http://www.catholic.com/quickquestions/who-were-the-samaritans-and-why-were-they-important
Daily Devotional for January 15, 2015
Luke 9:46-48
They started arguing over which of them would be most famous. When Jesus realized how much this mattered to them, he brought a child to his side. “Whoever accepts this child as if the child were me, accepts me,” he said. “And whoever accepts me, accepts the One who sent me. You become great by accepting, not asserting. Your spirit, not your size, makes the difference.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I learn so much from Timothy, Zola and Nathan. And one of the biggest “examples” they have given me so far is tolerance and acceptance. They don’t see size, color, ethnicity, economics and more. Don’t get me wrong…they notice others. But they notice in a way that we adults usually don’t. More than once, Timothy has remarked about someone’s beauty or attractiveness…or told the person, “I like your hairstyle or clothing (or some other physical accessory or attribute).” They wave and greet total strangers when we are in public. They have huge “spirits” in little bodies.
Whether I am “dressed to the nines” or in my pajamas with “bed hair” and no makeup…these children have never said one critical or unkind word about my appearance. They notice that I am present in their lives. They don’t care what I look like in a bathing suit…as long as we are swimming. They readily accept all of the children in their classrooms and play circles. They do not recognize differences in physical talent and ability.
Many years ago, I lay in a hospital bed awaiting surgery the next morning. In the bed beside me was a woman who was awaiting the same surgery. From our conversation, I gathered that she was neither well-educated…or financially stable. And she was frightened, so we talked quite a bit to try and pass the time and ease her anxiety. Lying in those beds in hospital-issued gowns, we were no different. We were two women preparing for the same surgery. I was struck by a profound sense of just how “equal” we were…and reminded that God didn’t care more about my outcome than hers – or vice versa. We were both important to Him, and I knew that He would guide our care in the same way.
My prayer for each of us would be that we strip away whatever causes us to discriminate…that we would see others as God sees them. When you see someone who looks, speaks or acts differently, remind yourself how much God loves them. When you start to get irritated because someone doesn’t see an issue in the same light as you, remember that Jesus died for their sins and offers them the same opportunity for salvation as He offers you. When you start to judge someone for their size, shape, appearance in any manner, lifestyle preference, economics, politics, opinions…ANYTHING…remember Jesus’ words…”You become great by accepting, not asserting. Your spirit, not your size, makes the difference.”
We need to “revert to our childhood”…and develop large, accepting hearts for Jesus and His children. I ask you…”How big is your spirit these days?”
©2015 Debbie Robus
They started arguing over which of them would be most famous. When Jesus realized how much this mattered to them, he brought a child to his side. “Whoever accepts this child as if the child were me, accepts me,” he said. “And whoever accepts me, accepts the One who sent me. You become great by accepting, not asserting. Your spirit, not your size, makes the difference.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I learn so much from Timothy, Zola and Nathan. And one of the biggest “examples” they have given me so far is tolerance and acceptance. They don’t see size, color, ethnicity, economics and more. Don’t get me wrong…they notice others. But they notice in a way that we adults usually don’t. More than once, Timothy has remarked about someone’s beauty or attractiveness…or told the person, “I like your hairstyle or clothing (or some other physical accessory or attribute).” They wave and greet total strangers when we are in public. They have huge “spirits” in little bodies.
Whether I am “dressed to the nines” or in my pajamas with “bed hair” and no makeup…these children have never said one critical or unkind word about my appearance. They notice that I am present in their lives. They don’t care what I look like in a bathing suit…as long as we are swimming. They readily accept all of the children in their classrooms and play circles. They do not recognize differences in physical talent and ability.
Many years ago, I lay in a hospital bed awaiting surgery the next morning. In the bed beside me was a woman who was awaiting the same surgery. From our conversation, I gathered that she was neither well-educated…or financially stable. And she was frightened, so we talked quite a bit to try and pass the time and ease her anxiety. Lying in those beds in hospital-issued gowns, we were no different. We were two women preparing for the same surgery. I was struck by a profound sense of just how “equal” we were…and reminded that God didn’t care more about my outcome than hers – or vice versa. We were both important to Him, and I knew that He would guide our care in the same way.
My prayer for each of us would be that we strip away whatever causes us to discriminate…that we would see others as God sees them. When you see someone who looks, speaks or acts differently, remind yourself how much God loves them. When you start to get irritated because someone doesn’t see an issue in the same light as you, remember that Jesus died for their sins and offers them the same opportunity for salvation as He offers you. When you start to judge someone for their size, shape, appearance in any manner, lifestyle preference, economics, politics, opinions…ANYTHING…remember Jesus’ words…”You become great by accepting, not asserting. Your spirit, not your size, makes the difference.”
We need to “revert to our childhood”…and develop large, accepting hearts for Jesus and His children. I ask you…”How big is your spirit these days?”
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 13, 2015
John 8:6-8
Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger in the dirt. They kept at him, badgering him. He straightened up and said, “The sinless one among you, go first: Throw the stone.” Bending down again, he wrote some more in the dirt.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
The first year I taught, I had 31 first-grade students…and a year-long supply budget of $50. This was supposed to furnish me with everything from chalk to “magic markers” to paper for arts and crafts. So I made a list of things that I thought I might need to supplement this tiny budget…and I asked each child to bring one item on the list. One child brought potting soil…another brought tissues…another brought some construction paper, and so on. One little girl was asked to bring plastic cups. I planned to use these for things like planting beans as a science experiment (hence the potting soil I had requested!).
One morning, this child arrived with a big brown paper sack and a smile that covered her face. “Here are the cups,” she said proudly. “My mom got married, and they were left over from her wedding.” Inside were more than two dozen plastic wine glasses with snap-on “stems”. You can’t make this stuff up! I thanked her for the contribution and put them on the shelf with the other supplies. Some almost-40 years later, I cannot recall what we did with the cups, but I know we used them for something. We had to…it meant too much to this little girl.
Never mind that a lot of the other parents would be less than thrilled for their child to bring home a bean growing out of a stemmed wine “goblet”…forget that this was not really a suitable “planter” for the science project. To have tossed these aside as less than acceptable would have been the same as telling this darling little brown-eyed girl that she was not worthy – that her contribution was no good. And yet, we do this to people every single day in some form or another.
We make snap judgments and criticize…we blame others for things that there is no way they could have controlled…we lift ourselves by trying to make other people look small…we “cast stones” and pretend that we are sinless. We know better…but somehow, we cannot seem to do better!
I wonder just how long Jesus will continue to draw and dig in the sand and be patient with us. He’s already shown us more mercy and tolerance than any of us could ever deserve. Isn’t it time we started checking ourselves a little more closely? Shouldn’t we be asking that proverbial question, “What would Jesus do?” a little more often…and then making our thoughts, words and actions line up with His? Aren’t you ready to drop the stones…and have others drop the ones they have lined up for you? Wouldn’t this be a good day to begin?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger in the dirt. They kept at him, badgering him. He straightened up and said, “The sinless one among you, go first: Throw the stone.” Bending down again, he wrote some more in the dirt.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
The first year I taught, I had 31 first-grade students…and a year-long supply budget of $50. This was supposed to furnish me with everything from chalk to “magic markers” to paper for arts and crafts. So I made a list of things that I thought I might need to supplement this tiny budget…and I asked each child to bring one item on the list. One child brought potting soil…another brought tissues…another brought some construction paper, and so on. One little girl was asked to bring plastic cups. I planned to use these for things like planting beans as a science experiment (hence the potting soil I had requested!).
One morning, this child arrived with a big brown paper sack and a smile that covered her face. “Here are the cups,” she said proudly. “My mom got married, and they were left over from her wedding.” Inside were more than two dozen plastic wine glasses with snap-on “stems”. You can’t make this stuff up! I thanked her for the contribution and put them on the shelf with the other supplies. Some almost-40 years later, I cannot recall what we did with the cups, but I know we used them for something. We had to…it meant too much to this little girl.
Never mind that a lot of the other parents would be less than thrilled for their child to bring home a bean growing out of a stemmed wine “goblet”…forget that this was not really a suitable “planter” for the science project. To have tossed these aside as less than acceptable would have been the same as telling this darling little brown-eyed girl that she was not worthy – that her contribution was no good. And yet, we do this to people every single day in some form or another.
We make snap judgments and criticize…we blame others for things that there is no way they could have controlled…we lift ourselves by trying to make other people look small…we “cast stones” and pretend that we are sinless. We know better…but somehow, we cannot seem to do better!
I wonder just how long Jesus will continue to draw and dig in the sand and be patient with us. He’s already shown us more mercy and tolerance than any of us could ever deserve. Isn’t it time we started checking ourselves a little more closely? Shouldn’t we be asking that proverbial question, “What would Jesus do?” a little more often…and then making our thoughts, words and actions line up with His? Aren’t you ready to drop the stones…and have others drop the ones they have lined up for you? Wouldn’t this be a good day to begin?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 12, 2015
John 3:16-18
“This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. Anyone who trusts in him is acquitted; anyone who refuses to trust him has long since been under the death sentence without knowing it. And why? Because of that person’s failure to believe in the one-of-a-kind Son of God when introduced to him.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Pretty much every one of us learned John 3:16 as a child, and we can recite the words “by heart”. But here’s how most of us hear the verse…”For God so loved ME that He gave His only Son, so that if I believe in Him, I will be saved for all eternity and go to heaven when I die.”
Here’s what we do NOT hear…”God so loved the WORLD…terrorists…murderers…rapists…child molesters…people of all races, genders, sexual orientations, socio-economic and intellectual levels and political parties…drug addicts and alcoholics…abusers...that He sacrificed the blood of His only Son to redeem EVERYONE who repents of their sins and invites Jesus to be their LORD and Savior!
This is a hard pill to swallow sometimes. We don’t want to think that we might see some of these people on the streets of heaven…that people who did horrible, terrible, unthinkable things at some point in their lives might be there right alongside each of us. But this is because we do not fully understand God’s love. I know I don’t.
I love my husband, my mom, my sister, nieces and nephews and extended family. I love my pets in a way that makes some people snicker and roll their eyes. I love my friends. I like to think that I love completely, unconditionally, and without any reservation…but I know better. I am not sure that I love deeply enough. And I’m pretty certain that my brand of love would not allow me to sacrifice anyone for the sins of the WORLD, especially these terrible, horrible, incorrigible people who have existed since the days of Cain and Abel! But God does. HE loves each of us that much. And He offers forgiveness, acceptance, and redemption through the blood of Jesus Christ to ANYONE who will ask for it.
If we want to be more like Jesus, we have to learn to love like He does…to offer tolerance, grace, mercy, forgiveness, compassion, and genuine care and concern to each of God’s creatures. We never know when our example might be the very thing that causes someone to say, “LORD…I want to be included…I want what he/she has. Will you have accept me into your Kingdom?”
The stakes are high…God so loved the WORLD…isn’t it time that we did, too?
©2015 Debbie Robus
“This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. Anyone who trusts in him is acquitted; anyone who refuses to trust him has long since been under the death sentence without knowing it. And why? Because of that person’s failure to believe in the one-of-a-kind Son of God when introduced to him.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Pretty much every one of us learned John 3:16 as a child, and we can recite the words “by heart”. But here’s how most of us hear the verse…”For God so loved ME that He gave His only Son, so that if I believe in Him, I will be saved for all eternity and go to heaven when I die.”
Here’s what we do NOT hear…”God so loved the WORLD…terrorists…murderers…rapists…child molesters…people of all races, genders, sexual orientations, socio-economic and intellectual levels and political parties…drug addicts and alcoholics…abusers...that He sacrificed the blood of His only Son to redeem EVERYONE who repents of their sins and invites Jesus to be their LORD and Savior!
This is a hard pill to swallow sometimes. We don’t want to think that we might see some of these people on the streets of heaven…that people who did horrible, terrible, unthinkable things at some point in their lives might be there right alongside each of us. But this is because we do not fully understand God’s love. I know I don’t.
I love my husband, my mom, my sister, nieces and nephews and extended family. I love my pets in a way that makes some people snicker and roll their eyes. I love my friends. I like to think that I love completely, unconditionally, and without any reservation…but I know better. I am not sure that I love deeply enough. And I’m pretty certain that my brand of love would not allow me to sacrifice anyone for the sins of the WORLD, especially these terrible, horrible, incorrigible people who have existed since the days of Cain and Abel! But God does. HE loves each of us that much. And He offers forgiveness, acceptance, and redemption through the blood of Jesus Christ to ANYONE who will ask for it.
If we want to be more like Jesus, we have to learn to love like He does…to offer tolerance, grace, mercy, forgiveness, compassion, and genuine care and concern to each of God’s creatures. We never know when our example might be the very thing that causes someone to say, “LORD…I want to be included…I want what he/she has. Will you have accept me into your Kingdom?”
The stakes are high…God so loved the WORLD…isn’t it time that we did, too?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 11, 2015
John 14:6
Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
It’s an icy day in Arkansas. Freezing rain has spread across much of the state, and many local churches canceled services to keep people off of slick roadways, sidewalks and parking lots. Better safe than sorry…I don’t think God takes any pleasure in one of his children suffering an injury – or worse – while trying to get to a Sunday church service!
A friend of mine whose church services were canceled for today posted this comment on Facebook…”Since we didn't have church this morning.....thought for the day: John 17 tells of Jesus's prayer for His disciples as He's about to leave them. What three things would you pray for your children if you knew you would die in 24 hours?”
I had already formulated some thoughts in my head, but they were confirmed when I read John 14:6. My first prayer would be that my “children” – and other loved ones – know Jesus. I mean, really KNOW Him! My second prayer would be that their every word, thought, deed and action would be guided by God…that they would be so in tune with Him through prayer, Bible study and Christian fellowship that He directs their every breath. My third prayer would be that they always love others as Jesus loves them…that they would be tolerant, accepting, gracious, merciful, compassionate, and forgiving…without exception.
I do not fear death – nor leaving others behind. I anticipate that they will join me in heaven someday. But if I knew that these three prayers would be accomplished in those I hold near and dear, I would have full confidence and peace in my departure. With this thought in mind, I am making it my goal to demonstrate these prayers in my own life…to model this Christian faithfulness and discipleship to those in my midst – whether I am here for one more minute or dozens of years. What about you?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
It’s an icy day in Arkansas. Freezing rain has spread across much of the state, and many local churches canceled services to keep people off of slick roadways, sidewalks and parking lots. Better safe than sorry…I don’t think God takes any pleasure in one of his children suffering an injury – or worse – while trying to get to a Sunday church service!
A friend of mine whose church services were canceled for today posted this comment on Facebook…”Since we didn't have church this morning.....thought for the day: John 17 tells of Jesus's prayer for His disciples as He's about to leave them. What three things would you pray for your children if you knew you would die in 24 hours?”
I had already formulated some thoughts in my head, but they were confirmed when I read John 14:6. My first prayer would be that my “children” – and other loved ones – know Jesus. I mean, really KNOW Him! My second prayer would be that their every word, thought, deed and action would be guided by God…that they would be so in tune with Him through prayer, Bible study and Christian fellowship that He directs their every breath. My third prayer would be that they always love others as Jesus loves them…that they would be tolerant, accepting, gracious, merciful, compassionate, and forgiving…without exception.
I do not fear death – nor leaving others behind. I anticipate that they will join me in heaven someday. But if I knew that these three prayers would be accomplished in those I hold near and dear, I would have full confidence and peace in my departure. With this thought in mind, I am making it my goal to demonstrate these prayers in my own life…to model this Christian faithfulness and discipleship to those in my midst – whether I am here for one more minute or dozens of years. What about you?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 9, 2015
Galatians 2:4
While we were in conference we were infiltrated by spies pretending to be Christians, who slipped in to find out just how free true Christians are. Their ulterior motive was to reduce us to their brand of servitude. We didn’t give them the time of day. We were determined to preserve the truth of the Message for you.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Someone shared a link on Facebook to an article titled “Dear Church, Here's Why People Are Really Leaving You”* Of course, this title grabbed my attention…and I have to say, the article is filled with valid points. As I read this scripture passage from Galatians, I was reminded of one particular comment made in “Point #5”…
I encourage you to spend some time in prayer and Bible study and determine “the truth of the Message”…then do everything you can to preserve it. Honor your relationship with God – and your commitment to Him - by turning a deaf ear to the noise of those who have ulterior motives and/or a personal agenda. Appreciate that your fellow believer’s “path” may not be exactly like yours…that his/her missions and ministries may not exactly line up with yours – and that’s okay.
As long as we are serving God with an obedient, faithful heart, we belong to Him…and God is bigger than any “church”. If we are the problem – from either side of the equation – it’s time that we made some changes. This is a good day to begin…wouldn’t you agree?
©2015 Debbie Robus
*http://www.faithit.com/dear-church-heres-why-people-are-really-leaving-you/.VK7OXdDwj30.facebook
While we were in conference we were infiltrated by spies pretending to be Christians, who slipped in to find out just how free true Christians are. Their ulterior motive was to reduce us to their brand of servitude. We didn’t give them the time of day. We were determined to preserve the truth of the Message for you.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Someone shared a link on Facebook to an article titled “Dear Church, Here's Why People Are Really Leaving You”* Of course, this title grabbed my attention…and I have to say, the article is filled with valid points. As I read this scripture passage from Galatians, I was reminded of one particular comment made in “Point #5”…
I let you know how judged and ridiculed I feel when I'm with you, how much like a hopeless, failing outsider I feel on the periphery of your inward, judgmental communities, and you proceeded to tell me how "lost" I am, how hopelessly "in love with my sin" I must be to leave you, reminding me that I never really belonged with you anyway. Maybe you're right, Church. Maybe I am the problem.We always have to guard our heart – against discrimination and intolerance of others, AND against those who wish to judge us and make our relationship with God look just like theirs or fit their personal agenda. You do not have to “drink the Kool-Aid” for every single idea your fellow church members have. You should not be pressured with guilt or shamed into participating in missions or practices that you know in your heart are not what God has ordained for you. You don’t have to agree with the pervading positions on politics, economics, lifestyle choices, cultural differences, and more. Just because “everyone else is doing it” doesn’t make it right for you…even in the church!
I encourage you to spend some time in prayer and Bible study and determine “the truth of the Message”…then do everything you can to preserve it. Honor your relationship with God – and your commitment to Him - by turning a deaf ear to the noise of those who have ulterior motives and/or a personal agenda. Appreciate that your fellow believer’s “path” may not be exactly like yours…that his/her missions and ministries may not exactly line up with yours – and that’s okay.
As long as we are serving God with an obedient, faithful heart, we belong to Him…and God is bigger than any “church”. If we are the problem – from either side of the equation – it’s time that we made some changes. This is a good day to begin…wouldn’t you agree?
©2015 Debbie Robus
*http://www.faithit.com/dear-church-heres-why-people-are-really-leaving-you/.VK7OXdDwj30.facebook
Daily Devotional for January 8, 2015
Ephesians 4:2
Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
I finally got all of our Christmas decorations taken down and packed away for another year. As I “undressed” the Christmas trees (yes, we have more than one!), and boxed up my nativity collection, the thought occurred to me more than once…”These are going in a plastic bin upstairs in the attic…no need to wrap each one so carefully.”
Then I considered these ornaments and decorations…which are truly just “things”…but they represent so much more. There are the ornaments that my students lovingly gave to me almost 40 years ago…the wooden pieces I painted by number in our first years of marriage…the precious decorations my Mam-ma Polly made for us, and the delicate trinkets I inherited from my maternal grandparents’ tree. There are nativity sets that I purchased with a beloved cousin and sister-in-law who share similar tastes and interests…the plaster set that I rescued at the estate sale of my mom’s first-grade teacher…and the Madonnas that I have purchased at the local estate sales of people who made a difference in my life – and now celebrate Christmas every day in heaven.
Virtually every piece tells a story…has some sort of meaning. But even those that were merely bought at an after-Christmas-sale or have been broken and glued back together have worth and deserve careful treatment. And that’s what God is telling us in this verse. Each one of His creatures is precious. We are no better than the next person. We must make allowances for the faults and flaws of others – just as they (hopefully) do for us.
So this year, I gently covered my decorations in tissue and bubble-wrap. I sorted and cleaned and carefully boxed away these “things” that help to make the holidays so cozy and special. I set aside a few items to mend and rejuvenate…and I gave care to even the most pedestrian ornaments and trinkets. I thank God that He does this for me each and every day…and I am going to step up my game with regard to how I treat others in His kingdom. Are you with me?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
I finally got all of our Christmas decorations taken down and packed away for another year. As I “undressed” the Christmas trees (yes, we have more than one!), and boxed up my nativity collection, the thought occurred to me more than once…”These are going in a plastic bin upstairs in the attic…no need to wrap each one so carefully.”
Then I considered these ornaments and decorations…which are truly just “things”…but they represent so much more. There are the ornaments that my students lovingly gave to me almost 40 years ago…the wooden pieces I painted by number in our first years of marriage…the precious decorations my Mam-ma Polly made for us, and the delicate trinkets I inherited from my maternal grandparents’ tree. There are nativity sets that I purchased with a beloved cousin and sister-in-law who share similar tastes and interests…the plaster set that I rescued at the estate sale of my mom’s first-grade teacher…and the Madonnas that I have purchased at the local estate sales of people who made a difference in my life – and now celebrate Christmas every day in heaven.
Virtually every piece tells a story…has some sort of meaning. But even those that were merely bought at an after-Christmas-sale or have been broken and glued back together have worth and deserve careful treatment. And that’s what God is telling us in this verse. Each one of His creatures is precious. We are no better than the next person. We must make allowances for the faults and flaws of others – just as they (hopefully) do for us.
So this year, I gently covered my decorations in tissue and bubble-wrap. I sorted and cleaned and carefully boxed away these “things” that help to make the holidays so cozy and special. I set aside a few items to mend and rejuvenate…and I gave care to even the most pedestrian ornaments and trinkets. I thank God that He does this for me each and every day…and I am going to step up my game with regard to how I treat others in His kingdom. Are you with me?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 7, 2015
Amos 3:1-2
Listen to this, Israel. God is calling you to account—and I mean all of you, everyone connected with the family that he delivered out of Egypt. Listen!
“Out of all the families on earth, I picked you.
Therefore, because of your special calling,
I’m holding you responsible for all your sins.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
“Great gifts mean great responsibilities…” (Luke 12:48)
Probably all of us got at least ONE gift for Christmas. And I would venture to say that the person who gave us that gift put some time and effort into selecting something that was just right for us. This person most likely anticipated that we would take care of said gift…that we would treat it with respect and care. The same can be said for God and His precious reward of salvation through the blood of Jesus Christ.
God gave us His most thoughtful, most loving, most carefully planned gift. He chose us to be His children…His beloved…His redeemed. Like all presents, nothing is required in return once the offering is accepted. However, the “giver” does anticipate that we will honor and respect the bequest.
How do we do this with God’s gift of Jesus? We strive to honor and emulate Him in everything we say and do. We stay away from gossip, intolerance, discrimination and disagreement. We distance ourselves from dishonesty and deceit. We strive to love others as He loves us…and we pay attention to the needs of those around us – and do our best to meet them in His name. Does this sound like a lot in return for one gift? You bet it is! But consider the GIFT!
Hear God’s words again…”I picked YOU!” Such an amazing endowment deserves our utmost care and respect…and God will hold you responsible for how you treat Him and His endowment. So…how well are you doing these days?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Listen to this, Israel. God is calling you to account—and I mean all of you, everyone connected with the family that he delivered out of Egypt. Listen!
“Out of all the families on earth, I picked you.
Therefore, because of your special calling,
I’m holding you responsible for all your sins.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
“Great gifts mean great responsibilities…” (Luke 12:48)
Probably all of us got at least ONE gift for Christmas. And I would venture to say that the person who gave us that gift put some time and effort into selecting something that was just right for us. This person most likely anticipated that we would take care of said gift…that we would treat it with respect and care. The same can be said for God and His precious reward of salvation through the blood of Jesus Christ.
God gave us His most thoughtful, most loving, most carefully planned gift. He chose us to be His children…His beloved…His redeemed. Like all presents, nothing is required in return once the offering is accepted. However, the “giver” does anticipate that we will honor and respect the bequest.
How do we do this with God’s gift of Jesus? We strive to honor and emulate Him in everything we say and do. We stay away from gossip, intolerance, discrimination and disagreement. We distance ourselves from dishonesty and deceit. We strive to love others as He loves us…and we pay attention to the needs of those around us – and do our best to meet them in His name. Does this sound like a lot in return for one gift? You bet it is! But consider the GIFT!
Hear God’s words again…”I picked YOU!” Such an amazing endowment deserves our utmost care and respect…and God will hold you responsible for how you treat Him and His endowment. So…how well are you doing these days?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 6, 2014
Acts 10:44-48
While Peter was still speaking, the Holy Spirit took control of everyone who was listening. Some Jewish followers of the Lord had come with Peter, and they were surprised that the Holy Spirit had been given to Gentiles. Now they were hearing Gentiles speaking unknown languages and praising God.
Peter said, “These Gentiles have been given the Holy Spirit, just as we have! I am certain that no one would dare stop us from baptizing them.” Peter ordered them to be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, and they asked him to stay on for a few days.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
For more than a quarter century, our community held a fall festival that included a big parade on Saturday. One year in the 1970s, a Little Rock television station sent a camera man to cover the event from the roof top of a store on Main Street. This was like “free publicity” for our festival. But there was one problem. The camera man was black…and at that time, virtually everyone in our community was white. I am ashamed to say that this man’s presence was the “talk of the town” – for weeks.
Never mind that he was a human being just like every single one of us. Forget that he was here doing a job…and doing it well - and for the benefit of our community. Don’t consider that he might have been a husband, father…and maybe even a faithful member of a church congregation in his own community. All most people saw was the color of his skin…and it was not the same as theirs. And they could not get over it.
Thankfully, we have evolved…a little. There is still much work to be done. We gawk at people and are critical and condescending when they are “different”. We laugh at the “People of Wal-Mart” videos…and we look down our noses at those who enter our sanctuaries looking dirty or disheveled…wearing clothing that is not what we consider appropriate…sporting hairstyles and body art that are “out there”…or smelling a little “off”. We pigeon-hole children at an early age as coming from “one of those families”…and we are scared to death of those who are from certain ethnicities or express a different sexual orientation. And none of this lines up with the teachings of Jesus.
Pay close attention to Peter’s words to the church. God loves these people just as much as He loves you and me – and many of them are fellow believers! I think it’s going to be amazing when we get to heaven and see who all is there. Some of us may be quite shocked!
The time has come for us to open our hearts and minds...to see others as God sees them…to understand that you and I do not corner the market on God’s love – or the promise of eternity in heaven. It is time to open our arms and welcome others…just as Jesus does…to see them as Jesus sees them…and to operate in His love, tolerance and inclusion. God does not discriminate…and neither should we!
©2015 Debbie Robus
While Peter was still speaking, the Holy Spirit took control of everyone who was listening. Some Jewish followers of the Lord had come with Peter, and they were surprised that the Holy Spirit had been given to Gentiles. Now they were hearing Gentiles speaking unknown languages and praising God.
Peter said, “These Gentiles have been given the Holy Spirit, just as we have! I am certain that no one would dare stop us from baptizing them.” Peter ordered them to be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, and they asked him to stay on for a few days.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
For more than a quarter century, our community held a fall festival that included a big parade on Saturday. One year in the 1970s, a Little Rock television station sent a camera man to cover the event from the roof top of a store on Main Street. This was like “free publicity” for our festival. But there was one problem. The camera man was black…and at that time, virtually everyone in our community was white. I am ashamed to say that this man’s presence was the “talk of the town” – for weeks.
Never mind that he was a human being just like every single one of us. Forget that he was here doing a job…and doing it well - and for the benefit of our community. Don’t consider that he might have been a husband, father…and maybe even a faithful member of a church congregation in his own community. All most people saw was the color of his skin…and it was not the same as theirs. And they could not get over it.
Thankfully, we have evolved…a little. There is still much work to be done. We gawk at people and are critical and condescending when they are “different”. We laugh at the “People of Wal-Mart” videos…and we look down our noses at those who enter our sanctuaries looking dirty or disheveled…wearing clothing that is not what we consider appropriate…sporting hairstyles and body art that are “out there”…or smelling a little “off”. We pigeon-hole children at an early age as coming from “one of those families”…and we are scared to death of those who are from certain ethnicities or express a different sexual orientation. And none of this lines up with the teachings of Jesus.
Pay close attention to Peter’s words to the church. God loves these people just as much as He loves you and me – and many of them are fellow believers! I think it’s going to be amazing when we get to heaven and see who all is there. Some of us may be quite shocked!
The time has come for us to open our hearts and minds...to see others as God sees them…to understand that you and I do not corner the market on God’s love – or the promise of eternity in heaven. It is time to open our arms and welcome others…just as Jesus does…to see them as Jesus sees them…and to operate in His love, tolerance and inclusion. God does not discriminate…and neither should we!
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 5, 2015
Acts 10:34-36
Peter fairly exploded with his good news: “It’s God’s own truth, nothing could be plainer: God plays no favorites! It makes no difference who you are or where you’re from—if you want God and are ready to do as he says, the door is open. The Message he sent to the children of Israel—that through Jesus Christ everything is being put together again—well, he’s doing it everywhere, among everyone.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Greg and I have enjoyed watching the Arkansas Razorbacks teams play – particularly football and basketball – for several decades. Over the years, we have not really had “favorites” on the teams. But I have to say, this year, I am pretty fond of sophomore basketball forward Bobby Portis. This kid is 6'11”, 242 pounds of pure awesomeness on the court. The reports from his coaches are that he is a hard worker who spends endless hours perfecting his skills…and it shows. As of December 23, Portis was the only player in the SEC in the top 4 in scoring, rebounding and field goal percentage.
But what impressed me the most about Bobby Portis was his off-court story. In an article published December 30, 2014, on ESPN.go.com*, writer Myron Medcalf tells of how Portis defended himself and his mother against her drunken, abusive boyfriend. He also tells how Portis and his family came home – more than once during his teenage years – to find all of their belongings on the lawn in front of an apartment from which they had been kicked out. At one point, Portis even slept on the floor of a 2-bedroom residence that served as “home” to nine people.
Now, Portis plays basketball for the Arkansas Razorbacks and seems destined for a career in the NBA. He credits former Arkansas Razorback stand-out and NBA forward Corliss Williamson, who coached this young man’s AAU basketball team, with giving him more than just good instruction and encouragement on the court. Portis says that Williamson “gave me love” – and that were it not for Williamson, he doesn’t know what he would have done.
There are a lot of people in this world who need love and encouragement. They may not all possess the athletic ability of Bobby Portis…but that doesn’t matter – or make them any less important. Let’s make this the year that we look around and reach out to those who need love and encouragement…people who desperately need to know how much God loves them. Let’s open our hearts and minds – and our arms – to the ones in our midst who need to feel our acceptance and inclusion. Let’s share the Good News that Jesus offers to each and every one of us – and truly give others the idea that THEY are just as significant to Him as the next person.
God plays no favorites…and neither should we. His door is open to everyone who wants a relationship with Him. Are you as tolerant and welcoming? Isn’t it time you were?
©2015 Debbie Robus
*http://espn.go.com/mens-college-basketball/story/_/id/12092388/arkansas-bobby-portis-overcomes-poverty-violence-prosper
Peter fairly exploded with his good news: “It’s God’s own truth, nothing could be plainer: God plays no favorites! It makes no difference who you are or where you’re from—if you want God and are ready to do as he says, the door is open. The Message he sent to the children of Israel—that through Jesus Christ everything is being put together again—well, he’s doing it everywhere, among everyone.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Greg and I have enjoyed watching the Arkansas Razorbacks teams play – particularly football and basketball – for several decades. Over the years, we have not really had “favorites” on the teams. But I have to say, this year, I am pretty fond of sophomore basketball forward Bobby Portis. This kid is 6'11”, 242 pounds of pure awesomeness on the court. The reports from his coaches are that he is a hard worker who spends endless hours perfecting his skills…and it shows. As of December 23, Portis was the only player in the SEC in the top 4 in scoring, rebounding and field goal percentage.
But what impressed me the most about Bobby Portis was his off-court story. In an article published December 30, 2014, on ESPN.go.com*, writer Myron Medcalf tells of how Portis defended himself and his mother against her drunken, abusive boyfriend. He also tells how Portis and his family came home – more than once during his teenage years – to find all of their belongings on the lawn in front of an apartment from which they had been kicked out. At one point, Portis even slept on the floor of a 2-bedroom residence that served as “home” to nine people.
Now, Portis plays basketball for the Arkansas Razorbacks and seems destined for a career in the NBA. He credits former Arkansas Razorback stand-out and NBA forward Corliss Williamson, who coached this young man’s AAU basketball team, with giving him more than just good instruction and encouragement on the court. Portis says that Williamson “gave me love” – and that were it not for Williamson, he doesn’t know what he would have done.
There are a lot of people in this world who need love and encouragement. They may not all possess the athletic ability of Bobby Portis…but that doesn’t matter – or make them any less important. Let’s make this the year that we look around and reach out to those who need love and encouragement…people who desperately need to know how much God loves them. Let’s open our hearts and minds – and our arms – to the ones in our midst who need to feel our acceptance and inclusion. Let’s share the Good News that Jesus offers to each and every one of us – and truly give others the idea that THEY are just as significant to Him as the next person.
God plays no favorites…and neither should we. His door is open to everyone who wants a relationship with Him. Are you as tolerant and welcoming? Isn’t it time you were?
©2015 Debbie Robus
*http://espn.go.com/mens-college-basketball/story/_/id/12092388/arkansas-bobby-portis-overcomes-poverty-violence-prosper
Daily Devotional for January 4, 2015
Acts 10:27-28
As Peter entered the house, he was still talking with Cornelius. Many people were there, and Peter said to them, “You know that we Jews are not allowed to have anything to do with other people. But God has shown me that he doesn’t think anyone is unclean or unfit.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
At some point in our lives, we have probably all walked into a room and thought, “I don’t belong here.” Maybe you stumbled into the wrong meeting room during a conference – or the wrong classroom at school. Perhaps you entered a room where a club meeting or party was in session – and you were not a member. Or maybe you walked into a store or restaurant where others looked at you as if you were not “high-class” enough to be there.
Worse yet, maybe you entered a church and felt out of place. You weren’t familiar with the music, the rituals, where to sit, when to stand or kneel…and you just felt out of place – and maybe a little unwelcome. And no one seemed to do anything to change that.
Sadly…a lot of us were indoctrinated as young children with the idea that not all people are the same…for one reason or another. We all learn pretty early about “clubs” – who is “in” and who is “out”. And we learn to discriminate…sometimes artfully – and other times with what borders on downright cruelty. I’m sorry to say it, but often, this plays out most skillfully among people who claim to be Christians.
Hear Peter’s words to Cornelius and the others…”God has shown me that He doesn’t think anyone is unclean or unfit.” If God doesn’t feel this way…how on earth can we? The time has come for us to examine how we treat others – everything from our words and actions to our body language. Where have we discriminated? How have we acted with an air of superiority? Who have we disrespected and disparaged? What have we done…and how do we correct this?
Search your heart and see if there are any situations in which you have said and done things that made others feel uncomfortable…like they were on the outside looking in…and/or unloved and unwelcome. Then ask God to show you how to make necessary changes...to begin to operate like He does - with grace, mercy, compassion, forgiveness, love and care and acceptance for everyone - whether they are “in your league” or not.
God does not think anyone is "unclean or unfit"…so what makes us think that we should?
©2015 Debbie Robus
As Peter entered the house, he was still talking with Cornelius. Many people were there, and Peter said to them, “You know that we Jews are not allowed to have anything to do with other people. But God has shown me that he doesn’t think anyone is unclean or unfit.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
At some point in our lives, we have probably all walked into a room and thought, “I don’t belong here.” Maybe you stumbled into the wrong meeting room during a conference – or the wrong classroom at school. Perhaps you entered a room where a club meeting or party was in session – and you were not a member. Or maybe you walked into a store or restaurant where others looked at you as if you were not “high-class” enough to be there.
Worse yet, maybe you entered a church and felt out of place. You weren’t familiar with the music, the rituals, where to sit, when to stand or kneel…and you just felt out of place – and maybe a little unwelcome. And no one seemed to do anything to change that.
Sadly…a lot of us were indoctrinated as young children with the idea that not all people are the same…for one reason or another. We all learn pretty early about “clubs” – who is “in” and who is “out”. And we learn to discriminate…sometimes artfully – and other times with what borders on downright cruelty. I’m sorry to say it, but often, this plays out most skillfully among people who claim to be Christians.
Hear Peter’s words to Cornelius and the others…”God has shown me that He doesn’t think anyone is unclean or unfit.” If God doesn’t feel this way…how on earth can we? The time has come for us to examine how we treat others – everything from our words and actions to our body language. Where have we discriminated? How have we acted with an air of superiority? Who have we disrespected and disparaged? What have we done…and how do we correct this?
Search your heart and see if there are any situations in which you have said and done things that made others feel uncomfortable…like they were on the outside looking in…and/or unloved and unwelcome. Then ask God to show you how to make necessary changes...to begin to operate like He does - with grace, mercy, compassion, forgiveness, love and care and acceptance for everyone - whether they are “in your league” or not.
God does not think anyone is "unclean or unfit"…so what makes us think that we should?
©2015 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for December 28, 2014
1 Peter 3:8-9
Finally, all of you should agree and have concern and love for each other. You should also be kind and humble. Don’t be hateful and insult people just because they are hateful and insult you. Instead, treat everyone with kindness. You are God’s chosen ones, and he will bless you.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
When New York City mayor Bill DeBlasio spoke at the funeral of slain NYPD office Rafael Ramos, hundreds of policemen who had gathered outside the church turned their backs to the building in a sign of dissatisfaction with the mayor. The police union officials maintain that DeBlasio made comments that fostered mistrust in the city’s police force. This gesture was meant as an insult to the mayor…but some claim that it served no good purpose at this event. And scripture would tend to bear support this.
Do not misunderstand me. We live in a country where people are free to express their opinions. We’ve heard a lot about “peaceful protest” of late…and I guess this response could qualify. But at the same time, we have to look at the big picture – and at least TRY to see things the way God sees them.
In God’s eyes, we are all equals…capable of doing great good – and great evil. After church today, Timothy was expressing how he tries to be good, but sometimes he is not. I reminded him that we all have to work at “being good”…and at times, we all fall short. But we keep trying. He said, “But it’s a lot of work!” And he is right! And sometimes, loving others and offering them grace and mercy in the face of disappointments, hurts and insults is really hard! But we don’t have to look very far to find the perfect Example of this in action - Jesus Christ.
We will never be insulted, disappointed, hurt, disrespected, or mistreated like Jesus. Yet He took it all…and He did this for us! Jesus treated everyone with kindness…even those who were nailing Him to the cross. He asked God to forgive them…reminding God that they didn’t have a clue what they were really doing! Jesus demonstrated for each of us exactly how we are to treat others…regardless of what is done to us in return.
So the question becomes…”Do you want to be like Jesus?” If your answer is “Yes,” then you cannot turn your back on others…physically or figuratively. You cannot hurl insults, operate with intolerance, or treat others unkindly. You must “take the high road” – even when every fiber of your being wants to respond otherwise. Anything less than this essentially amounts to turning your back on Jesus. And none of us wants to do that.
©2014 Debbie Robus
Finally, all of you should agree and have concern and love for each other. You should also be kind and humble. Don’t be hateful and insult people just because they are hateful and insult you. Instead, treat everyone with kindness. You are God’s chosen ones, and he will bless you.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
When New York City mayor Bill DeBlasio spoke at the funeral of slain NYPD office Rafael Ramos, hundreds of policemen who had gathered outside the church turned their backs to the building in a sign of dissatisfaction with the mayor. The police union officials maintain that DeBlasio made comments that fostered mistrust in the city’s police force. This gesture was meant as an insult to the mayor…but some claim that it served no good purpose at this event. And scripture would tend to bear support this.
Do not misunderstand me. We live in a country where people are free to express their opinions. We’ve heard a lot about “peaceful protest” of late…and I guess this response could qualify. But at the same time, we have to look at the big picture – and at least TRY to see things the way God sees them.
In God’s eyes, we are all equals…capable of doing great good – and great evil. After church today, Timothy was expressing how he tries to be good, but sometimes he is not. I reminded him that we all have to work at “being good”…and at times, we all fall short. But we keep trying. He said, “But it’s a lot of work!” And he is right! And sometimes, loving others and offering them grace and mercy in the face of disappointments, hurts and insults is really hard! But we don’t have to look very far to find the perfect Example of this in action - Jesus Christ.
We will never be insulted, disappointed, hurt, disrespected, or mistreated like Jesus. Yet He took it all…and He did this for us! Jesus treated everyone with kindness…even those who were nailing Him to the cross. He asked God to forgive them…reminding God that they didn’t have a clue what they were really doing! Jesus demonstrated for each of us exactly how we are to treat others…regardless of what is done to us in return.
So the question becomes…”Do you want to be like Jesus?” If your answer is “Yes,” then you cannot turn your back on others…physically or figuratively. You cannot hurl insults, operate with intolerance, or treat others unkindly. You must “take the high road” – even when every fiber of your being wants to respond otherwise. Anything less than this essentially amounts to turning your back on Jesus. And none of us wants to do that.
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for December 27, 2014
1 Corinthians 10:6-7, 10
The same thing could happen to us. We must be on guard so that we never get caught up in wanting our own way as they did. And we must not turn our religion into a circus as they did—“First the people partied, then they threw a dance.”
We must be careful not to stir up discontent; discontent destroyed them.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
“Attitude…not aptitude…determines altitude.” - Zig Ziglar
Our kids did not get expensive gifts for Christmas this year. Yet more than once, Timothy declared this “…the BEST Christmas EVER!” Our nephew’s wife posted a photo of their 6-month-old daughter, surrounded by Christmas gifts…and playing with a water bottle! While children are often content with the simplest of objects, toys or situations, they are also masters at wanting things their own way – and doing whatever it takes to achieve this. And a lot of us have continued this manipulation into our adulthood.
It might be cute on a 5-year-old or a six-month-old, but selfishness and discord are not attractive traits as we get older. Our 3-year-old Zola was adorable when she told me that she wanted to stay overnight with us…then pointed to 5-year-old Timothy and said, “but I don’t want HIM to stay!” It’s not pretty at all when we adults say, “This person is welcome…but HE/SHE is not!”…based on their appearance, their opinions, their lifestyle choices, and more.
God sent Jesus to earth to share love, grace, mercy, compassion and salvation with ALL of us. Jesus came that we might have abundant, joyful, and peaceful life…that we might get along as brothers and sisters in Him. Just like a child favors some Christmas gifts over others, we won’t always enjoy the presence of every single one of God’s creatures. People and situations will rub us the wrong way at times – even big brothers and little sisters! But when we look UP…when we keep our focus on Jesus and strive to emulate His teachings, our attitude can’t help but improve.
It’s not about you – or me…it’s about Jesus. When we figure this out and call on Him to show us how to make “life” work, we are elevated in His love and grace. Our attitude does indeed determine our altitude. How high are you ready to soar with Jesus?
©2014 Debbie Robus
The same thing could happen to us. We must be on guard so that we never get caught up in wanting our own way as they did. And we must not turn our religion into a circus as they did—“First the people partied, then they threw a dance.”
We must be careful not to stir up discontent; discontent destroyed them.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
“Attitude…not aptitude…determines altitude.” - Zig Ziglar
Our kids did not get expensive gifts for Christmas this year. Yet more than once, Timothy declared this “…the BEST Christmas EVER!” Our nephew’s wife posted a photo of their 6-month-old daughter, surrounded by Christmas gifts…and playing with a water bottle! While children are often content with the simplest of objects, toys or situations, they are also masters at wanting things their own way – and doing whatever it takes to achieve this. And a lot of us have continued this manipulation into our adulthood.
It might be cute on a 5-year-old or a six-month-old, but selfishness and discord are not attractive traits as we get older. Our 3-year-old Zola was adorable when she told me that she wanted to stay overnight with us…then pointed to 5-year-old Timothy and said, “but I don’t want HIM to stay!” It’s not pretty at all when we adults say, “This person is welcome…but HE/SHE is not!”…based on their appearance, their opinions, their lifestyle choices, and more.
God sent Jesus to earth to share love, grace, mercy, compassion and salvation with ALL of us. Jesus came that we might have abundant, joyful, and peaceful life…that we might get along as brothers and sisters in Him. Just like a child favors some Christmas gifts over others, we won’t always enjoy the presence of every single one of God’s creatures. People and situations will rub us the wrong way at times – even big brothers and little sisters! But when we look UP…when we keep our focus on Jesus and strive to emulate His teachings, our attitude can’t help but improve.
It’s not about you – or me…it’s about Jesus. When we figure this out and call on Him to show us how to make “life” work, we are elevated in His love and grace. Our attitude does indeed determine our altitude. How high are you ready to soar with Jesus?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 15, 2013
Psalm 103:1-5
With all my heart
I praise the Lord,
and with all that I am
I praise his holy name!
With all my heart
I praise the Lord!
I will never forget
how kind he has been.
The Lord forgives our sins,
heals us when we are sick,
and protects us from death.
His kindness and love
are a crown on our heads.
Each day that we live,
he provides for our needs
and gives us the strength
of a young eagle.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I was watching a video of my former pastor, John Miles, who is conducting a sermon series on “the hard sayings of Jesus.” On this particular day, Bro. John was talking about a passage from Matthew 19 (verses 7-11), in which the Pharisees tried to trip Jesus up by asking Him about whether divorce was okay. As Bro. John unraveled these verses and dug deeper, he suggested that Jesus spoke past these opponents and addressed a far broader issue. In this case, he maintains that Jesus was demonstrating how we objectify people and things. In other words, we put the focus on “marriage” and “divorce” instead of the people who are involved.
Several examples were given of how we objectify people… how lust, infidelity, and pornography – or even labels like “my husband”, “my wife” [rather than by their first name] - objectify those involved, and we don’t see them as real people with a heart and soul. He talked about how we seem to enjoy arguing about abortion, homosexuality, and other hot-button issues – to the point that we are focused on the label, not the people involved. One person tearfully mentioned to my pastor as they debated a particularly hot topic… “You just don’t know.” Clearly, this person had firsthand knowledge of the issue that my pastor did not possess. And in that moment, he saw a human being – a child of God who was struggling and in need of love and acceptance.
So what does this have to do with our scripture verses in Psalm 103? Everything! If you don’t believe me, go back and read the second half of the passage. The Lord forgives our sins… heals us when we are sick…provides for our needs… gives us the strength of a young eagle… and crowns us with His kindness and love. How can we do any less for those in our midst? The pastor concluded his sermon by noting that none of us are perfect… we all have fallen short in one area or another… yet we are all welcome at God’s table. And we should be welcome among fellow believers! He said several people had come to him over the years and confessed to one sin or another and asked… “Can I still receive Communion?” His answer is… “If God will allow me to serve it… you are allowed to receive it.”
Shouldn’t this be our continual thought? If God allows us to receive his love, kindness, care, protection, strength and healing… who are we to offer any less to others? What gives us the right to objectify – or judge – another creature? When we criticize – or exclude – another person, have we considered our own faults and shortcomings… and the grace and mercy God extends to us? Isn’t it time to drop the piety and pretense… to humbly and gratefully give God the praise for loving us all so incredibly… and to offer this same love to others? Will this be the day that we find true peace in God’s acceptance… and extend it to others in our midst?
©2013 Debbie Robus
With all my heart
I praise the Lord,
and with all that I am
I praise his holy name!
With all my heart
I praise the Lord!
I will never forget
how kind he has been.
The Lord forgives our sins,
heals us when we are sick,
and protects us from death.
His kindness and love
are a crown on our heads.
Each day that we live,
he provides for our needs
and gives us the strength
of a young eagle.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I was watching a video of my former pastor, John Miles, who is conducting a sermon series on “the hard sayings of Jesus.” On this particular day, Bro. John was talking about a passage from Matthew 19 (verses 7-11), in which the Pharisees tried to trip Jesus up by asking Him about whether divorce was okay. As Bro. John unraveled these verses and dug deeper, he suggested that Jesus spoke past these opponents and addressed a far broader issue. In this case, he maintains that Jesus was demonstrating how we objectify people and things. In other words, we put the focus on “marriage” and “divorce” instead of the people who are involved.
Several examples were given of how we objectify people… how lust, infidelity, and pornography – or even labels like “my husband”, “my wife” [rather than by their first name] - objectify those involved, and we don’t see them as real people with a heart and soul. He talked about how we seem to enjoy arguing about abortion, homosexuality, and other hot-button issues – to the point that we are focused on the label, not the people involved. One person tearfully mentioned to my pastor as they debated a particularly hot topic… “You just don’t know.” Clearly, this person had firsthand knowledge of the issue that my pastor did not possess. And in that moment, he saw a human being – a child of God who was struggling and in need of love and acceptance.
So what does this have to do with our scripture verses in Psalm 103? Everything! If you don’t believe me, go back and read the second half of the passage. The Lord forgives our sins… heals us when we are sick…provides for our needs… gives us the strength of a young eagle… and crowns us with His kindness and love. How can we do any less for those in our midst? The pastor concluded his sermon by noting that none of us are perfect… we all have fallen short in one area or another… yet we are all welcome at God’s table. And we should be welcome among fellow believers! He said several people had come to him over the years and confessed to one sin or another and asked… “Can I still receive Communion?” His answer is… “If God will allow me to serve it… you are allowed to receive it.”
Shouldn’t this be our continual thought? If God allows us to receive his love, kindness, care, protection, strength and healing… who are we to offer any less to others? What gives us the right to objectify – or judge – another creature? When we criticize – or exclude – another person, have we considered our own faults and shortcomings… and the grace and mercy God extends to us? Isn’t it time to drop the piety and pretense… to humbly and gratefully give God the praise for loving us all so incredibly… and to offer this same love to others? Will this be the day that we find true peace in God’s acceptance… and extend it to others in our midst?
©2013 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for June 29, 2013
Hebrews 2:11
So now Jesus and the ones he makes holy have the same Father. That is why Jesus is not ashamed to call them his brothers and sisters.
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Today would be my brother Tim’s 52nd birthday. It would also be the 50th birthday of a childhood friend who has passed…Dr. J. Aaron Little – the older son of my piano teacher. And today is the 49th birthday of my cousin, Darin, who grew up in Texas. We didn’t know each other well growing up… but our families have somewhat reconnected in the past year. While the bond with my brother was unimaginably strong, these other two men were/are “brothers” of sorts, as well. I spent countless hours in the Little home as a teenager, where I grew to love Aaron, his sister Lee Ann and brother Adam like family. We attended the same church growing up… the roots of our relationship run deep.
When my cousin Darin lost his dad last fall, the family gathered for his burial in a local family cemetery, where our shared ancestors are laid to rest. When my grandmother died in March, and many of these same cousins returned for her funeral and burial. In June, another cousin organized a family reunion. We got together to share photographs and memories of good times from the past, family history, and to “pick the brains” of the older relatives who can still remember Grandma and Grandpa and what things were like in this area decades ago.
There are several people in my life with whom I share no blood relation… but they could not be any more like a sister or brother to me if that were the case. I bet you can say the same. We share a bond… a mutual love and respect… and in most cases, a deep and abiding love for God. Ultimately, we are “blood related”… by the blood of Christ! This is why I think many of my most profound friendships and relationships can be traced back to childhood…and the church in which I was reared. We learned to love God together at an early age. I just made a mental list of more than half a dozen families from that era with whom I feel this “brotherly” and “sisterly” connection to this day.
In the world at large, we must acknowledge that millions are our brothers and sisters in Christ… and we must warmly embrace them – in our hearts, if not literally. We cannot judge… we must not exclude… we have to look for their good qualities and operate in peace and calm rather than discord and chaos. Just as in any “sibling relationship,” there are times when we will argue… when someone will cause us embarrassment or disappointment… when the other guy will say or do something that irritates (if not disgusts) us…when we will all experience a “less-than-proud” moment. But as “brothers and sisters in Christ,” we all share the same Heavenly Father. At the end of the day, we must not be ashamed of any of our family members.
There is great peace and comfort in “family” relationships. When someone is claiming to be a Christian and acting in an ungodly manner…saying things that are rude or crude…treating others unkindly or in a discriminatory fashion…operating with arrogance and an air of superiority and judgment… it’s hard to say, “That person is my brother/sister in Christ.” There is a temptation to act out toward this person… to feel hurt and disappointment…or to impose distance and/or a separation. But God is calling us to extend brotherly/sisterly love in Christ to these persons… to make every effort to live in harmony… to do whatever is necessary to get along. The old adage that “you can pick your friends… but not your family” is true - even in the body of Christ!
So today, I celebrate three men… all of whom probably got on my last nerve more than once as we grew up… and I celebrate the larger family of believers in Jesus Christ. I take great joy in knowing that I belong to such a big… and growing… family. The bond I feel with others who love Jesus so deeply gives me a tremendous peace and satisfaction… and in Jesus’ name, I long to encourage others to join the circle. Just imagine how glorious our “family reunion” will be when we get to Heaven!
What about you? Are you at peace with your Christian brothers and sisters? Do you feel the bond that comes from a shared love and acceptance in Jesus? Are there “siblings” who rub you the wrong way… both those you know personally and others you “know of”? Isn’t it time to start loving all of them with the love of Jesus… to drop the judgments and the feelings of irritation and/or ego – and to allow them the same latitude and grace you would hope they afford you?
Will this be the day you reconnect with some of your “family” members and embrace them… warts and all? Don’t you think it should be?
©2013 Debbie Robus
So now Jesus and the ones he makes holy have the same Father. That is why Jesus is not ashamed to call them his brothers and sisters.
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Today would be my brother Tim’s 52nd birthday. It would also be the 50th birthday of a childhood friend who has passed…Dr. J. Aaron Little – the older son of my piano teacher. And today is the 49th birthday of my cousin, Darin, who grew up in Texas. We didn’t know each other well growing up… but our families have somewhat reconnected in the past year. While the bond with my brother was unimaginably strong, these other two men were/are “brothers” of sorts, as well. I spent countless hours in the Little home as a teenager, where I grew to love Aaron, his sister Lee Ann and brother Adam like family. We attended the same church growing up… the roots of our relationship run deep.
When my cousin Darin lost his dad last fall, the family gathered for his burial in a local family cemetery, where our shared ancestors are laid to rest. When my grandmother died in March, and many of these same cousins returned for her funeral and burial. In June, another cousin organized a family reunion. We got together to share photographs and memories of good times from the past, family history, and to “pick the brains” of the older relatives who can still remember Grandma and Grandpa and what things were like in this area decades ago.
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| My sister Suzanne, me, my brother Tim, and my grandmother Polly, less than three weeks before Tim went to be with Jesus... September 1998. |
In the world at large, we must acknowledge that millions are our brothers and sisters in Christ… and we must warmly embrace them – in our hearts, if not literally. We cannot judge… we must not exclude… we have to look for their good qualities and operate in peace and calm rather than discord and chaos. Just as in any “sibling relationship,” there are times when we will argue… when someone will cause us embarrassment or disappointment… when the other guy will say or do something that irritates (if not disgusts) us…when we will all experience a “less-than-proud” moment. But as “brothers and sisters in Christ,” we all share the same Heavenly Father. At the end of the day, we must not be ashamed of any of our family members.
There is great peace and comfort in “family” relationships. When someone is claiming to be a Christian and acting in an ungodly manner…saying things that are rude or crude…treating others unkindly or in a discriminatory fashion…operating with arrogance and an air of superiority and judgment… it’s hard to say, “That person is my brother/sister in Christ.” There is a temptation to act out toward this person… to feel hurt and disappointment…or to impose distance and/or a separation. But God is calling us to extend brotherly/sisterly love in Christ to these persons… to make every effort to live in harmony… to do whatever is necessary to get along. The old adage that “you can pick your friends… but not your family” is true - even in the body of Christ!
So today, I celebrate three men… all of whom probably got on my last nerve more than once as we grew up… and I celebrate the larger family of believers in Jesus Christ. I take great joy in knowing that I belong to such a big… and growing… family. The bond I feel with others who love Jesus so deeply gives me a tremendous peace and satisfaction… and in Jesus’ name, I long to encourage others to join the circle. Just imagine how glorious our “family reunion” will be when we get to Heaven!
What about you? Are you at peace with your Christian brothers and sisters? Do you feel the bond that comes from a shared love and acceptance in Jesus? Are there “siblings” who rub you the wrong way… both those you know personally and others you “know of”? Isn’t it time to start loving all of them with the love of Jesus… to drop the judgments and the feelings of irritation and/or ego – and to allow them the same latitude and grace you would hope they afford you?
Will this be the day you reconnect with some of your “family” members and embrace them… warts and all? Don’t you think it should be?
©2013 Debbie Robus
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