Daily Devotional for January 11, 2017

2 Peter 1:20-21
For no prophecy recorded in Scripture was ever thought up by the prophet himself. It was the Holy Spirit within these godly men who gave them true messages from God.
    
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

One morning as the second graders in Timothy’s class lined up for lunch, another student and my nephew had an interesting conversation about the presidential election – and who was “the best.”  They waffled back and forth as they debated all of this…and clearly, both were parroting what they had heard at home - and in the media.  But in their 7-year-old minds, these ideas and opinions were totally “theirs!”

On one level, this was cute.  On another, it was rather disturbing…because these children were forming opinions and spouting “facts” that were based completely on hearsay.  And yet, they claimed these thoughts as their own original ideas. Or…they adamantly stated that someone in authority had told them these things – so they must be true!

Far too many Christians give themselves too much credit. They play “judge and jury” based on their personal interpretation of God’s word.  They try to scare the pants off of others with their predictions that “based on Scripture…this or that is about to happen.”  Do you realize that the imminence of “end times” has been predicted for thousands of years?  Do not misunderstand me…I believe Jesus will return again for His church.  But we truly don’t know when…and living in fear of this is 1) disrespectful to our Christian faith; and 2) a scare tactic to try to manipulate others into giving their hearts to Jesus.  Attempts to interpret scripture to try to predict when the “end of the world” will happen are not our job as Christian disciples.

By the same token, we do not have God’s authority to interpret countless other prophecies and messages in scripture. Yes, God speaks to us through His Holy Word.  And quite frankly, He might use the same verse to guide us in one manner today…and in a totally different way tomorrow. This is God’s prerogative. But it is not our job to judge others and declare certain “truths” based on personal interpretation of scripture.

The bottom line is this…study God’s word and let Him use the scriptures to speak to you and guide you through your day. Share YOUR experiences with others about how God has spoken and directed you.  But do not declare yourself to be an authority…or your “ways” and interpretations to be infallible. Prayerfully petition God to always guide your words and actions…and to enable you to represent Him in the manner that is pleasing to Him and furthers His kingdom. 

In essence, don’t use your Christian discipleship as a “license” to dictate God’s directives to others. God is looking for humble servants and disciples…not know-it-alls and fear mongers.  What does your faith and discipleship demonstrate?

©2017 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 10, 2017

2 Corinthians 5:17
Anyone who belongs to Christ is a new person. The past is forgotten, and everything is new.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Yesterday would have been my cousin Eddie’s 70th birthday.  I told his daughter, “This means that in a few months, I will be SIXTY!”  She replied, “I think someone has messed that up…there’s no way!”  My sweet cousin always knows how to make my day!  But the truth is that in a few short months, I will indeed have lived six decades.

I have to say, there is no way I would want to start completely over.  Like everyone, there are situations and moments that I wish I could do over.  I would love to have the energy and stamina of my youth…less wrinkles…and a slimmer body.  But overall, I am comfortable with where I am in life.  As a cousin who is a few years older than I noted recently, I have a blessed life.  And as actress Sally Field noted in her role as the matriarch of the television series “Brothers and Sisters,” I’ve earned my wrinkles…they tell the story of my life!

The GOOD NEWS is that my life story is not told by my mistakes and transgressions.  And neither is yours.  If you have given your heart to Jesus, the past truly is forgotten, and everything is new.  Over and again, Jesus stands in the gap for us…because we are not perfect, and we will never be completely free of sin.  But now we can live in the comfort and assurance of knowing that when we make every effort to follow His commands and serve as we are directed, Jesus will indeed continue to wipe the slate clean in our favor.

I don’t know about you, but I cling to this promise that “the past is forgotten, and everything is new.”  Everyone loves a fresh start…from the first day of school, to a new car or house, to even a New Year!  But the best “fresh start” of all is the one we have in Jesus Christ.  This incredible gift is not to be taken lightly…or misused.  We must make every effort to show our extreme gratitude…and to be good stewards of God’s grace through Jesus.  With this in mind, I take on the next few months - and then a new decade - full of joy and anticipation for continued blessings and the assurance of Jesus’ amazing love and care.

My wrinkles and gravity may note my physical age…but on the inside, I am a new creature in Christ Jesus.  What about you?

©2017 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 3, 2017

1 John 2:7-11
My dear friends, I’m not writing anything new here. This is the oldest commandment in the book, and you’ve known it from day one. It’s always been implicit in the Message you’ve heard. On the other hand, perhaps it is new, freshly minted as it is in both Christ and you—the darkness on its way out and the True Light already blazing!

Anyone who claims to live in God’s light and hates a brother or sister is still in the dark. It’s the person who loves brother and sister who dwells in God’s light and doesn’t block the light from others. But whoever hates is still in the dark, stumbles around in the dark, doesn’t know which end is up, blinded by the darkness.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Timothy, Zola, and Nathan came to stay with us for a couple of days this week.  Their mother dropped them off yesterday morning as she went to work…and picked them up this evening as she headed home for the day.  So they were here two days and a night.

When we got in bed last night, the children begged me to leave some lights on.  They did not want to be in the dark.  Timmy said, “I wish the night wasn’t so creepy.”  Even during the daytime, if one of them would enter a dark hallway or room, they would ask for someone to come turn on a light.  Nathan would say, “That dark scares me!”  The dark was NOT a good place to be!  So I made lots of trips with the kids to retrieve a toy or something in a dark room…and last night, I left some lights on until all three kiddos were sound asleep.

Can I tell you something?  The darkness of hatred, judgment, bigotry, discrimination, unkindness, gossip, and other sinful behaviors – especially from those who claim to belong to Jesus – is pretty creepy and scary, too.  In fact, scripture tells us that this darkness indicates that we have not fully committed to Jesus…that essentially, our faith is pretty well a farce.

If you look up this word (farce) in a thesaurus, you will see the words shambles, travesty, circus, sham, mockery, charade, embarrassment, and disgrace, to name a few. Now think about your relationship with Jesus in these terms.  Doesn’t it make you just a little bit sick?  Is this really how you want Him to see you?

Now is the time to turn this around…to drop conditions and limitations, and go all in with Jesus.  Love your brothers and sisters and accept them where they are, as they are - and embrace them as Jesus does. Quit trying to play God and make decisions and judgments that are not yours to make.  Let go…and let Jesus have full control in your life…and operate in His brilliant light. “Anyone who claims to live in God’s light and hates a brother or sister is still in the dark.”  Where do you live these days?  

©2017 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 2, 2017

1 John 2:3-6
Here’s how we can be sure that we know God in the right way: Keep his commandments.

If someone claims, “I know him well!” but doesn’t keep his commandments, he’s obviously a liar. His life doesn’t match his words. But the one who keeps God’s word is the person in whom we see God’s mature love. This is the only way to be sure we’re in God. Anyone who claims to be intimate with God ought to live the same kind of life Jesus lived.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

My 7-year-old cousin, Owen, LOVES the color orange.  Do you know how I know this?  He wears orange all the time!  Other colors that run a close second in Owen’s wardrobe are royal blue and red. Owen shares a lot of clothes that he has outgrown with Timothy and Nathan…so our boys wear a lot of these colors, too.  Thankfully, they are glad to have the barely-worn clothes and like these hues, also.

If Owen claimed his favorite color was orange…but he wore fluorescent pink all the time, we would wonder about him!  We surely wouldn’t believe that orange was his color of choice!  His life would not match his words.

This is how a lot of people who claim to be Christians operate.  They essentially say, “The brilliant white of Jesus’ bright light is my favorite ‘color’.”  Then they consistently “wear” the dark colors of Satan’s black and red.  They treat others unkindly…use critical and foul language…lie, cheat and steal…gossip…judge and discriminate…and commit sins of all kinds.  And still, they show up at worship services, prayer walks, “Christian protests,” and Bible studies…cover themselves in clothing and jewelry that proclaims Jesus is their Lord and King…and never miss an opportunity to make a public showing of how “good” and faithful they are.

I have to tell you, this kind of Christian sullies the name of Jesus.  For the outside observer – especially those who are not yet believers or are young in their faith walk – these folks are nothing short of a phony!  How can their lives demonstrate what it means to surrender your heart to Jesus and strive to be like Him?  Honestly, people who act like this are some of the devil’s favorites, because they do his dirty work better than even his own agents can!

A friend told me one time that she felt like she knew a lot of people who claimed to be Christians – but very few who she believed truly were.  She was not passing judgment, per se…but she said that she could name about three people that she felt were “the real deal.”  I sure hope I was in that group!

I hope that my favorite color is the bright white of Jesus' love and grace – and that it shows. I may wear a lot of black and red in my physical clothing…but I pray that the darkness of the devil never dominates my heart and soul – or my Christian discipleship.  What about you?

©2017 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for December 30, 2016

1 Corinthians 8:8-9
But fortunately God doesn’t grade us on our diet. We’re neither commended when we clean our plate nor reprimanded when we just can’t stomach it. But God does care when you use your freedom carelessly in a way that leads a fellow believer still vulnerable to those old associations to be thrown off track.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
A man was found dead recently in a hot tub at a residence in Northwest Arkansas.  The homeowner possessed an Amazon Echo…a hands-free voice-controlled speaker.  When someone says, “Alexa” or “Amazon” (the names assigned to this device), the machine begins recording your questions or comments, and a response is then given. It’s sort of an “in-home Siri” for those who have a smart-phone and are familiar with this feature.  Police want to confiscate the Amazon Echo device as evidence in this particular death.  They want to examine this device to see if anyone in the home the night the death occurred might have said something that was recorded. Amazon is refusing to comply, citing privacy concerns.
  
Let’s just label this the monthly “People Are Watching” devotional!  We apparently need plenty of reminders about this idea, because related scriptures pop up in my outline every few weeks.

Here’s the thing…a lot of us think that what we say and do in the privacy of our own home or car is our business…that nobody should know – or care.  In truth, we are now surrounded with surveillance. Unless you have been under a rock, you know that you can be hacked, observed, followed and monitored – even as you sit and read this devotional!  I don’t mean to make us paranoid - and you can Google ways to protect yourself from hackers and other “spies” at home and online.  But the bottom line is that people.are.watching…and this SHOULD affect how we conduct ourselves at all times.

Our Timothy is particularly astute. Tell him something once…and he never seems to forget.  He is also extremely observant. So the old notion of “Do as I say – not as I do” confuses him to no end. And honestly…this should be a signal to us as “grown-ups” that we cannot play this both ways. We cannot call people names and expect our children – or anyone we encounter – to refrain from doing this. If you have ever watched a little kid pretend to “smoke” a “cigarette,” you know that they already assume that SOMEDAY, this will be okay for them in reality.  Actually, just sit quietly sometime and watch and listen as your kids play. Most likely, you will get a pretty good picture of how you sound and act in their presence…and it might be pretty enlightening!

At every turn, we need to examine what we say and do…and how we behave. We should continually be asking ourselves if anything about our demeanor could cause someone else to sin or backslide.  Yes, God is in the business of forgiving us when we “fall short”…but our daily goal should be to never give Him a reason to have to do so!  Most certainly, we should make every effort to conduct our lives in a manner that no one else is tempted to falter.  We should be so steeped in self-control through the power and strength of Jesus Christ that others want the same kind of relationship with Him that we enjoy.

Is there something that you are saying or doing that could cause another person to be thrown off track?  Could your words and actions actually result in distance between someone else and their relationship with Jesus?  Perhaps we need to think of God as our own personal “Echo”…listening and recording everything about us – and act accordingly.  Will this be the day that you give yourself a head-to-toe exam and discover where you might be exercising your freedom in the salvation of Jesus in a way that could be harmful to others?  Will you then ask God to help you make necessary adjustments?  Don’t you think you should?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for December 26, 2016

Titus 2:7-8
And here you yourself must be an example to them of good deeds of every kind. Let everything you do reflect your love of the truth and the fact that you are in dead earnest about it. Your conversation should be so sensible and logical that anyone who wants to argue will be ashamed of himself because there won’t be anything to criticize in anything you say!

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

“So-and-So said a bad word!” Adults hear that a lot from children. I also hear, “We can’t say bad words, because we’re kids. When we’re grown-ups, we can say it.”  I’ve seen children snicker in the classroom over a word they perceived to be “bad”…and tattle on each other for what they deemed to be inappropriate words and deeds.

I try to tell all children that “bad” words/behaviors are just that…a bad idea.  Even grown-ups shouldn’t participate in their usage. It’s hard to navigate this subject without appearing to criticize other adults…especially a child’s parents or others who are something of an authority figure. And with so many in the public eye using profanities and unkind phrases, it is indeed a slippery slope!  So I try to tell children, “You are smart…you know lots of great words to use – and you know how to behave nicely. Always make good choices!”

None of us is immune. I was putting Timmy in the car at school recently, and he kept saying, “I can’t fasten my seatbelt.”  I looked in the back seat…and before I could think, I said, “Well, dummy…you’re wearing your backpack!”  Boy, did I have to do some backpedaling and apologizing…and I did!  I told him that was a terrible name to call him…and I was so very sorry…that I should never use that word.  I’ve also tried to tell the children not to use words like “stupid and idiot” – and then I’ve heard them expressed in “kid’s” movies like “How the Grinch Stole Christmas!”  It’s a tough balancing act because so many unkind and inappropriate words and actions have become mainstream in media and personal conversation…and we HAVE become complacent about their usage.

So I have been reminded to stay on guard. My words to Timmy slipped out…but I need to be more careful.  A lot of things have a way of “slipping out” if we do not make a conscious effort to conduct ourselves in a manner that defies reproach.

God can help us with this.  We should take time every day to ask Him for guidance and guardianship over our words and actions.  We should steep ourselves in His word and the concept that “practice makes perfect”…and we should make concerted efforts to banish any hint of bad word usage or behavior that could be subject to criticism.  God has given us so much…the opportunity for salvation through Jesus Christ and the promise of Eternity in heaven…His love and care on this earth and forever at His feet…amazing blessings and abundances of all kinds.  How can we disrespect Him with words and behaviors that are untrue, inappropriate, or even downright shameful?

As we wind down this holiday season and look toward a New Year, let’s make a concerted effort to clean up our act…to be the kind of people spoken of in Titus 2:7-8.  The justification that we are earthly “grown-ups” doesn’t negate the fact that we will always be God’s “children,” so let’s remember this as we go about our day. Make sure that you strive to always represent our Heavenly Father in the best way possible.

We must never give anyone a reason to question our integrity - or our spiritual “lineage.”  Ask God to help you always make good choices – and never operate in bad ideas.

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for September 28, 2016

Mark 13:7-8    
Jesus began, “Watch out for doomsday deceivers. Many leaders are going to show up with forged identities claiming, ‘I’m the One.’ They will deceive a lot of people. When you hear of wars and rumored wars, keep your head and don’t panic. This is routine history, and no sign of the end. Nation will fight nation and ruler fight ruler, over and over. Earthquakes will occur in various places. There will be famines. But these things are nothing compared to what’s coming."

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

My mother used to say that the wars, crimes and atrocities we face today are nothing new. And indeed, if you read the Old Testament, you can learn about everything from the bloodiest, most heinous battle tactics to racism, sexism, and discrimination of every sort.  Babies were killed to prove a point.  There was torture and rape…and entire villages and tribes were decimated.  Centuries ago, “prophets” told of the end of the world as if it was imminent…and we’re still here.

Today, we are barraged with lies and/or grossly exaggerated claims at every turn.  For some reason, many people seem to delight in scaring the stuffing out of others with doomsday reports, while others have such inflated egos that they cannot seem to help but declare themselves the ultimate savior of all things that are wrong in the world.

So what are we to do?  Who do we trust?  How do we sift through all of the chatter and determine the truth?  We start with prayer…and a long, deep breath.  We “let go and let God”…and give Him our burdens and fears. We delve into the scriptures and let God’s word soak into our soul.  The truth is there, along with answers to virtually all of the questions we have - if we will only calm down and pay attention.

We also have to exercise our God-given common sense. We have to ask ourselves…”What is this person really saying…and what does GOD say about the same issues?”  If you will continue reading Mark 13 through at least verse 13, you will see that Jesus assures that the Holy Spirit will always be with us…and that those who persevere in their faith will be saved in the end.

Our Timothy has asked me several times lately, “Why are you and Uncle Greg always so happy?”  It appears that on some level, we are filling our little ones with a “gloom and doom” impression of the world.  Even they don’t understand how anyone could experience genuine and sustaining joy in light of all that is happening in the world.  My answer to the question of why I am always happy has become, “Because God blesses us and takes care of us.”

Yes, bad things happen. Yes…I sometimes have sadness and heartaches, just like everyone else – even Jesus.  But God is still with me…and He always will be.  No matter what, I will be saved in the end…and I choose to focus on this rather than the darkness and despair that so many are propagating.

Who do YOU trust?  More importantly, who do others believe you trust?  People are watching…are you showing them genuine faith in Jesus?  Don’t you think you should be?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 30, 2016

John 18:33-37
Meanwhile, the apostles were meeting regularly at the Temple in the area known as Pilate went back into the palace and called for Jesus. He said, “Are you the ‘King of the Jews’?”

Jesus answered, “Are you saying this on your own, or did others tell you this about me?”

Pilate said, “Do I look like a Jew? Your people and your high priests turned you over to me. What did you do?”

“My kingdom,” said Jesus, “doesn’t consist of what you see around you. If it did, my followers would fight so that I wouldn’t be handed over to the Jews. But I’m not that kind of king, not the world’s kind of king.”

Pilate said, “So, are you a king or not?”

Jesus answered, “You tell me. Because I am King, I was born and entered the world so that I could witness to the truth. Everyone who cares for truth, who has any feeling for the truth, recognizes my voice.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
Last night, we had a birthday dinner for my niece, Jasmine.  Timothy was running around in a “dress-up” costume, pretending to be some imaginary character.  He said, “You can call me Dr. Evil…or just ‘E’…but don’t call me XYZ (I cannot remember the other name).” I’ll be honest, I had no clue who he was…or whether he was really “evil” - or a good guy.  And he did little to give me any insight beyond what names I should use to address him.

Who are you?  Who do people think you are?  Do they know you by the reputation others have assigned to you…and is it a favorable one?  Are you known as a “good person” or someone who is “nice”?  Conversely, have others heard that you are NOT a decent person…that you are unkind, arrogant, pretentious, judgmental, dishonest, or self-serving - and not to be trusted?  Have people formed opinions about you based on your demeanor – and have these sometimes been unfair or inaccurate? Do others have any CLUE that you are a follower of Jesus?

Here’s the thing…people ARE watching – and forming instant opinions.  Right or wrong, we all pay attention the opinions of others…and sometimes, these color OUR thoughts. Each of us has a set of criteria by which we evaluate others…and quite often, there is no room on this list for actual truth. I think on some level, Pilate knew who Jesus really was…but he would not allow himself to go against the opinion of others and stand up for the truth. There was no attempt by Jesus to deceive…He never hides the truth of Who He is – or His message.  But I think that there are times when we “put on a costume,” so to speak…and show others who we want them to see, rather than who we truly are – much less who Christ calls us to be!

We downplay – or even belie – our faith in Jesus in favor of a more popular demeanor and stance.  We hide the truth of Christ. We laugh at the offensive joke… show up where we know we shouldn’t…look the other way when we know something wrong is being said or done - and even step over others to make ourselves look better.  We gossip, judge, discriminate, glorify people and actions that are anything BUT worthy of any credit or recognition.  And worst of all…we do a lot of these things while calling ourselves Christians and claiming the name of Jesus!

We are not seven-year-olds in a costume pretending to be some imaginary character.  Many of us are saved and sanctified believers who are supposed to be Disciples of Christ who share His truth with others.  We are supposed to be transparent, unabashed proclaimers of Jesus’ message who leave no question about Who we serve…representatives of the King who doesn’t belong to this world but came to save it for God’s Heavenly Kingdom.  People should be able to recognize us readily as Christians…as followers of Christ who know His voice - and willingly obey Him.

Who ARE you…and who do others think you are?  Are you in need of an “identity makeover?”  Will this be the day that you take off your “dress-up costume” and ask God to help you become the person He designed - and Christ redeemed? Don’t you think it should be?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 22, 2016

James 5:12
And since you know that he cares, let your language show it. Don’t add words like “I swear to God” to your own words. Don’t show your impatience by concocting oaths to hurry up God. Just say yes or no. Just say what is true. That way, your language can’t be used against you.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

When I was in college, I had the good fortune to land in Francis Irby Gwaltney’s freshman English Composition class.  I had never written so much as a “theme” in high school, and Mr. Gwaltney – an author and screenwriter – required one written essay from us each week.  He assigned the title on Monday, and we turned in our 250-word commentary on Friday.  The following week, he critiqued what we had written and gave us pointers…along with tons of colorful stories and recollections of his screenwriting days in Hollywood…his service in WWII…and his teenage years in Charleston, Arkansas, where he grew up with his good friend, [Arkansas Senator and Governor] Dale Bumpers.  Both men are gone now…but their legacies live on in our hearts and minds…thanks in large part to the weeks I spent under Mr. Gwaltney’s tutelage.

Mr. Gwaltney was so kind to me, and I loved him dearly…but he was a tough instructor.  He counted off a half grade point for a misspelled word…and an equal amount if we used the word “very.”  It was his opinion that this word was completely unnecessary…that adding it to another adjective or an adverb was overkill…even redundancy.  I have to admit that I use this word quite often now…but it took me years to be able to do so without hearing his voice ringing…and almost wincing with the anticipation of a lower grade!

When I first studied James 5:12, I was taken aback as I considered how often we swear an oath.  Much like the word “very,” we pepper our conversation with “I swears” to drive home our point.  We claim…”I swear on a stack of Bibles that XYZ happened”…or “I swear to you he really said ABC”…or as James puts it in this translation, “I swear to God, such and such is true.”  I was struck by James’ suggestion that this shows our impatience with God…that to add a “swear” indicates that what we are saying cannot stand on its own merit - and needs the “endorsement” of God to give it credence and substance.

We are called to speak the truth…and stand by our comments and claims.  We are commanded to be the “real deal” for Jesus…and to live in such a way that others know that they can trust what we say is endorsed by God – without our adding an oath.  Just as the word “very” is unnecessary, an oath does nothing to truly substantiate our words.  Mr. Gwaltney insisted that the use of the word “very” implied that we lacked confidence in our statement…and felt we should bolster it with this unwarranted descriptive.  It seems to me that James is saying the same thing to us about adding oaths to our language.

The next time you start to “swear,” remember James 5:12.  Let your word be your bond…pure and simple.  Honor God by how you demonstrate your faith…and how you treat others.  Choose your words wisely, and let others see Jesus in your daily living.  Fully embrace the truth that no further emphasis – especially a swear – is ever needed.

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 21, 2016

James 3:10-18
My friends, this can’t go on. A spring doesn’t gush fresh water one day and brackish the next, does it? Apple trees don’t bear strawberries, do they? Raspberry bushes don’t bear apples, do they? You’re not going to dip into a polluted mud hole and get a cup of clear, cool water, are you?

Do you want to be counted wise, to build a reputation for wisdom? Here’s what you do: Live well, live wisely, live humbly. It’s the way you live, not the way you talk, that counts. Mean-spirited ambition isn’t wisdom. Boasting that you are wise isn’t wisdom. Twisting the truth to make yourselves sound wise isn’t wisdom. It’s the furthest thing from wisdom—it’s animal cunning, devilish conniving. Whenever you’re trying to look better than others or get the better of others, things fall apart and everyone ends up at the others’ throats.

Real wisdom, God’s wisdom, begins with a holy life and is characterized by getting along with others. It is gentle and reasonable, overflowing with mercy and blessings, not hot one day and cold the next, not two-faced. You can develop a healthy, robust community that lives right with God and enjoy its results only if you do the hard work of getting along with each other, treating each other with dignity and honor.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

The 80-year-old sister of one of our dear friends passed away recently in Kentucky.  Unfortunately, we never had the pleasure of getting to know her.  As I read this woman’s obituary online, I sorely regretted that our paths never crossed.  She apparently possessed real wisdom. In fact, in one paragraph, her children wrote...”she faced adversity with courage, class and integrity; she was unyieldingly honest, unless being so would cause needless pain.”

A few lines later, the writers noted…”Martha had, by turns, the humility of a pauper and the dignity of a manor-born aristocrat. She could, and joyfully did, instantly relate to the youngest of children and the oldest of the infirm. From the Bluegrass society matron, down to a homeless man, Martha related to them all, and she did so without guile, condescension or calculation. She cared, and people knew it instinctively. And they loved her for it.”

This is quite a legacy.  These were the accomplishments that were noted about this woman by people who knew and loved her.  They briefly cited her education at Hendrix College in Arkansas…and her love for poetry.  But they didn’t talk of her career – or even any accolades or awards she might have garnered over the years for civic involvement or service of some kind.  And yet, I felt like I got a complete picture of this woman, because the children showed me her heart…and her wisdom.

Stop and consider how others see you.  What do they think when your name is mentioned?  Do they instinctively know that you care?  Do they think of you as kind and wise…humble and genuine…someone who is consistent, lives with dignity, and treats all people as equals?  Does your life seem to others to be holy and filled with God’s wisdom?

Or do you give people a reason to doubt what you say and do?  Are you up one day and down the next…changing your mind – and your attitude - with the wind?  Is it all about you?  Do you set yourself up as an expert or authority…and then berate or criticize those who fail to follow your lead?  Are you ever even a little bit judgmental and condescending?

How are you representing God’s wisdom?  Could even some of the same things that were said about this woman be said of you?  As important as it may seem to be remembered well, it is even more critical how you conduct your life today…here…now.  It matters greatly whether you operate in God’s wisdom…or your own folly.  Which are you demonstrating?  

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 20, 2016

James 1:26-27
Anyone who says he is a Christian but doesn’t control his sharp tongue is just fooling himself, and his religion isn’t worth much. The Christian who is pure and without fault, from God the Father’s point of view, is the one who takes care of orphans and widows, and who remains true to the Lord—not soiled and dirtied by his contacts with the world.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
Unless you have been under a rock for the last two weeks, you know the story of American swimmer, Ryan Lochte.  Last week in Rio, Lochte won his 12th gold medal in the Men's 4x200m freestyle relay.  This week, he is all many can talk about…but for a very different reason. Lochte apparently fabricated an elaborate tale about being the victim (along with three fellow swimmers) of an armed robbery by Brazilian police.  He perpetuated this story for days until surveillance video and eye-witness accounts proved that he was lying (or as his attorneys put it, “gave an inaccurate account”).

With this one thoughtless misstep, Lochte has gone from one of the US “darlings” of the 2016 Olympics to a national embarrassment.  And the speculation is that Lochte may not only be suspended by USA swimming and the US Olympic Committee…he may also use thousands – if not millions – of dollars in commercial endorsements.  In a nutshell, Ryan Lochte’s reputation may pretty well be shot.

I don’t think I can remind us too often that people are watching and listening.  All it takes is one incident where we speak harshly, judge another, or misbehave in some way…and our Christian witness can be seriously compromised.  The talk is that Lochte will do his penance…people will forgive and forget…and he will show up at the games in Tokyo in four years.  And perhaps we will get a second chance with those whom we have disappointed or disillusioned with our words or actions.  But we cannot take that risk!

I will be the first to admit that it is hard to hold our tongue sometimes.  It is easy to judge others and see them as different – if not inferior in some way to our standards or way of thinking. We often judge others and hide behind the name of Jesus.  We declare that we are His children…and the other guy is not. The devil loves that we are human and subject to his persuasion that “they” are wrong – and “we” are right…that we are entitled to say these things as “true Christians.” And Jesus hangs His head in shame.

The next time you are tempted to speak harshly or judge someone else…remember Ryan Lochte – and this scripture passage. Think of how quickly we can negate everything that God has called us to share with others…how one senseless act or comment can ruin our “reputation” as a Christian – and turn another person away from Jesus.

Our responsibility as Christian disciples is serious business.  We cannot play fast and loose with our words and actions!  Are you ready to do the hard work of keeping yourself in check?  Jesus’ gift of salvation and Christian discipleship is far too precious to handle carelessly.  Will this be the day that you renew your efforts to represent Him with honor and thoughtfulness?  Don’t you think it should be?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 14, 2016

James 1:2-4
Dear brothers, is your life full of difficulties and temptations? Then be happy, for when the way is rough, your patience has a chance to grow. So let it grow, and don’t try to squirm out of your problems. For when your patience is finally in full bloom, then you will be ready for anything, strong in character, full and complete.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Today, two “memes” showed up in consecutive order on my Facebook wall.  The first one said, “Sometimes the strongest among us are the ones who smile through silent pain, cry behind closed doors, and fight battles nobody knows about."  The next one said, “Dear ‘Whatever doesn't kill me’... I'm strong enough now!  Thanks!”  I was unable to positively determine the authors of these quotes, but I felt they were worth sharing.

None of us likes to be uncomfortable.  We do not relish difficulties and temptations…much less a “rough row to hoe!”  Ask anyone if he/she enjoys tests of patience...or problems...and you’ll probably get a resounding “NO!”  The old adage that "What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger" may have some truth to it...but most of us would rather not test that theory!

Still, we read in James 1 that difficulties and temptations should bring us joy! We read that patience will grow out of challenges…that our character will be strengthened, and our faith in Jesus Christ will be fully developed.  And those of us who have lived through some “stuff” can attest to this.  As I think about my own life and the times when I was truly tested…I see how God used these times to develop my faith muscle - and keep it strong.

Timothy mentioned to me again this morning that "your home is always joyful and happy” (his words).  He knows that Greg and I have challenges…that we have experienced grief, health concerns, and other life events that have tried our patience.  And yet, he sees that we are (generally) able to manage them with confidence…and a positive outlook.  I pray that our children will take this example to heart…that in the years to come, we can encourage them to internalize the words of James in this passage... and trust God to care for them and develop their faith – even in difficult times.

There was one more “meme” that I noticed as I was preparing this message.  It said, “People who wonder if the glass is half empty or half full miss the point...the glass is refillable.” God can fill our “glass”…and He will do so over and again, if only we will trust Him. I cannot prevent challenges, heartaches and disappointments in my own life, the lives of our children – or you!  But GOD can help us all to grow in and through these experiences…and share an ever stronger faith in Him with others.

Whatever you are experiencing today, trust God to get you through it.  Allow Him room to work, and watch as He develops your faith and strengthens your ability to operate in patience, courage, and empathy.  God will fill your “glass”…and keep it filled.  Are you ready to let Him?

©2016 Debbie Robus 

Daily Devotional for August 8, 2016

Ephesians 4:28-30
Did you use to make ends meet by stealing? Well, no more! Get an honest job so that you can help others who can’t work.

Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift.

Don’t grieve God. Don’t break his heart. His Holy Spirit, moving and breathing in you, is the most intimate part of your life, making you fit for himself. Don’t take such a gift for granted.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
When I was teaching kindergarten, I studied the Assertive Discipline method of classroom management.  Developed by Lee and Marlene Cantor, this model involves giving students a clear definition of what is expected - and listing the consequences for noncompliance.  The focus is on positive reinforcement – rewarding and encouraging good behavior in an effort to prevent missteps.  The idea is that children will be so eager to enjoy the benefits of a positive response from the teacher and his/her peers that this will deter any desire to misbehave.  I have to say, this method worked for me and my students…and my “discipline problems” in the classroom all but disappeared.

One of the things that Cantor teaches is that we must not operate in the realm of “If I see/hear.”  In other words, we must not tell the child, “If I see you do that again, XYZ will happen”…or “If I hear that word one more time…you will have to do ABC.”  The child assumes that what you don’t see or hear doesn’t matter!  If he/she can get by with something without you noticing…it won’t be held against you.  Instead, we are to tell the child, “If you DO THIS again, XYZ will happen.”  This tells the child that you will know what he/she did…and it will matter!

I can tell you that we adults foolishly play this game all the time with God.  We act as if what we say or do only matters when we get caught or noticed.  If we skate by with something, we smugly tell ourselves that it didn’t count…that nobody is the wiser.  It’s sort of the “no harm/no foul” concept.  But here’s the thing...God ALWAYS knows.  He sees and hears everything we say and do.  And so much of it breaks His heart.

You may not be a “thief” in the literal sense of the word…but you probably cheat and steal more than you realize.  Did you ever slide through a stop sign and hope nobody would notice?  Did you ever talk about someone…or share a juicy tidbit of “news” with another person and pray the parties involved would never know who said it?  Did you ever express an ugly opinion about a situation or person – or share a dirty joke - and preface it with a caveat that you will deny ever saying such things if repeated?  Did you ever do something you knew you shouldn’t and tell your children- or someone else - never to tell anyone about it?

These are all ways that we all practice deceit…consciously or not.  And while we may never “get caught” by our friends, family members and acquaintances…God knows.  We grieve His heart on a regular basis.  But we can make changes and do better…and we must!  We can ask God to tap us on the shoulder and give us pause when we open our mouths to say something unkind, off-color, or disrespectful.  We can ask Him to give us a nudge when we are tempted to be dishonest...to “fudge” a little here and there or “cut a corner” while no one is looking.

We can ask God to fill every nook and cranny of our heart with the Holy Spirit – our “Inner Compass” that guides us and keeps us on the right path.  We can ask God to forgive us and set us upright…and keep us behaving in a positive manner at all times - toward all people.  And we can begin today…right now…in this very minute!  So let’s get started!  Are you ready to go “all in” with God?

©2016 Debbie Robus 

Daily Devotional for August 6, 2016

Ephesians 4:17-24    
As a follower of the Lord, I order you to stop living like stupid, godless people. Their minds are in the dark, and they are stubborn and ignorant and have missed out on the life that comes from God. They no longer have any feelings about what is right, and they are so greedy that they do all kinds of indecent things.

But that isn’t what you were taught about Jesus Christ. He is the truth, and you heard about him and learned about him. You were told that your foolish desires will destroy you and that you must give up your old way of life with all its bad habits. Let the Spirit change your way of thinking and make you into a new person. You were created to be like God, and so you must please him and be truly holy.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Greg and I spent one year back in our home town of Heber Springs after college before returning to Russellville, Arkansas, the “college town” where we began our life together.  When I went to interview for a teaching position in Russellville, I first appeared before an “interview committee” that consisted of teachers and administrators from the district.  I wore my best dress (actually, it was almost my ONLY dress – a graduation gift made for me by Mother) and tried to make my best impression.

Two weeks later, I received a “call-back” from the superintendent for a personal interview.  I had no opportunity to find a new dress for my Saturday morning appointment.  So I swallowed hard and wore that same green dotted dress.

The superintendent was kind, and the interview went well.  Much to my chagrin, he noticed that I was wearing the same dress. I wanted the floor to open and swallow me whole.  But he said, “That helped me to remember you from the first interview!” Instead of this being a deterrent, this man turned it into a positive.  And for the eight years that I taught in the Russellville School District, Mr. Harvey Young and I maintained a great working relationship. Mr. Young saw beyond my outward appearance to my professional capabilities. I hope he noted that my concern was more with what I could do for the children than whether I wore a new dress to the interview.

What we say and do matters.  Appearance is important…but it’s not about name brand clothing or “knowing the right people.”  God calls us to stick our nose to the grindstone and “git-r-done” as He has directed.  Whatever and wherever He has called us to serve, we are expected to show up and show out for Him. Often, this means letting go of some old habits – and maybe an old association or two.  We are known by the company we keep…and while God wants us to love ALL people, He calls us to be careful about where and how we associate with a few of them.

This tax-free weekend, many of us will scramble to amass back-to-school items for kiddos.  We will think about the “fresh start” for children and teachers on August 15 (for Arkansas), and we will anticipate how nice everyone looks in their new clothes, toting new backpacks filled with fresh supplies.  It’s a “clean slate,” so to speak.

Many individuals and groups are working to ensure that ALL CHILDREN have a full backpack and nice things for this starting point…a “level playing field” on which to begin the school year.  But like the teacher interviewing twice in the same dress, I pray that what is important is the nurturing of the hearts and minds of these precious youngsters.  And I pray that like my superintendent, we look beyond the outward adornments and see what God sees…the inner person.

What will others see if they scrape away the layers and look at you?  Will they even get that far…or have you covered up with so much effort to fit in and be like everyone else (or someone else altogether) that the Christian disciple whom God has called you to be is buried beyond recognition?  Let this be the day that you remove the facade and allow your “servant self” to shine brightly.  Be the best possible form of you that God has designed.  Let others see someone they really want to be around – and emulate.  This can be something of a fresh start for all of us.  What will you make of yours?

©2016 Debbie Robus 

Daily Devotional for August 4, 2016

Ephesians 4:7, 11-13
However, Christ has given each of us special abilities—whatever he wants us to have out of his rich storehouse of gifts.

Some of us have been given special ability as apostles; to others he has given the gift of being able to preach well; some have special ability in winning people to Christ, helping them to trust him as their Savior; still others have a gift for caring for God’s people as a shepherd does his sheep, leading and teaching them in the ways of God.

Why is it that he gives us these special abilities to do certain things best? It is that God’s people will be equipped to do better work for him, building up the Church, the body of Christ, to a position of strength and maturity; until finally we all believe alike about our salvation and about our Savior, God’s Son, and all become full-grown in the Lord—yes, to the point of being filled full with Christ.
 
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

In recent days, a video appeared on Facebook of a group of school-aged children who were standing against the wall of a light-colored brick building.  Someone opened the spray nozzle on a water hose and totally soaked the children as they stood completely still against the wall.  When everyone moved away from the wall, the outline of their little bodies remained…in a variety of poses and positions that were perfectly captured as they “froze” in place for this soaking.

You could almost “see” their little personalities coming through…imagine what sort of child stood where.  Each was unique - and precious. You could also get a sense for the group at large.  The individuals made up a collective story…and it was momentarily told on a wall of wet bricks.

I thought of this video as I read these verses from Ephesians 4.  We are all unique and precious to God.  He thinks enough of each of us to give us special gifts…to entrust us with skills and abilities that will in some way further His Kingdom.  As the scripture points out, God does this to build up His church.  He knows that when we all “stand against the wall together,” we make a unified picture of what it means to become “full-grown in the Lord.”

If God were to line you up along a wall with a group of your friends and family members and douse you, what sort of image would emerge?  What would others see…particularly un-believers?  Would the love of Jesus Christ shine through?  Would onlookers find an encourager…preacher…confidante…shepherd…leader and teacher among those outlines?  Would there be prayer warriors…behind-the-scenes “worker bees”…and healers in the mix?  Would the spirit of grace, mercy, forgiveness, hope, peace and promise be evident?  Would each person be using his/her God-given gifts in the best possible manner…including you?

God has given each of us gifts that equip us to fulfill our role in His earthly mission.  It is up to you to figure out where you excel…and what God wants you to do.  How are well are you managing your gifts these days?  If you moved away from God’s “wall,” what would your lingering outline tell others about your relationship with Him?  Isn’t it time you knew?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 29, 2016

Acts 15:13-19
James broke the silence. “Friends, listen. Simeon has told us the story of how God at the very outset made sure that racial outsiders were included. This is in perfect agreement with the words of the prophets:

After this, I’m coming back;
    I’ll rebuild David’s ruined house;
I’ll put all the pieces together again;
    I’ll make it look like new
So outsiders who seek will find,
    so they’ll have a place to come to,
All the pagan peoples
    included in what I’m doing.

“God said it and now he’s doing it. It’s no afterthought; he’s always known he would do this.  So here is my decision: We’re not going to unnecessarily burden non-Jewish people who turn to the Master.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

At VBS one night, I asked the pre-schoolers, “Where is Jesus?  Can we see Him?”  No, they answered…Jesus is in Heaven.  The children had heard the story from the Gospels about the disciples who were in a boat when a storm came, and Jesus stilled the seas and told them to “Be calm.”  They knew that THESE men actually SAW Jesus.  I explained that while WE don’t physically SEE Him…Jesus lives in our hearts and is always with us.

Our nephew, Nathan, was sitting in my lap during one session when I explained this, and he turned to me and asked, “But where is Granny?”  “Granny is in Heaven,” I answered quietly, patting his leg to comfort him. “But is Granny in our hearts, too?” he continued.  I was stopped in my tracks. “Yes, sweetie…Granny is always with us in our hearts, too.”

This almost-four-year-old little boy was able to make the leap from the concept of Jesus, Who is in Heaven, living in our hearts…to the idea that my mother – his great-grandmother – must be with us, too, since she resides in Heaven, as well. So why would it be a stretch for us to understand the full meaning – and inclusion – of this scripture passage?  If scripture clearly tells us that believers of all races are welcome in the Kingdom of Heaven, how can we exclude anyone in any manner?  If God’s love is offered to everyone, who are we to discriminate against, segregate, and denigrate any group of people – for any reason?

There are too many of us claiming the name of Jesus while disparaging others…and we apparently don’t grasp the irony – and disobedience – in our words and actions.  If our behavior toward a single one of God’s children is questionable to even one other person, we have totally negated our Christian witness. I cannot state this any plainer.  What we say and do matters. And God’s word – and His love - are available for everyone.  If you do not agree with this, then I pray that you will get out your Bible, fall to your knees and ask God to reveal His true desires to you.

Are you a Christian disciple who carries Jesus in your heart at all times and shares His love with everyone else?  Do you live in a way that demonstrates God’s love and acceptance for all others – and by default, your own, as well?  Or do you pick and choose which groups of people “deserve” your attention, care and concern…and the “right” to belong to certain circles – even the family of believers? Are you ready to fully surrender to God and love as He has commanded…to serve Him wholeheartedly and embrace ALL people?

We have to get this right. God is calling on us to be obedient witnesses…and we don’t have a minute to waste!  Are you ready to go the second mile with God?  Will this be the day that you begin?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 23, 2016

1 Peter 3:13-15
Usually no one will hurt you for wanting to do good.  But even if they should, you are to be envied, for God will reward you for it. Quietly trust yourself to Christ your Lord, and if anybody asks why you believe as you do, be ready to tell him, and do it in a gentle and respectful way.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
Our three little ones LOVE Play-doh®.  Because Play-doh® is not cheap, I am a big meanie about “mixing the colors.”  The kids ask nearly every day if they can put two or more colors together to create the animals and objects pictured on the box…and as long as the clay is pliable, I resist saying “Yes.”  I remind them that once the colors are mixed, we cannot undo it!

This week, I picked up a package of Play-doh® at the store that was designed to be used as party favors. There were 15 mini cans of the clay in a variety of colors. I set the bag on the counter, where the kids readily spotted it.  I told them that each child could have several cans, and they could “mix” to their heart’s content!  Timothy was over-the-moon excited and asked, “WHY are you so nice to us?!”  Greg and I both told him that we love them…and we enjoy doing nice things for them.

Later in the day, the children and I went swimming.  As we drove home afterward, Timothy asked, “Debbie…why are y’all always so joyful and happy?”  I was touched that this is how he thinks of Greg and me.  I responded that because God has been so good, we have every reason to be happy…that even when unpleasant things happen, we don’t stay sad very long, because God helps us through them. Timothy wanted to know if God could help anyone be happy?  I told him that I believe that God can indeed do this…that God can do ANYTHING…and when we ask Him to help us – with anything - He surely will.

There are probably some who think that we do too much for our little ones…that we spoil them or lavish too much time and attention on them. And for the record, we do not give “prizes” every day.  But when I hear one of these children ask me why we are so happy…when I see that they notice our “joy in the LORD”…I know that we are on the right track.

I also know that there are days when my 59-year-old self asks, “What were you thinking?” as I try to physically keep up with these little balls of energy.  But I am aware that the time is short…that before we can blink, these children will be grown…and what we do for them now matters greatly.  Every opportunity we have to love them and show them how significant our relationship with Jesus is - in our lives and theirs - will be critical.

Here I go again…but as much as our three little ones are watching us, others are watching, too. They are looking to see how we conduct “daily business”…what we say and do in every arena - from our homes to our jobs to our church and other public venues…on social media…and even in how we look at others we pass in the grocery aisles or at the gas pumps!  When someone sees us operating with joy and a positive attitude – especially if we claim to be redeemed by the blood of Jesus – they take notice of what God is doing for us.  To the contrary, when we operate with a glum demeanor or a negative attitude…others are left to wonder where the joy of a relationship with the LORD is – or if it even truly exists!

My questions for us to ponder today are…“What are we showing others?  Do they see someone who lives in the joy of Jesus and the confidence that He can help them through any and all situations?  Or do we let “life” drag us down?  When people look at us, do they see someone whose mood is dictated by the events of the day…or do we remain relatively solid and steadfast through all circumstances?

Are we busy doing good and trusting God to direct our words and actions, or are we worried about the opinions and ideas of others?  Who is really running our lives?  Are we joyful and happy most of the time…or do we sway with the wind?

We all have our “moments,” but for the most part, we have every reason to be joyful – and to demonstrate this to others.  I realize that I have at least three sets of little eyes on me, so I have got to bring my “A-game!”  How are you sharing Jesus these days?   Are you so filled with the joy and goodness of Jesus that even a little child would take notice?  Isn’t it time you were?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 22, 2016

1 Peter 3:10-12
“Do you really love life?
    Do you want to be happy?
Then stop saying cruel things
    and quit telling lies.
Give up your evil ways
    and do right,
as you find and follow
the road that leads
The Lord watches over
    everyone who obeys him,
and he listens
    to their prayers.
But he opposes everyone
    who does evil.”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Greg and Timothy were building a “village” out of wooden blocks.  Timothy made some characters out of Legos® that he dubbed “the evil gang.”  The village had several “buildings” created with stacked blocks, and Greg asked Timothy, “Are you planning on those evil men knocking over these houses?”  Timothy assured him that this was NOT going to happen…that “These men are just here for a visit.”

Then a building accidentally fell, and as Greg reached to get it, Timothy said, “Oh, that’s what ‘we’ were about to do!”  Greg looked at Timothy with a raised eyebrow, and Timothy said, “Oh, we LIED! Hehehe!” And he made angry, evil voices for the characters.  Then he started to laugh and say, “Oh, my bad!” to indicate that he didn’t mean any harm.  It was all a fun game between a boy and his uncle.

But as I watched this unfold and listened, I thought about how we act in “real life.” Many of us “play nice” and pretend to be kind and friendly…but we would just as soon “mow down” the other guy as look at him.  There is emptiness in our hearts and minds that we try to fill by building ourselves up – often at the expense of others.  We lie, cheat, steal, and tear people down…and then we often pretend that this was not our intention at all!  Sometimes, we try to brush it all away with a “My bad!” justification.  Sadly, there are also times when we stand by our vicious words and actions.

Most of us want people to think we are “a nice guy.”  If they only knew that sometimes, our “evil twin” has a way of appearing!  Some people may even come to think of us as a person who is always negative, angry or disgruntled…or simply a “grump.”  Others may think of us as an out-and-out bully…and maybe some of us are indeed!

We must understand that our words, actions, and demeanor matter.  We have to make every effort to obey God…to seek His will and operate within His guidelines.  We have to stop and think about what we say and do – BEFORE it happens.  Check your attitude in a “virtual mirror” and make sure that you are representing God and His goodness.  We all know someone whose very name makes us groan…the thought of them conjures up a negative attitude - or unloving (if not evil) behavior.  Don’t be one of these people!

Will this be the day that you check your own heart and mind for an “evil gang” mentality and quit “knocking over” others?  Are you ready to say “NO!” to the devil and His methods - and live abundantly in the will of God?  When others look at you, WHO do they see…and how will you be remembered?

Fill your heart with God’s goodness.  Work hard to be a positive, pleasant, Spirit-filled disciple who represents the very best that God offers all of us.  You will be amazed at how this affects every aspect of your life…and the lives of those around you.  I’m betting that God will pour out His favor on you in a new, more plentiful way, as well.  It’s certainly worth a shot…isn’t it?  What are we waiting for?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 9, 2016

Proverbs 15:1
A kind answer soothes angry feelings, but harsh words stir them up.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
    
Dallas Police - and the country at large - are dealing with the aftermath of the heinous murder of 5 officers and the injury of 7 other people on July 7th.  Today, warnings emerged that forced the Dallas Police Department headquarters to go on “lockdown” and search nearby buildings.  People were beginning to come together to honor the memory of those killed and to show support for the injured.  Kind words were being offered on all sides.  Surely the potential of this new threat had to stir up the feelings of fear, anger and frustration that were tantamount just two nights ago.

If you have ever watched young children at play, you know that one child can take a toy from another…and ugly words and actions can ensue.  Either an adult can step in to moderate…or the children can resolve this conflict on their own. A moment later, another child can dredge up the incident or “stir the pot” with an unkind word or gesture…and “WWIII” erupts all over again!

A friend can speak kindly to you…offer you words of encouragement and make you feel good about yourself.  And then he/she can turn around and post something derogatory or hateful on social media…share an off-color or racist joke in a group within your earshot…or speak unkindly of someone else to you…and your total opinion of that person changes. I have been incredibly disappointed by the words and actions of people I thought were kind, Godly individuals.  And I’ll tell you…sometimes, it has permanently colored my opinion of them.

It should come as no surprise to us that people are watching and listening…and that what we say and do matters.  But some of us have a hard time holding our tongue and refraining from sharing our thoughts and opinions – even when we know what we are about to say or do will be hurtful to others.  We need to understand that we often get one shot at getting this right…that the opinion others form of us happens in a few brief seconds.  And quite frequently, those telling moments determine whether we represent Jesus and offer others a Savior they would like to follow and emulate…or we totally negate our Christian witness.

I recently read an opinion editorial about political candidates and how people on both sides call them names and speak of them in a disparaging and derogatory manner. The suggestion was made that when we are told by the Chevy salesmen how bad the Fords are (or vice versa), we often are left feeling badly about both – and often seek to either buy something altogether different…or go home empty-handed.  If we put this in a Christian perspective, when we talk unkindly to someone – or about them – we give others the impression that there is an ugly side to serving Jesus. And sometimes, this might be enough to turn these people away forever…to steer them in the direction of another “god” or idol - or toward the devil himself.

Surely this is not what we want.  I know it is definitely not what Jesus wants!  We simply MUST start guarding our thoughts, words and actions.  We must focus on Jesus to the point that we automatically run everything by Him before we speak or act.  We must become so in tune with Jesus - and innately cautious - that it is virtually impossible to stir up trouble or embarrassment as His representatives.  And we have to start now.

Let’s start by praying for all people involved in the terrible tragedies of recent days across our nation.  Let’s talk to God about how we characterize others…the language we use as we speak of them to others – and the attitude we convey.  Let’s ask Him to guard our hearts – and our words and deeds – and guide us as His disciples, so that we leave others saying, “I want to serve Jesus, too!”

Jesus was bruised, beaten, spit upon – and crucified.  Yet His words were always kind and soothing.  He never spoke harshly to others…so why on earth should we?
    
©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 7, 2016

Matthew 7:24-29
“All who listen to my instructions and follow them are wise, like a man who builds his house on solid rock. Though the rain comes in torrents, and the floods rise and the storm winds beat against his house, it won’t collapse, for it is built on rock.

“But those who hear my instructions and ignore them are foolish, like a man who builds his house on sand. For when the rains and floods come, and storm winds beat against his house, it will fall with a mighty crash.” The crowds were amazed at Jesus’ sermons, for he taught as one who had great authority, and not as their Jewish leaders.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

We have a large square ottoman in our living room that has been the “go-to-table” for the children these last seven years.  It has been used as a track for cars…the base for creations from a variety of media, including Legos®, “bristle” blocks, wooden blocks, puzzles, and more…and just a great place to chill out for a few minutes and watch TV.  The ottoman is big…and sturdy.  But it is also upholstered and tufted.  So the top is flexible and not the firmest foundation for jigsaw puzzles or some block creations.  So there are lots of “collapses”…both from the creations AND the children who design them!

We have tried to teach the children to either 1) build certain things that need a solid base on the floor; or 2) put something sturdy, like a big book, on the ottoman first…and build their masterpiece on top of that. Experience is a great teacher…and the children are learning that the foundation matters!

It is one thing to tell our children that the blocks will stand up better on a solid surface…that the puzzle pieces will hold together better on the floor than a cushioned piece of furniture.  But when they put these suggestions into action – or see them demonstrated – the “lesson” is reinforced.  And so it is with us in our relationship with Jesus Christ. This foundation is important.  Bible study grounds us…give us a “go-to” source for guidance and encouragement.  But we have to know how to put these lessons and assurances into action, also.

We can spout scripture all day long.  We can appear to be one of the Godliest people on the planet...someone who always attends worship services and Bible studies – or teaches classes and serves on committees.  We can wear the t-shirts and sport the bumper stickers and the crosses on our clothing and jewelry.  We can pass out food to the needy and house the homeless and orphans.  But if we don’t demonstrate a sincere internalization of the Biblical foundation that we have been given, we will eventually crumble and wash away.  People will see us for the shams and frauds that we are…and God’s Kingdom will suffer.

What I am trying to tell you is that we have to get into God’s word…and then we have to get into God’s word.  We have to build a solid base of wisdom, encouragement, hope and faith…and then we have to reinforce the foundation by prayerfully putting these into practice each and every day in our own lives.  We want to demonstrate the confidence and assurance that Jesus emulated to those with whom He interacted. We don’t want to just keep up appearances like the priests and “religion teachers”…we want others to truly see Jesus Christ in action through our words and deeds.

Build your Christian discipleship on a firm foundation that includes confidence in God’s word…and personal evidence that it works in your own life. Demonstrate that you are rock solid in your faith…that everything you say and do is undergirded by the power of Jesus Christ working in and through you.  Let others see someone who is firmly planted in the word of God…and operating daily in His wisdom and promises.  How firm is your “foundation” today?  Isn’t it time you knew?

©2016 Debbie Robus