Daily Devotional for October 25, 2016

Matthew 5:21-22  
“You’re familiar with the command to the ancients, ‘Do not murder.’ I’m telling you that anyone who is so much as angry with a brother or sister is guilty of murder. Carelessly call a brother ‘idiot!’ and you just might find yourself hauled into court. Thoughtlessly yell ‘stupid!’ at a sister and you are on the brink of hellfire. The simple moral fact is that words kill.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I voted today. I’ve cast my ballot and done my civic duty.  I am so weary of this campaign season and the horrible things that people on both sides are saying about one another.  I can barely look at my Facebook wall these days, because frankly, I feel like I am not going to have many friends left after November 8th.  People I know and love have said horrible things…called others terrible names…and basically shown me a side that I didn’t realize existed – and don’t care to embrace!  Moreover, I don’t want others to think that I support these comments – or ideologies.

So I am offering Matthew 5:21-22 as “food for thought” today…for all of us. Words kill.  Careless name calling has dire consequences…not only in personal relationships – but in the eyes of God.  If God sees this as “murder,” then we should not want any part of it.  This scripture should make us keenly aware that our thoughts, words, and actions matter greatly to God…and a lot of us should be busily trying to do a major overhaul on how we speak and behave!

I know that things won’t change after the election…that there will still be disgruntled people who want to voice their opinions.  And I am prayerfully considering a major reduction of my “friends” list to remove those who continue to engage in “murderous words and actions.” Jesus did not mince words in this passage…and it’s pretty clear to me how He feels about our engagement in these behaviors – and any association with those who do.

For me, the stakes are high.  I’d rather be Jesus’ obedient disciple and have a handful of faithful friends than to claim dozens of pals and be even remotely thought of as a “murderer” – by Him or anyone else!  What about you?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 20, 2016

James 1:26-27
Anyone who says he is a Christian but doesn’t control his sharp tongue is just fooling himself, and his religion isn’t worth much. The Christian who is pure and without fault, from God the Father’s point of view, is the one who takes care of orphans and widows, and who remains true to the Lord—not soiled and dirtied by his contacts with the world.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
Unless you have been under a rock for the last two weeks, you know the story of American swimmer, Ryan Lochte.  Last week in Rio, Lochte won his 12th gold medal in the Men's 4x200m freestyle relay.  This week, he is all many can talk about…but for a very different reason. Lochte apparently fabricated an elaborate tale about being the victim (along with three fellow swimmers) of an armed robbery by Brazilian police.  He perpetuated this story for days until surveillance video and eye-witness accounts proved that he was lying (or as his attorneys put it, “gave an inaccurate account”).

With this one thoughtless misstep, Lochte has gone from one of the US “darlings” of the 2016 Olympics to a national embarrassment.  And the speculation is that Lochte may not only be suspended by USA swimming and the US Olympic Committee…he may also use thousands – if not millions – of dollars in commercial endorsements.  In a nutshell, Ryan Lochte’s reputation may pretty well be shot.

I don’t think I can remind us too often that people are watching and listening.  All it takes is one incident where we speak harshly, judge another, or misbehave in some way…and our Christian witness can be seriously compromised.  The talk is that Lochte will do his penance…people will forgive and forget…and he will show up at the games in Tokyo in four years.  And perhaps we will get a second chance with those whom we have disappointed or disillusioned with our words or actions.  But we cannot take that risk!

I will be the first to admit that it is hard to hold our tongue sometimes.  It is easy to judge others and see them as different – if not inferior in some way to our standards or way of thinking. We often judge others and hide behind the name of Jesus.  We declare that we are His children…and the other guy is not. The devil loves that we are human and subject to his persuasion that “they” are wrong – and “we” are right…that we are entitled to say these things as “true Christians.” And Jesus hangs His head in shame.

The next time you are tempted to speak harshly or judge someone else…remember Ryan Lochte – and this scripture passage. Think of how quickly we can negate everything that God has called us to share with others…how one senseless act or comment can ruin our “reputation” as a Christian – and turn another person away from Jesus.

Our responsibility as Christian disciples is serious business.  We cannot play fast and loose with our words and actions!  Are you ready to do the hard work of keeping yourself in check?  Jesus’ gift of salvation and Christian discipleship is far too precious to handle carelessly.  Will this be the day that you renew your efforts to represent Him with honor and thoughtfulness?  Don’t you think it should be?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 8, 2016

Ephesians 4:28-30
Did you use to make ends meet by stealing? Well, no more! Get an honest job so that you can help others who can’t work.

Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift.

Don’t grieve God. Don’t break his heart. His Holy Spirit, moving and breathing in you, is the most intimate part of your life, making you fit for himself. Don’t take such a gift for granted.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
When I was teaching kindergarten, I studied the Assertive Discipline method of classroom management.  Developed by Lee and Marlene Cantor, this model involves giving students a clear definition of what is expected - and listing the consequences for noncompliance.  The focus is on positive reinforcement – rewarding and encouraging good behavior in an effort to prevent missteps.  The idea is that children will be so eager to enjoy the benefits of a positive response from the teacher and his/her peers that this will deter any desire to misbehave.  I have to say, this method worked for me and my students…and my “discipline problems” in the classroom all but disappeared.

One of the things that Cantor teaches is that we must not operate in the realm of “If I see/hear.”  In other words, we must not tell the child, “If I see you do that again, XYZ will happen”…or “If I hear that word one more time…you will have to do ABC.”  The child assumes that what you don’t see or hear doesn’t matter!  If he/she can get by with something without you noticing…it won’t be held against you.  Instead, we are to tell the child, “If you DO THIS again, XYZ will happen.”  This tells the child that you will know what he/she did…and it will matter!

I can tell you that we adults foolishly play this game all the time with God.  We act as if what we say or do only matters when we get caught or noticed.  If we skate by with something, we smugly tell ourselves that it didn’t count…that nobody is the wiser.  It’s sort of the “no harm/no foul” concept.  But here’s the thing...God ALWAYS knows.  He sees and hears everything we say and do.  And so much of it breaks His heart.

You may not be a “thief” in the literal sense of the word…but you probably cheat and steal more than you realize.  Did you ever slide through a stop sign and hope nobody would notice?  Did you ever talk about someone…or share a juicy tidbit of “news” with another person and pray the parties involved would never know who said it?  Did you ever express an ugly opinion about a situation or person – or share a dirty joke - and preface it with a caveat that you will deny ever saying such things if repeated?  Did you ever do something you knew you shouldn’t and tell your children- or someone else - never to tell anyone about it?

These are all ways that we all practice deceit…consciously or not.  And while we may never “get caught” by our friends, family members and acquaintances…God knows.  We grieve His heart on a regular basis.  But we can make changes and do better…and we must!  We can ask God to tap us on the shoulder and give us pause when we open our mouths to say something unkind, off-color, or disrespectful.  We can ask Him to give us a nudge when we are tempted to be dishonest...to “fudge” a little here and there or “cut a corner” while no one is looking.

We can ask God to fill every nook and cranny of our heart with the Holy Spirit – our “Inner Compass” that guides us and keeps us on the right path.  We can ask God to forgive us and set us upright…and keep us behaving in a positive manner at all times - toward all people.  And we can begin today…right now…in this very minute!  So let’s get started!  Are you ready to go “all in” with God?

©2016 Debbie Robus 

Daily Devotional for August 3, 2016

Ephesians 4:5-6
For us there is only one Lord, one faith, one baptism, and we all have the same God and Father who is over us all and in us all, and living through every part of us.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Today is Nathan’s fourth birthday.  All three children came to visit us for the day while their parents were at work.  Nathan immediately spotted the birthday gifts we had wrapped and placed on the table for him, so he opened those right away…a Paw Patrol book, a Spider-Man mask that talks, and a Spider-Man glove that makes noises like it is “shooting webs.”  Zola watched with anticipation as each gift was unwrapped…and she even helped with the more difficult task of removing ribbons from the packages.  Timothy stood on the fringes and pretended not to care…but he was more than a little interested in the new toys.

Even at 7, 5 and 4 years of age, these children have interesting and unique personalities.  Still, there are common denominators. They all have the capacity to be loving and spontaneously appreciative. They all enjoy swimming, Batman and other superheroes, and certain television programs…like Paw Patrol, Team Umizoomi, and Max and Ruby.  They all love pizza - and dislike taking naps!  All three will do just about anything to “earn” a LifeSavers® candy!

Like any children, there are times when each sibling is “on one” and tries our last nerve.  They occasionally test the limits…say things to see how we will react…and stand their ground in stubborn protest when things do not go their way.  They can bicker with each other and take a swing with the best of ‘em!  Sibling rivalry is very much in full force with these three!

But at the end of the day, these precious little ones love each other fiercely…and we adore them.  And that is how it is supposed to be.  This is also how it should be among us as Christian brothers and sisters.  We are unique individuals…but part of one body…with one Father who adores us and loves us unconditionally.  He is in charge…we  are called to faithfully obey Him and serve at His pleasure.

God does not call all of us in the same way – or to perform the same tasks.  He designed us to have unique characteristics, thoughts and ideas – and yes, to sometimes be different. There will be occasions when we disagree – perhaps even bicker a bit.  But this must not last – or worse yet, fester into something serious.  We must carefully check our thoughts, words and actions and remember that we are part of a very special and important family…and we have to make every effort to get along with our “siblings.”

Nothing warms my heart more than to see our three little ones sharing – or hugging each other.  I almost melt when one encourages another, shows him/her kindness and courtesy and says, “You’re doing a great job!”  It makes my day when they receive a special treat and ask, “What about the others?”  As much as children can understand what it means to be part of a  family, these three are starting to get it.  And God wants you and me to get it, too.  In fact, we don’t have the “excuse” of being 7, 5, and four!  God has to be constantly shaking His head at how pigheaded and unkind we can often be toward each other!

Today, spend some time in prayer and communication with God.  Ask Him to show you where you may have missed the mark with your “brothers and sisters” in Christ.  Call on Him to help you turn these situations around…to do better moving forward…and to always, ALWAYS remember WHOSE you are before you speak or make a move.  You and I are very much God’s precious little ones…His pride and joy.  Are we acting like it?  Isn’t it time we did?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 21, 2016

1 Peter 3:8-9
Finally, all of you should agree and have concern and love for each other. You should also be kind and humble. Don’t be hateful and insult people just because they are hateful and insult you. Instead, treat everyone with kindness. You are God’s chosen ones, and he will bless you.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

If you have spent any time around children, you’ve probably experienced something that one of them said or did that had you asking, “Where did you learn that?”  The answers will vary…Mom or Dad - or another adult…in a movie…on TV…at the store…at a ballgame…at school.

People are watching.  I know I say that a lot…but it’s the truth.  And no group among us is paying closer attention than our children.  So when we use four-letter words, ugly gestures, or disdainful and insulting talk toward someone else, they notice.  When we gossip, criticize and disparage others, our children assume that this is acceptable.

We tell our kids, “We don’t say those things,” and “We don’t use those words.” But sometimes, they reply with, “So-and-so does!”  Then we have to try to explain why this is not okay – without disrespecting the person who uttered such things.  It’s a slippery slope.  As a teacher, I have experienced this many times.  Even when you ask the child, “Do you see me doing those things?  Do you hear me using those words?”…they often reply, “No, but my mom does…” or “My dad/grandpa does…”  OR, they will say, “I heard this person or that one say these things on television.”  There is certainly plenty of the latter to go around these days!

I ask you…is this really what we want to project to our children – and others?  Youngsters have actually said to me, “When we get to be grown-ups, we can say these things.”  I’ve heard adults say, “He/she doesn’t talk that way in the workplace”…or “It’s just politics.”  It’s as if we have one set of rules for certain people and settings…and another for everyone else.  I think God must hang His head in shame and disgust when we act this way.

You do not have a license to speak in a certain manner…to insult, use foul language, or criticize others…just because you are an adult - or you are in a certain setting.  As a disciple of Christ, you have no business giving someone a special “salute” when he/she cuts you off in traffic…or calling people liars, morons, and names I cannot write in this devotional.  We simply cannot act like this and claim the name of Jesus! Many are trying to do this very thing…but trust me, others see right through the ruse – especially the unbelievers in our midst!

We cannot pick and choose the time and place to honor God’s word.  We cannot justify insults, name-calling, back-biting, spreading rumors and falsehoods, and so much more.  People are watching.  They see how we conduct ourselves in every situation.  And many base their ideas of what it means to follow Jesus on what you and I say and do while claiming to be His disciples.

When others look at you, WHO is represented?  Do you go the second mile to ensure that your words and actions line up with God’s admonition to be kind, humble, and demonstrate love and concern for others?  Are you ready to check your conduct and make sure that you never say/do something that would embarrass or disgrace God?  Isn’t it time you were?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 25, 2016

Matthew 18:18-20    
“Take this most seriously: A yes on earth is yes in heaven; a no on earth is no in heaven. What you say to one another is eternal. I mean this. When two of you get together on anything at all on earth and make a prayer of it, my Father in heaven goes into action. And when two or three of you are together because of me, you can be sure that I’ll be there.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I have grown so weary of what people are saying to one another these days – particularly on social media – that I’ve almost quit reading.  So if I miss an important post from one of you, please understand that it was not my intention to ignore you.  I really do care about the ups and downs in my friends’ lives.  But when they resort to name-calling and vicious criticisms of others, I am just not able to support this.

Let’s focus primarily on one particular line of this scripture passage today… “What you say to one another is eternal.” Jesus could not have been more clear, could He?  I’ve seen some pretty nasty comments lately from people I know and love…and perhaps they were just engaging in some banter that they felt teetered close to the edge of ugliness while remaining harmless.  I am here to say that it is not innocuous…because not everyone knows you.  Not everyone who reads what is posted or hears what is said will have the “back story” and know that this is a teasing exchange between two acquaintances or old friends.

In the same manner, when we share off-color comments – or make them - we are demonstrating a level of acceptance of this kind of behavior…and showing our immaturity in the bargain.  We have to be very careful as Christians to monitor our words and actions.  What we say matters!  What we do is important!  Jesus has told us…these things have eternal consequences!

I think we would all pretty well concede that when we pray for someone – or when two of us agree before God about something, we trust that God will hear our answer and respond according to His will.  When we gather with a friend or two and speak of God or share in His word – or even discuss how God has worked in an area of our lives – God is with us, and He blesses the discussion.  What we don’t seem to recognize is that when we say and do ugly or unkind things…when we “misbehave,” God sees this, too.  And He hangs His head in shame and disgust.  Nothing gets by God!

Maybe you don’t care.  Maybe you think that you will say and do what you please…that Jesus has forgiven your sins, and your seat at His table in heaven is secure – so the rest doesn’t matter.  But I am here to tell you that it does.  Maybe you believe that this person or the other truly is a jerk or an idiot, and telling the world is your job!  It isn’t!  God will handle this situation – and countless others like it – if only you will give the problem to HIM…then back off and allow Him room to work!

Let’s pay closer attention to our words and actions.  Let’s be very careful about labels and criticisms and offering our opinion as “gospel”…because Jesus made it very clear that what we say and do has eternal consequences. In light of this consideration, don’t you want to be more careful?  Will this be the day that you get started?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 2, 2016

Romans 5:15-17
Yet the rescuing gift is not exactly parallel to the death-dealing sin. If one man’s sin put crowds of people at the dead-end abyss of separation from God, just think what God’s gift poured through one man, Jesus Christ, will do! There’s no comparison between that death-dealing sin and this generous, life-giving gift. The verdict on that one sin was the death sentence; the verdict on the many sins that followed was this wonderful life sentence. If death got the upper hand through one man’s wrongdoing, can you imagine the breathtaking recovery life makes, sovereign life, in those who grasp with both hands this wildly extravagant life-gift, this grand setting-everything-right, that the one man Jesus Christ provides?

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

On June 1, 2016, at 3:45 a.m., a 28-year-old woman drove on to the Interstate 430 bridge in Little Rock, Arkansas…traveling in the wrong direction.  She collided with 60-year-old Gary Digiuseppe, who was on his way to work as an on-air news reporter for radio station KARN 102.9 FM. Both cars caught fire…both drivers were killed.  A co-worker actually reported this crash on-air before he knew that one of the victims was his friend, Gary. At 3:45 a.m. on June 1, 2016, dozens of lives were forever impacted – and changed – by this accident.

Police and highway department officials note that traveling the wrong way on an Interstate highway happens more often than we realize…people make an errant turn and find themselves entering on an exit ramp.  We will never know why or how this young woman came to be on the wrong side of the bridge on this fateful morning.  But every day, countless events – and the decisions of others - change our lives forever.  And so it was with Adam in the Garden of Eden.  Because he ate the forbidden fruit presented by Eve, death became a physical – and possibly spiritual - reality for all of us today.  I would say that this decision had probably one of the biggest impacts on the most people – EVER!

But here’s the thing…JESUS made an even bigger impact, because He reversed the finality of spiritual death.  Because of Jesus and His sacrifice on the cross, our sins can be forgiven.  We can enjoy Eternal Life in His presence.  Jesus Christ offers the greatest impact on the most people forever and ever…hands down!  And we can all get in on this and share in His gift.

There are a lot of situations and circumstances that we cannot change.  We can’t stop the poor decisions of others. We cannot prevent physical death. Things will happen, people will argue, and relationships will be broken – possibly for the rest of our mortal lives.  We can’t prevent natural disasters or many illnesses and injuries.  In short, “life” just happens…and it has a tremendous – and lasting – effect on many of us.  But when we focus on Jesus and what He offers us, we can handle these other “life impacts.”  When we trust Him for our salvation – and focus on serving Him and fulfilling His purpose for our lives…we can put these other life-changing events into proper perspective.

My heart breaks for the family and friends of the two people who lost their lives…and I pray that they both reside in Heaven with Jesus today.  I thank God that because of Him and the blood of Jesus, we have hope – even in the midst of a tragedy like this one.  I am reminded just how much impact the words, thoughts and actions of one person can have on so many others…and I am even more determined to make sure that mine glorify God’s amazing gift through His only Son to the very best of my ability.  What about you?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 22, 2016

Proverbs 28:14
The Lord blesses everyone
    who is afraid to do evil,
    but if you are cruel,
    you will end up in trouble.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Let’s be real…there are well-meaning people in this world who seem to stick their foot in their mouths at every turn. They seem to have a knack for saying or doing the wrong thing at the most inappropriate time.  We know they have good intentions…their delivery is just poor and misguided.  We understand that their hearts are big…but they may be a little lacking in the common sense department.

But then there are those who seem to have a habit of “speaking their mind,” or trying to “put others in their place”…as if they have some level of higher authority.  Their smug demeanor and meddling behaviors can be aggravating and insulting…if not downright cruel.  They have an opinion, and they are not afraid to express it!  And sometimes, the very people who say and do these things are the ones who want to hide behind the name of Jesus and claim to be His most devoted servants.

This is just my opinion – but scripture seems to back me up on it…those who claim to serve Jesus while judging others are headed down a slippery slope.  I don’t believe that Jesus called any of us to love others as we love Him - and as we love ourselves - but give them a good dose of the “Reality According to Me” in the process.  I believe that Jesus wants us to check our thoughts, words and actions…to ask, “What purpose does this serve?”…to take a breath and determine whether what we are about to deliver represents a witness to His love, grace, mercy and kindness – or the cruel and evil actions of the devil himself.

The question becomes, “To whom will you listen?”  Who will you serve…and how will your “witness” represent your relationship with God?  These are important questions that we should all be asking with regularity.  We cannot downplay the significance of a Christian discipleship that includes a hefty dose of “stop, look, and listen” as we interact with others. To do otherwise is to risk not only the blessings of the LORD…but also the addition of others to His Kingdom because our “witness” was a deterrent.  Surely none of us wants this!

Will you join me in taking a few minutes each day to “stop, look and listen” for the voice of God?  Will you ask Him to give you a tender and perceptive heart…to replace cruelty and insensitivity with compassion and insight?  Will this be the day that your Christian witness truly counts…and glorifies God in every way?  Don’t you think it should be?

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for September 5, 2015

Matthew 5:21-26
“Under the laws of Moses the rule was, ‘If you murder, you must die.’ But I have added to that rule and tell you that if you are only angry, even in your own home, you are in danger of judgment! If you call your friend an idiot, you are in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse him, you are in danger of the fires of hell.

“So if you are standing before the altar in the Temple, offering a sacrifice to God, and suddenly remember that a friend has something against you, leave your sacrifice there beside the altar and go and apologize and be reconciled to him, and then come and offer your sacrifice to God. Come to terms quickly with your enemy before it is too late and he drags you into court and you are thrown into a debtor’s cell, for you will stay there until you have paid the last penny.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

When Timothy was about three, he started to say the word “idiot” a lot…and he used it in context.  We would be at the park playing, and he would say of a child who wouldn’t share the swing, “He is just an idiot!”  Or when something didn’t go well, he would say, “That’s just stupid!”  Then one day, we were watching a video of the Dr. Seuss movie, “Horton Hears a Who”…and the characters were calling each other idiots.  One character blew into an office and said, “I am not an idiot!  Do I LOOK like an idiot?”  Well…we knew immediately where our little guy was learning words like “idiot” and “stupid”…and sadly, we realized that these words and others (like “boob”…”fatboy”…and “moron”) are frequently sprinkled through several “children’s” movies.

Of course, we don’t want children using such derogatory terms…but this does illustrate how such language is creeping into our everyday lives and becoming a part of our regular vernacular.  And many, if not all of us, have referred to someone as an “idiot”…or a “nutjob”…or something I cannot print here – myself included.

But here’s the deal…Jesus tells us plainly in this scripture passage that to even think of someone in these terms is a sin, just as much as murder!  Whoa!  Let that soak in for a few minutes!  Even thinking ugly things about someone – whether we speak them out loud or act on them – is equivalent to murder?  This is what the Bible says!

See, God knows our heart. We can be the nicest person on the outside…we can “fake it till we make it” with family, friends and acquaintances.  But we cannot hide from God.  He knows every thought we have…every emotion we experience…every desire of our heart.  And what GOD knows about us is really what matters.  Can we all say, “Thank Heavens for the blood of Jesus to cleanse our sins?”

I don’t have a good answer for how we shield our children from these ugly words and thoughts…because they are everywhere.  But we can teach them not to use such language…and WHY this is hurtful to them as much or more than the other guy.  We can work on eliminating these words and thoughts from our own vocabulary – and hearts – and focus more on operating in the love, grace, mercy and compassion of Jesus Christ.  We can read “Dr. Seuss” books to our kids – and maybe skip viewing the movies.  We must do all we can to create an atmosphere in which these thoughts and comments are unacceptable.

I am sure that I will slip up again…that something will set me off someday and I’ll refer to someone as an “idiot” or something else ugly.  And I thank God that if/when I recognize my error and ask for His forgiveness, He will grant it.  I’m a work in progress…but I want to keep growing in my relationship with Jesus and becoming more like Him every day.  And eliminating these judgments and words from my life is a good starting point.  Are you with me?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 24, 2015

August 24 ~ Luke 6:32-36
“Do you think you deserve credit for merely loving those who love you? Even the godless do that! And if you do good only to those who do you good—is that so wonderful? Even sinners do that much! And if you lend money only to those who can repay you, what good is that? Even the most wicked will lend to their own kind for full return!

“Love your enemies! Do good to them! Lend to them! And don’t be concerned about the fact that they won’t repay. Then your reward from heaven will be very great, and you will truly be acting as sons of God: for he is kind to the unthankful and to those who are very wicked.

“Try to show as much compassion as your Father does."

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of TyndalePublishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Early in my adult life, I worked for a supervisor who had actually stated that one of his goals was to “make or break” first-year employees.  He deliberately made things difficult for them, stirred up conflict, and created situations that tested one’s fortitude and courage.  After one particularly ugly incident with this man, a co-worker offered me words of kindness and compassion…and some advice I’ve never forgotten.  She said, “Kill him with kindness.” 

Are you kidding me?  This person had just treated me horribly…made things incredibly tough for me…acted in a manner that was reprehensible.  And now I was supposed to be extra kind to him?  I was also reminded by some well-meaning, loving friends and family members that it was hard to feel unkindly toward those for whom we pray.  I was already praying – for my own courage and strength in the face of this person’s unkindness.  But now I was challenged to pray for him!  It almost seemed like too much.

I wish I could say that this was the only time in my life that I worked for a “tyrant” or with co-workers who were unpleasant or had an axe to grind.  Sadly, this appears to be more commonplace than we would like to think!  But I am grateful that I learned early on to follow Jesus’ words in this scripture passage from Luke 6.  My parents taught me as a youngster that retaliation was not the answer…that being who God designed me to be and "taking the high road" would bring far better results.  I learned that “killing with kindness” and praying for my “enemies” might not always make the other person nicer…that the path I traveled might not instantly be easier.  But in the end, I would have the satisfaction of knowing that I honored my commitment to God…that I demonstrated the love of Christ even to those who were unlovely.

This is not an easy choice.  There are days when we all want to fight back and “let ‘em have it!”  I can assure you that even in recent months, I have found it very hard to love and tolerate some people who have been incredibly unkind and divisive.  When you are hurting, it’s hard to show love and compassion for those who have committed the offenses.  But I remind myself of times when both Greg and I were told by someone, “I’ve watched you from afar…I’ve observed how kind and decent you were to XYZ.  I’ve seen how you treated them far better than they deserved and held your tongue, even when you could have said plenty.”  I know that people are watching...that what we say and do matters…and often what we DON’T say or do is just as significant.

If we want to please God, we have to emulate Jesus.  And He gave us the perfect example of how to treat those who mistreat us. Let’s be honest, to do any less puts us in the same category as those who are “wicked.”  Take the high road…kill ‘em with kindness…pray for your enemies and those who have hurt or disappointed you in some way.  Let them see Jesus in you and your every action and reaction.  The satisfaction of knowing that you honored Him with your obedient spirit will be better than any momentary pleasure over an impulsive retaliation. 

Don’t let these people steal your joy in Christ. Love others – ALL of them – as Jesus loves you…and find your peace in knowing that you have honored your commitment to love and serve Him in all things.

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 13, 2015

James 2:14-17
My friends, what good is it to say you have faith, when you don’t do anything to show that you really do have faith? Can that kind of faith save you? If you know someone who doesn’t have any clothes or food, you shouldn’t just say, “I hope all goes well for you. I hope you will be warm and have plenty to eat.” What good is it to say this, unless you do something to help? Faith that doesn’t lead us to do good deeds is all alone and dead!

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

A friend posted a picture on Facebook this morning of a chalkboard that said, “Your beliefs don’t make you a better person…your behavior does.” As I read this passage from James 2, I decided that God must think that this is a pretty important message for us today! 

So let’s unpack a little.  Are you a person who is “all talk and no action?”  Are you the first in line to rant about the injustices of this world…and the last to actually get off your duff and do something about them?  When was the last time you physically did something for someone else?  I am not talking about writing a check or making a donation…although these are sometimes important ways to help others.  I’m talking about actually preparing a dish or a meal (even take-out) for someone who is sick, injured, busy, or just plain HUNGRY!  I’m talking about offering to provide rides or kiddie carpool…or to sit with a child, elderly person, or even a pet for a few hours or a day – or longer, if you are able – to give someone a much-needed break.

I’m talking about sending a thoughtful and heartfelt note of encouragement to someone who is going through something difficult…or recognition and congratulations to someone who has had a happy experience, reached a milestone, or achieved a new level of accomplishment.  I'm talking about offering to run an errand or lend a helping hand...and actually following through on the proposal.

I’m talking about doing whatever you are able to physically do…and I realize that sometimes, for some of us, prayer IS what we can do.  But by golly, let’s do it to the best of our abilities. When we tell someone we will pray for them…let’s actually lift them in prayer and ask God to meet their needs.  And let’s not just do this once and forget it…let's keep on praying!

There's one more thing…people ARE watching…but they don’t need a “show.”  They don’t need to hear what you did for this person or that one…or how long and hard you prayed for "Suzy." If we are living out our faith and following through with our thoughts and actions, others will see it…and they will want this same relationship with Jesus for themselves. 

So what does your behavior say about you today?  When others look at you, do they see someone who puts his/her faith into action?  Don’t you think it’s time they did?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 11, 2015

Isaiah 5:21
Woe to those who are wise and shrewd in their own eyes!

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

I recently viewed a movie called The Ultimate Gift, based on the best-selling book by Jim Stovall.  The synopsis at IMDb.com says, “A deceased billionaire leaves his spoiled adult grandson a series of odd tasks to perform in order to receive ‘the ultimate gift,’ with the resentful grandson having no idea what that might be.”  Even though this movie was released in 2006 – and a sequel, The Ultimate Life, was shown in theaters in 2013 – I encourage you to rent this one and watch it.

I won’t spoil the plot for you, but the twelve gifts this grandfather offers are: work; money (as in how to handle it wisely); unconditional love; friends; laughter; giving; family; problems; learning; dreams; gratitude; and the gift of a day.  A message of Christian faith is subtly woven through this film.  These “gifts” all come with lessons that most of us could probably stand to revisit from time to time.

Too many of us think we are “all that and a bag of chips”…that people care a whole lot more about what we think, say and do than is really the case…that we can talk or buy our way out of any scrape…that there will always be a “rich grandfather” to bail us out of any trouble we encounter. The verses in Isaiah 5 that surround this one say that many think they are “heroes” who can hold large amounts of liquor…take bribes and manipulate the justice system to suit their own agendas…or tell lies and twist things to fit their own beliefs and values.  Have I stepped on any toes yet?

At one point in the movie, the lead character is sitting in a hospital chapel with a little girl, looking at a large statue of Jesus Christ positioned on the altar. He tells the child that he doesn’t know a whole lot about God, but…”I can promise you that those arms are meant for you.” 

While the “gifts” demonstrated in this movie are important…the true “Ultimate Gift” is to dwell in the arms of Jesus…both figuratively in this life…and literally forever in Eternity.  But God has called us to live according to His plans in the meantime…to faithfully and responsibly exercise the 12 “gifts” described here, and to humbly serve Him in everything we say and do.  We are called to take ownership of our words and actions and to make sure that they line up with God’s will and design for our lives.

The challenge for each of us today is to determine what God wants us to do…and get busy doing it!  This movie might serve as a good “starting point” for ideas.  Spending some time in prayer and contemplation is another. Our life is indeed a precious gift from God that demands a level of care and appreciation in direct proportion to its value.  How well are your efforts stacking up these days?  Are you honoring God’s gifts?  Isn’t it time you did?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 8, 2015

Hebrews 13:18-21
Pray for us, for our conscience is clear and we want to keep it that way. I especially need your prayers right now so that I can come back to you sooner.

And now may the God of peace, who brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus, equip you with all you need for doing his will. May he who became the great Shepherd of the sheep by an everlasting agreement between God and you, signed with his blood, produce in you through the power of Christ all that is pleasing to him. To him be glory forever and ever. Amen.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House.

This morning, someone posted a photo on Facebook of a beautiful impressionistic painting by an Australian-born artist named Robert Hagan*. This lovely piece featured three barefoot ladies in long dresses who appear to be friends standing on a sandy beach.  The accompanying quote was from novelist Nicholas Sparks**…"You're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by."

We would do well to apply this in our own lives.  Talk is cheap…a lot of people say a LOT of things.  But what do they DO?  How do they treat others?  Does their daily living back up their words…and does it please God?  Because in the end, pleasing Him is truly all that matters.

We all know people who “talk a good game”…who say they care about others, that they don’t care about money or possessions…that “faith and family” matter most to them.  And we also know a lot of people who say these things and then act in a totally opposite manner.  They are the first to rant about their “hard-earned money” going to pay for programs to help those in need…or to judge those who think or act differently.  They look down their noses at those who attend worship and don’t dress as nicely or drive a fancy car – or have tousled, unruly children or a disabled elderly relative who needs the aisle seat (which is where they ALWAYS sit!).  And then they proudly sport a bumper sticker that advertises their home church – and a “fish magnet with a cross.” 

Might I remind all of us that people are watching…and well they should be!  More importantly, God is watching.  He always knows whether what we do lines up with what we say, what He commanded – and what we agreed to do in return.  Like the Apostle Paul, my prayer is that we would all be continually ready to please God and do what is right…that our conscience might indeed be clear…and that we would strive to keep it that way!  How well are you doing?

©2015 Debbie Robus 

* http://www.roberthagan.com
** http://nicholassparks.com

Daily Devotional for July 24, 2015

Colossians 3:1-2
So if you’re serious about living this new resurrection life with Christ, act like it. Pursue the things over which Christ presides. Don’t shuffle along, eyes to the ground, absorbed with the things right in front of you. Look up, and be alert to what is going on around Christ—that’s where the action is. See things from his perspective.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Greg and I have been watching a special series on CNN called “The Seventies.”  We are finding these hour-long looks at the past especially interesting because this was “our era.”  Several BIG things happened to us in the 1970s…and this “trip down Memory Lane” has been good for us. We have been reminded of happy times…but our memories have also been jogged about several events that we had put out of our thoughts – if not altogether forgotten.  In particular, we watched a segment recently that noted serial killers like the Hillside Strangler and Ted Bundy - and the cult activities of Charles Manson and Jim Jones.

We get so caught up in what is happening in our world today – and it IS tragic, in many instances.  But we forget that these things are not new – or necessarily worse.  The terrible shootings and acts of violence occurring today had a counterpart in prior decades.  We’ve had plenty to hang our heads about.  I remember being a new bride in 1975 when Saigon fell…and wondering what lay ahead for all of us…and my mother tells of rocking me as an infant during the Cuban Missile Crisis and worrying about the same things.

So what does this have to do with these verses in Colossians 3?  I believe we have a choice…particularly as Christians.  We can hang our heads and talk “gloom and doom.”  We can wring our hands and worry about what the world is coming to.  Or we can lift our heads, stand up straight and tall, and say, “I serve a God who is fully in control, and I trust Him to make things right.”  We can live - and love others - in a way that fosters this concept.  When others ask us how we are, we can genuinely answer, “I am well” – regardless of what is happening in our lives. 

“But that’s dishonest!” you may say.  And I would have to respectfully disagree.  Because if we truly believe in God’s promises…if we are confident that Jesus is who He says He is…that He died for our sins and prepares an Eternal home for us in Heaven…then we truly are well.  There may be troubles at every turn…we may be sick or injured, hurting from grief or disappointment, struggling to pay bills and worried about the troubled person who may sit next to us in a movie theater with a gun or come after us because we don’t agree with his/her views – on anything!

But we serve a God who is bigger than ALL of this…and He will never let us down.  So stand tall, lift your chin, put on a smile, and BE WELL!  Speak positively, and let others know that you serve a God who is in complete control…and that they can, too!  Recognize that there is nothing new under the sun…and what God did for previous generations, He will do for us, also.

We serve an awesome God who totally has our back every minute of the day.  It’s time for us to stand up and act like we believe it!

©2015 Debbie Robus 

Daily Devotional for July 21, 2015

1 John 4:20
If anyone says, "I love God," but keeps on hating his brother, he is a liar; for if he doesn't love his brother who is right there in front of him, how can he love God whom he has never seen?

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Last week as we drove to the gas station, Timothy was seated in the back of the vehicle, and he began to make loud, silly noises. I asked him to stop.  He persisted.  Suddenly from the middle row seating, I heard Zola say, “Timothy!  Do you want her to turn this car around and take you home?”  Timothy did not answer.  Then I heard almost-three-year-old Nathan chime in…”Well…DO you?”  The noises stopped…and I could barely contain my laughter to drive.  In that little snippet of conversation, I realized how our children truly see us.  It’s true…if you listen, your children will tell you how you really sound!

Our children learn at an early age to mirror our thoughts and feelings.  So a lot of us grow up with prejudice – and even hatred – that is really not our own, but rather that of our parents, other adults, society, and our peers.  We learn to dislike people of another race…but our justifications make no sense.  We lump people into collective groups…as in “THEY are all this way or that”…or “I do not like the XYZs or the PDQs”.  When truly questioned about our reasoning…we have no explanation that is rooted in personal experience – or one that makes much sense.

I ask you…what injustice or “wrong” has been personally done to you by someone of another race or ethnicity?  Why do you have such a disdain for people whose sexual orientation is different from yours?  What’s it to you if a person practices another religion – or no religion at all?  Did another person’s poverty or lack of education or opportunity cause you to literally miss a meal or a chance to be and do whatever you wanted with your own life?  How are you personally and directly affected by another person’s race, religion, ethnicity, socioeconomic level, political preference, or sexual orientation?

If we are honest, we often don’t really know the people we disparage.  We start out parroting what we have heard from others…and soon we have internalized it.  The next thing you know, we are posting social media references to “God and Country” one minute…and spewing hate and venom toward a particular person or group in the next…and we see no problem with this!

I have to tell you, I am struggling these days to find my “church,” because a lot of people with whom I’ve worshipped and associated with for decades are schizophrenic.  They SAY they love God and want to serve Him…they never hesitate to ask for prayer – or to offer to pray for someone else.  They “serve” in ministries and give of their “time, talents and money.”  And then they bash everyone from people on welfare and those in the LBGTQ community to our president and his cabinet…and anyone they deem to have a different opinion from theirs – in any arena.  Worse yet, they excuse this behavior by falsely assuming that everyone else agrees with them…especially God.

I’m giving some of us an “out” by blaming our upbringing and environment.  But it’s time we all grew up!  The time has come to give our thoughts and ideas a thorough examination in light of God’s word…to see where we have made decisions and comments that offend not only a person or a group, but God Almighty…to ask God to show us how to operate in the love of Christ and kick the devil’s hatred to the curb.  We are not a four-year-old echoing her parents’ admonition to an older brother.  And we are most certainly not echoing the voice of our Heavenly Father.  But we need to be…and the shift in attitude can begin today. 

Will you spend some time with God and ask Him to correct your thinking?  Will this be the day that you begin to live, speak and act in a way that says, “I KNOW the Father Whom I have not seen…and I love because He first loved me?” Don’t you think it should be?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 20, 2015

1 Corinthians 13:4
Love is very patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful or proud…

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Dr. Randy Hyde, Senior Pastor at Pulaski Heights Baptist Church in Little Rock, Arkansas, delivered a sermon on July 5, 2015, titled “Conversations About Freedom.”  I encourage you to go to http://www.phbclr.com/members/sermons/sermon/?id=252 and read the message for yourself.

Dr. Hyde shares an exchange he had with a retired and newly widowed friend in Baltimore who took a job at Walmart as a greeter.  When Hyde returned for a visit recently, the man expressed to his former pastor that he was not sure how to relate to the large number of customers who shopped in his store who were Muslim.  It was not that the man felt animosity or disdain toward these people because of their religious preferences or ethnicity.  But he was at a lost about how to relate to them…and how to share His Christian faith with them.  Dr. Hyde sensed that this quandary was greatly troubling his friend.

Again, I encourage you to read the sermon for yourself (it’s fairly brief, but full of good stuff!)…but Dr. Hyde says that he didn’t have a lot of time to visit with this man and give him a decent answer.  After returning home, he pulled his thoughts together in the form of this message.  Essentially, the pastor wishes he had told his friend that when people come into Walmart, they are seeking more than a bottle of shampoo or a bag of mulch…they are seeking love and acceptance…and the freedom to be who they are without fear of persecution or intimidation.

Now, you may think this is a stretch…but consider your own life.  As you travel through your day, how do you react to the words and actions of others?  Can a friendly smile change your attitude?  Can one glance or a comment that you construe as negative or critical ruin your whole morning or afternoon?  Do you ever feel judged just by the way people look at you and react to you?  Does something as basic and simple as a wave and greeting at Walmart – or the lack thereof - have an impact on your demeanor?

Too often, we underestimate the power of a loving gesture. We fail to see the effect that a smile can have on another person.  We take for granted the person who strives to be patient, humble and speak softly with a tone of grace and acceptance.  We remember people who treat us unkindly, criticize or judge, and speak negatively.  But we also remember those who are loving and merciful…those who offer words of encouragement and offer positive “vibes.”  We remember people who smile a lot and seem to be filled with joy most of the time!

Which do you suppose has more of an impact on others?  Which best represents Jesus Christ and His message?  Which draws others in rather than creating a divide?  Where would you rather land in this equation…and where do you think God wants you to be?

Dr. Hyde concluded his thoughts by saying that “kindness and faith come from the same Source”…and I believe that we can draw more people to Jesus with a spirit of love, patience, kindness and humility than we could ever reach with a thousand sermons or criticisms.  It is no small thing that one of Jesus’ greatest commandments to us is to “love one another.”  A smile and a positive attitude are pretty good places to start…and in doing so, we represent the love of Jesus Christ.

When we create an atmosphere where all people feel accepted and free to be themselves, we are demonstrating our confidence that Jesus was right all along in how He treated people…and we make room for Him to work in ways great and small.  What does your demeanor say to others about your Christian faith?  Are you a walking – and welcoming – example of the love of Christ?  Don’t you think you should be?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 19, 2015

1 Corinthians 10:24
Don’t think only of yourself. Try to think of the other fellow, too, and what is best for him.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

I recently read on Facebook about a woman who overheard fellow students at a class reunion discussing her weight gain.  They had no clue what “life” had dealt her…the hardships, health issues and heartaches that had led to this change in her appearance.  They didn’t see her…they saw her size – and judged her accordingly.  When a friend became engaged a year or so after his wife died suddenly, the mother of the new bride told me...“Jack* says he never knew what love was until he met my daughter.”  This man's first wife had been my friend.  This ill-spoken statement was probably not meant to disrespect her…but it truly was hurtful.  More than once in my adult life, someone has reminded me that I am not a mother…in the context of “you could not possibly understand [because you have not physically given birth to a child].” Greg and I were childless by choice when I became unable to bear children in my late 20s.  Never in a million years did we think we would be so personally involved in the lives of babies and small children - especially in our retirement years.  But this has indeed been the case, and we love our little ones dearly.  So when these remarks were made, they truly stung.  While I have forgiven those who spoke them…they left a lasting imprint on my heart.

I get it…people often say to someone, “Until you have children of your own, you will never understand XYZ.”  Being intimately involved with little ones on a regular basis does give one insights and empathy that only come from personal experience.  But you don’t have to literally be a mother or father to understand these feelings. And because of my own experiences, I will never utter this statement to someone else.  

It's human nature to whisper and say, "The years have not been kind to him/her" or to say something in the joy/heat of the moment that can potentially insult or injure another.  But God wants us to think before we speak…to ask Him to guide our thoughts and words…to carefully consider what we are about to say or do – and how it will affect others.  The pervading question we should answer is whether what we are about to express will make others look at us as Disciples of Christ and say, “I want to serve Him for myself!”  If the answer is negative, it’s probably better to either rephrase our sentiments…or to keep our mouths shut!

When you dare to speak ill of our President and other political leaders, consider that there may be those in your presence who do not share your feelings.  If you criticize or disparage people of different races, ethnicities, or members of the LGBTQ community, remember that there may be people listening who are either a part of that group – or know and love someone who is.  When you condemn the parent in the check-out line or a public venue with screaming kids, you are speaking without knowledge of his/her back story – and possibly making an unfair judgment. When you sneer at another person’s appearance…dress, body art, hair color, size and more…you are saying, “You are less than...” and giving them the impression that God could never love someone like them.  When you deride people whose religious beliefs are different from yours, you are widening the chasm between us and them…and making the case for Christ even more unappealing to them.

So what is one to do?  Are we never to have opinions?  Absolutely not!  But we must consider at every turn what Jesus would say and do.  How would He react to these people and situations?  We must make every effort to show His grace, mercy, love and acceptance to others…even those who spout opinions willy-nilly with little to no regard for the other guy’s feelings! 

I’ll admit…I have a hard time with this sometimes.  But the only opinion that truly matters is God’s…and I consider it a great lesson in faith-building to stop, look and listen to Him before I act or speak.  I highly recommend that we all take a long hard look at our faith walk…that we trade insults for intentional discipleship…and that we pay closer attention to what we say and do as Christ’s representatives.  In doing this, we become the people that God has called us to be.  We will all be better for it…and Jesus Christ will be glorified.  Isn’t that the point?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 5, 2015

Hebrews 11:1-2
The fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith, is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. It’s our handle on what we can’t see. The act of faith is what distinguished our ancestors, set them above the crowd.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Last night, Greg and I sat on a blanket in our friends’ back yard, which overlooks the lake that surrounds our community.  We were joined by many members of our family, including both of our moms, my mother’s husband, my niece and her husband, and of course – Timothy, Zola and Nathan.  Dear friends joined us, too.  We all sat and watched as spectacular fireworks shot high into the air and exploded over the water, making a scene so amazing that Timothy kicked his legs and said, “I can’t stand it!  It’s sooooo beautiful!”  And for that moment, all was right in my world.

I’ll admit…this was a hard week for me.  My faith was challenged when people who I know in my heart are Christians said or did things that were, at best, judgmental…and some of them were downright unkind, unloving – and untrue.  This was a hurtful week…and I asked God over and again why and how people could harden their hearts so profoundly to His truths and promises.  I’ll be honest…I can barely watch the news these days, because of all of the hate, bickering, dissention and fearmongering that is reported upon each day.

I learned many years ago that we cannot always see how God is working…or when He will act in certain situations.  I accepted that there will be some changes I may never realize in my lifetime…and that this does not bear any reflection on God’s love for me and others. 

But as I sat on the blanket last night with Greg and all three little ones - surrounded by family and friends - I felt such a sense of calm, peace and joy.  I felt God saying, “This is all going to be okay.  You have so much to live for – so much of my love and blessings to share with others.  And I am not about to let you down now.”  I slept well and awoke with a new perspective.

Yes, there are things we cannot understand.  Surely people will say and do hurtful things – even “good Christians” – and they will sometimes knock the wind out of us momentarily.  But because of our unyielding faith and trust in an unseen God…and our confidence that He is caring for our every need…we will get up and move forward through another day. 

God’s firm foundation does indeed make every day of this earthly life worth living…and the hope of heaven even sweeter.  Like a little six-year-old boy’s reaction to spectacular fireworks, the thought of all that God has promised is truly so beautiful that I almost can’t stand it!  What about you?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 25, 2015

Matthew 22:37-40
Jesus said, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list. But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ These two commands are pegs; everything in God’s Law and the Prophets hangs from them.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Some of my friends have been talking on Facebook about “cleaning up” their “Friend” lists by removing those folks who insist on spewing venomous statements and sharing pictures/posts that target certain groups or ideologies in a negative or hateful manner.  They have been especially swift in removing those who claim to love Jesus in one post…and make ugly comments in the next.  And I don’t blame them one bit!

This scripture passage is a key component of our Christian discipleship.  Jesus sums up all of His teachings in two simple rules.  It reminds me of when I was a kindergarten teacher.  I had three “rules”…1) be kind to others; 2) work and play quietly; 3) respect other people’s property.  Nothing else was needed.  When a child would misbehave, I would ask, “Are you being kind to others?  Were you working/playing quietly?  Did that respect XYZ’s property?”  If the answer was “No” to any of these questions, the child knew that there would be consequences.

We are Jesus’ “kindergartners,” so to speak…and His rules are as simple and inclusive as that of any teacher of 5-year-olds.  “Are you loving God with all of your passion, prayers and intelligence…with every thought, word and action?  Are you treating others with the same level of respect, kindness, love and compassion that you desire?”  I’m afraid that for some of us, the answer would have to be “No!”…and we must accept that there are consequences for this response…and that we grieve God in the process.

I’m going to give some of us the benefit of the doubt and say that we don’t fully intend to be hurtful with many of our comments and actions.  We don’t mean to be so judgmental.  But we are…and sometimes, it’s a case of being a bit of a bonehead!  We don’t stop to think about what we are posting/saying – or our body language – or even the “public displays” that we make. To live as a true disciple of Christ, you have to live intentionally…which means that we must pay close attention to every thought, word and action.

Someone noted at morning Bible study this week that she sometimes stops and reminds herself that her bumper sticker advertises our local church – and that there is a “fish” symbol on her car…so she really ought not to be an impolite driver or wag her finger at other motorists who irritate her!  And we all should stop and check ourselves - and our words and actions - at every turn.  We should ask those two questions…”Does this demonstrate our love for God?” and “Are we loving others as we love ourselves and wish for others to love us?”  More importantly, we should also ask a third question…”Are we loving others as Jesus loves us?”  Because I guarantee you…He is not demonstrating anything BUT love toward us!

I’ve not done a “social media house cleaning” in a while…but I may have to soon.  I don’t want anyone to see posts associated with me that indicate in any way that I condone unloving statements or actions – from anyone. And I pray that when Jesus asks if I have been “following the rules”…I can wholeheartedly answer, “Yes, LORD! With all I’ve got!”  What about you?

©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 2, 2015

1 John 2:4-6
If someone claims, “I know him well!” but doesn’t keep his commandments, he’s obviously a liar. His life doesn’t match his words. But the one who keeps God’s word is the person in whom we see God’s mature love. This is the only way to be sure we’re in God. Anyone who claims to be intimate with God ought to live the same kind of life Jesus lived.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I have a couple of Facebook friends who have to be the most delightful, uplifting Christian witnesses on social media.  They find the blessings and the “good” in every day.  They post encouraging scriptures and phrases.  They talk about what a joy it is to go to work (yes, go.to.work!) and to attend worship services at their churches.  Tracy (my cousins’ wife) and Donna (a former schoolmate) make Facebook fun…and they demonstrate beautifully that they know God well!

I could name several Facebook friends who claim to know God well…but their posts suggest otherwise.  They take pock-shots at those of opposing political views, especially our President; people who are gay, bisexual or transgender; and even those who may not be the sharpest knives in the drawer (think People of Walmart!).  It saddens me to see friends post political rants and call others by ugly or derogatory names alongside their posts of prayers and scripture verses, invitations for others to join them in worship at their church, and those of the “share if you love Jesus” variety.

If we would each stop and think for just a minute about what this says to others – particularly those who are not Christians – I would hope that we would stop this immediately, open our Bibles, and read God’s commandments until they were imprinted forever on our brains and our hearts.  I am not saying that you cannot stand up for your candidate or your beliefs about social issues – or that we don’t all need to snicker at the occasional joke or outrageous picture…but we do have to check how we are doing this and what our statements imply.

We cannot put a bumper sticker on our car that says “Honk if you love Jesus” – or invites people to worship with us at our local church – and then demonstrate road rage or cut someone off for a parking spot.  We cannot fill the walls of our houses with crosses and scriptures or wear religious-themed clothing and jewelry, then yell and scream (or curse!) at the referees during a local sporting event.  We also should not get on Facebook and Twitter and talk about how bad the refs were and what idiotic calls they made! 

If we trust God for all things and do our dead-level best to live for Him, we cannot get on social media and bash our exes, criticize our kids’ teachers, or make fun of others.  We also cannot make ourselves out to be better than the next person and wave the flag of our Christian faith as justification.
 
We need to get over ourselves and keep the main thing the main thing!  We need to make sure that our lives match our words…that we are making a difference for Jesus rather than making a point that suits our agendas.  We need to seek God’s mature love and abide in Him – always and in all ways!  And we need to start now. I’m in…are you?

©2015 Debbie Robus