Showing posts with label people are watching. Show all posts
Showing posts with label people are watching. Show all posts

Daily Devotional for December 30, 2016

1 Corinthians 8:8-9
But fortunately God doesn’t grade us on our diet. We’re neither commended when we clean our plate nor reprimanded when we just can’t stomach it. But God does care when you use your freedom carelessly in a way that leads a fellow believer still vulnerable to those old associations to be thrown off track.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
A man was found dead recently in a hot tub at a residence in Northwest Arkansas.  The homeowner possessed an Amazon Echo…a hands-free voice-controlled speaker.  When someone says, “Alexa” or “Amazon” (the names assigned to this device), the machine begins recording your questions or comments, and a response is then given. It’s sort of an “in-home Siri” for those who have a smart-phone and are familiar with this feature.  Police want to confiscate the Amazon Echo device as evidence in this particular death.  They want to examine this device to see if anyone in the home the night the death occurred might have said something that was recorded. Amazon is refusing to comply, citing privacy concerns.
  
Let’s just label this the monthly “People Are Watching” devotional!  We apparently need plenty of reminders about this idea, because related scriptures pop up in my outline every few weeks.

Here’s the thing…a lot of us think that what we say and do in the privacy of our own home or car is our business…that nobody should know – or care.  In truth, we are now surrounded with surveillance. Unless you have been under a rock, you know that you can be hacked, observed, followed and monitored – even as you sit and read this devotional!  I don’t mean to make us paranoid - and you can Google ways to protect yourself from hackers and other “spies” at home and online.  But the bottom line is that people.are.watching…and this SHOULD affect how we conduct ourselves at all times.

Our Timothy is particularly astute. Tell him something once…and he never seems to forget.  He is also extremely observant. So the old notion of “Do as I say – not as I do” confuses him to no end. And honestly…this should be a signal to us as “grown-ups” that we cannot play this both ways. We cannot call people names and expect our children – or anyone we encounter – to refrain from doing this. If you have ever watched a little kid pretend to “smoke” a “cigarette,” you know that they already assume that SOMEDAY, this will be okay for them in reality.  Actually, just sit quietly sometime and watch and listen as your kids play. Most likely, you will get a pretty good picture of how you sound and act in their presence…and it might be pretty enlightening!

At every turn, we need to examine what we say and do…and how we behave. We should continually be asking ourselves if anything about our demeanor could cause someone else to sin or backslide.  Yes, God is in the business of forgiving us when we “fall short”…but our daily goal should be to never give Him a reason to have to do so!  Most certainly, we should make every effort to conduct our lives in a manner that no one else is tempted to falter.  We should be so steeped in self-control through the power and strength of Jesus Christ that others want the same kind of relationship with Him that we enjoy.

Is there something that you are saying or doing that could cause another person to be thrown off track?  Could your words and actions actually result in distance between someone else and their relationship with Jesus?  Perhaps we need to think of God as our own personal “Echo”…listening and recording everything about us – and act accordingly.  Will this be the day that you give yourself a head-to-toe exam and discover where you might be exercising your freedom in the salvation of Jesus in a way that could be harmful to others?  Will you then ask God to help you make necessary adjustments?  Don’t you think you should?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 21, 2016

1 Peter 3:8-9
Finally, all of you should agree and have concern and love for each other. You should also be kind and humble. Don’t be hateful and insult people just because they are hateful and insult you. Instead, treat everyone with kindness. You are God’s chosen ones, and he will bless you.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

If you have spent any time around children, you’ve probably experienced something that one of them said or did that had you asking, “Where did you learn that?”  The answers will vary…Mom or Dad - or another adult…in a movie…on TV…at the store…at a ballgame…at school.

People are watching.  I know I say that a lot…but it’s the truth.  And no group among us is paying closer attention than our children.  So when we use four-letter words, ugly gestures, or disdainful and insulting talk toward someone else, they notice.  When we gossip, criticize and disparage others, our children assume that this is acceptable.

We tell our kids, “We don’t say those things,” and “We don’t use those words.” But sometimes, they reply with, “So-and-so does!”  Then we have to try to explain why this is not okay – without disrespecting the person who uttered such things.  It’s a slippery slope.  As a teacher, I have experienced this many times.  Even when you ask the child, “Do you see me doing those things?  Do you hear me using those words?”…they often reply, “No, but my mom does…” or “My dad/grandpa does…”  OR, they will say, “I heard this person or that one say these things on television.”  There is certainly plenty of the latter to go around these days!

I ask you…is this really what we want to project to our children – and others?  Youngsters have actually said to me, “When we get to be grown-ups, we can say these things.”  I’ve heard adults say, “He/she doesn’t talk that way in the workplace”…or “It’s just politics.”  It’s as if we have one set of rules for certain people and settings…and another for everyone else.  I think God must hang His head in shame and disgust when we act this way.

You do not have a license to speak in a certain manner…to insult, use foul language, or criticize others…just because you are an adult - or you are in a certain setting.  As a disciple of Christ, you have no business giving someone a special “salute” when he/she cuts you off in traffic…or calling people liars, morons, and names I cannot write in this devotional.  We simply cannot act like this and claim the name of Jesus! Many are trying to do this very thing…but trust me, others see right through the ruse – especially the unbelievers in our midst!

We cannot pick and choose the time and place to honor God’s word.  We cannot justify insults, name-calling, back-biting, spreading rumors and falsehoods, and so much more.  People are watching.  They see how we conduct ourselves in every situation.  And many base their ideas of what it means to follow Jesus on what you and I say and do while claiming to be His disciples.

When others look at you, WHO is represented?  Do you go the second mile to ensure that your words and actions line up with God’s admonition to be kind, humble, and demonstrate love and concern for others?  Are you ready to check your conduct and make sure that you never say/do something that would embarrass or disgrace God?  Isn’t it time you were?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 19, 2016

Matthew 6:1
“Be especially careful when you are trying to be good so that you don’t make a performance out of it. It might be good theater, but the God who made you won’t be applauding.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

If you have ever contributed to a page like “GoFundMe” or “CaringBridge” - or even purchased something on amazon.com – you’ve probably gotten the little pop-up box afterward that says something like “Tell your friends!”  In these cases, the motive is to hopefully encourage others to follow in your footsteps.  After all, if YOU gave to this charity, others should want to!  If YOU bought printer ink on amazon.com…others should, too!

But there is another component to these messages…particularly the charities.  When you donate and provide your name, this really may encourage others to participate.  But when you tell how MUCH you gave…you’ve “done gone to braggin’!”  If you stop and give $20 to an out-of-work mother standing on the corner by the Walmart parking lot, others do not need to know this.  If you provide school supplies for a child who has none…this is not Facebook news.

If your heart is warmed by the joy you receive when you do for others and serve the LORD, that’s great!  But when you feel compelled to tell others about your good deeds – even in the context of how much God has blessed you – this crosses the line.  We don’t need the praise of other people…the applause of Heaven should be more than enough.

In some translations of Matthew 6:1, Jesus seems to go so far as to say that the “good works” you brag about are totally negated in God’s eyes.  At the very least, “self-promotion” takes the focus off of God and tries to put it on us…and we should know that this is not good Discipleship.  Trust me…the world is watching.  If you are operating in the will of God…and serving according to His plans and directives…others will notice.  More importantly, God will be pleased and glorified.

We shouldn’t ever have to “toot our own horn.”  God’s work in and through us should speak loudly enough.  And if nobody ever publicly acknowledges a single thing we do, it won’t matter one bit.  Our goal should be to hear God say, ”Well done!” when we arrive at Heaven’s gates.  Our “glory” should be HIS glory manifested…His Kingdom furthered…and His purposes completed.  Anything else could very well be our own selfish ego getting in the way.

So do all of the “good works” that God calls you to “perform.”  But check your ego at the door.  Seek only the praise and applause that really matters…His.


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for March 29, 2016

Acts 2:43-47
Everyone around was in awe—all those wonders and signs done through the apostles! And all the believers lived in a wonderful harmony, holding everything in common. They sold whatever they owned and pooled their resources so that each person’s need was met.

They followed a daily discipline of worship in the Temple followed by meals at home, every meal a celebration, exuberant and joyful, as they praised God. People in general liked what they saw. Every day their number grew as God added those who were saved.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
People are watching. This scripture passage once again reinforces that concept.  The people were watching to see how the Apostles would behave. What would they do without Jesus?  How would they conduct themselves?  Would they fall apart and focus on their own agendas?  Would they become bitter or selfish?  Would distance develop between the individuals?  Would they blame God?

Clearly, the opposite was true in all of these cases.  Jesus’ Disciples and Apostles worked together, shared meals and fellowship, and grew closer as a body of believers.  They operated in joy and hope…and praise for God and all that He had done for them.  Surely they were kind and considerate of one another, and one can infer that they maintained a positive attitude!  And my favorite line in this passage says, “People in general liked what they saw.”
 
This is probably one of the most important sentences for us as Christian disciples.  The other verses tell us what the Apostles did…how they worked together to serve God.  But the critical thing to remember is that what we project to others matters.

People are watching…but we must be careful to give them the truth.  They will spot a phony a mile away! We’re not out to make ourselves seem superior…what God offers to us He will gladly grant to EVERYONE who seeks Him. Our goal is to live in such a way that others see Jesus in us…that they recognize how we operate under the power of His Holy Spirit, no matter what is happening in our lives…and they say, “Hey!  I like what I see - and I want this for myself!”

These verses offer great illustrations of how to live for Jesus…and how to serve Him as genuine Christian disciples. If we live with care and intention - and genuinely seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance in our lives in each and every situation and circumstance – others will notice.  They will see how God cares for us and fills us with hope and joy…and they will want to get in on this for themselves.  This brings glory to God, as it should…and helps to fulfill our mission as Christian disciples who go…teach…and baptize.

People ARE watching.  It is important that when they look at us as Christians, they like what they see.  What – and WHO – are you showing them?


©2016 Debbie Robus