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Daily Devotional for December 13, 2016

Matthew 10:40-42
“We are intimately linked in this harvest work. Anyone who accepts what you do, accepts me, the One who sent you. Anyone who accepts what I do accepts my Father, who sent me. Accepting a messenger of God is as good as being God’s messenger. Accepting someone’s help is as good as giving someone help. This is a large work I’ve called you into, but don’t be overwhelmed by it. It’s best to start small. Give a cool cup of water to someone who is thirsty, for instance. The smallest act of giving or receiving makes you a true apprentice. You won’t lose out on a thing.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

When I decorated for Christmas this year, it seemed I had “light” issues everywhere I turned.  I could not find the lights for the “big” tree…and the lights on the tree I place atop the piano would not come on and had to be replaced.  I could have thrown up my hands and gotten upset…but instead, I just knuckled down and got it done.  And part of what motivated me was a gift I received last Christmas.

Greg’s brother died on New Year’s Eve…and the following day, my mother entered the hospital – and subsequently was admitted to Hospice care.  The next twelve days are something of a blur, spent with family as we mourned the passing of a beloved brother…and sitting at my mother’s bedside in her living room. A lot of that time, Greg was with me…and other family members came and went, as well.  The first few nights, I came home to shower and sleep. Later, I stayed at my mother’s house pretty well around the clock.  But twice, I slipped away in the early morning hours to drive home, shower, and have a cup of coffee…to take a deep breath, hug my husband and our cat, and be “normal” for a few minutes.  And one of the things that I remember about coming home is the lights.

Every time I drove into our driveway, lights welcomed me.  Greg made sure to turn on all of the holiday lights inside and out…the trees, the mantel…all of it.  Those twinkling lights were a warm welcome that said, “You are home…you are loved…and it’s going to be okay.”

I don’t know how else to explain what I felt.  I’ve always loved lights. I keep several strands glowing year-round throughout our house.  But the thought that my husband made a point to turn on these holiday lights in the midst of such chaos and sadness was an extraordinary gift to me. He would probably shrug and say, “It was nothing.”  But I am here to tell you…the gesture spoke volumes.  In my eyes, it was huge.  This was my “cup of water” to quench my thirst for a small sense of normalcy – and a warm welcome.

This year, as I strung bright lights throughout our house, I thought of last year…and how the decorations became a much-needed “gift” of sorts.  And the extra effort to get them working just right brought me joy and peace.  As I read this passage today, I asked myself…”Who in my ‘circle’ is thirsty?  Who needs my smallest gesture of love and encouragement?  Who needs a smile…my prayers…a phone call or note of love and care?  Who needs a bag of cookies and hot cocoa mix – or a simple Christmas card?  What child needs an ‘angel tree’ gift?  Who needs my change in the bucket to help make it through the holidays and beyond?”

Sometimes the smallest gifts have the biggest impact.  Who needs your “cup of water” today…or for you to simply “turn on the Christmas lights?”  Are you ready to do your part in this “harvest work?”  Don’t you think it’s time you were?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 22, 2016

Matthew 5:13-16
You are like salt for everyone on earth. But if salt no longer tastes like salt, how can it make food salty? All it is good for is to be thrown out and walked on.

You are like light for the whole world. A city built on top of a hill cannot be hidden, and no one would light a lamp and put it under a clay pot. A lamp is placed on a lampstand, where it can give light to everyone in the house. Make your light shine, so that others will see the good that you do and will praise your Father in heaven.


Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Last Sunday, I read the story of Moses and the plagues God sent to the Egyptians to the students in the 2nd-3rd grade Sunday school class.  I shared this passage from the Contemporary English Version…and it “read” like an action movie!  The children were totally engaged…and eager to hear what came next!  There is nothing wrong with other translations of the Bible…and you may have noticed that I use at least three in writing these daily messages.  But this particular translation gave the Old Testament story “salt and light” - and truly captured the attention of the children who heard it.

Many Sundays, I’ve passed out Bibles in the classroom and shared scripture passages with the children.  These Bibles are NIV (New International Version), which is often difficult for young children to understand…so there has to be a lot of added explanation, which is not a bad thing.  But often, when we have stop and explain what God is saying, we quickly lose the attention of those to whom we are speaking.

Think about this…it is so easy to hand someone a Bible and say, “Read this, and you’ll see what God is all about – and what He has to say to you.”  Now just how effective to you suppose this approach would be?  When we add the “salt and light” – our own personal experiences…an intimate explanation of how the God’s word has affected our own life…people pay closer attention.  God becomes “relatable.”  When we live in a way that demonstrates God’s wisdom, power, love, grace, mercy, forgiveness and blessings in our own life, others take notice.

This is why we must not “hide our light under a barrel.”  We must seek ways to share God’s message with others…utilize understandable Biblical translations, both literal and through our own personal witness...offer demonstrations of the teachings of Jesus in action…and add ”salt” in our daily servings of Christian discipleship!

The challenge for each of us is to maintain exactly the right balance.  Too much salt can be just as bad as none at all.  We don’t want to come on too strongly. Jesus never forces Himself on anyone…and neither should we!  But we must never shy away from a chance to give others a glimpse of Jesus in our own daily living.  


Go…share…love…SHINE for Jesus!  Prayerfully find the balance of “salt and light” that He wants you to embody…and watch how others respond to your witness.

Are you “well-seasoned and illuminated” for Jesus?  Isn’t it time you were?

 

©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 20, 2016

Matthew 5:8-9
“You’re blessed when you get your inside world—your mind and heart—put right. Then you can see God in the outside world.

“You’re blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That’s when you discover who you really are, and your place in God’s family.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Greg and I watched a news report about  I Wish My Teacher Knew…How One Question Can Change Everything for Kids*, a book written by third-grade teacher Kyle New of Denver, Colorado.  Knew wrote the sentence “I wish my teacher knew…” on the board one day in her third grade classroom and asked her students to complete it.  What resulted was astounding and led to this book by the same name.  As I listened to some of the sentence endings, read by young children, I was moved to tears.  They ranged from “I wish my teacher knew how much I love her,” to “I wish my teacher knew that I don’t have very many friends” and “I wish my teacher knew that my dad works two jobs and I don’t get to see him very much.”

Oh.My.Goodness! We have SO much work to do!  As much as we think we know about “children” of all ages…there is so much we do not understand.  We don’t know what is in another person’s mind and heart.  We don’t understand the conflicts, angst, insecurities – or even the running dialogue that plays in the minds of so many around us…maybe even you! We seldom stop to look at others in the grocery line or on the street and think that they have just as many thoughts, ideas – and problems – as you and I have on any given day.

Many people skate through life hoping that nobody discovers who they really are - or what they really think or feel.  But God knows all of it…and He loves us anyway.  So can’t we learn to emulate Him just a little?  Can’t we get our heart and mind right and see others as He sees them - as His children… beautifully crafted and designed…valuable and full of purpose?  Can’t we find a way to cooperate with others…to empathize and understand…to share and get along instead of the operating in the horrible divisive words and actions that so many of us have chosen as our stock in trade?

I look at our own children…and the other little ones I spend time with at church and school…and I wonder what they must think.  What must they be learning from so many of us? Too many children are seeing hatred, discrimination, criticism, judgment based on everything from appearance and body image to ethnicity and economics - and a revolting atmosphere of unkindness like none I’ve ever witnessed before.  They are observing adults who attend worship on Sundays, teach Bible classes, sing in the choir, and espouse “Christian values”…then call others ugly names as they talk about current events – and make excuses for comments and behaviors that would embarrass even the most raucous teenager!

God must surely hang His head in shame and disappointment.  I am truly amazed that He puts up with any of us!  And yet, He is calling us to purify our hearts and minds…to get along and cooperate with others…to operate in HIS blessings rather than the devil’s disturbing ploys to derail us. And He is willing to help us “get there!”

God is calling us to stop and ponder the comment, “I wish my teacher/friend/relative/spouse/pastor/neighbor knew…” and put ourselves in the other person’s shoes. While we cannot know all that GOD knows…we can develop a tender heart for His children…ALL of them.  Today seems like a pretty good time to get started…doesn’t it?


©2016 Debbie Robus    
  
*http://iwishmyteacherknewbook.com/

Daily Devotional for September 25, 2016

Luke 23:34-35    
Jesus said, “Father, forgive these people!  They don’t know what they’re doing.”

While the crowd stood there watching Jesus, the soldiers gambled for his clothes.  The leaders insulted him by saying, “He saved others.  Now he should save himself, if he really is God’s chosen Messiah.”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

When I was a little girl, I always wanted to take dance lessons like my classmates.  My mother said we could not afford them. I will admit…I resented that.  As a child, I failed to recognize that she and my dad were already scrimping and scraping to pay for piano lessons, braces for our teeth, and much more – times three! I distinctly remember my mother saying that if she didn’t make braces happen to alleviate the huge gap between my front teeth and give me a nice smile, she would regret it the rest of her life.

My mother was like many parents – she wanted to afford me every opportunity for a lifetime of success. Even thought she taught piano lessons, when my siblings and I were in junior high, Mother paid for us to study under another teacher with “conservatory-level” experience.  For a girl growing up in our little community, piano lessons were sure to carry one further in life than learning to do a little tap and ballet.  And Mother was right. Still, I did not understand…and I am sure that I didn’t appreciate many of my parents’ sacrifices - or why they made the decisions on my behalf that they did.

I’ll be honest…there are many instances where I don’t understand what Jesus does…even today.  Why did He allow three elementary school children to lose their dad to cancer?  Why does He allow the existence of orphans and foster children?  Why are there terrorists and murderers…child molesters and people who abuse animals?  Why doesn’t Jesus “come down from the cross” and fix all of this?

The answer that I keep getting is…”You wouldn’t really need Me if I fixed everything.”  I also hear Jesus saying, “You don’t know what you are asking…and I forgive you for it.”  In terms of how I relate this to my everyday living, I offer this…there are things that have happened to me in my lifetime that I do not understand.  Not only have life-changing events occurred…accidents, illnesses, personal losses and disappointments…but I have also made some mistakes along the way.  And each time, God has used these to teach me not only how much I need Him…but also great lessons in humility, compassion, grace and mercy.

I feel like I am more understanding about those around me because of the forgiveness I have been granted.  I know that Jesus stayed on the cross for me – and for you.  I know that because of His sacrifice, I am able to look at others with His heart and the desire that they come to know Him as I do...as the Savior who makes all things possible.

I seriously doubt that I would still be tap dancing or performing ballet at almost 60, but I still play the piano every week! And while I still question events and circumstances from time to time, I learn to trust Jesus more every day.  What He allows can be used for His glory – and make us better disciples, if we will only pay attention and trust Him to know best.  How well are you doing these days?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for September 18, 2016

Luke 10:7-12
Stay with the same family, eating and drinking whatever they give you, because workers are worth what they earn. Don’t move around from house to house.

If the people of a town welcome you, eat whatever they offer. Heal their sick and say, “God’s kingdom will soon be here!”

But if the people of a town refuse to welcome you, go out into the street and say, “We are shaking the dust from our feet as a warning to you. And you can be sure that God’s kingdom will soon be here!” I tell you that on the day of judgment the people of Sodom will get off easier than the people of that town!

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

I read a little joke about a teacher who explained to her students that the mouth of a whale is very small for a creature of such great size.  A little girl protested that the whale’s mouth was large enough to swallow Jonah, and a bit of an argument ensued.  Finally, the little girl said, “Well, when I get to heaven, I will ask Jonah.”  The teacher asked, “What if Jonah went to hell?”  The little girl answered…”Then YOU ask him!”

This is funny on the surface…but obviously, we would be very upset with any child who spoke to an adult in such a manner. And God doesn’t want us to be rude and condescending with people…even when we are standing up for the validity of His word.  Still, Jesus tells us in this passage that there comes a time when we have “played nice” long enough – and we must dust ourselves off and walk away.  At this point, we have to trust that either He will make a difference where we cannot…or these people truly have chosen to reject Him as their Savior.

It’s hard to know when this point occurs…when to stop trying with some people.  And I still don’t think that God means for us to give up on them completely.  Sometimes, the best option we have is to back away and pray – and trust God to handle everything as only He can.  Until we reach this point, we are called to treat others with love and kindness…to meet them where they are…to “eat what they offer” and minister to them with the love of Christ.

We are to show others kindness and compassion…to refrain from judgment, condescension, gossip and name calling.  We are to reach out to others in the name of Jesus.  It shouldn’t matter who they are, what they believe, who they worship, how rich or poor they are - or their race, creed, ethnicity, sexual orientation or political leaning.

My point is this…Jesus has commissioned us to spread His gospel and minister to all of His people - not just the ones we like.  He has been very clear about how we are to offer grace, mercy, kindness and compassion to others…and when to say “When!” and walk away.  Are we listening?  Are we hearing His voice and obediently answering? Are we willing to serve Jesus with an open mind and heart…and leave the judgment to His discretion?  Don’t you think we should be?

          
©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 29, 2016

Celebrating my brother's first birthday.
Matthew 7:3-5
And why worry about a speck in the eye of a brother when you have a board in your own? Should you say, ‘Friend, let me help you get that speck out of your eye,’ when you can’t even see because of the board in your own? Hypocrite! First get rid of the board. Then you can see to help your brother.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
Today, I am thinking of my brother, Tim, who was born 55 years ago on June 29, 1961.  I am also thinking of a childhood friend, Aaron, who came into this world 2 years later.  Both men are in heaven now…Tim left us in 1998 after a lengthy struggle with liver disease…and Aaron fought a valiant battle with cancer that resulted in his death in 2008.  Tim was a Registered Nurse (RN) who specialized in cardiac care.  Aaron was a well-respected general surgeon. Tim was a gay man who never got to have a spouse and children. Aaron was married – and the father of Colby and Aubrey.

Both Tim and Aaron loved God, medicine – and people.  I am confident that neither of them saw others in terms of race, ethnic background, socio-economic status, sexual orientation, or even gender.  They saw people who had medical needs that they could address…God’s creations…someone who had issues that they were capable of mending in some way.  Both men were very good at what they did and used the gifts that God gave them well.  Both men epitomized the kind of person that I would want to treat me, should I need medical care.

Sadly, as in any profession, I know that there are cases where this is not the norm.  I have personally witnessed people in need of medical care who received the “third degree” because of how they looked…what they were wearing…a perceived idea of their socio-economic level or sexual orientation, and more.  I saw it happen to my Tim…as if because he was a gay man, he was not worthy of the same treatment, kindness, and courtesy as others. I always found this rather odd, because I have a feeling that those same people would have been GLAD to have Tim’s expertise on their side, should they have experienced cardiac arrest!  This even happened to Tim once as he filled out a medical history for two nurses – who both knew that he was an RN and “one of THEM!”

I know there are probably people who think I am something of a “drum-beater” on this issue.  But once it happens to you, the perspective shifts dramatically.  Once you see firsthand how hurtful, destructive, and hypocritical such criticism of others can be, surely one can’t help but behave differently – and champion the feelings of our fellow man. I feel like God has allowed me to see these things in order to sound the bell for others before similar things happen to them – or they engage in such behaviors.  This is my reason for being so vocal about discrimination and mistreatment of others…for any reason.  And I hope and pray that I am never guilty of these things myself…although I suspect that at times, I have indeed been critical - and even hurtful.

Not all of us are called to be surgeons and nurses. Thankfully, we won’t all have to live out our Christian witness via terminal illness.  God has given each one of us a unique purpose on this earth…but each one of us also has our own “plank in the eye.” None of us is perfect.  We will all have moments where we speak without thinking…and say or do things that are hurtful to others – and detrimental to our Christian witness.

God has called us to further His kingdom…not just by TELLING others about Jesus – but also by demonstrating in thought, word and deed that we embrace His teachings of grace, mercy, forgiveness, acceptance, tolerance, kindness, and compassion.  I am so glad that God allowed me to know Tim and Aaron…to see them grow into examples of men who fully accepted their mission and represented Jesus in their daily work.  I hope that I am fulfilling my own Godly assignments…and doing so in a way that honors and glorifies my relationship with Jesus.

Today, I celebrate my brother, Tim, and my sweet friend, Aaron…and all who serve Jesus with unconditional love and kindness.  I am striving to get rid of the “board in my eye” – and keep it at bay forever and ever.  What about you?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 22, 2016

Luke 6:37-38
“Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults—unless, of course, you want the same treatment. Don’t condemn those who are down; that hardness can boomerang. Be easy on people; you’ll find life a lot easier. Give away your life; you’ll find life given back, but not merely given back—given back with bonus and blessing. Giving, not getting, is the way. Generosity begets generosity.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

There is a “local” morning show on television that I like to watch, and each Wednesday, a psychologist is interviewed for a segment on personal relationships.  This morning, she was talking about people who try to do too much and have it all – particularly women.  She said that often, we look at other people and think that they have it all together…and we try to be just like them.  She also pointed out that when we see people in public – or on social media – we are often seeing their best.  Their life may not be all that rosy or carefree behind closed doors.

So what does this have to do with today’s scripture passage?  Every person has a story.  The psychologist pointed out that each one of us has “issues”…struggles, concerns, things that are not perfect in our lives.  And just after this segment aired, I saw a “promo” for a story that will air later about Miami Heat basketball star Dwyane Wade, who says as a child, he had body image issues and would not swim without wearing a shirt.  The promo featured a photo of the incredibly fit and muscular Wade with the tag line that even HE has body issues.  See…we all have our challenges and idiosyncracies!

You’re probably still wondering how this relates to a scripture on judgment and criticism.  So here goes…everybody has issues.  Nobody is perfect. As well as you think you know someone, you really have no clue what is going on in their heart and mind…or maybe in the privacy of their own home.  And they don’t know you, either.  So when you criticize someone or pick on their faults, you are setting yourself up for the same scrutiny.  And others might just end up judging you unfairly.  At the very least, it doesn’t feel good to be criticized or disparaged – about anything!

Before you call someone a “jerk”…or a “screw-up”...or cluck your tongue about this or that thing that he/she said or did…stop and look at your own life.  Remember that time when you acted so foolishly?  Do you recall the incident where your judgment was seriously clouded?  What about the horrible or thoughtless thing you said or did in the heat of the moment?  These misbehaviors do not excuse those of someone else…one person’s sins do not justify another.  But we are not the judge and jury…we are not God!

We cannot have it both ways…although I sometimes wish we could – don’t you?  I’m human…and an imperfect sinner, so yes, there are days when I wish I could rant and rave and rail against the world as if I know what is best!  But I have to stop and remind myself that the person who is getting on my last nerve – or behaving in a manner that is unacceptable to me – has just as much right to a relationship with Jesus and the privilege of being called His precious child as I do.  The same forgiveness that I am afforded is offered to him/her, also.  And judging others is simply “not my circus, not my monkeys.”

I don’t have a handle on this yet…but I am surely working on it. I am asking God each day to give me a heart like His…to allow me to see others as He sees them – and treat them as Jesus demonstrated.  I’m not where I want or need to be yet…but will prayerfully keep trying to do better.  What about you?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 21, 2016

Luke 23:34-35
Jesus said, “Father, forgive these people! They don’t know what they’re doing.”

While the crowd stood there watching Jesus, the soldiers gambled for his clothes. The leaders insulted him by saying, “He saved others. Now he should save himself, if he really is God’s chosen Messiah!”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

The children and I sometimes use a little “punch card” system to reward good behavior.  I punch holes in a card numbered one to twenty, and when the child gets all 20 numbers punched, he/she gets to pick something out of my “prize” basket.  Yesterday, I started cards with Timothy and Nathan.  They didn’t get all 20 punches, but they got a few.  Late in the afternoon, the boys disappeared upstairs – after I had told them, “Don’t go upstairs.”  I went to get them, and I said, “If you don’t go downstairs right now, I am going to tear up your punch cards, and you will not get to count those punches toward a prize!”

Nathan stomped his feet and began to and cry.  “That’s AWFUL!” he wailed!  “Why would you do that?  That’s a TERRIBLE thing to do to tear up our punches.” He was absolutely furious with me!  And I had to turn away, so that he wouldn’t see me laugh.  It’s easy to forgive an almost-four-year-old for such an outburst.  In fact, it’s often easy to forgive our children for a lot of things, because they honestly do not know what they are doing.  At best, they do not fully grasp the ramifications of their words and actions.

I am not sure whether the Roman soldiers truly knew what they were doing to Jesus or not.  I think what Jesus means in this passage is that they don’t fully grasp the implication of their actions.  They have no idea the consequences that will result.  This seems to be somewhat confirmed by Matthew 27:54, where…“ The officer and the soldiers guarding Jesus felt the earthquake and saw everything else that happened. They were frightened and said, ‘This man really was God’s Son!’”

So what does all of this mean for us?  I believe there are times when we sin and/or offend others…and we truly don’t have a full grasp of our words or actions.  And that is where Jesus stands in the gap for us and says to God, “Forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.”  He paid the price on the for our ignorance and carelessness, even before we were born.  I also believe there are times that people offend us or mistreat us, and we are called to be like Jesus…to offer them grace, mercy and forgiveness - just as He has done for us so many times.

It may be a whole lot harder to forgive a teenager or adult than it is a young child…but we still must try.  We must ask Jesus to equip us with whatever we need to operate in mercy…to say, “Maybe he/she didn’t have the whole picture.”  Yes, Jesus could have climbed down from the cross and settled things totally with the Roman soldiers.  He could have clearly demonstrated to the satisfaction of their understanding, that He was truly the King of the Jews. But because Jesus stayed on the cross, those of us who know Him and comprehend the ramifications of this loving act understand clearly WHO He is.

Because Jesus stayed on the cross – and suffered and died for our sins – we are forgiven…forever and ever.  Only the true King of Kings would do this!  And as His children, we are called to demonstrate this same mercy and forgiveness to others…to be sons and daughters of the Most High King and operate in grace and understanding.  There will be days when we want to stomp and scream and cry out, “Why would you do such a terrible thing?”  But instead, we must say, “Father, forgive them…as You have forgiven me.”  Are you ready to truly act like a child of the KING and operate in mercy and forgiveness?  Will this be the day that you begin?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 20, 2016

Luke 17:3-4
“Be alert. If you see your friend going wrong, correct him. If he responds, forgive him. Even if it’s personal against you and repeated seven times through the day, and seven times he says, ‘I’m sorry, I won’t do it again,’ forgive him.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I watched a teacher work with a child at Zola’s pre-K graduation as the students performed a little skit for the crowd.  This child apparently has special needs, and he kept repeatedly getting up and running across the stage with his arms flailing in the air.  The teacher would retrieve the child and speak to him, then gently place him back in line.  I lost track of how many times she did this.

Clearly this child has issues and could not help his behavior.  A lot of people we encounter each day don’t have a good excuse for their thoughts, words and actions.  And yet, Jesus calls on us to gently nudge them back in the right direction…and to forgive them over and again – even when they mistreat us or hurt us in some way.

You may be asking yourself, “Is she saying that we should forgive someone who is abusive and let them keep on harming us or the people we love?”  I am saying that we must forgive these people…but we don’t have to stick around for their mistreatment.  Forgiving someone and standing up for yourself are two entirely different actions.  And sometimes, the most loving and forgiving thing you can do for someone who is repeating a bad behavior is to walk away from them.

This is one of the hardest scripture passages for many of us to wrap our brains around.  We are not wired to forgive repeatedly.  We are not geared toward “tough love.”  Yet Jesus is calling us to practice both.  Who needs your forgiveness…maybe for the umpteenth time?  Who needs to hear, “I love you, but I cannot be around you while you are acting this way” as you practice extending grace, mercy and “tough love?”

I don’t know about you, but I’m going to have to ask for a hefty dose of patience and courage – on an almost-daily basis – in order to accomplish these demonstrations of Christian love!  And I must start today!  Because I know that Jesus is exercising these same qualities as He deals with me and my sins.  To treat others any less would basically say that what He does for me – and for you – is a waste of time and energy…that Jesus might as well give up on us!  I’m not prepared to do this…so the alternative is to follow Him and treat others as He has commanded.  And that means offering forgiveness over…and over…and over. Are you with me?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for June 18, 2016

Jeremiah 31:33-34
“This is the brand-new covenant that I will make with Israel when the time comes. I will put my law within them—write it on their hearts!—and be their God. And they will be my people. They will no longer go around setting up schools to teach each other about God. They’ll know me firsthand, the dull and the bright, the smart and the slow. I’ll wipe the slate clean for each of them. I’ll forget they ever sinned!” God’s Decree.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Yesterday, our Zola “graduated” from pre-K.  Kindergarten, here she comes!  I looked at the little girl who walked proudly across the stage to receive her “diploma,” and I thought about all that she has learned in two years…and what lies ahead of her.  The world is truly her oyster, as the saying goes.  I also thought about how the crowning achievement for my little niece – and her brothers – will be when they truly come to know Jesus firsthand…when God’s laws are written on their hearts forever and ever.

We can teach others about God.  We can share Bible stories and help them memorize the Ten Commandments.  We can evangelize the world and spread the Good News of Jesus.  But until each and every one of us internalize the message of Christ and “write it on our hearts”…we’ll keep stumbling around in the dark for the most part…and we will be vulnerable to sin.

I am not saying that once we truly develop a relationship with Jesus, we never sin again.  That is why the last lines of this passage are so important, where God says that “I’ll wipe the slate clean for each of them. I’ll forget they ever sinned!”  Without the blood of Jesus and His continual forgiveness, we’d all pretty well be sunk!  But once we “write God’s laws” on our heart and come into a full relationship with Jesus and the Holy Spirit, we have a fighting chance against the desire to succumb to sin.  When serving Jesus becomes our focus, the lure of sin is greatly diminished.

There is another component to this that must be addressed.  None of us is perfect.  But for God’s grace and Jesus’ blood over our sins, we would all be like the people of Israel and Judah who stumbled in the wilderness and lived in disrespect and disobedience.  We are so incredibly blessed by God’s forgiveness through Jesus.  And we must honor this great gift and humbly forgive others in return.  That means no judging…no bickering or name calling…no gossiping…and no hating of any kind!

We often so underestimate how great forgiveness has been in our own lives…what Jesus has taken from us – and what God has forgotten. We must not dishonor this great Salvation by treating others with anything less than grace and mercy.  We must offer a great example of unconditional love to the world and let others see Jesus in each of our words, thoughts, and actions.  This must be our gift to our children…and our demonstration of honor and gratitude to Jesus.

I know that God’s laws will be written on the hearts of our little ones someday.  My job…and yours…is to embrace Jesus and give the world a daily example of what it means to have firsthand knowledge of His amazing grace, mercy, and forgiveness.  We must live in a way that makes others want to say, “I’ll take a hefty dose of what he/she has!”  We must give them a reason to want to write God’s laws on their own hearts forever and ever. 

Humble yourself before God today…thank Him - for forgiving and forgetting your sins.  Ask Him to help you do the same toward others. Put your sinful past behind you…and help others to do this in their own lives.  Check the condition of your “heart”…and get busy being the new creature in Christ whom God has called you to be!  People are watching…what are you showing them?

   
©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 9, 2016

1 John 4:7
Dear friends, let us practice loving each other, for love comes from God and those who are loving and kind show that they are the children of God, and that they are getting to know him better.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
     
For months now, I have been writing devotionals based on the question, “Are we making a point – or making a difference?”  I’ve used scriptures about various topics related to this question…and for the next few days, the focus will be on Jesus’ command to “feed my sheep.”  In light of the “theme” of these devotionals, we must ask ourselves, “Do we love others because we are getting to know God better and this is a natural progression?  Or do we tolerate others, because we think this is what God wants of us?” 

Our answer matters greatly…because if we are treating others in a certain manner to make a point – in one way or another – we have totally missed the mark.  If we love others out of a desire to be like Jesus…to serve God with our whole heart and soul…we are demonstrating one of the greatest gifts and blessings bestowed on those who belong to His kingdom.

We need look no further than our current political arena for examples of people who claim to love and serve Jesus…then speak ill of those with whom they disagree.  And I don’t mean that they merely say, “I disagree with Bob.”  I am talking about name-calling, nasty innuendo - and horrible, disrespectful insults.  Some have gone so far as to say, “I would NEVER call So-and-So an XYZ.” They hide behind the less-than-subtle suggestion that “those were someone else’s words, not mine.”  But ultimately, the unloving words were their own. 

We can pretend that what we see and hear in the media does not influence us…but we would be wrong.  Even “children’s movies” are peppered with “adult” references that we THINK kids won’t get…until they spout something derogatory or off-color that they heard in these films.  So it is no stretch to say that people of all ages mimic what they see and hear.  And when this includes unloving words and actions, we have missed the mark as Disciples of Christ.

Let’s make this the day that we truly begin to make a difference…that we draw closer to God and ask Him to help us operate in love – in all that we say and do.  Let’s show others that it really means to be a child of God…an heir to His kingdom.  Let’s claim the name of Jesus…and then act and speak as He would want…not as others expect or as suits our personal agendas.  In fact, let’s make sure that if we have a personal agenda…it is to demonstrate the love of Christ.

I offer this reminder to ALL of us today (myself included)…let everything that we say and do be pleasing to Jesus – a reflection of His teachings.  Let’s quit trying to make a point and truly make a difference for God’s Kingdom by demonstrating His love, grace, mercy and forgiveness.  And let’s begin today…here…NOW!  Are you with me?

   
©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for September 15, 2015

Proverbs 10:12
Hatred stirs up trouble;
    love overlooks the wrongs
    that others do.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

In 2005, Ashley Smith - a widowed mother in Duluth, Georgia - was recovering from a meth addiction.  Brian Nichols was an accused rapist who murdered four people in the Fulton County Courthouse and fled.  Nichols captured Smith in the parking lot of her apartment complex and held her hostage in her home for seven hours.

Fearing for her life, Smith reached out to Nichols.  She made him pancakes.  She pulled out a book that she had been reading…and with Nichols’ permission, she read it aloud to him.  That book was Pastor Rick Warren’s
The Purpose Driven Life*.  Ultimately, Smith persuaded Nichols to surrender, and today, he is serving multiple prison terms - with no chance of parole.

Ashley Smith Robinson remarried in 2007 and now has three children.  She is an x-ray technician and shares her story at speaking engagements across the nation.  Her story will be told in an upcoming movie,
Captive**, in which she is portrayed by actress, Kate Mara.  Brian Nichols is played by Golden Globe nominee David Oyelowo.  The movie is based on Smith-Robinson’s book, Unlikely Angel***. 

Here’s the thing…not every bad situation turns out as well as this one did.  I don’t mean to imply that all we have to do is whip out a Bible or an inspirational book, and we can soften the most hardened of hearts – or even save lives in the process.  If this was the case, at least some of the nine people who perished at a Bible study in Charleston, South Carolina, might still be with us. 

But there is a lot of “meat” in this one verse.  Hatred does stir up trouble.  Just look at Ferguson, Missouri, and Baltimore, Maryland.  Look at the protests that are taking place around our country at political rallies and in front of courthouses.  When I stop and think about how we grieve God each and every day with our hate-filled words and actions – many offered in the name of Jesus – I am astounded!  And then I learn about this new movie…and I am reminded of the faith and courage of one woman who was just digging her way out of drug addiction and seeking God...and I am prompted to consider what true love and Christian faith offers.

“But this didn’t help those people in Charleston,” you may suggest.  And you are right…on the surface.  But the witness of those nine people…the forgiveness offered to that killer by their survivors…the lack of rioting and protesting in the streets of Charleston afterward and the tremendous outpouring of love and support – extended to a stirring address and rendition of “Amazing Grace” by our President at one of the memorial services…all demonstrate the love and power of God to heal and redeem. 

Who knows whether the young man accused in the Charleston murders will surrender his heart to Jesus?  He has at least been given a chance to do so.  I don’t know if the love and kindness that Ashley Smith Robinson showed to Brian Nichols that day in 2005 was a catalyst for him to receive Jesus Christ into his heart.  But I do know that he has the opportunity to hear the Gospel now and make that decision.  Every life and soul counts for God’s Kingdom!

We need to really let this soak into our hearts.  We need to examine how we react to others and determine where and when we operate in hatred and unforgiveness…and where we operate in love - and open the door for God to work.  Will this be the day that you do some internal soul searching and ask God to correct your attitudes?  Are you able to truly love others in Jesus’ name – even in the midst of great upheaval, disappointment and/or heartache?  Isn’t it time you were?


©2015 Debbie Robus

*The Purpose Driven Life - http://purposedriven.com/books/pdlbook/#purposehttp://purposedriven.com/books/pdlbook/#purpose
**Captive - http://www.captivethemovie.com/
***Unlikely Angel - http://www.amazon.com/Unlikely-Angel-Untold-Atlanta-Hostage-ebook/dp/B0040GJDXAhttp://www.amazon.com/Unlikely-Angel-Untold-Atlanta-Hostage-ebook/dp/B0040GJDXA

Daily Devotional for August 23, 2015

Luke 17:3-4
“Be alert. If you see your friend going wrong, correct him. If he responds, forgive him. Even if it’s personal against you and repeated seven times through the day, and seven times he says, ‘I’m sorry, I won’t do it again,’ forgive him.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

We need look no further than the New Testament Gospels to find a stellar example of Jesus telling Peter that he will deny any relationship between them…THREE TIMES in one night!  In this instance, Jesus seems to have forgiven Peter even before the offenses were committed.  Still, Peter says to Jesus, “That will never happen!” And when it does, he is genuinely remorseful.  And Jesus forgives him – even though the outcome of these acts was tremendously hurtful to Him.

This is a tough passage for most of us.  For starters, we don’t like to point out the shortcomings of others.  Additionally, a lot of people aren’t really too happy that we mentioned their “sins” to them…and even fewer are apologetic. Think about it…I bet you can list several times that someone has hurt or offended you in some way by their words and actions…and you said nothing. 

You can probably think of times that you did say, “That person you are talking about is my friend,” or “my family member is an addict or alcoholic…on welfare…a member of the LGBTQ community…an unwed mother…has spent time in jail…(you fill in the blanks).  Whichever group the other person is disparaging may include someone you know and love…and telling them this may not make one whit of difference.  I know, because I’ve uttered similar phrases before, and the person who was being so judgmental, unkind and unloving just kept right on talking and criticizing.

How do you forgive in these circumstances?  Jesus tells us to forgive those who ask seventy times seven.  But what about those who don’t ask?  What about the person who commits sins and offenses - and shows little to no remorse?  How do we forgive them?  And should we?

In my own life, I have found that forgiveness is not optional.  The Bible clearly tells us to treat others as we wish to be treated.  As if this were not enough reason to forgive readily, I find that my failure to forgive allows room for the devil to fill my heart and mind with all sorts of bad things…an unsettled spirit, feelings of irritation and frustration, judgment and bitterness, and a sense of separation from God.  In short, the inability to forgive will “eat you alive.”

Does this mean that we must be doormats and let others treat us badly?  Absolutely not! There are times when we must distance ourselves from the people and circumstances that stand to offend or upset us.  And we must recognize that there are people and situations over which we have absolutely no control.  But we can ask God to give us a spirit of love, compassion, and forgiveness toward everyone.  We can trust Him to handle what we cannot and ask Him for wisdom and courage to rise above the fray...to focus on His goodness rather than the ugliness of others.

One of life’s big lessons is to know when to speak out…and when to keep silent.  Ask God for understanding and courage in this area…and for the ability to forgive all people with swift wisdom and confidence - regardless of whether they deserve it!  Remember the example of Jesus and how He forgave Peter, and pattern your reactions and responses accordingly.  Your health and well-being – physically AND spiritually – may just depend on it!

     
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 5, 2015

Galatians 6:1-3
Live creatively, friends. If someone falls into sin, forgivingly restore him, saving your critical comments for yourself. You might be needing forgiveness before the day’s out. Stoop down and reach out to those who are oppressed. Share their burdens, and so complete Christ’s law. If you think you are too good for that, you are badly deceived.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

There is a phrase that has gained popularity in recent months…”Not my circus, not my monkeys.”  This morning, my mom shared an e-cartoon that featured a woman holding her head in her hands with the caption…”That awful moment when you realize that this is your circus and those are your monkeys!”  Our job as Christian disciples is to know which phrase applies in each situation.

There are times when we can truly step aside and keep our attitudes and opinions to ourselves.  Depending on how well we know the other person and our relationship with him/her, we may be able to offer tender, non-critical observations or advice.  Any further interference might only serve to cause dissonance between us …and possibly damage our relationship forever.

But when the things fall apart, we must be ready offer love and support.  There cannot be any “I-told-you-sos”…although at some point, it may be okay to say, “I was concerned, but I didn’t feel that I had all of the facts and/or it was none of my business.”  But in the end, we must be ready to say, “I still love you, and I will help you get through this.”

On the other hand, there have been several instances just this summer of people quite literally busting children and pets out of hot cars where they were left unattended. On the surface, this seems like a “not-my-circus-not-my-monkeys” situation.  But in truth, child and animal endangerment is our circus…or should be!  We must be careful as we interact with the adults involved…but we must still advocate on behalf of the child or pet.

I may have oversimplified this, but here’s the bottom line…we must ask God to show us when to step in and help someone…and when to back off and let “life” happen.  But we must never operate with a critical attitude…and we must never judge others.  We are called to offer a helping hand - and the love, grace, mercy and forgiveness of Christ Jesus. This is the perfect example of how and where to apply the “What Would Jesus Do?” litmus test…and the “Golden Rule” of treating others as we wish to be treated.

We must also be careful to remain approachable and empathetic.  The “not-my-circus-not-my-monkeys” attitude must never evolve into, “I have better things to do than bother myself with this person/situation.”  Ask God to show you how and where you are to share the burdens of others… when it is appropriate to offer your opinion/assistance – and when you need to step back a bit.  As disciples of Jesus Christ, we are called to get involved and minister to others.  The key is to know which “circuses and monkeys” are really ours. 


©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 1, 2015

August 1 ~ Ephesians 4:31-32
Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk. Be gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Is there anyone on the planet who hasn’t heard about the senseless slaughter of Cecil the lion? I think even the most avid hunter can agree that this was reprehensible conduct. Judging from the reports by news media, it seems that a lot of us have taken this slaying pretty personally!  Some seem ready for more blood…this time, that of the lion’s killer!

If this Minnesota dentist were to humbly and genuinely admit that he made a grave mistake…and beg forgiveness…would you be willing to offer it? Before you answer, consider this…1) regardless of how heinous this act was, it was not directly committed toward you; and 2) scripture tells us to forgive “as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you!”  Now let me ask you again…could you forgive this man?  Could you stop calling him names and stand in his presence without wanting to wring his neck?
 
Clearly, this beautiful animal did not deserve to die.  Any way you slice it, what was done to him was disgusting and horrific.  But what we do to Jesus every day resulted in his torture and death on a cross…and yet He readily forgives us when we humbly repent.  We cannot even begin to comprehend what Jesus endured because of our sins…from those that seem petty and small to ones we consider to be huge.  We directly impacted His life with our transgressions.  He has every right to turn His back on us…call us every name in the book…and treat us terribly. 

Instead, Jesus offers us kindness, compassion, grace, mercy, forgiveness…and the promise of a mansion in Paradise when our earthly life is done.  When you consider all of this and how He forgives us…how can we possibly continue to operate in unforgiveness toward anyone else…even someone who maliciously murders innocent animals?  How can we fail to forgive the person who speaks ill of us…whether we get an apology or not?  How can we continue to hold a grudge toward the person who betrayed us in some way…cheated us in business or life in general…or told lies about us?  How can we be unkind and mean-spirited toward those who are rude and ugly toward us…knowing that Jesus would never do this?

We are looking at what is truly a “What would Jesus do?” scripture passage…and one that is tough for many of us to put into practice.  For that, Jesus also stands ready to forgive us.  Who do you need to forgive today?  Where to you need to shift your attitude and operate in a spirit of grace and mercy…recognizing that this is what Jesus does for you each and every day?  Will you ask God to help you “make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting and profane talk” and become more sensitive and compassionate? 

We cannot bring back this magnificent lion…but we can act in a manner that shows his killer the love and forgiveness of Jesus.  Are you ready to “step up your discipleship” and demonstrate Christ’s  teachings to ALL people?  Will this be the day that you begin?

   
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 20, 2015

Matthew 7:6
“Don’t be flip with the sacred. Banter and silliness give no honor to God. Don’t reduce holy mysteries to slogans. In trying to be relevant, you’re only being cute and inviting sacrilege."
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
I saw this video on Facebook recently that was some guy doing dances that were supposed to depict stories in the Bible.  This was promoted as a good five-minute “opener” for a church service, because so many churches run a video now as a “warm-up” to get people in a “worshipful” mood.  And I’ve never had a problem with this concept.
 
But when I read today’s scripture, I did have to stop and think about some of the things we do - in the name of Jesus - and some of the slogans we wear on our clothing and accessories. It did cause me to ask…”Are we being respectful and reverent toward our sacred, holy relationship with God?  Or are there times when we truly are rather flip and silly?  Do we stop to consider what our appearance and actions says to others about an intimate relationship with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit?”
 
John 13:35 says…”This is how everyone will recognize that you are my disciples—when they see the love you have for each other.”  It’s okay to wear a (What Would Jesus Do?) WWJD bracelet or a t-shirt that says, “Got Jesus?”  There is nothing wrong with a cute or thought-provoking video to signal that worship is about to begin.  But make sure that you are treating your faith with the reverence and respect that your relationship with God deserves – and that when you wear something professing your relationship with Jesus, your actions line up with the slogan.
 
Demonstrate a deep and sincere love and concern for one another.  Smile, and offer others a welcoming spirit.  Let your love for Jesus shine through everything you do and engulf those whom you encounter like a warm hug.  Take your relationship with Him seriously…and make sure that your actions reinforce this.
 
We find it so easy to get caught up in flash and dazzle.  Everything these days has a tag line or a catch phrase.  If things don’t sparkle and shine and perform a zillion operations, we tend to ignore them.  Don’t reduce your relationship with Jesus in this manner. Christian faith is not always pretty…sometimes it can be downright messy.  But the simplicity of inviting Jesus to be LORD of your life and receiving His amazing gift of salvation needs no “bells and whistles”.  This holy relationship doesn’t need a t-shirt or a song and dance. All that is required is mutual love, respect and reverence.
 
What do your words and actions tell others about you?  Can they recognize you as Christ’s disciple?
 
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 13, 2015

John 8:6-8
Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger in the dirt. They kept at him, badgering him. He straightened up and said, “The sinless one among you, go first: Throw the stone.” Bending down again, he wrote some more in the dirt.
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
The first year I taught, I had 31 first-grade students…and a year-long supply budget of $50.  This was supposed to furnish me with everything from chalk to “magic markers” to paper for arts and crafts.  So I made a list of things that I thought I might need to supplement this tiny budget…and I asked each child to bring one item on the list.  One child brought potting soil…another brought tissues…another brought some construction paper, and so on. One little girl was asked to bring plastic cups.  I planned to use these for things like planting beans as a science experiment (hence the potting soil I had requested!).
 
One morning, this child arrived with a big brown paper sack and a smile that covered her face.  “Here are the cups,” she said proudly.  “My mom got married, and they were left over from her wedding.”  Inside were more than two dozen plastic wine glasses with snap-on “stems”.  You can’t make this stuff up!  I thanked her for the contribution and put them on the shelf with the other supplies.  Some almost-40 years later, I cannot recall what we did with the cups, but I know we used them for something.  We had to…it meant too much to this little girl.
 
Never mind that a lot of the other parents would be less than thrilled for their child to bring home a bean growing out of a stemmed wine “goblet”…forget that this was not really a suitable “planter” for the science project.  To have tossed these aside as less than acceptable would have been the same as telling this darling little brown-eyed girl that she was not worthy – that her contribution was no good.  And yet, we do this to people every single day in some form or another.
 
We make snap judgments and criticize…we blame others for things that there is no way they could have controlled…we lift ourselves by trying to make other people look small…we “cast stones” and pretend that we are sinless.  We know better…but somehow, we cannot seem to do better!
 
I wonder just how long Jesus will continue to draw and dig in the sand and be patient with us.  He’s already shown us more mercy and tolerance than any of us could ever deserve.  Isn’t it time we started checking ourselves a little more closely? Shouldn’t we be asking that proverbial question, “What would Jesus do?” a little more often…and then making our thoughts, words and actions line up with His?  Aren’t you ready to drop the stones…and have others drop the ones they have lined up for you?  Wouldn’t this be a good day to begin?
 
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 12, 2015

John 3:16-18
“This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. Anyone who trusts in him is acquitted; anyone who refuses to trust him has long since been under the death sentence without knowing it. And why? Because of that person’s failure to believe in the one-of-a-kind Son of God when introduced to him.
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
Pretty much every one of us learned John 3:16 as a child, and we can recite the words “by heart”.  But here’s how most of us hear the verse…”For God so loved ME that He gave His only Son, so that if I believe in Him, I will be saved for all eternity and go to heaven when I die.”
 
Here’s what we do NOT hear…”God so loved the WORLD…terrorists…murderers…rapists…child molesters…people of all races, genders, sexual orientations, socio-economic and intellectual levels and political parties…drug addicts and alcoholics…abusers...that He sacrificed the blood of His only Son to redeem EVERYONE who repents of their sins and invites Jesus to be their LORD and Savior!
 
This is a hard pill to swallow sometimes.  We don’t want to think that we might see some of these people on the streets of heaven…that people who did horrible, terrible, unthinkable things at some point in their lives might be there right alongside each of us.  But this is because we do not fully understand God’s love.  I know I don’t.
 
I love my husband, my mom, my sister, nieces and nephews and extended family.  I love my pets in a way that makes some people snicker and roll their eyes.  I love my friends.  I like to think that I love completely, unconditionally, and without any reservation…but I know better. I am not sure that I love deeply enough.  And I’m pretty certain that my brand of love would not allow me to sacrifice anyone for the sins of the WORLD, especially these terrible, horrible, incorrigible people who have existed since the days of Cain and Abel!  But God does.  HE loves each of us that much.  And He offers forgiveness, acceptance, and redemption through the blood of Jesus Christ to ANYONE who will ask for it.
 
If we want to be more like Jesus, we have to learn to love like He does…to offer tolerance, grace, mercy, forgiveness, compassion, and genuine care and concern to each of God’s creatures.  We never know when our example might be the very thing that causes someone to say, “LORD…I want to be included…I want what he/she has.  Will you have accept me into your Kingdom?”
 
The stakes are high…God so loved the WORLD…isn’t it time that we did, too?
 
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 4, 2015

Acts 10:27-28
As Peter entered the house, he was still talking with Cornelius. Many people were there, and Peter said to them, “You know that we Jews are not allowed to have anything to do with other people. But God has shown me that he doesn’t think anyone is unclean or unfit.
 
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
 
At some point in our lives, we have probably all walked into a room and thought, “I don’t belong here.”  Maybe you stumbled into the wrong meeting room during a conference – or the wrong classroom at school.  Perhaps you entered a room where a club meeting or party was in session – and you were not a member.  Or maybe you walked into a store or restaurant where others looked at you as if you were not “high-class” enough to be there.
 
Worse yet, maybe you entered a church and felt out of place.  You weren’t familiar with the music, the rituals, where to sit, when to stand or kneel…and you just felt out of place – and maybe a little unwelcome.  And no one seemed to do anything to change that.
 
Sadly…a lot of us were indoctrinated as young children with the idea that not all people are the same…for one reason or another.  We all learn pretty early about “clubs” – who is “in” and who is “out”.  And we learn to discriminate…sometimes artfully – and other times with what borders on downright cruelty.  I’m sorry to say it, but often, this plays out most skillfully among people who claim to be Christians.
 
Hear Peter’s words to Cornelius and the others…”God has shown me that He doesn’t think anyone is unclean or unfit.”  If God doesn’t feel this way…how on earth can we?  The time has come for us to examine how we treat others – everything from our words and actions to our body language.  Where have we discriminated?  How have we acted with an air of superiority?  Who have we disrespected and disparaged?  What have we done…and how do we correct this?
 
Search your heart and see if there are any situations in which you have said and done things that made others feel uncomfortable…like they were on the outside looking in…and/or unloved and unwelcome.  Then ask God to show you how to make necessary changes...to begin to operate like He does - with grace, mercy, compassion, forgiveness, love and care and acceptance for everyone - whether they are “in your league” or not.
 
God does not think anyone is "unclean or unfit"…so what makes us think that we should?
 
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 6, 2014

Luke 10:8-9
If the people of a town welcome you, eat whatever they offer. Heal their sick and say, “God’s kingdom will soon be here!”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

A few years ago, our high school football team traveled quite a distance for a playoff game at the end of the season.  The opponent welcomed them, treated them graciously, and even provided team members and the coaching staff with “sack lunches” for the long bus ride home after the game. They may have provided the same for others, but I only heard about the team and its staff being fed.  We were in “enemy territory”...but those folks treated our people with warmth and hospitality.  I have no doubt they would have “healed our sick” if we had any!

Okay, so I’m being a little silly...but the point is that we are not to discriminate.  God didn’t send Jesus to die for our sins so that we could serve Him selectively.  We don’t get to say...”I don’t like his politics” or “I disapprove of her lifestyle” or even “Those people are the enemy” and decide that any other person is not worthy of our ministry or our message.  Since we are not necessarily traveling into the villages of strangers, as were the Disciples of Jesus’ day...we are to be welcoming of those who come into our circle of influence. And when we are approached by others, we are to be cordial and kind...to embrace them where they are – differences and all – and love them in Jesus’ name.

I don’t remember the outcome of that playoff game.  I don’t even remember for sure the city to which our team traveled.  But I do remember their kindness...and I still hear people talk about their gracious hospitality from time to time.  Now that’s impact!  The question is...are we living in such a way that others talk about us like this? 

Is our treatment of those we encounter - and our reaction and response to them – a reflection of the teachings of Jesus? Are we gracious, merciful, loving, compassionate, and accepting of the people we encounter to the point that they walk away saying...”I want what he/she has!”?  Do we truly represent Jesus to others in a way that makes them want to sign on as His disciple?  Is’t it time we did?

©2014 Debbie Robus