Showing posts with label honoring God. Show all posts
Showing posts with label honoring God. Show all posts

Daily Devotional for September 10, 2016

John 3:31-36
“He has come from heaven and is greater than anyone else. I am of the earth, and my understanding is limited to the things of earth. He tells what he has seen and heard, but how few believe what he tells them! Those who believe him discover that God is a fountain of truth. For this one—sent by God—speaks God’s words, for God’s Spirit is upon him without measure or limit. The Father loves this man because he is his Son, and God has given him everything there is. And all who trust him — God’s Son — to save them have eternal life; those who don’t believe and obey him shall never see heaven, but the wrath of God remains upon them.”

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
At least once a week, I see a story posted on Facebook that sounds so wonderful – or plausible - and many people are eagerly sharing. I learned the hard way to go to Snopes.com* first and make sure whether or not these stories are true.  Slaves in Charleston, South Carolina did not start Memorial Day to honor the Union war dead…baby cribs were not circled up outside of the Pentagon on 9/11 to protect infants and toddlers who attended a daycare there…journalist Matt Lauer and NBC did not omit the statement from the mother of a Navy seal killed in Libya that her Christian faith sustains her. These and so many more “shared-for-truth” viral stories are carefully and articulately debunked on fact-checking websites, if only we will take a few minutes to investigate and verify.

Let’s be honest…we are pretty gullible…and sometimes we’re downright naïve. We also seem to have a penchant for believing the stories that are outrageous, tug at our heartstrings, make us want to wave our flags and feel all “patriotic”…and those that make our blood boil.  We are human…and this is part of our nature.

The sad truth is that we can have ALL of this – and so much more – in God’s word and the “story” that Jesus has to share with us.  There are tales of outrageous acts, battles, struggles and suffering. There are heartwarming stories of rescue and redemption.  We have opportunities to thump our chest and praise our Warrior God who defeats all enemies and protects His Kingdom.  And we have the accounts of Jesus’ crucifixion, the murder of innocent babies, and other heinous acts that can make our blood boil.  And we can believe every single word we read and share it with others to our heart’s content!

There are two lessons here…1) check your sources – AND your facts – before you share what you read and hear from mere mortals…even your closest friend or relative, and 2) learn to trust the word of God – and believe and obey His directives.

I particularly like the image of God’s “fountain of truth.”  Who doesn’t love a beautiful fountain?  When my siblings and I were little, our city park had a “wading pool” with a fountain.  We loved to stand under the shower of refreshing water and bask in its coolness on a hot summer day. The idea that God’s gifts are like that fountain - that He sustains, encourages, and renews our spirit throughout this earthly life - gives me hope, peace and joy.  The thought of eternal life in the presence of God, where EVERY MINUTE is more glorious than I can even dream, gives me motivation to seek Him and His truth at each turn in this earthly journey.

Go after the truth in all things…both earthly declarations and the message of Jesus. Take advantages of resources like Snopes.com for the former – and the Holy Bible for the latter.  Learn to live in bold confidence that you always operate in facts and concrete information.  Stand under the “fountain” of God’s truth, and let Him continually pour out His wisdom and blessings on you as you serve faithfully and obediently. Learn to make every minute count…and make this the day that you renew your commitment fully prepare for eternity at the feet of Jesus. The stakes are high…the reward is great…and the time is now to get this right!


©2016 Debbie Robus

* http://snopes.com

Daily Devotional for September 8, 2016

John 3:19-21
“This is the crisis we’re in: God-light streamed into the world, but men and women everywhere ran for the darkness. They went for the darkness because they were not really interested in pleasing God. Everyone who makes a practice of doing evil, addicted to denial and illusion, hates God-light and won’t come near it, fearing a painful exposure. But anyone working and living in truth and reality welcomes God-light so the work can be seen for the God-work it is.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I cannot stress often enough what a wonderful study tool I have found in the book, Jesus Calling*.  I am not affiliated with this author or publisher in any way - but these devotionals speak to me every time I read them. The September 6th entry says in part that (and remember, this is supposed to be Jesus speaking), “The desire to act independently – apart from Me – springs from the root of pride.  Self-sufficiency is subtle, insinuating its way into your thoughts and actions without your realizing it.  But apart from Me, you can do nothing: that is, nothing of eternal value.”

The passage goes on to encourage us to depend on Jesus in every situation…but we are reminded that we have to want to do this.  While it would be simpler for Jesus to force us to be obedient servants, the author explains that freedom to choose is a “godlike privilege I bestowed on you as My image-bearer.”

Let’s be honest…the devil makes it pretty easy and attractive for us to live in darkness. A former pastor used to say that “Sin is fun…otherwise, nobody would be interested!”  When I thought about today’s scripture passage – and the
Jesus Calling entry from a couple of days ago – I couldn’t help but think how many people who claim to be Christians have gotten caught up in the collective shadows of dissension that seem to permeate our country today.

Lines are firmly drawn in the sand. It’s become cool and popular to speak one’s mind and let the chips fall where they may…to pit one group against another and deride good people – just because others seem to like it!  There is a good deal of the “speak now and apologize later” mentality – and the fallout from this in some cases is permanent and irreparable.  We want to be cool…to fit in…to be accepted. So we go along with rhetoric that divides rather than unites.

We operate like people who have stepped out of a building into the brightness of a sunny day without wearing any sunglasses. We prefer to jump back into the “comfort” of the shadows as quickly as possible. We are not willing to make the effort to adjust to the bright light – and enjoy it!  We don’t appreciate the warmth of the sun’s life-giving rays.  We have no desire to put on sunscreen and protective clothing and stick around.

And so it is with Jesus.  We don’t want to do the work.  We would rather coast along in the darkness and act like we’re “all that,” and enjoy the relative “comfort” of fitting in and not making waves.

Understand this…sometimes, being a Christian is messy.  It takes courage, confidence, hope and faith.  It takes a willingness to step out of the darkness and say, “I’m following the LIGHT!”  We have to swallow our pride and put on the full armor of God and say, “Wherever You lead, I will follow!” Are YOU courageous enough to do this?  Will you place everything on the line for the One who has already done this - and so much more - for you?

Aren’t you ready to step out of the darkness and into the brilliant Light of Christ, once and for all?  Will this be the day that you do?


©2016 Debbie Robus
  
*Jesus Calling ~ http://jesuscalling.com – is available at most bookstores and major retailers, including Walmart and Target.

Daily Devotional for July 20, 2016

1 Peter 3:7
The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Please don’t skip this devotional.  This verse is about so much more than just how husbands treat their wives. For all of the strides we have made in recognizing the abilities and rights of women AND other “minorities”…we still have a long way to go.

God blessed me with a husband who has never treated me as less than equal.  Yes, Greg is physically stronger than I am.  But I can’t think of anything that he has ever discouraged me from doing because he felt I was not capable intellectually, creatively…or for any other reason.  In our nearly 42 years of marriage, Greg has included me in all decisions, made me his equal, and supported me in any and all endeavors.  And I thank God for such a blessing!

I’ve seen my share of marriages and associations where this was not the case - and that’s where you fit into this message.  See, we tend to treat a lot of people as “less than” - in all sorts of relationships…our jobs…friendships…the community…and even in “church work” and Christian service!  We do not honor and delight in the strengths and abilities of our brothers and sisters in Christ.  We are often so busy making a name for ourselves that we will do anything and everything to get ahead – even at the expense of someone else.

As this verse illustrates, when we fail to honor – if not elevate - those around us, we diminish our Christian witness.  When we do not acknowledge their importance, God is greatly disappointed.  God takes this into account as He considers our prayers and petitions.  How we treat others matters greatly!

People are watching.  They notice how we treat those with whom we interact…family, friends, co-workers – and even strangers.  When we disparage others…criticize and cut them down…treat them with disrespect as we try to elevate ourselves to a position of superiority, we dishonor God and discount our pledge to be Disciples of Christ.

God doesn’t make any distinction…those in the world spotlight have no more obligation in this regard than “regular folk” like you and I do.  We must stop name calling, criticisms and cutting remarks, crude and ugly references, and any form of disrespect or denigration.  If we are going to truly honor God and represent Him, we have to start treating our wives – and all others – as equals.  There is much work to be done in this area…are you ready to roll up your sleeves and get busy?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 19, 2016

1 Peter 3:1-5
If you are a wife, you must put your husband first. Even if he opposes our message, you will win him over by what you do. No one else will have to say anything to him, because he will see how you honor God and live a pure life. Don’t depend on things like fancy hairdos or gold jewelry or expensive clothes to make you look beautiful. Be beautiful in your heart by being gentle and quiet. This kind of beauty will last, and God considers it very special.

Long ago those women who worshiped God and put their hope in him made themselves beautiful by putting their husbands first.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

I’ve admitted before that I watch a little reality TV…okay, maybe more than I should!  I don’t exactly keep up with the Kardashians…and I cannot name all of the Real Housewives in any city.  But I do have a “working knowledge” of some of these characters and can recognize many of them when I see their image in the media. I fully understand that these people do not represent mainstream America…that their lives are not “the norm.”  But I sometimes look at these people and ask myself, “What is missing in their lives?”  Because it seems to me that for all that they have…they often truly have very little joy and satisfaction.

If ever there was a living, breathing example of the admonition in 1 Peter 3:3 to rely on something other than possessions and adornments to make one truly “beautiful”…these people seem to fit the bill. On the other hand, you may know someone who is what most would describe as ordinary…if not downright “homely.”  You may marvel at how he/she managed to snag a good-looking partner!  Or you may have to stop and think about this person’s appearance…because you are so enthralled with how beautiful he/she is on the inside.  You may take notice of how content this person seems to be with a seemingly “simple” life.  These folks are what could be called the “Real Disciples of Jesus Christ!”  They have taken the message of 1 Peter 3 to heart and made it their daily mission!

When you first read this passage, you might have thought I was going to talk about wives submitting themselves to husbands.  But the message of these verses is so much deeper.  There is “meat” here for all of us about what truly matters in our Christian discipleship.  God wants us to live in such a way that others cannot help but see the beauty of our relationship with Him…and want in on it for themselves!  He wants us to demonstrate honor, faith and purity that supersedes looks, “success” and possessions.

In plain language, the message for us is to quit trying to be something – or someone – that we’re not.  Instead, focus on being who God has called us to be…to go above and beyond what He asks of us as we glorify Him and share His message with others.  Treat the other guy – whether your spouse, child, relative, friend, co-worker, neighbor…or even a stranger – as you wish to be treated (even if this seems better than they merit!).  When we remain steadfast in our faith and quietly serve God with a loving spirit and unfailing obedience, others take notice…and our true “beauty” shines.

When others look at you today, who do they see?  Are you trying to be one of the “beautiful people?”  Or are you letting God produce His beauty in and through you?  Are you striving to keep up with the Kardashians…or the King of Kings?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for April 14, 2016

John1:1-2
Before anything else existed, there was Christ*, with God. He has always been alive and is himself God.

*(Before anything else existed, literally, “In the beginning.” Christ, literally, “the Word,” meaning Christ, the wisdom and power of God and the first cause of all things; God’s personal expression of himself to men.)

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

There is a popular phrase circulating in “Christian” circles today…”LORD, break my heart for what breaks Yours.”  I hear it often in association with foster children and orphans.  And this is a noble sentiment.  I do want to be so in tune with God’s desires that my heart breaks for what break’s His. But God’s heart is broken over a lot more than just the plight of orphans. God is also heartbroken when we operate in fear and misunderstanding - or mistreat those who are different from us in some way…those who do not share our beliefs or lifestyles…the poor and downtrodden…people from other races or ethnic backgrounds. 

And yet, discrimination has become more and more the norm in our society.  If someone is not like us – in any way – they are wrong…and we are right.  In many cases, it has escalated to the point where people are willing to injure – or kill – a person who is different.  And sadly, this violence is often encouraged by would-be leaders…others with a “high profile”…and social media.

As I read today’s scripture passage and thought about Jesus…how He is God’s personal expression of Himself to men…I asked myself, “What would HE think of all of this?”  And I knew instantly that this must devastate Him.  To think that God expressed Himself – His wisdom, power, and caring – in the form of Jesus Christ - and gets this sort of reaction…is heartbreaking, and incredibly disrespectful.

This is nothing new.  People have been mistreating others – and disrespecting God for centuries.  But when we know better, we should do better.  And don’t we know better than to mistreat others?  Don’t we understand that this is a direct insult to Jesus Christ – the WORD in flesh? 

Doesn’t this attitude and unloving action represent a direct contradiction to our faith?  We say we love Jesus…that we want to follow Him and live out His teachings and truths.  And then we treat others unkindly.  We show everything from mild disdain to downright cruelty and abuse.  We gossip, lie, steal, cheat, and murder in order to make OUR point…to show that we are right – and the other guy is wrong.  And in doing so, we pretty well nullify “the WORD” in our lives.

I am not sharing this to say that you must accept those who are different in some way…although I do hope you will consider that they are as precious to God as you are.  What I am suggesting is that we take a long hard look at what we are claiming…what we believe and how we demonstrate our faith in Jesus Christ. 

See if you are truly representing the One who is a personal expression of God to the human race.  How are we demonstrating His power, wisdom, love, and compassion to others?  Or are we? Isn’t it time we stopped trying to make OUR point…and truly started making a difference for God as we share the Word with others?  Will this be the day that you begin?

   
©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for December 17, 2015

Isaiah 8:13
I am the one you should fear and respect. I am the holy God, the Lord All-Powerful!

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.


When I was a child…and even when my parents were children…there was a man who lived in our county who was known as “Preacher Mullens.”  This gentle man was a traveling preacher…and at Christmas time, he dressed up as Santa Claus and came to area schools to pass out candy canes.  He drove a red Jeep with REAL “reindeer” on the front…actually a mounted deer (or were there two?).  Okay, so it wouldn’t be so politically correct today…but I remember petting the deer and thinking it was the greatest thing ever.  And even though I knew that “Santa” was really Preacher Mullens, he truly represented Santa to me…the only Santa of my childhood.

My first year to teach, Preacher Mullens came to visit our school, and I have a photo of him passing out candy canes to my first graders.  That was in 1977, and I think this was one of the last years that Mr. Mullens did this.  Today, at Timothy’s first grade Christmas party, a childhood friend of mine who makes a truly fine Santa Claus visited the classrooms and wished the children a Merry Christmas.  I told him, “You are carrying the torch for Preacher Mullens.”  He quickly raised his hands and said, “Oh, NO!  There is no way!”  He did not feel worthy to be compared to this man who is so revered in our community as something of a childhood folk hero.  In my friend’s mind, there is only ONE “Preacher Mullens”…and he cannot be replicated.

I’m here to assure you that there is only ONE Jesus Christ…only ONE Lord and Savior. There will be some pretty good people who come along in our lifetime – and in the generations to come. There will be some fine folks who do their best to love God and serve Him completely. And there will be some amazing spiritual leaders who can help us understand scripture, guide us in ministry, and assist us in accomplishing fantastic things in the name of the LORD. But there will only ever be ONE God…and He only sent ONE Son to save us.

So before we go singing the praises of each other – or this evangelist or that minister or author… and giving too much credit to a mere human, let’s get it straight.  Let’s remember who is the Lord All-Powerful…and let’s give HIM our utmost “fear” and respect.  In this season when we celebrate all sorts of things – including Santa Claus and his reindeer…let’s remember Who we are really supposed to be honoring.  We need to remember to make Jesus the center of attention and keep our perspective…and then we need to keep this up all throughout the year.

I have such fond memories of Preacher Mullens and all of the good he did for people in my part of the state…and he did this throughout the year – not just at Christmas time.  There is a place in my “Christmas memories” for this magnificent man and happy thoughts of the Santa Claus that he portrayed.  But I must make certain that I prioritize carefully – and that I don’t place Santa Claus ahead of Jesus…in this season or any other time of the year.  I am determined to do this…what about you?


©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for December 12, 2015

Ephesians 5:21
Out of respect for Christ, be courteously reverent to one another.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Last year, my sister was hospitalized on Christmas Day with breathing difficulties.  She stayed there several days.  Facebook became a great way to update people about her condition and ask for prayer…and thankfully, her condition did improve.  But Facebook, Twitter and other social media outlets are also a hotbed for disrespect.  People who profess to be faith-filled Christians go at one another with all of the fervor of rabid dogs.  Wives post ugly cartoons and comments about their husbands or partners…who in turn make snide remarks and post equally unkind photos/sayings about their wives or significant others.

And let’s be honest…more than a few of us have been unkind toward a political candidate – or even our own children - as we post critical remarks and embarrassing photos/stories.  We give little to no thought about how these make the person feel – or how we look by doing so.  Okay, so maybe your kid doesn’t see Facebook now…but he/she probably will someday.  Do you really want them to know that you shared their bathroom antics or that song they sang in the shower when they thought no one was listening?

My point is that we have all become lax about respect…toward each other, and most certainly toward God.  We have arbitrarily decided that some words we once would never utter are now perfectly okay in polite conversation. And even with all the talk of “political correctness,” we still feel free to say whatever pops into our heads.  We take God’s name in vain.  We “shoot now and ask questions later” with regard to everything from judging others and calling on the name of Jesus to declaring that our faith and way of worship is superior to that of the next guy – all the while failing to consider that God loves them just as much as He cares about us!

Watch the nightly news or pick up a newspaper…Christians are disrespecting each other – AND GOD – at every turn. We have tossed reverence and respect for one another to the curb…and by “doing this to the least of these,” we have done it to God.  But we can change.  We can open our hearts and minds…listen for God’s voice…and submit to His will.  We can say to Him, “Father, I am sorry for how I have treated You and Your children.  Please show me how to correct this.”  And then we must follow through on our commitment.

I urge you to search your heart and see where you have become lax in your respect and reverence for God…and for others.  Make this the day that you begin to turn this around, once and for all.  In this season when we are supposedly so focused on Christ Jesus, will you renew your effort to show Him the respect He is due?  Don’t you think you should?

   
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for November 27, 2015

1 Peter 1:17
You call out to God for help and he helps—he’s a good Father that way. But don’t forget, he’s also a responsible Father, and won’t let you get by with sloppy living.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugeterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

We’ve been practicing for the children’s Christmas program at our church.  I am helping with the music this year…and this is Timothy’s first time to participate in the program for children in elementary school.  His sister and brother will ring bells with the “Little Ringers” – which includes ages 3-5. 

Our practices for the program are on Sunday nights at 5:00.  This is just about the worst hour of the week for elementary school children to rehearse for a program.  They are weary…they are distracted...some are hungry…they’ve had a big week, and some have had an even bigger weekend.

So the children stand and halfway sing.  They go through the motions, and I wonder if, with two rehearsals left, the program will be even remotely decent on December 13th.  I almost know that it will be – that God will provide.  Still, I coach the children to sing louder…to “stand up straight and do your best!”  And I pray for a good outcome!

One night, Timothy was especially tired, and I actually let him leave practice early.  He told his mother and me, “I don’t want to do this anymore.”  He loves the music, and his mother says that he practices at home on his own and sings like a bird.  And to her credit, she told him that…”We finish what we start.”  So he has been a good “soldier” and marched to practice since – and I am confident that he will sing beautifully for the actual performance.

Here’s the thing.  My heart aches for those little kids who are weary and disinterested.  But “rules are rules”…and Timothy’s mother is right – “we finish what we start.”  And it’s that way with God, too.  Yes, He meets our needs…and often, His heart is broken for us and what wears us down.  He has committed to caring for us at all times…”through thick and thin.”  But at the same time, we’ve made a commitment to love and serve God in return…and there is no room in this covenant for sloppy living. 

We cannot have it both ways.  We cannot take and take from God and expect Him to keep on giving without any reservations.  We cannot give less than our best in “rehearsals” and expect a flawless “performance” at the actual  program!

I am so grateful for God’s love and care.  Today, my challenge for all of us is that we would examine our hearts – and our thoughts, words and actions – and see where we have gotten a little sloppy.  Where do we need to “stand up straight and do our best?”  Where do we need to work a little harder to finish what we have begun…even if it takes the rest of our lives?  Will this be the day that you recommit to your covenant with God?  Don’t you think it should be?


©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 12, 2015

Isaiah 61:1
The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, because the Lord has anointed me to bring good news to the suffering and afflicted. He has sent me to comfort the brokenhearted, to announce liberty to captives, and to open the eyes of the blind.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Unless you have been under a rock lately, you know that there are almost two dozen "contenders" to be the next President of the United States…and to hear many of them tell it, the Spirit of the Lord God is upon them, and they have been anointed to save the world!  Were it not so sad and serious, it might almost be laughable, as each of these men and women rushes to outdo the others in their efforts to convince “we the people” how lofty and noble they are…and how qualified they are to lead us!

It will probably take the better part of this next year to sift through all of the noise and figure out who truly might be at least partly suited to be our next President.  I know that it will take a lot of prayer and careful consideration as we formulate our opinions and come to what hopefully will be a wise conclusion.

Meanwhile, let there be NO question about who has been anointed by God to bring the Good News to each of us - the “suffering and afflicted” referenced by the prophet Isaiah.  Let us be assured that Jesus Christ has indeed come “to comfort the brokenhearted, to announce liberty to captives, and to open the eyes of the blind.” 

My prayer is that we never get confused about this…that we never doubt…and that we live in such a way that others are certain of where we stand – and with WHOM we stand!  It doesn’t matter whether you and I agree about who should lead our nation…but it matters profoundly that we agree about Who leads our hearts and souls…and controls the destiny of our every breath - and our Eternity.

Do you live in a way that demonstrates your faith and confidence in the Good News of Jesus Christ?  Have you received His anointing upon your life…and are you busy acting on His behalf in a way that brings glory and honor to Jesus?  When others look at you, do they want what (and Who) you have in their life?  Or are you one more arrogant and confusing “voice” in the mix? 

The time has come for us to figure out who we are as Christ’s disciples…and to pare down, in many instances, to what He has anointed…and discard anything that we have added.  Are you really ready to do this?  Are you prepared to deliver the unadulterated, pure and true Good News to others in every aspect of your daily living?  Will you stand out from the crowd for Jesus in a good way? Or are you just one more in a line of noisy distractions?


©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 30, 2015

1 Corinthians 10:30-31
If I can thank God for the food and enjoy it, why let someone spoil everything just because he thinks I am wrong? Well, I’ll tell you why. It is because you must do everything for the glory of God, even your eating and drinking.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
When our nephew John was about three or four, he went to visit Greg’s parents.  During one of the meals, Grandma “E” served corn on the cob.  When she put John’s plate in front of him, he came unhinged.  There were no “things”!  Grandma “E” could not figure out at first what he was talking about…but she quickly realized that he needed “handles” for his corn…namely, those yellow skewers that look like miniature ears of corn – the ones that you get in the kitchen section at a department store!  These were what his mother had…didn’t everyone have them?  Well, Grandma “E” did not have those (she did shortly thereafter!), and in what I thought was a stroke of genius, she stuck toothpicks into either end of Johnny’s ear of corn, and he reluctantly used those for handles!

The absence of those yellow “corn” skewers did not alter the ear of corn.  It didn’t change how it was grown – or how it tasted!  But in the mind of a 3-year-old, it changed everything and was not up for negotiation!  I wish I had a nickel for every time a child has looked at a food that has been presented to him/her and retorted, “Blech!” without so much as even a single taste. 

We can somewhat forgive children for this, because after all, they ARE children who are still learning the art of polite behavior. But I have seen adults turn up their noses and refuse to sample something with embarrassing fanfare.  I have seen grown men and women refuse to eat a casserole because “different foods were touching!”  I saw beauty, fashion and home design editors for some of the country’s top magazines turn up their noses at beautiful trays of bite-sized pieces of catfish, carefully prepared by a wonderful New York City chef.  People who would not give a second thought to spearing a snail from its shell in a fancy French restaurant waved the tray away, and with an air of superiority, uttered… “No, thank you!”  For the record, those who actually dared to sample the fried tidbits LOVED them and were immediate converts!

What Paul is telling the Corinthians here is about more than just food or our dining customs.  Paul is telling us that we need to get over ourselves.  Just because this is not necessarily how WE have always done things does not mean that the other person is wrong – or less of a Christian...or even less of a human being, for that matter.  We must not look down on the poor…or those who are less fortunate, for how they manage from day to day.  We must not be judgmental and critical of those who have a different way of doing things, and we most certainly must not do this to people of other cultures and ethnicities.  We must remember that God made them, just as He created us…and how we treat them must glorify and honor Him at every turn.  We must also not criticize others for their worship style or how they demonstrate their faith.

We all get too caught up in the “that’s-not-how-it’s-done” way of thinking. From even the littlest things like “my roommate or spouse doesn’t fold the towels like I do” to “what kind of mother lets her kids go out looking like that” to “we never did it like that at my other church/school/team/club/place of work”…our words and actions are often not the kind that glorify God and honor all that He has done for us.  They do not say to others, “God loves us and wants ALL of us to belong to Him…not just the chosen few who ‘do everything my way’.” 

Change is never easy…and some of us have been stuck in our ways for a long, long time!  But if we want to glorify God and honor Him, we have to be willing to make the effort to set aside our own egos and see the bigger picture.  Let's face it...you may still like to eat your corn on the cob with those little yellow skewers, but at least you’ll know that it tastes the same, either way.  We must learn that there is often a difference between compromising your Christian values and doing things in another manner than the one you prefer.  As long as God is exalted and respected, considering and accommodating another person’s feelings may be best for all concerned.


©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 9, 2015

Ephesians 2:8-9
You were saved by faith in God, who treats us much better than we deserve. This is God’s gift to you, and not anything you have done on your own. It isn’t something you have earned, so there is nothing you can brag about.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Tomorrow is Mother’s Day, and all across America, mothers will receive gifts and cards…special treats…breakfasts in bed…lunches and dinners that someone else prepared…and all sorts of accolades. I can tell you that we would be hard pressed to find many mothers who didn’t earn every single bit of this!  I seriously doubt many mothers are already bragging about how they are due all of the wonderful things their children have done for them.  And few will say, “You’re treating me better than I deserve!”

On the other hand, I would say that most of our mothers have given us much better than we deserve. On Pulptastic.com*, I found a list titled “10 Things Your Mom Never Told You”.  Visit the site to read the entire list, but they include…1) You made her cry a lot (in both good and bad ways); 2) She wanted that last piece of pie; 8) It broke her heart every time you cried; and 9) She put you first.  By and large, our mothers have rescued us from more troubles than we could ever count… and as item #10 on this list states, “She would do it all again.”

As much as our mothers love us, God loves us even more.  He doesn’t love us only when we exhibit “good behavior” that is worthy of some sort of recognition, prize or treat.  While God does reward our obedience and service with blessings and other “perks”, He is more than generous with plenty that we in no way earned or deserved…particularly our salvation through the blood of Jesus Christ.

There are times when we have a right to brag…and times when most mothers deserve to pat themselves on the back and say, “I did pretty well!”  This weekend – and tomorrow in particular – will be one of those times.  But for the most part, we must all turn our eyes toward the heavens and recognize WHO truly gives us the very best blessings and care every single day…the One who created mothers – and fathers – and each of us. 

We can “brag” and celebrate our wonderful mothers – and our incomparable Heavenly Father…we can revel in all that we have been given by them – and remind ourselves of all that we owe them!  But we must humbly recognize that WE had nothing to do with these blessings of our own accord…and we must learn to say a humble, and truly heartfelt, “Thank YOU!”

Tomorrow as we celebrate Mom, let’s turn to God and thank HIM for this incredible gift – and ALL that He gives us.  We don’t deserve this love and care…but He gives it anyway…and for this we owe Him our utmost gratitude and praise.


©2015 Debbie Robus 

* http://pulptastic.com/10-things-mom-never-told/

Daily Devotional for January 24, 2015

Revelation 2:14-16
“But why do you indulge that Balaam crowd? Don’t you remember that Balaam was an enemy agent, seducing Balak and sabotaging Israel’s holy pilgrimage by throwing unholy parties? And why do you put up with the Nicolaitans, who do the same thing?
 
“Enough! Don’t give in to them; I’ll be with you soon. I’m fed up and about to cut them to pieces with my sword-sharp words.
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
Most of us have heard stories about – or actually know of - a teenager who attended a party where there was under-age drinking and other activities that should not have been happening.  When this activity was discovered, the teen said, “But I wasn’t doing it!”  While the kid felt this exonerated his/her presence…it really was no excuse.  Or maybe you know of a child who broke a window because he/she was throwing rocks…or started a fire when a pack of matches was discovered…or had some sort of accident because friends dared him/her to do something crazy…but they were just “in the wrong place at the wrong time”.  It really wasn’t their fault.
 
There is a fine line between tolerance and poor judgment.  I would guess that virtually every single one of us has been in a situation or circumstance where we said, “I shouldn’t be here.”  Or maybe we sensed that something did not feel “right”…yet we couldn’t seem to drag ourselves away.  Some would argue that they were there to “help a buddy” – or even to “witness” to those in the wrong.  But these lines of reasoning won’t hold up very well in most cases.
 
In this passage, God is using John to tell the people of Smyrna that they have been hanging out with the wrong crowd…and He has just about had enough of it.  They have been dabbling in things they know they shouldn’t…and teetering on the brink of disaster.  And this message applies to many of us today just as well.  We’re dancing on the edge…testing the waters…trying to “have our cake and eat it, too”…and God is not amused.
 
I honestly don’t think man people grasp how terribly we grieve God on many occasions.  We don’t often stop to consider that the One who loves us beyond description has feelings, too. And we break His heart over and again on a regular basis– if not every single day.  But we can change…and don’t you want to?!  Don’t you want to honor God for all that He has done for you?  Don’t you want to live in a manner that says, “I am so very grateful for your love, grace, mercy and patience.”?
 
Isn’t it time we started living with more purpose…with deliberate thought and consideration for our words and actions?  If we really love God, shouldn’t we stop and consider what HE would think before we say and do many of the things we do without any consideration?  Will this be the day that you begin to “let go and let God” in EVERY area of your life?  Or will you continue to hope that your “excuses” are good enough to merit a “pass”?
 
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 23, 2015

Psalm 133:1
How wonderful, how beautiful,
    when brothers and sisters get along!

 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
I just read a book called 1-2-3 Magic*, written by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D.  This book is subtitled “Effective Discipline for Children 2-12”.  Phelan has an interesting approach to parenting effectively – and with joy – and he discusses sibling rivalry in several sections of his book.  Some of Phelan’s statistics were quite interesting.  He notes that all siblings will fight, and those ages 3-7 fight about three or four times per hour, while some younger children fight as much as 6 times an hour.  Phelan claims that kids ages 10-15 have the highest rate of sibling rivalry!
 
I won’t detail how Phelan recommends handling sibling rivalry…but he admits that there are times that a separation – or “time out” – is necessary for all parties. He advocates a “1-2-3” approach of “3 counts” and then a “time out”.  I couldn’t help but think of counting to Timothy one day, and when I got to “2”, he said, “Don’t make me count to THREE!”
 
All you have to do is read the book of Genesis to see that sibling rivalry is nothing new! But here’s where I think this verse in Psalms applies to us as Christians.  In too many areas of our life, we have stopped trying to get along.  We’ve adopted the philosophy that “It’s my way or the highway”…and everyone else is just plain wrong if they disagree with us!
 
I believe that Psalm 133:1 is about getting along with ALL of our brothers and sisters…not just those with whom we share parents.  God delights when His creations live in harmony…are patient, kind, tolerant and loving toward one another.  Jesus demonstrated grace, mercy, and forgiveness…and He called on us to share these “fruits of the Spirit” with others…to honor God and all that He has bestowed upon us.  And this means that we must hold our tongue (more often than most of us would like!)…and sometimes walk away and/or take a physical break from a “sibling” who is upsetting us in some way.
 
Ask God to show you how to operate more in love rather than “sibling rivalry”.  Don’t take the “count” to three…learn to call on the power of the Holy Spirit and stop with the first hint of animosity or disagreement. Honor your relationship with God by developing love and tolerance for others…even if they make you “count to three”!
 
©2015 Debbie Robus
 
* http://www.amazon.com/1-2-3-Magic-Effective-Discipline-Children/dp/1889140708/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1422029621&sr=1-1&keywords=123+magic&pebp=1422029624302&peasin=1889140708

Daily Devotional for January 18, 2014

Matthew 7:1-5
“Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults— unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It’s easy to see a smudge on your neighbor’s face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do you have the nerve to say, ‘Let me wash your face for you,’ when your own face is distorted by contempt? It’s this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor.
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
We took Timothy and Zola to the park to play after church and lunch today.  While we were there, both children had “boomerang” experiences.  Timothy was pushing a teeter-totter up and down, and it caught him on the upswing and hit his ear, knocking him to the ground.  Zola was pushing a tire swing, and as the tire returned, it smacked her in the forehead, and she fell over, too.  Both children were okay, but they both got the  point that when you push, sometimes things push back!
 
We have all been hypocrites in one way or another.  We criticize when we should keep our mouths shut.  We readily see others’ faults…but turn a blind eye to our own.  And sometimes, this comes back to knock us off our feet!
 
Here’s the good news…Jesus loves us…warts and all.  And He loves that person you have criticized, too.  We should be mindful of this as we formulate our thoughts and opinions…and grateful that God is so merciful toward us!
 
If we want to be like Jesus, we have to learn to be more inclusive…more tolerant…more accepting and less critical.  If we want others to treat us in this manner, we have to first demonstrate these traits to them.  No one will ever want to hear what we have to say about Jesus until we demonstrate His love and non-judgmental stance…and who could blame them?!
 
This scripture passage says it all pretty well.  Just as Timothy and Zola must learn that pushing on these things will cause a direct – and uncomfortable – return “push”…we must learn that our critical and intolerant spirit has consequences, as well.  The last thing we should want is to dishonor our relationship with Jesus – or to misrepresent His love, grace, mercy, forgiveness and compassion for all who trust in Him.  Yet this is what we do any time we are critical and overbearing toward someone else.
 
But we can change this…and we can start today.  Will you join me?  Will you examine your heart and see where you could operate with a more loving, tolerant spirit?  It’s time to kick nitpicking and fault-finding to the curb and operate in the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ.  What do you say…are you with me?
 
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 7, 2015

Amos 3:1-2
Listen to this, Israel. God is calling you to account—and I mean all of you, everyone connected with the family that he delivered out of Egypt. Listen!
 
“Out of all the families on earth, I picked you.
Therefore, because of your special calling,
I’m holding you responsible for all your sins.”
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
“Great gifts mean great responsibilities…” (Luke 12:48)
 
Probably all of us got at least ONE gift for Christmas.  And I would venture to say that the person who gave us that gift put some time and effort into selecting something that was just right for us.  This person most likely anticipated that we would take care of said gift…that we would treat it with respect and care.  The same can be said for God and His precious reward of salvation through the blood of Jesus Christ.
 
God gave us His most thoughtful, most loving, most carefully planned gift.  He chose us to be His children…His beloved…His redeemed.  Like all presents, nothing is required in return once the offering is accepted.  However, the “giver” does anticipate that we will honor and respect the bequest.
 
How do we do this with God’s gift of Jesus?  We strive to honor and emulate Him in everything we say and do.  We stay away from gossip, intolerance, discrimination and disagreement.  We distance ourselves from dishonesty and deceit.  We strive to love others as He loves us…and we pay attention to the needs of those around us – and do our best to meet them in His name. Does this sound like a lot in return for one gift?  You bet it is!  But consider the GIFT
 
Hear God’s words again…”I picked YOU!”  Such an amazing endowment deserves our utmost care and respect…and God will hold you responsible for how you treat Him and His endowment.  So…how well are you doing these days?
 
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for December 20, 2014

1 Peter 5:5-6
And now you have become living building-stones for God’s use in building his house. What’s more, you are his holy priests; so come to him—you who are acceptable to him because of Jesus Christ — and offer to God those things that please him.  As the Scriptures express it, “See, I am sending Christ to be the carefully chosen, precious Cornerstone of my church, and I will never disappoint those who trust in him.”

 
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
A couple of Sundays ago, we took Timothy and Zola home from church activities, and their mother was waiting with baby brother Nathan to create a “gingerbread train”.  I’m pretty sure this was a “store-bought kit”, although my niece may have baked the gingerbread pieces herself.  However, the children used  icing and candies to put together a “train engine” and at least one “car”.  I commended my niece for tackling this project with children who are 5, 3, and 2!  These sorts of things do not come together easily!
 
To begin such a project, you have to have a foundation point…an “anchor” of sorts that is sturdy and solid…like a line of icing on the plate or some other reinforcement.  Each subsequent piece builds on the first…and the last step is to add the decorative parts!  If that first piece is not placed just so…everything that follows is a waste of time.
 
This is just how it is in our relationship with Jesus Christ.  Had God not sent Jesus to be the carefully chosen, precious Cornerstone, there would be no “church” – at least none of any substance!  Our little ones were so impressed and pleased with the results of their creativity and hard work.  And God is pleased with us when we build upon His precious Gift and trust in Him to support us through all things.
 
This week, as we look toward the celebration of Jesus’ birth, ask yourself about your “Cornerstone”.  Are you trusting Jesus to be your anchor and building your life upon His teachings and promises?  Are you counting on salvation through His precious blood to be the sturdy, solid line upon which you build everything else in your life and beyond?  Is everything you do a pleasing “adornment” to the foundation of hope and faith that Christ has laid for us?  Are you a “living building-stone” for God?  Wouldn’t this be a great week to become one?
 
©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for November 12, 2014

Hebrews 13:13-15
So let us go out to him beyond the city walls (that is, outside the interests of this world, being willing to be despised) to suffer with him there, bearing his shame.  For this world is not our home; we are looking forward to our everlasting home in heaven.
 
With Jesus’ help we will continually offer our sacrifice of praise to God by telling others of the glory of his name.
 
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
In one way or another, we Christians have probably all stepped “outside of the box” at one time or another.  Maybe you paid the bill of the person behind you in the line at McDonald’s…or maybe you stepped up to serve on a committee when you weren’t sure you had adequate knowledge and expertise – but you felt led to do so anyway.  Maybe you intervened in a situation where many would have said…”Not my circus; not my monkeys.”  Maybe you loaned someone money when others said, “Don’t do it.” Or perhaps you stepped up to someone you didn’t know very well and asked, “Have you met Jesus?”
 
The point is that there will be times in all of our lives when God will call on us to do something daring…unconventional…maybe even a little bit crazy – and most certainly daunting or uncomfortable!  He will ask us to step over the line and stand on His side, rather than the world’s.  God will essentially ask us, “Are you really with me?  Do you trust me?  Do you genuinely appreciate what I have done for you…enough to demonstrate it with courage and just a bit of abandon?
 
How we answer will say a lot about our level of faith…and our gratitude.  Do we really have confidence in God to stand in the gap and make the difference between our perceived abilities and circumstances – and what He can do with the least of our efforts?  Are we honestly grateful for what God has done in our lives…and what He promises to do in the days/weeks/years/eternity yet to be?  Will we “cross the line” of faith and thankfulness and demonstrate to God - and to others - just how much our salvation means to us?
 
Are we truly willing to offer a sacrifice of praise to God by telling – and showing – others the glory of His name?  Isn’t it time we were?
 
©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for September 6, 2014

Romans 12:20-21
Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he’s thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don’t let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

In May 2012, 18-year-old Takunda Mavima lost control of his vehicle and crashed into an off-ramp while driving home from a party after his high school graduation in Wyoming, Michigan. Two passengers...15-year-old Krysta Howell and 17-year-old Tim See...were both killed.

Mavima's blood alcohol level was reported to be 0.10 at the time of the accident.  He pled guilty to all charges and received a sentence of between 30 months and 15 years in prison.

Tim See's father and sister both addressed the court. According to an article on the
Huffington Post website*, Lauren See told the judge..."I am begging you to let Takunda make something of himself in the real world -- don't send him to prison and get hard and bitter, that boy has learned his lesson a thousand times over and he'll never make the same mistake again."

We’ve read and heard about other situations similar to this one...instances where something tragic happened, and the family members and/or friends of the victims were more than generous with forgiveness toward those who caused this. We’ve seen men who were falsely accused and imprisoned for rape and murder hug their accusers and forgive them.  We’ve seen mothers embrace drunk drivers and forgive them for accidents that killed their children. And we marvel at how – and why – they can find it in their hearts to do this!

I hope you are never faced with such a situation.  But here’s the thing...there are plenty of circumstances where we are offended, mistreated, disrespected, lied to and deceived, betrayed, or otherwise insulted. We have choices...we can retaliate...we can treat the person with cold indifference, at best – or downright rudeness and disdain.  Or, we can continue to show the person kindness, and operate in grace and mercy.  We can “take the high road”...treat the person better than he/she deserves...and let God use our generosity to reveal Himself.

Will our actions and attitudes change things? Maybe...but maybe not!  It really doesn’t matter. You don’t do this to “teach the person a lesson” or because you are such a wonderful, special person. No...we treat others in this manner because this is how we overcome evil.  This is how WE win instead of the devil! This is how we say, “Because God grants me grace and mercy that I don’t deserve, I should do this for others to His glory.” Any “revelation” or “reformation” in the other person is an added bonus...and totally up to God to produce.

There are times in our lives where the LAST thing in the world we want to do is to be kind to someone who has wronged us in some manner. But this is when it means the most!  Ask God to give you His strength and wisdom...and to allow His grace and mercy to flow through you as you interact with others...even those who are something of “the enemy”.  Be prepared to surprise others with your generosity...and God might surprise YOU in the process!


©2014 Debbie Robus

* http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/14/takunda-mavima_n_1882492.html

Daily Devotional for May 16, 2014

Matthew 6:9
You should pray like this:

Our Father in heaven,
help us to honor your name.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

The “LORD’s Prayer…we probably all know it by heart.  Many of us recite it every Sunday during our weekly worship service.  Yet most of us rarely stop to consider the words we are speaking…the meaning they impart…the intention of their phrasing. We might as well be reciting the “Pledge of Allegiance” or “Mary Had a Little Lamb”!  Many of the prayers, hymns – and even scripture verses – we learned as children have become nothing more than rote recitations.  We have gotten so complacent in our speaking of them that we no longer realize what we are saying!

Stop and read this scripture verse again.  Truly think about the words of this sentence...”Our Father in heaven, help us to honor Your name.”  What does this really imply?  How do we honor God’s name?

The first step is to find God and genuinely get to know Him…to understand who He is and what He desires for us – and from us.  We cannot do this by osmosis…merely sitting in a park and soaking up the sun and scenery won’t cut it.  We can’t assume that just because our parents, grandparents, friends and acquaintances know God…we know Him, too.  God cannot be the friend of a friend of a friend.  We have to become truly familiar with Him…we must get to know Him intimately. 

How do we do this?  How do you get to know anyone?  You spend time with them…you converse…you study their interests and behavior patterns and learn their likes and dislikes.  It’s no different with God…it’s just more important!  A relationship with God is the most critical bond you will ever cultivate.

Once you become familiar with God, you will better understand what is required to honor His name.  You will know what words, thoughts and actions please Him…and which ones break His heart.  You will understand what living for Him entails…you will discover how to recognize – and seize – opportunities to serve and minister on His behalf.  When you truly find God and develop a connection with Him, you will find that your desire to honor His name increases exponentially.  Hopefully this will eventually become second nature to you!

The “LORD’s Prayer” is rich with the message of Jesus…each line and phrase is important.  But we must start with getting to know God and learning to honor His name.  Once we have a good handle on this, the petitions that follow become even more profound and compelling.

Have YOU found God?  Do you know Him intimately? Do you have a strong, interactive relationship with Him?  Do you honor His name with the thoughts, words and actions of your daily living?  When you pray the “LORD’s Prayer,” do the words express your genuine intentions with regard to your faith…or are you merely reciting a lesson of your youth?  Isn’t it time to get to know God…and give power and meaning to your pledge to honor His name?  Will this be the day you get started?


©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for March 17, 2014

March 17 ~ 2 Corinthians 2:5-9
I don’t want to be hard on you. But if one of you has made someone feel bad, I am not really the one who has been made to feel bad. Some of you are the ones.  Most of you have already pointed out the wrong that person did, and that is punishment enough for what was done.
 
When people sin, you should forgive and comfort them, so they won’t give up in despair.  You should make them sure of your love for them.
 
I also wrote because I wanted to test you and find out if you would follow my instructions.
 
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
 
Actor George Takei is known by many for his role as Hikaru Sulu, a helmsman on the Starship Enterprise in the long-running television series, “Star Trek”.  In recent years, Takei has made cameo appearances on several sitcoms and acted in a few movies.  He is better known today for his activist roles promoting gay rights and Japanese-American relations.  In 1942, Takei and his family were sent to the Rowher War Relocation Camp in Rowher, Arkansas, for internment. They were later transferred to an internment camp in California, where they remained until the end of World War II.  Takei’s family then returned to Los Angeles, where he ultimately graduated from UCLA and received Bachelor of Arts and Master of Arts Degrees in theater.
 
Today, many younger people know George Takei for his front-and-center presence on social media.  He makes frequent posts of funny pictures, humorous quotes, and inspirational thoughts.  And today was no exception.  Many of you may be familiar with the church group in Kansas that frequently shows up to conduct anti-gay protests at military funerals…often bearing signs that say “God Hates F**s" and “Thank God for 9/11”.  The church’s leader, Fred Phelps, is on Hospice and apparently doesn’t have long to live.
 
George Takei is exactly the kind of person who could become a target of this group’s hatred. It would seem plausible that Takei would have plenty of reasons to harbor un-forgiveness in his heart toward this man and his church.  But here’s what Takei had to say today on Facebook:
"I take no solace or joy in this man's passing. We will not dance upon his grave, nor stand vigil at his funeral holding "God Hates Freds" signs, tempting as it may be.
 
He was a tormented soul, who tormented so many. Hate never wins out in the end. It instead goes always to its lonely, dusty end."
This is exactly what Paul is talking about in his message to the Corinthians.  We need look no further than Jesus Christ as He was tortured and hung on a cross to see how true forgiveness looks.  It’s not about what was done to us…it’s about what we do in return.  People like George Takei would almost seem justified in harboring ill feelings.  To be taken from your home and placed in an internment camp just because of your family heritage would be reason enough…but to be part of a group who is the target of such incredible hatred and disgust because of your sexual orientation would only add fuel to the fire for many.
 
To be imprisoned – sometimes standing in human excrement up to your waist - for sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ and claiming that He is the Messiah would be justification for holding a grudge.  To be beaten, spit upon, and nailed to a cross for speaking the Truth and offering all who will follow You eternal life seems like justification for saying, “That’s it… forget it…you can all go to hell!”  But not for George Takei… not the Apostle Paul…and certainly not for Jesus Christ!
 
So what’s our excuse?  I will be the first to admit that forgiveness is not easy.  I’ll also tell you that the devil is going to make sure that you don’t forgive readily!  It takes work…sometimes hard, repetitive work…to truly forgive someone.  But all we have to do is think of Jesus.  That should make this easier.  How can we NOT forgive others, when He forgives us…when He has forgiven so many for so very much?!
 
Notice, too, that Paul points out that a failure to forgive others never hurts them as much as it hurts us.  It eats at our heart…un-forgiveness tears at our soul…and it contaminates our relationship with God. Takei is exactly right – hate never wins out in the end…and neither does a spirit of un-forgiveness. If we want to experience a genuine relationship with God…one in which we wholeheartedly trust Him for everything – and He uses us fully as Christian disciples…we must learn to forgive – completely and with a compassionate heart.  I know I have work to do in this area…what about you?
 
©2014 Debbie Robus