Judges 16:15-21
"Samson," Delilah said, "you claim to love me, but you don't mean it! You've made me look like a fool three times now, and you still haven't told me why you are so strong."
Delilah started nagging and pestering him day after day, until he couldn't stand it any longer. Finally, Samson told her the truth. "I have belonged to God ever since I was born, so my hair has never been cut. If it were ever cut off, my strength would leave me, and I would be as weak as anyone else."
Delilah realized that he was telling the truth. So she sent someone to tell the Philistine rulers, "Come to my house one more time. Samson has finally told me the truth." The Philistine rulers went to Delilah's house, and they brought along the silver they had promised her.
Delilah had lulled Samson to sleep with his head resting in her lap. She signaled to one of the Philistine men as she began cutting off Samson's seven braids. And by the time she was finished, Samson's strength was gone. Delilah tied him up and shouted, "Samson, the Philistines are attacking!”
Samson woke up and thought, "I'll break loose and escape, just as I always do." He did not realize that the LORD had stopped helping him. The Philistines grabbed Samson and poked out his eyes. They took him to the prison in Gaza and chained him up. Then they put him to work, turning a millstone to grind grain.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
When I was teaching school, I can’t count the number of times I asked a child, “Why did you do such-and-such?” and the child replied, “He/she told me to!” Apparently, school-age children are helpless against the suggestions and persuasions of their peers! But the same might be said of “children” of all ages.
Teenagers are influenced by their friends to participate in all sorts of activities… drinking, drug abuse, sexual experimentation, “youthful mischief” and more. Adults are seduced, literally, by their own desires for the acceptance and approval of others, gratification of a variety of appetites and addictions, and self-validation. So it’s no stretch to see how Samson caved when Delilah persisted. She wooed Samson and accused him of not loving her. She played on his vulnerabilities and emotions and totally manipulated him. In the end, Samson abandoned his sensibility, his reliance on God, and his principles… and it cost him dearly.
When Delilah told the Philistines to cut Samson’s hair, the Bible says that God stopped helping him. Our strength from God may not lie in our hair, but we are still a lot like Samson. We want so badly to be loved and accepted… to be appreciated and to fit in with our friends and family… and we often compromise our faith in an attempt to accomplish this. Samson would have done just about anything to please Delilah… and he pretty well did. But the Philistines, who were in cahoots with Delilah, gouged out Samson’s eyes and put him in prison! Things did not turn out anywhere close to what Samson had hoped would happen!
Things often don’t go as we had hoped, either. Our best efforts to fit in or attain the level of satisfaction we were seeking are thwarted… and sometimes they end badly. We fail to recognize that God has stopped helping us, too. Notice I did not say that God left us… because He doesn’t do that. But when we step away from God and try to do things our own way, He does sometimes take a step backward and rein in His help for awhile.
God used a human like Samson to accomplish many things. But like all humans, Samson had his weaknesses. One of those was what can be seen as a “disconnect” from God. What would have happened if Samson had taken the time to ask God what to do before he told Delilah about his hair? What if Samson had just stopped and asked God to guide his words and his choices… and to give him the strength to do the right thing – even if he was tempted to choose otherwise?
What if we did this? Would the outcome in many of our situations be different? Wouldn’t it make sense that taking a few minutes to talk with God and seek His advice could result in better outcomes… and prevent a lot of heartache and frustration? Isn’t it worth a shot? Isn’t it time we stop trying to “fly by the seat of our pants” and making choices just because they make us feel good or please others… and start living out our faith in God by consulting Him about all aspects of our life each and every day?
We do carry the strength and power of God with us… maybe not in a long thick head of hair - but in our heart and soul, nonetheless. Are we willing to risk losing even some of this power by making poor choices? Who is telling you what to do and how to act these days?
©2011 Debbie Robus
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Daily Devotional for October 8, 2010
Proverbs 29:20
There is more hope for a fool than for someone who speaks without thinking.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
All you have to do is turn on the television to one of the news outlets and listen for a few minutes, and you will probably hear someone who speaks – or has spoken – without thinking. So we have dozens of “video clips” of people saying things they truly wish they hadn’t. “I didn’t know I would be running for office when I said that,” or “I didn’t know the microphone was on,” or “I was just a kid” are common excuses.
We all “open mouth, insert foot” on occasion. But some people seem to have made a career out of doing this. And I like the way Proverbs 29:20 analyzes this… “there is more hope for a fool” than people who speak without thinking.
Surely we don’t want others to think of us as foolish. I would hope that we want to be people of substance – people who are careful and thoughtful with our speech and consider what we are going to say before we say it! Ask God to guide your thoughts… which is the first step… and then the words that follow.
When we let our communication with God lapse and begin to try to “go it alone,” we get into trouble. We tend to say and do stupid things. It may seem like a farfetched correlation, but truly, staying close to God – through prayer, Bible study, and listening for His voice in every hour of your day – can directly affect what comes out of your mouth… and how seldom you speak without thinking!
Today, let’s ask God to guide our thoughts and our words. Let’s ask Him to keep us from “acting a fool,” and help us act and speak thoughtfully and in a way that honors our relationship with Him. Let’s do things God’s way instead of ours… and see what a difference He can make in the outcome!
©2010 Debbie Robus
There is more hope for a fool than for someone who speaks without thinking.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
All you have to do is turn on the television to one of the news outlets and listen for a few minutes, and you will probably hear someone who speaks – or has spoken – without thinking. So we have dozens of “video clips” of people saying things they truly wish they hadn’t. “I didn’t know I would be running for office when I said that,” or “I didn’t know the microphone was on,” or “I was just a kid” are common excuses.
We all “open mouth, insert foot” on occasion. But some people seem to have made a career out of doing this. And I like the way Proverbs 29:20 analyzes this… “there is more hope for a fool” than people who speak without thinking.
Surely we don’t want others to think of us as foolish. I would hope that we want to be people of substance – people who are careful and thoughtful with our speech and consider what we are going to say before we say it! Ask God to guide your thoughts… which is the first step… and then the words that follow.
When we let our communication with God lapse and begin to try to “go it alone,” we get into trouble. We tend to say and do stupid things. It may seem like a farfetched correlation, but truly, staying close to God – through prayer, Bible study, and listening for His voice in every hour of your day – can directly affect what comes out of your mouth… and how seldom you speak without thinking!
Today, let’s ask God to guide our thoughts and our words. Let’s ask Him to keep us from “acting a fool,” and help us act and speak thoughtfully and in a way that honors our relationship with Him. Let’s do things God’s way instead of ours… and see what a difference He can make in the outcome!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 30, 2010
Matthew 7:2
God will be as hard on you as you are on others! He will treat you exactly as you treat them.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I have really thought about what to say today. I’ve asked God to give me His message through this scripture passage. Here is what I keep getting …
Many of us operate in assumptions rather than truth. We listen to our friends, our family members, the guy on the television who we deem an “authority” on certain topics, and others … and we formulate our attitudes and positions based on what we hear from them and assume to be truthful. More than once, I have mentioned to someone, “So-and-so is such a nice person,” only to receive a tirade about what a terrible person “So-and-so” really is. I’ve had people tell me how awful someone is, and when I reply, “That person is a good friend of mine,” – or worse yet, “That person is a member of my family,” the person complaining starts to back-pedal … and on at least one occasion, the person persisted to the point I had to end the discussion. Apparently he never comprehended my repeated phrase, “you are talking about my family.” I’ve had people tell me, “You have never lived around this minority or that one … you have no idea how they behave.”
I do not operate in absolutes. I’m not saying all of my friends and family members are perfect and never have a bad moment. I’m not saying that any group of people doesn’t have “bad apples.” But I’m saying that we are hard on people … and often, we want others to come along for the ride and agree with us. And this is how terrible misunderstandings and the mistreatment of others begins.
Suppose someone told you that a friend of yours sent out a vicious e-mail that resulted in getting people you hang around with in trouble at school … or even expelled. Suppose you never saw the e-mail for yourself … but you readily assumed that the person accused of sending it did so. And you and the rest of your buddies were very tough on this person … to the point of ostracizing them and being downright rude and unkind toward them. And then suppose you found out that the person you accused of sending the vicious e-mail never did so … somewhere down the line, a false accusation had been made.
I won’t repeat the story, because I’ve shared it in a devo before, but a version of this happened to me in junior high. The school “bully” distorted something I said on a church trip and caused every single person on the trip to be mad at me to the point that only a couple of them spoke to me the whole bus ride home from Dallas. I don’t know that some of the relationships ever fully recovered, but it was months before the “bully” let it slip one day that she made it all up. It was really hard to forgive some of those who had dissed me – especially people I considered my close friends. They had not believed me… or trusted that I would never say or do those things. They assumed the other person’s story was true.
I can’t say how God dealt with my friends over this, except to tell you I know some were deeply saddened and remorseful for how they had reacted and treated me. And I can only imagine how people would feel if they falsely accused someone of sending a vicious e-mail … or they talked disrespectfully or unkindly about someone only to find out they were bad-mouthing a dear friend or relative.
I don’t know how God deals with people who spread lies and rumors and try to scare folks into believing one way or another … politically, religiously, socially, or personally. But I know this … the judgment and the retaliation belong to God, not us. We may not see it in our lifetime … those who are mistreated may never realize vindication this side of heaven. But God will deal with injustice … in His time and His way. And I can assure you, if you mistreat others, God will deal with you, and it ain’t gonna be pretty!
The message for today is to use your brain. Think before you pass judgment. Ask yourself … “Have I done the right amount of investigation on my own to form an accurate opinion, or am I trusting the word of someone else?” Be careful how you treat others … mindful that people are “innocent until proven guilty.” Before you disrespect those who do not appear to be “like you,” get to know them and their situation. Ask God to give you an open, loving, generous heart for His people. And at the end of the day, ask Him to have mercy on you and those around you … and compassion for those who are judging you in return!
©2010 Debbie Robus
God will be as hard on you as you are on others! He will treat you exactly as you treat them.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I have really thought about what to say today. I’ve asked God to give me His message through this scripture passage. Here is what I keep getting …
Many of us operate in assumptions rather than truth. We listen to our friends, our family members, the guy on the television who we deem an “authority” on certain topics, and others … and we formulate our attitudes and positions based on what we hear from them and assume to be truthful. More than once, I have mentioned to someone, “So-and-so is such a nice person,” only to receive a tirade about what a terrible person “So-and-so” really is. I’ve had people tell me how awful someone is, and when I reply, “That person is a good friend of mine,” – or worse yet, “That person is a member of my family,” the person complaining starts to back-pedal … and on at least one occasion, the person persisted to the point I had to end the discussion. Apparently he never comprehended my repeated phrase, “you are talking about my family.” I’ve had people tell me, “You have never lived around this minority or that one … you have no idea how they behave.”
I do not operate in absolutes. I’m not saying all of my friends and family members are perfect and never have a bad moment. I’m not saying that any group of people doesn’t have “bad apples.” But I’m saying that we are hard on people … and often, we want others to come along for the ride and agree with us. And this is how terrible misunderstandings and the mistreatment of others begins.
Suppose someone told you that a friend of yours sent out a vicious e-mail that resulted in getting people you hang around with in trouble at school … or even expelled. Suppose you never saw the e-mail for yourself … but you readily assumed that the person accused of sending it did so. And you and the rest of your buddies were very tough on this person … to the point of ostracizing them and being downright rude and unkind toward them. And then suppose you found out that the person you accused of sending the vicious e-mail never did so … somewhere down the line, a false accusation had been made.
I won’t repeat the story, because I’ve shared it in a devo before, but a version of this happened to me in junior high. The school “bully” distorted something I said on a church trip and caused every single person on the trip to be mad at me to the point that only a couple of them spoke to me the whole bus ride home from Dallas. I don’t know that some of the relationships ever fully recovered, but it was months before the “bully” let it slip one day that she made it all up. It was really hard to forgive some of those who had dissed me – especially people I considered my close friends. They had not believed me… or trusted that I would never say or do those things. They assumed the other person’s story was true.
I can’t say how God dealt with my friends over this, except to tell you I know some were deeply saddened and remorseful for how they had reacted and treated me. And I can only imagine how people would feel if they falsely accused someone of sending a vicious e-mail … or they talked disrespectfully or unkindly about someone only to find out they were bad-mouthing a dear friend or relative.
I don’t know how God deals with people who spread lies and rumors and try to scare folks into believing one way or another … politically, religiously, socially, or personally. But I know this … the judgment and the retaliation belong to God, not us. We may not see it in our lifetime … those who are mistreated may never realize vindication this side of heaven. But God will deal with injustice … in His time and His way. And I can assure you, if you mistreat others, God will deal with you, and it ain’t gonna be pretty!
The message for today is to use your brain. Think before you pass judgment. Ask yourself … “Have I done the right amount of investigation on my own to form an accurate opinion, or am I trusting the word of someone else?” Be careful how you treat others … mindful that people are “innocent until proven guilty.” Before you disrespect those who do not appear to be “like you,” get to know them and their situation. Ask God to give you an open, loving, generous heart for His people. And at the end of the day, ask Him to have mercy on you and those around you … and compassion for those who are judging you in return!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for July 21, 2010
Galatians 3:27
And when you were baptized, it was as though you had put on Christ in the same way you put on new clothes.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
My 97-year-old grandmother has really pretty clothes hanging in her closet. I’ve seen them, and I know my mom and my cousins helped her shop for them. But she seems to wear the same old garb much of the time – pants with paint stains, well-worn blouses and some pants she bought at a yard sale that are too short. She’s saving her “good clothes” for special occasions.
When I picked her up recently for a birthday celebration for her friend – who is 101 – she was wearing a beautiful outfit… white pants, a new purple knit shirt with a purple/blue flowered crinkle-fabric blouse as a jacket, and her purple/blue rhinestone earrings! She had on lipstick and makeup and looked like a million bucks! And everything about her was different. I had not seen her look or act this well in months! Today, she is probably wearing her old clothes again… the “good clothes” tucked away for a special occasion.
Are we like this with our Christianity? Do we put on Christ when it seems important or necessary… and then hang Him back in the closet and return to our old ways? My grandmother needs to get busy wearing her “good clothes.” And so should we. None of us knows how many hours/days/weeks/months/years we have. Saving our best for a rainy day or special occasion is ridiculous. And only “wearing” our new life in Christ when we feel like it or want to “dress up” is just as silly.
Put on your new “armor of the Lord”… wear your very best “Christ outfit” each and every day. Let everyone see the best you possible… the person Christ has called you to become… and shine in His glory for all to see. The “rainy day” is NOW…the time to change and be a new creature has come. What will you wear today?
©2010 Debbie Robus
And when you were baptized, it was as though you had put on Christ in the same way you put on new clothes.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
My 97-year-old grandmother has really pretty clothes hanging in her closet. I’ve seen them, and I know my mom and my cousins helped her shop for them. But she seems to wear the same old garb much of the time – pants with paint stains, well-worn blouses and some pants she bought at a yard sale that are too short. She’s saving her “good clothes” for special occasions.
When I picked her up recently for a birthday celebration for her friend – who is 101 – she was wearing a beautiful outfit… white pants, a new purple knit shirt with a purple/blue flowered crinkle-fabric blouse as a jacket, and her purple/blue rhinestone earrings! She had on lipstick and makeup and looked like a million bucks! And everything about her was different. I had not seen her look or act this well in months! Today, she is probably wearing her old clothes again… the “good clothes” tucked away for a special occasion.
Are we like this with our Christianity? Do we put on Christ when it seems important or necessary… and then hang Him back in the closet and return to our old ways? My grandmother needs to get busy wearing her “good clothes.” And so should we. None of us knows how many hours/days/weeks/months/years we have. Saving our best for a rainy day or special occasion is ridiculous. And only “wearing” our new life in Christ when we feel like it or want to “dress up” is just as silly.
Put on your new “armor of the Lord”… wear your very best “Christ outfit” each and every day. Let everyone see the best you possible… the person Christ has called you to become… and shine in His glory for all to see. The “rainy day” is NOW…the time to change and be a new creature has come. What will you wear today?
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for July 17, 2010
2 Peter 1:9-10
But you are God's chosen and special people. You are a group of royal priests and a holy nation. God has brought you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Now you must tell all the wonderful things that he has done.
The Scriptures say, "Once you were nobody. Now you are God's people. At one time no one had pity on you. Now God has treated you with kindness.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Have you ever felt like a nobody? It’s not a good feeling… and none of us wants to feel as if we don’t belong to someone or something. But from an early age, we are programmed to become a “somebody” – to aspire to greatness. For many of this, we interpret this to mean becoming famous – a great athlete, singer, actor, or even politician! At the very least, we equate being a “somebody” with success in life… usually some career goal to which we aspire.
Stop and take a good look at those who have attained “star” status. Are most of them truly happy? Just recently I read about a homegrown athlete who made it to the pros and enjoyed many years of success and recognition. Now he is struggling with debt because he mismanaged his millions. The daily news and gossip shows are full of stories about entertainers and pro athletes who rose to stardom and fell like a rock. Grueling tour schedules, living out of a suitcase, and having to be surrounded by bodyguards and an entourage everywhere you go is not my idea of greatness!
It took me a while to figure out that the “greatness” I sought in life was waiting for me all along…in the light of Jesus. There is no bigger “star status” than to be a royal priest of the holy nation of Almighty God. There is no bigger honor than to serve as a priest or priestess to the Prince of Peace. God is ready to lavish all sorts of blessings and kindness, grace and mercy on us… and to guide each and every step of our days and nights. He is ready to put us in the spotlight… to shine His marvelous light on each of us as if we were on a red carpet!
Sound hokey to you? Let me assure you… it’s not! This “fame” LASTS! The rest is so momentary. Being chosen by God has more “star power” than you can imagine…the kind that brings you joy and doesn’t wear you down…the kind that fills you up and never drains. Realize that with God, you can never be a “nobody.” With God, you are always in the spotlight of His love and blessings.
Hold your head up high and walk proudly wherever God leads you, knowing He chose you and gave you holy status… filled with responsibility and honor. Accept this status and never feel like a “nobody” again. With God, you are always a very important “somebody.”
©2010 Debbie Robus
But you are God's chosen and special people. You are a group of royal priests and a holy nation. God has brought you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Now you must tell all the wonderful things that he has done.
The Scriptures say, "Once you were nobody. Now you are God's people. At one time no one had pity on you. Now God has treated you with kindness.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Have you ever felt like a nobody? It’s not a good feeling… and none of us wants to feel as if we don’t belong to someone or something. But from an early age, we are programmed to become a “somebody” – to aspire to greatness. For many of this, we interpret this to mean becoming famous – a great athlete, singer, actor, or even politician! At the very least, we equate being a “somebody” with success in life… usually some career goal to which we aspire.
Stop and take a good look at those who have attained “star” status. Are most of them truly happy? Just recently I read about a homegrown athlete who made it to the pros and enjoyed many years of success and recognition. Now he is struggling with debt because he mismanaged his millions. The daily news and gossip shows are full of stories about entertainers and pro athletes who rose to stardom and fell like a rock. Grueling tour schedules, living out of a suitcase, and having to be surrounded by bodyguards and an entourage everywhere you go is not my idea of greatness!
It took me a while to figure out that the “greatness” I sought in life was waiting for me all along…in the light of Jesus. There is no bigger “star status” than to be a royal priest of the holy nation of Almighty God. There is no bigger honor than to serve as a priest or priestess to the Prince of Peace. God is ready to lavish all sorts of blessings and kindness, grace and mercy on us… and to guide each and every step of our days and nights. He is ready to put us in the spotlight… to shine His marvelous light on each of us as if we were on a red carpet!
Sound hokey to you? Let me assure you… it’s not! This “fame” LASTS! The rest is so momentary. Being chosen by God has more “star power” than you can imagine…the kind that brings you joy and doesn’t wear you down…the kind that fills you up and never drains. Realize that with God, you can never be a “nobody.” With God, you are always in the spotlight of His love and blessings.
Hold your head up high and walk proudly wherever God leads you, knowing He chose you and gave you holy status… filled with responsibility and honor. Accept this status and never feel like a “nobody” again. With God, you are always a very important “somebody.”
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for July 16, 2010
Hebrews 3:1
My friends, God has chosen you to be his holy people. So think about Jesus, the one we call our apostle and high priest!
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
WWJD – What Would Jesus Do – this phrase has circulated for years. We see it on key chains, wrist bands, t-shirts, and more… and with good reason! What would Jesus do in many of the circumstances we encounter? How would He react?
God chose us to be His holy people. He gave us His Son, Jesus Christ, as a model for holy behavior. So the question… “What would Jesus do?”… is always appropriate. Any time you wonder – even slightly – about a choice, what you are speaking, doing, sharing, participating in, or even thinking… think of Jesus. Ask yourself what He would do in the situation… and adjust your own thoughts/actions/words accordingly.
Jesus is our apostle and high priest… our ultimate role model… think about Him and see how well you are following His lead.
©2010 Debbie Robus
My friends, God has chosen you to be his holy people. So think about Jesus, the one we call our apostle and high priest!
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
WWJD – What Would Jesus Do – this phrase has circulated for years. We see it on key chains, wrist bands, t-shirts, and more… and with good reason! What would Jesus do in many of the circumstances we encounter? How would He react?
God chose us to be His holy people. He gave us His Son, Jesus Christ, as a model for holy behavior. So the question… “What would Jesus do?”… is always appropriate. Any time you wonder – even slightly – about a choice, what you are speaking, doing, sharing, participating in, or even thinking… think of Jesus. Ask yourself what He would do in the situation… and adjust your own thoughts/actions/words accordingly.
Jesus is our apostle and high priest… our ultimate role model… think about Him and see how well you are following His lead.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for July 15, 2010
John 15:19
If you belonged to the world, its people would love you. But you don't belong to the world. I have chosen you to leave the world behind, and that is why its people hate you.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
We all want to belong. We all want to fit in with our friends and family… and the world at large. This is why many of us go to great lengths to be current with our fashion, hair, makeup… even the décor of our home, the car we drive, where we shop, what music we listen to, which team we root for… and more.
We also want to belong and be included socially. So often, we compromise our faith to do this. We become worldly – participating in off-color or derogatory conversations on everything from politics to race and sexual orientation. We snicker with our friends at someone who is “different” from us or seems a little “off.” We brag about parties and drinking and fighting and more… and others love us! We brush off and ignore the bothersome things we see and hear, because calling attention to them could get us kicked out of the group!
The problem is that we are willing to risk our relationship with God and His pleasure in order to be comfortable. “Taking the high road” and refusing to participate in things we know are displeasing to God takes courage and faith. Walking away from unpleasant or unkind conversations – or challenging those who are speaking rudely or inappropriately – will probably get you ugly looks at best… and maybe cost you a relationship with those who are speaking.
Nobody ever said being a Christian was easy. But the long-term rewards far outweigh any short-term discomfort. The Apostle Paul and others were thrown in prison for standing their ground. It’s highly unlikely we will be subjected to that harsh a consequence… although it may feel like you have been ostracized and “sentenced” to a prison of sorts at times.
Stay focused. Remember WHOSE you are… keep your “eye on the Prize” – the blessings and approval of our Most High God. He chose us… we belong to Him… and nothing is more important than serving Him well. Belong to the One who matters…no matter what you feel it costs in this life. You will be blessed beyond measure… and loved for all eternity.
©2010 Debbie Robus
If you belonged to the world, its people would love you. But you don't belong to the world. I have chosen you to leave the world behind, and that is why its people hate you.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
We all want to belong. We all want to fit in with our friends and family… and the world at large. This is why many of us go to great lengths to be current with our fashion, hair, makeup… even the décor of our home, the car we drive, where we shop, what music we listen to, which team we root for… and more.
We also want to belong and be included socially. So often, we compromise our faith to do this. We become worldly – participating in off-color or derogatory conversations on everything from politics to race and sexual orientation. We snicker with our friends at someone who is “different” from us or seems a little “off.” We brag about parties and drinking and fighting and more… and others love us! We brush off and ignore the bothersome things we see and hear, because calling attention to them could get us kicked out of the group!
The problem is that we are willing to risk our relationship with God and His pleasure in order to be comfortable. “Taking the high road” and refusing to participate in things we know are displeasing to God takes courage and faith. Walking away from unpleasant or unkind conversations – or challenging those who are speaking rudely or inappropriately – will probably get you ugly looks at best… and maybe cost you a relationship with those who are speaking.
Nobody ever said being a Christian was easy. But the long-term rewards far outweigh any short-term discomfort. The Apostle Paul and others were thrown in prison for standing their ground. It’s highly unlikely we will be subjected to that harsh a consequence… although it may feel like you have been ostracized and “sentenced” to a prison of sorts at times.
Stay focused. Remember WHOSE you are… keep your “eye on the Prize” – the blessings and approval of our Most High God. He chose us… we belong to Him… and nothing is more important than serving Him well. Belong to the One who matters…no matter what you feel it costs in this life. You will be blessed beyond measure… and loved for all eternity.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for July 4, 2010
Psalm 37:3
Trust the LORD and live right! The land will be yours, and you will be safe.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I wonder if our forefathers read this passage when they were signing the Declaration of Independence! Before you start pointing fingers and saying, “But we’re not always safe, and this land is not always ours,” let’s take a closer look at this Psalm. If we go back to Verse 1, it says “Don’t be annoyed by anyone who does wrong, and don’t envy them.” When you put this together with Verse 3 and “trust the LORD and live right,” we get a bigger picture. Rather than get bogged down in our aggravation, we must strive to make changes, and we must begin by “taking the high road.”
Have you ever been in a situation where you were felt you were unwelcome – and perhaps intimidated to the point where you were maybe even a little afraid? Perhaps you were in a crowd or in an unfamiliar area of a large city, and you felt like you stuck out like a sore thumb to the “natives.” It’s not a pleasant feeling, is it?! At that moment, we have to dig deep and trust God to keep us safe and tamp down our unsettled feelings.
I was shopping in Wal-Mart on Friday, and the place was a madhouse. Every check-out line was long and crowded… except for one self-check aisle. The register wasn’t closed or malfunctioning… but there were two somewhat scruffy looking men checking out there… and behind them were two tall, very dark black teenage boys. The boys were standing so far back in line that I honestly could not tell if they were in line behind the “scruffy” men or not. I assumed they were being polite and not crowding the man who was checking his groceries. But I did observe more than a couple of people cutting these boys a wide berth. They were looking at them as if to ask, “What are YOU doing here?” The boys were dressed nicely in almost head-to-toe Nike apparel. They were buying a swimsuit and some flip flops, and I saw people who appeared to be tourists in other lines glaring at them, in what I interpreted as, “Surely you are not going to swim in the lake we drove here to enjoy, are you?!” It was disgusting.
I touched the arm of one of the young men and asked, “Are you in line to check out?” He said he was, and I quickly moved in line behind him. The other boy needed help getting his debit card to work properly, and I offered some suggestions, since I was familiar with this register and know it is cantankerous on a good day. The young man was very grateful and thanked me profusely for helping him.
Over lunch, I told my husband about this, and I said, “Those boys could not have helped but feel the glares of others. They must think this is the most hateful place.” He replied something to the effect of… “Yes, but one nice lady helped them.” That took me aback… because I had not considered my actions anything but the right thing to do. Since when did this become just “our” land? Are we so unloving and sinful that we would make anyone feel unwelcome – much less frightened – in our community… particularly a young person? I was reminded all too poignantly that many in our own country still do not feel safe, or welcome. I pray that their faith is strong, and that they truly do trust in God to help them “take the high road” and live right, believing that God will do the rest.
Meanwhile, we must pray that, on this day of all days, people throughout our nation humble themselves before God and ask forgiveness for times when they have not recognized the equality of their fellow countrymen and women. We must ask God to help us all to be more embracing and less judgmental… and to celebrate the victory of our Declaration of Independence and the subsequent tenets of freedom on which this country was founded. In our Pledge of Allegiance, we vow to strive for “liberty and justice for all,” and that begins with something as seemingly insignificant as dropping the attitudes towards others in our local Wal-Mart.
I certainly don’t envy those who gave the ugly stares, and I’m working on overcoming my annoyance with them. But at the same time, I am praying that God works in their hearts to bring about change… and that He strengthens those who are mistreated, if only with unkind stares. We are so blessed… not only to live in America… but to be called God’s children. It’s time we honored Him and our country by behaving better. I can’t think of a more perfect day to start than this one. Happy Birthday, America… may God bless and strengthen you and your people… and may He always keep us safe.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Trust the LORD and live right! The land will be yours, and you will be safe.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I wonder if our forefathers read this passage when they were signing the Declaration of Independence! Before you start pointing fingers and saying, “But we’re not always safe, and this land is not always ours,” let’s take a closer look at this Psalm. If we go back to Verse 1, it says “Don’t be annoyed by anyone who does wrong, and don’t envy them.” When you put this together with Verse 3 and “trust the LORD and live right,” we get a bigger picture. Rather than get bogged down in our aggravation, we must strive to make changes, and we must begin by “taking the high road.”
Have you ever been in a situation where you were felt you were unwelcome – and perhaps intimidated to the point where you were maybe even a little afraid? Perhaps you were in a crowd or in an unfamiliar area of a large city, and you felt like you stuck out like a sore thumb to the “natives.” It’s not a pleasant feeling, is it?! At that moment, we have to dig deep and trust God to keep us safe and tamp down our unsettled feelings.
I was shopping in Wal-Mart on Friday, and the place was a madhouse. Every check-out line was long and crowded… except for one self-check aisle. The register wasn’t closed or malfunctioning… but there were two somewhat scruffy looking men checking out there… and behind them were two tall, very dark black teenage boys. The boys were standing so far back in line that I honestly could not tell if they were in line behind the “scruffy” men or not. I assumed they were being polite and not crowding the man who was checking his groceries. But I did observe more than a couple of people cutting these boys a wide berth. They were looking at them as if to ask, “What are YOU doing here?” The boys were dressed nicely in almost head-to-toe Nike apparel. They were buying a swimsuit and some flip flops, and I saw people who appeared to be tourists in other lines glaring at them, in what I interpreted as, “Surely you are not going to swim in the lake we drove here to enjoy, are you?!” It was disgusting.
I touched the arm of one of the young men and asked, “Are you in line to check out?” He said he was, and I quickly moved in line behind him. The other boy needed help getting his debit card to work properly, and I offered some suggestions, since I was familiar with this register and know it is cantankerous on a good day. The young man was very grateful and thanked me profusely for helping him.
Over lunch, I told my husband about this, and I said, “Those boys could not have helped but feel the glares of others. They must think this is the most hateful place.” He replied something to the effect of… “Yes, but one nice lady helped them.” That took me aback… because I had not considered my actions anything but the right thing to do. Since when did this become just “our” land? Are we so unloving and sinful that we would make anyone feel unwelcome – much less frightened – in our community… particularly a young person? I was reminded all too poignantly that many in our own country still do not feel safe, or welcome. I pray that their faith is strong, and that they truly do trust in God to help them “take the high road” and live right, believing that God will do the rest.
Meanwhile, we must pray that, on this day of all days, people throughout our nation humble themselves before God and ask forgiveness for times when they have not recognized the equality of their fellow countrymen and women. We must ask God to help us all to be more embracing and less judgmental… and to celebrate the victory of our Declaration of Independence and the subsequent tenets of freedom on which this country was founded. In our Pledge of Allegiance, we vow to strive for “liberty and justice for all,” and that begins with something as seemingly insignificant as dropping the attitudes towards others in our local Wal-Mart.
I certainly don’t envy those who gave the ugly stares, and I’m working on overcoming my annoyance with them. But at the same time, I am praying that God works in their hearts to bring about change… and that He strengthens those who are mistreated, if only with unkind stares. We are so blessed… not only to live in America… but to be called God’s children. It’s time we honored Him and our country by behaving better. I can’t think of a more perfect day to start than this one. Happy Birthday, America… may God bless and strengthen you and your people… and may He always keep us safe.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for May 16, 2010
May 16 ~ Isaiah 41:13
I am the LORD your God. I am holding your hand, so don't be afraid. I am here to help you.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
My sister and I are only eleven months apart in age. When we were toddlers, my grandmother had cribs in her bedroom for each of us, and she positioned my sister’s next to her bed. The only way Grandmother could get my sister to sleep at night was to hold her hand until she fell asleep. For some reason, there is something very comforting about someone holding our hand, particularly when we are in a stressful or uncomfortable situation. I have found myself standing over Timothy’s crib and holding his hand to encourage him to fall asleep… and it often is all that is needed.
Now we see a scriptural reference to hand holding. If it makes you feel better to have your grandma, your great-aunt, a significant other, or just a good friend hold your hand, imagine how great it will feel to hold GOD’s hand! He is already on the job, doing just that… all we have to do is recognize Him. So the next time you need a hand to hold, remember GOD is there to help you, and He is holding your hand all the way. Don’t you feel better already?!
©2010 Debbie Robus
I am the LORD your God. I am holding your hand, so don't be afraid. I am here to help you.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
My sister and I are only eleven months apart in age. When we were toddlers, my grandmother had cribs in her bedroom for each of us, and she positioned my sister’s next to her bed. The only way Grandmother could get my sister to sleep at night was to hold her hand until she fell asleep. For some reason, there is something very comforting about someone holding our hand, particularly when we are in a stressful or uncomfortable situation. I have found myself standing over Timothy’s crib and holding his hand to encourage him to fall asleep… and it often is all that is needed.
Now we see a scriptural reference to hand holding. If it makes you feel better to have your grandma, your great-aunt, a significant other, or just a good friend hold your hand, imagine how great it will feel to hold GOD’s hand! He is already on the job, doing just that… all we have to do is recognize Him. So the next time you need a hand to hold, remember GOD is there to help you, and He is holding your hand all the way. Don’t you feel better already?!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for May 4, 2010
May 4 ~ Psalm 37:7
Be patient and trust the LORD. Don't let it bother you when all goes well for those who do sinful things.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Have you ever heard it said of someone, “He/she always comes out smelling like a rose,” or maybe “He/she gets by with murder!”? Maybe you have wondered why you have to work so hard when others seem to skirt by and still do okay. Or you see those who take advantage of others to get ahead and never bat an eyelash, and you start to feel like maybe they have the right idea.
Maybe… just maybe… it’s time we quit looking at what others are doing wrong and focused on doing what God demands of us. Maybe it’s time we started trusting God to take care of us and forgot about what the other guy is doing – or not doing. Patience really is a virtue… but it does not come easy to most of us. Being patient and waiting on God to take care of us has incredible rewards. Relax and rest in this knowledge… be confident in your faith. Be patient, and trust the LORD!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Be patient and trust the LORD. Don't let it bother you when all goes well for those who do sinful things.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Have you ever heard it said of someone, “He/she always comes out smelling like a rose,” or maybe “He/she gets by with murder!”? Maybe you have wondered why you have to work so hard when others seem to skirt by and still do okay. Or you see those who take advantage of others to get ahead and never bat an eyelash, and you start to feel like maybe they have the right idea.
Maybe… just maybe… it’s time we quit looking at what others are doing wrong and focused on doing what God demands of us. Maybe it’s time we started trusting God to take care of us and forgot about what the other guy is doing – or not doing. Patience really is a virtue… but it does not come easy to most of us. Being patient and waiting on God to take care of us has incredible rewards. Relax and rest in this knowledge… be confident in your faith. Be patient, and trust the LORD!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for April 29, 2010
April 29 ~ Proverbs 3:27-32
Do all you can for everyone who deserves your help. Don't tell your neighbor to come back tomorrow, if you can help today. Don't try to be mean to neighbors who trust you. Don't argue just to be arguing, when you haven't been hurt. Don't be jealous of cruel people or follow their example. The LORD doesn't like anyone who is dishonest, but he lets good people be his friends.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Several years ago, we were hosting a party during the Christmas holidays. As we sent out invitations, we learned that another couple who lived in our town was hosting a party the same evening – and many of our mutual friends were invited to both. We had invited this couple to the party we were hosting, but we had not received an RSVP. The day before our party, I got a phone call, and the host of the other party said, “We’d love to come to your party, but some relatives have come to visit, and we are going to be busy with them. So maybe we can make it another time.” I thanked him for letting me know – but all the while, I knew the real reason they weren’t coming was because of their own party. I don’t know why this person didn’t want to tell me that they were hosting a party. I wasn’t seeking an invitation to join them. And many of our friends came to our party and left early to attend the other party…and that was fine with us.
The problem I had with this whole scenario is that it colored how I thought of these friends. If this person would create such a detailed lie about something so insignificant as a party invitation, what else would he lie about? If this was considered acceptable behavior, how did he treat others – both socially and in his profession? In the end, I decided to “take the high road” and try to let it go… and you can see how well I’ve done! The point is… even though I have let it go for the most part, deep down it still impacts how I view this person. I try to think that he was either having a bad day and not thinking clearly, or he felt the lie would be less hurtful than saying, “We’re having our own party and can’t come to yours.” Still, I wonder on some levels… is he trustworthy?
If we are going to be disciples of Christ and represent Him to the world, we have to be honest and real at all times and in all things. This is not a license to be cruel or overly blunt with people. But we do need to consider how we treat others and why we say the things we do. We need to analyze our behavior to see where we need to be more loving, considerate, and honest. There is a good way and a bad way to deliver the truth… and with God’s help, we can operate in the former. If we are cruel, dishonest, or uncaring toward others, we risk permanent damage to the image they have of us… and very possibly we nullify our Christian witness with that person. Remember the “Golden Rule” – treat others as you wish to be treated – and rest in the knowledge that God is pleased and wants you for His friend.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Do all you can for everyone who deserves your help. Don't tell your neighbor to come back tomorrow, if you can help today. Don't try to be mean to neighbors who trust you. Don't argue just to be arguing, when you haven't been hurt. Don't be jealous of cruel people or follow their example. The LORD doesn't like anyone who is dishonest, but he lets good people be his friends.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Several years ago, we were hosting a party during the Christmas holidays. As we sent out invitations, we learned that another couple who lived in our town was hosting a party the same evening – and many of our mutual friends were invited to both. We had invited this couple to the party we were hosting, but we had not received an RSVP. The day before our party, I got a phone call, and the host of the other party said, “We’d love to come to your party, but some relatives have come to visit, and we are going to be busy with them. So maybe we can make it another time.” I thanked him for letting me know – but all the while, I knew the real reason they weren’t coming was because of their own party. I don’t know why this person didn’t want to tell me that they were hosting a party. I wasn’t seeking an invitation to join them. And many of our friends came to our party and left early to attend the other party…and that was fine with us.
The problem I had with this whole scenario is that it colored how I thought of these friends. If this person would create such a detailed lie about something so insignificant as a party invitation, what else would he lie about? If this was considered acceptable behavior, how did he treat others – both socially and in his profession? In the end, I decided to “take the high road” and try to let it go… and you can see how well I’ve done! The point is… even though I have let it go for the most part, deep down it still impacts how I view this person. I try to think that he was either having a bad day and not thinking clearly, or he felt the lie would be less hurtful than saying, “We’re having our own party and can’t come to yours.” Still, I wonder on some levels… is he trustworthy?
If we are going to be disciples of Christ and represent Him to the world, we have to be honest and real at all times and in all things. This is not a license to be cruel or overly blunt with people. But we do need to consider how we treat others and why we say the things we do. We need to analyze our behavior to see where we need to be more loving, considerate, and honest. There is a good way and a bad way to deliver the truth… and with God’s help, we can operate in the former. If we are cruel, dishonest, or uncaring toward others, we risk permanent damage to the image they have of us… and very possibly we nullify our Christian witness with that person. Remember the “Golden Rule” – treat others as you wish to be treated – and rest in the knowledge that God is pleased and wants you for His friend.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for April 27, 2010
April 27 ~ Proverbs 16:8
It's better to be honest and poor than to be dishonest and rich.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I’ve always told my husband that “I’d live with you in a pup tent.” He laughs at that… knowing I like the comfort of a warm bed and a good hot shower… but he also understands what I am saying. As long as we are together, it really doesn’t matter where we live or how much “stuff” we have. Many people assume that the “rich” are happier – or that becoming wealthy will equal lifelong contentment. We toss around phrases like “When I win the lottery…” or “When my ship comes in…” or “When I marry a rich man/woman…” The truth is… chasing wealth has been the downfall of many people. This doesn’t mean it’s wrong to have ambition or to desire to be financially secure. If you work hard, with honesty and integrity, and treat people well – and you make a lot of money as a result - good for you! But if you “kick and claw your way to the top” and are willing to do things that are dishonest or illegal – or you mistreat others along the way – your “victory” will be rather hollow. You may not go to jail like Bernie Madoff and others, but Judgment Day will surely come.
God wants us to be happy. And while some think that Jesus’ call for the disciples to leave everything and follow Him means that we are supposed to live meager lives in very simple houses, drive clunkers and wear cheap, plain clothing, they are mistaken. God doesn’t begrudge us having nice homes, clothes, cars and more… as long as we earn them honestly and honor Him in the bargain.
Please hear me… you do not have to apologize for what you have… or what you don’t have… as long as you are serving God according to His will for your life. If God wants you to sell all of your belongings and move to a Third World country to serve him, do it! But God may want you to use your fancy house and car to witness to others in your neighborhood… or to host meals and get-togethers for a group in your church. He may have helped you afford a Suburban so that you can haul the youth group to weekly activities. Or He may have chosen you to work with the less fortunate – and to relate well to them because they readily accept you as “one of them.”
The point is… God isn’t doling out favors and punishments in the form of monetary wealth and possessions. He is calling us to be rich in HIM… not in things. This is not a license to be a slacker and decide that God wants you to goof off and just barely get by in life. Truly find out where God wants you to be… then serve Him honestly and faithfully in that station. Be the best employee, boss, teacher, student, parent, son/daughter, servant that you can become. Always do your “job” honestly and make sure your behavior is beyond question or reproach. Measure your wealth in terms of God’s favor… not man’s. You’ll find your value is far higher in HIS sight than on this earth… and that’s where it really counts!
©2010 Debbie Robus
It's better to be honest and poor than to be dishonest and rich.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I’ve always told my husband that “I’d live with you in a pup tent.” He laughs at that… knowing I like the comfort of a warm bed and a good hot shower… but he also understands what I am saying. As long as we are together, it really doesn’t matter where we live or how much “stuff” we have. Many people assume that the “rich” are happier – or that becoming wealthy will equal lifelong contentment. We toss around phrases like “When I win the lottery…” or “When my ship comes in…” or “When I marry a rich man/woman…” The truth is… chasing wealth has been the downfall of many people. This doesn’t mean it’s wrong to have ambition or to desire to be financially secure. If you work hard, with honesty and integrity, and treat people well – and you make a lot of money as a result - good for you! But if you “kick and claw your way to the top” and are willing to do things that are dishonest or illegal – or you mistreat others along the way – your “victory” will be rather hollow. You may not go to jail like Bernie Madoff and others, but Judgment Day will surely come.
God wants us to be happy. And while some think that Jesus’ call for the disciples to leave everything and follow Him means that we are supposed to live meager lives in very simple houses, drive clunkers and wear cheap, plain clothing, they are mistaken. God doesn’t begrudge us having nice homes, clothes, cars and more… as long as we earn them honestly and honor Him in the bargain.
Please hear me… you do not have to apologize for what you have… or what you don’t have… as long as you are serving God according to His will for your life. If God wants you to sell all of your belongings and move to a Third World country to serve him, do it! But God may want you to use your fancy house and car to witness to others in your neighborhood… or to host meals and get-togethers for a group in your church. He may have helped you afford a Suburban so that you can haul the youth group to weekly activities. Or He may have chosen you to work with the less fortunate – and to relate well to them because they readily accept you as “one of them.”
The point is… God isn’t doling out favors and punishments in the form of monetary wealth and possessions. He is calling us to be rich in HIM… not in things. This is not a license to be a slacker and decide that God wants you to goof off and just barely get by in life. Truly find out where God wants you to be… then serve Him honestly and faithfully in that station. Be the best employee, boss, teacher, student, parent, son/daughter, servant that you can become. Always do your “job” honestly and make sure your behavior is beyond question or reproach. Measure your wealth in terms of God’s favor… not man’s. You’ll find your value is far higher in HIS sight than on this earth… and that’s where it really counts!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for April 22, 2010
April 22 ~ Matthew 18:10-14
Don't be cruel to any of these little ones! I promise you that their angels are always with my Father in heaven. Let me ask you this. What would you do if you had a hundred sheep and one of them wandered off? Wouldn't you leave the ninety-nine on the hillside and go look for the one that had wandered away? I am sure that finding it would make you happier than having the ninety-nine that never wandered off. That's how it is with your Father in heaven. He doesn't want any of these little ones to be lost.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
During the Christmas holidays, I always make Italian cream cake. This rich dessert has become a family tradition for our holiday dinners, and I rarely make it any other time. This year, I set it on a beautiful antique cake plate that I purchased at the estate sale of a dear friend named Eloise. The pattern was called “Stars and Bars,” and every time I used that platter, I thought of Eloise. When the cake was finished, I slid the platter into my sink to wash it… and somehow it became wedged along the sides of the sink.
I could not budge that platter. I tried more dish soap. I tried gently pulling on the sides… being careful not to crack the plate and cut myself. Then I did a dumb thing. My dish water was very warm, so I got a cup of ice from our freezer and poured it in. CRACK! The plate immediately split into two pieces. Had I been a little more patient and thoughtful, the dish might have come loose as the water cooled. I learned a hard lesson.
The thing is… I have dozens of cake plates and beautiful antique trays that I have purchased at estate auctions. I even have another “Stars and Bars” tray. But almost all of the trays and dishes I keep have a story for me. They belonged to a friend… or the contemporary of my grandmothers. I have two trays that belonged to my grandmother and great-aunt, and I can still imagine them serving delicious little tidbits to their coffee klatch or canasta club. Each one is precious, and I am sad when I break or chip even one.
That was Jesus’ point with His analogy. Every single one of us is important to Him. Even the person you see as insignificant or “hard to love,” Jesus loves and adores every bit as much as He cares for you. I should have been more careful with Eloise’s cake plate. I will learn to live without it. But human souls are not as expendable. We cannot afford to ignore or mistreat a single one! What “sheep” have wandered off in your own life? To whom do you need to reach out today and encourage them back “into the fold?”
©2010 Debbie Robus
Don't be cruel to any of these little ones! I promise you that their angels are always with my Father in heaven. Let me ask you this. What would you do if you had a hundred sheep and one of them wandered off? Wouldn't you leave the ninety-nine on the hillside and go look for the one that had wandered away? I am sure that finding it would make you happier than having the ninety-nine that never wandered off. That's how it is with your Father in heaven. He doesn't want any of these little ones to be lost.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
During the Christmas holidays, I always make Italian cream cake. This rich dessert has become a family tradition for our holiday dinners, and I rarely make it any other time. This year, I set it on a beautiful antique cake plate that I purchased at the estate sale of a dear friend named Eloise. The pattern was called “Stars and Bars,” and every time I used that platter, I thought of Eloise. When the cake was finished, I slid the platter into my sink to wash it… and somehow it became wedged along the sides of the sink.
I could not budge that platter. I tried more dish soap. I tried gently pulling on the sides… being careful not to crack the plate and cut myself. Then I did a dumb thing. My dish water was very warm, so I got a cup of ice from our freezer and poured it in. CRACK! The plate immediately split into two pieces. Had I been a little more patient and thoughtful, the dish might have come loose as the water cooled. I learned a hard lesson.
The thing is… I have dozens of cake plates and beautiful antique trays that I have purchased at estate auctions. I even have another “Stars and Bars” tray. But almost all of the trays and dishes I keep have a story for me. They belonged to a friend… or the contemporary of my grandmothers. I have two trays that belonged to my grandmother and great-aunt, and I can still imagine them serving delicious little tidbits to their coffee klatch or canasta club. Each one is precious, and I am sad when I break or chip even one.
That was Jesus’ point with His analogy. Every single one of us is important to Him. Even the person you see as insignificant or “hard to love,” Jesus loves and adores every bit as much as He cares for you. I should have been more careful with Eloise’s cake plate. I will learn to live without it. But human souls are not as expendable. We cannot afford to ignore or mistreat a single one! What “sheep” have wandered off in your own life? To whom do you need to reach out today and encourage them back “into the fold?”
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for April 19, 2010
April 19 ~ Jude 1:20-25
Dear friends, keep building on the foundation of your most holy faith, as the Holy Spirit helps you to pray. And keep in step with God's love, as you wait for our Lord Jesus Christ to show how kind he is by giving you eternal life.
Be helpful to all who may have doubts. Rescue any who need to be saved, as you would rescue someone from a fire. Then with fear in your own hearts, have mercy on everyone who needs it. But hate even the clothes of those who have been made dirty by their filthy deeds.
Offer praise to God our Savior because of our Lord Jesus Christ! Only God can keep you from falling and make you pure and joyful in his glorious presence. Before time began and now and forevermore, God is worthy of glory, honor, power, and authority. Amen.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
In recent months the “climate” in our country has taken on a disappointing – and at times nasty – tone. I am sad to see people who publicly proclaim their Christian faith, then cover their car in bumper stickers that express unloving or disrespectful sentiments. It bothers me to see posts on Facebook from fellow believers that express intolerance for others. The message may be subtle and a bit cryptic, but the meaning is clear. I am discouraged when I read the posts that ask me to join a group to “get rid of” a specific politician or organization…or say “I hate my life”…or are so filled with four-letter words that I have to “hide” them. We shouldn’t be joking about the deaths of Al-Qaeda military leaders and administrators or the latest celebrity sex scandal or trip to rehab. Remember, God loves them just as much as He loves you!
Those of you who know me know that one of my mantras is, “People are always watching.” We need to be aware of where we are and with whom we are associating. Additionally, we need to be careful that our attitudes and behaviors do not discredit our Christian faith. People are indeed watching, and they notice when we judge others and invoke the name of Jesus in practically the same sentence. They recognize those of us who claim to be “Christians” as we stand at protest rallies, and they hear us shouting unkind – or even hateful – things. They hear our off-color jokes about the latest celebrity scandal. They see the posts on Facebook and read our editorial comments in the newspaper. They hear our conversations over lunch at the local diner. And we are judged accordingly. While we have every right to voice our opinions, we need to think about what our thoughts and actions convey to others before we do so.
When you publicly express your displeasure with everything from public welfare programs to abortion and a person’s sexual orientation or unhappiness with your government officials, you are certainly within your constitutional rights to do so. But before you speak, consider who will hear your remarks. It doesn’t matter whether others agree with you or not. If they hear you expound on a certain issue in an unkind or even hateful manner – and then they take a seat in the pew next to you on Sunday - how do you think they will view you and your faith? Will they see you as a disciple of Christ who has mercy on those who need it? Or will they see a judgmental, hard-nosed, “my-way-or-the-highway” person who serves God in a rather critical, selective manner? Will they want to serve your Jesus?
I’m not saying you can’t have opinions – or even that you have to keep them to yourself. I am asking you to stop and think before you react and speak. The very person or group you are publicly condemning may be looking to you for an example of Christian faith and mercy. They may be gauging Christianity by your level of grace and love – and how you emulate Jesus in your daily living. It’s the “love the sinner, hate the sin” concept. You don’t have to approve of sinful behavior or any lifestyle or choice you feel doesn’t line up with God’s will. But if you alienate the people to whom you wish to minister, you may never get a second chance to share Jesus’ love with them. Many will never darken the door of the church, much less return for another visit! Don’t be “guilty by association” – in any form. Before you act or speak, ask God if He approves of the message, as our politicians like to say in their campaign ads. Make sure you show love and mercy to those who need it, and keep in step with God throughout each day.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Dear friends, keep building on the foundation of your most holy faith, as the Holy Spirit helps you to pray. And keep in step with God's love, as you wait for our Lord Jesus Christ to show how kind he is by giving you eternal life.
Be helpful to all who may have doubts. Rescue any who need to be saved, as you would rescue someone from a fire. Then with fear in your own hearts, have mercy on everyone who needs it. But hate even the clothes of those who have been made dirty by their filthy deeds.
Offer praise to God our Savior because of our Lord Jesus Christ! Only God can keep you from falling and make you pure and joyful in his glorious presence. Before time began and now and forevermore, God is worthy of glory, honor, power, and authority. Amen.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
In recent months the “climate” in our country has taken on a disappointing – and at times nasty – tone. I am sad to see people who publicly proclaim their Christian faith, then cover their car in bumper stickers that express unloving or disrespectful sentiments. It bothers me to see posts on Facebook from fellow believers that express intolerance for others. The message may be subtle and a bit cryptic, but the meaning is clear. I am discouraged when I read the posts that ask me to join a group to “get rid of” a specific politician or organization…or say “I hate my life”…or are so filled with four-letter words that I have to “hide” them. We shouldn’t be joking about the deaths of Al-Qaeda military leaders and administrators or the latest celebrity sex scandal or trip to rehab. Remember, God loves them just as much as He loves you!
Those of you who know me know that one of my mantras is, “People are always watching.” We need to be aware of where we are and with whom we are associating. Additionally, we need to be careful that our attitudes and behaviors do not discredit our Christian faith. People are indeed watching, and they notice when we judge others and invoke the name of Jesus in practically the same sentence. They recognize those of us who claim to be “Christians” as we stand at protest rallies, and they hear us shouting unkind – or even hateful – things. They hear our off-color jokes about the latest celebrity scandal. They see the posts on Facebook and read our editorial comments in the newspaper. They hear our conversations over lunch at the local diner. And we are judged accordingly. While we have every right to voice our opinions, we need to think about what our thoughts and actions convey to others before we do so.
When you publicly express your displeasure with everything from public welfare programs to abortion and a person’s sexual orientation or unhappiness with your government officials, you are certainly within your constitutional rights to do so. But before you speak, consider who will hear your remarks. It doesn’t matter whether others agree with you or not. If they hear you expound on a certain issue in an unkind or even hateful manner – and then they take a seat in the pew next to you on Sunday - how do you think they will view you and your faith? Will they see you as a disciple of Christ who has mercy on those who need it? Or will they see a judgmental, hard-nosed, “my-way-or-the-highway” person who serves God in a rather critical, selective manner? Will they want to serve your Jesus?
I’m not saying you can’t have opinions – or even that you have to keep them to yourself. I am asking you to stop and think before you react and speak. The very person or group you are publicly condemning may be looking to you for an example of Christian faith and mercy. They may be gauging Christianity by your level of grace and love – and how you emulate Jesus in your daily living. It’s the “love the sinner, hate the sin” concept. You don’t have to approve of sinful behavior or any lifestyle or choice you feel doesn’t line up with God’s will. But if you alienate the people to whom you wish to minister, you may never get a second chance to share Jesus’ love with them. Many will never darken the door of the church, much less return for another visit! Don’t be “guilty by association” – in any form. Before you act or speak, ask God if He approves of the message, as our politicians like to say in their campaign ads. Make sure you show love and mercy to those who need it, and keep in step with God throughout each day.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for March 13, 2010
March 13 ~ Romans 10:11-13
The Scriptures say that no one who has faith will be disappointed, no matter if that person is a Jew or a Gentile. There is only one Lord, and he is generous to everyone who asks for his help. All who call out to the Lord will be saved.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I was eleven years old when Dr. Martin Luther King was gunned down in Memphis. Sadly, I remember trips to shop in Little Rock when I was a little girl, and there were still “whites only” water fountains. When I was in the fifth grade, we spent six months in Oklahoma, where there were more Native Americans in my class than Caucasians. My best friend was Leona, a Native American whose last name, I have sadly forgotten. I do remember my brother’s best friend in first grade was Marvin Birdtail. I knew that Leona was poor and could not always afford the mid-morning milk, and I sometimes slipped her the three cents or whatever it cost at that time. I was lucky enough to have a few extra coins in my pocket, and it was important to me that Leona not be left out when we went to the milk room. But I never thought about her as anything but my friend.
For the first time in my life, I encountered African Americans when I went to college, and many of them became my friends… Eunice, Patricia, Elihu, Archie, and others. It honestly did not occur to me that they were black and I was white… they were just good friends and classmates who shared notes, textbooks, a love of music, and time between classes. In fact, because Arkansas Tech was so highly touted for its music department at that time, the “line in the sand” was often more about whether or not you were involved in music than the color of your skin. And because I was a piano student, I was “in!”
I am grateful for my college experiences… and my time shared with Leona and Marvin and the others in Oklahoma. Because of it, I don’t see skin color… I see the person. But I also learned the power of a person’s desire to belong. I have to admit, being part of the “music” crowd who hung out between classes at the Witherspoon building felt pretty good! And by default, those who were with me were “in” too… like my husband, and Eunice’s boyfriend, and others.
Thankfully, with Jesus, EVERYONE is “in” if we want to be. We don’t have to be a music major or an athlete or have a certain skin color. We don’t have to be able to afford certain things or know somebody who knows somebody. All we have to do is ask Jesus to live in and through us and be Lord of our lives, and He will do just that. We can trust Him to be color blind, oblivious to socio-economic status, and downright ambivalent about our talents and abilities. We can rest in the knowledge that He will love us and care for us generously because He LOVES us - and for no other reason.
Isn’t this incredible?! Isn’t this amazing, wonderful, and totally awesome? Don’t you want “in” on this? Whatever is keeping you from being a child of God today, let it go and invite Jesus into your heart. Jesus doesn’t “play favorites” or discriminate… He is not a bigot of any kind. All who call on Him are welcome. This is GOOD NEWS! Be “in” with Jesus…you will not be disappointed.
©2010 Debbie Robus
The Scriptures say that no one who has faith will be disappointed, no matter if that person is a Jew or a Gentile. There is only one Lord, and he is generous to everyone who asks for his help. All who call out to the Lord will be saved.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I was eleven years old when Dr. Martin Luther King was gunned down in Memphis. Sadly, I remember trips to shop in Little Rock when I was a little girl, and there were still “whites only” water fountains. When I was in the fifth grade, we spent six months in Oklahoma, where there were more Native Americans in my class than Caucasians. My best friend was Leona, a Native American whose last name, I have sadly forgotten. I do remember my brother’s best friend in first grade was Marvin Birdtail. I knew that Leona was poor and could not always afford the mid-morning milk, and I sometimes slipped her the three cents or whatever it cost at that time. I was lucky enough to have a few extra coins in my pocket, and it was important to me that Leona not be left out when we went to the milk room. But I never thought about her as anything but my friend.
For the first time in my life, I encountered African Americans when I went to college, and many of them became my friends… Eunice, Patricia, Elihu, Archie, and others. It honestly did not occur to me that they were black and I was white… they were just good friends and classmates who shared notes, textbooks, a love of music, and time between classes. In fact, because Arkansas Tech was so highly touted for its music department at that time, the “line in the sand” was often more about whether or not you were involved in music than the color of your skin. And because I was a piano student, I was “in!”
I am grateful for my college experiences… and my time shared with Leona and Marvin and the others in Oklahoma. Because of it, I don’t see skin color… I see the person. But I also learned the power of a person’s desire to belong. I have to admit, being part of the “music” crowd who hung out between classes at the Witherspoon building felt pretty good! And by default, those who were with me were “in” too… like my husband, and Eunice’s boyfriend, and others.
Thankfully, with Jesus, EVERYONE is “in” if we want to be. We don’t have to be a music major or an athlete or have a certain skin color. We don’t have to be able to afford certain things or know somebody who knows somebody. All we have to do is ask Jesus to live in and through us and be Lord of our lives, and He will do just that. We can trust Him to be color blind, oblivious to socio-economic status, and downright ambivalent about our talents and abilities. We can rest in the knowledge that He will love us and care for us generously because He LOVES us - and for no other reason.
Isn’t this incredible?! Isn’t this amazing, wonderful, and totally awesome? Don’t you want “in” on this? Whatever is keeping you from being a child of God today, let it go and invite Jesus into your heart. Jesus doesn’t “play favorites” or discriminate… He is not a bigot of any kind. All who call on Him are welcome. This is GOOD NEWS! Be “in” with Jesus…you will not be disappointed.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for February 13, 2010
February 13 ~ John 17:24-26
Father, I want everyone you have given me to be with me, wherever I am. Then they will see the glory that you have given me, because you loved me before the world was created. Good Father, the people of this world don't know you. But I know you, and my followers know that you sent me. I told them what you are like, and I will tell them even more. Then the love that you have for me will become part of them, and I will be one with them.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
We like to fit in, don’t we?! When we go to a sporting event, we like to wear our team’s colors, or a shirt that has our team name and logo on it. We like to wear clothing with designer labels. Some of us like to belong to clubs and groups and be a part of things. We like to be recognized as belonging – to something or someone. We want to be close to our friends and loved ones and to be surrounded by people we enjoy.
Do you find it amazing that Jesus wants the same thing? And yet, it’s true! Jesus wants His followers close. He wants Christians to be readily recognizable as a group. This doesn’t mean He wants us to wear T-shirts that say, “I belong to Jesus” (although that’s fine if you do!) – but He wants us to live in a way that others know we belong to Him. How do we do this? We live for Jesus by sharing Him with others… through kindness and love, compassion and mercy. We show that we are Christians by being joy-filled and positive. We tell others of the blessings that God has done in our lives, and we avoid negative talk, prejudice, discrimination, and dissention.
Sometimes it’s hard to tell the Christians from the unbelievers, because we Christians don’t always behave in a way that pleases God. But we can ask Him to help us do better. We can strive to be more like Christ – our perfect role model – each and every day. It may be nice to fit in with your family and friends, but it’s even better to fit in with Jesus. How are you doing these days?
©2009 Debbie Robus
Father, I want everyone you have given me to be with me, wherever I am. Then they will see the glory that you have given me, because you loved me before the world was created. Good Father, the people of this world don't know you. But I know you, and my followers know that you sent me. I told them what you are like, and I will tell them even more. Then the love that you have for me will become part of them, and I will be one with them.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
We like to fit in, don’t we?! When we go to a sporting event, we like to wear our team’s colors, or a shirt that has our team name and logo on it. We like to wear clothing with designer labels. Some of us like to belong to clubs and groups and be a part of things. We like to be recognized as belonging – to something or someone. We want to be close to our friends and loved ones and to be surrounded by people we enjoy.
Do you find it amazing that Jesus wants the same thing? And yet, it’s true! Jesus wants His followers close. He wants Christians to be readily recognizable as a group. This doesn’t mean He wants us to wear T-shirts that say, “I belong to Jesus” (although that’s fine if you do!) – but He wants us to live in a way that others know we belong to Him. How do we do this? We live for Jesus by sharing Him with others… through kindness and love, compassion and mercy. We show that we are Christians by being joy-filled and positive. We tell others of the blessings that God has done in our lives, and we avoid negative talk, prejudice, discrimination, and dissention.
Sometimes it’s hard to tell the Christians from the unbelievers, because we Christians don’t always behave in a way that pleases God. But we can ask Him to help us do better. We can strive to be more like Christ – our perfect role model – each and every day. It may be nice to fit in with your family and friends, but it’s even better to fit in with Jesus. How are you doing these days?
©2009 Debbie Robus
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