Showing posts with label forgiveness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label forgiveness. Show all posts

Daily Devotional for September 23, 2016

September 23 – Luke 17:1-4
Jesus said to his disciples:

There will always be something that causes people to sin. But anyone who causes them to sin is in for trouble. A person who causes even one of my little followers to sin would be better off thrown into the ocean with a heavy stone tied around their neck. So be careful what you do.

Correct any followers of mine who sin, and forgive the ones who say they are sorry. Even if one of them mistreats you seven times in one day and says, “I am sorry,” you should still forgive that person.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

A 17-year-old boy in North Little Rock, Arkansas, lit a joint (marijuana), gave it to his 3-year-old nephew, and told him to “hit the blunt” (smoke it). The teenager made a video of the whole thing and posted it on Facebook. In the video, you can hear the child ask if this is “weed” and see him at least attempt to inhale…while his uncle laughs.

The teenage boy has been arrested and faces charges for endangering the welfare of a minor. The child has been physically examined and returned to other family members.  No matter how you feel about marijuana – or the fact that this was illegal in numerous ways - no rational person would for even one minute condone encouraging a young child to smoke anything…much less a Schedule I controlled substance! This teenager made a horrible mistake…and he will probably pay for it with some serious jail time, at the very least.

If we look at these first verses of Luke 17, we are warned not to cause another person to sin. While most of us have enough sense to know that giving marijuana to a toddler is wrong…we think nothing of making off-color comments.  We deride others and discriminate against them. We judge people, gossip, engage in name calling, and so much more – with no regard for how this might appear to those who are watching and listening. We operate in “do as I say, not as I do” mode…and we cannot see that we are essentially handing a joint to a three-year-old and saying, “hit the blunt!”

So “Part One” of our message for today is to watch what we say and do – ALL of it - and never cause another person to sin.  But then Jesus adds another important command…we must forgive any who remorsefully ask for mercy and absolution.  Jesus is so adamant about this that He emphasizes that we should do this seven times in one day, if necessary! I will be the first to tell you that I really struggle with this one!

I think one of the reasons this is so hard for me is that many people find it easy to say “I’m sorry”…but then nothing really changes. Many people promise to do better or that “it will never happen again,” and we know before the words leave their mouths that this is not the truth.  I have tried to imagine how all of this must seem to Jesus. Because you see, for every ridiculous “apology” and promise to do better that someone offers to each of us…we offer 100 times this many of the same to Jesus. For every time someone has said to you, “I will try to do better,” you and I have told God this more times than we can even count. 

If we want God’s grace, mercy and forgiveness…we have to extend these blessings to others.  If we truly operate in Christian faith and believe that we serve a God of second, third, and 103rd chances…we have to offer those to the people in our midst.  We cannot cause others to sin…but we cannot fail to forgive those who mistreat us and ask for our forgiveness, either. Given the events in our country in recent months – and in the world at large – this is a terribly difficult challenge for me.  But nobody ever said it was easy to be a faithful Christian!

So we are commanded to stay awake and alert…to check our thoughts, words and actions (because people ARE watching!)…and to forgive all who apologize, and show them love, grace and mercy.  In other words, we are to emulate Jesus at all times – and in all ways.  As Christian Disciples…we are called to give this our best shot each and every day.  How are you doing so far?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for March 10, 2014

Zechariah 7:8-10
Then this message came to Zechariah from the Lord: “This is what the Lord of Heaven’s Armies says: Judge fairly, and show mercy and kindness to one another. Do not oppress widows, orphans, foreigners, and the poor. And do not scheme against each other.
 
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
 
Andrew Solomon, author of Far From the Tree, recently interviewed Peter Lanza for a piece in The New Yorker magazine.  Lanza is the father of Adam Lanza, the shooter at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut, in December 2012.  Far From the Tree is a book about children who are different from their parents...and how these parents cope with their children and the challenges they present.  In some cases, the children became criminals - like Adam Lanza.
 
Andrew Solomon noted that Peter Lanza has (understandably) struggled with what happened at Newtown, where Adam also killed his mother (Lanza's ex-wife Nancy) before killing himself.  Lanza has made the comment that he now wishes that Adam had never been born...and he apparently claims that he doesn't mourn Adam's death.
 
I am trying to understand this…to put myself in the shoes of Peter Lanza.  There are reports that parents of some of Adam Lanza’s victims have approached Peter and told him that they forgive Adam…but Peter apparently cannot accept this compassion and mercy. And again, I think I can somewhat understand those feelings.  Peter Lanza must surely feel incredibly guilty - and ask himself daily what could have been done to prevent this horrific event.  Adam Lanza suffered from Asperger’s syndrome – a form of autism – and may have also been schizophrenic.  I don’t say this to excuse his heinous crimes…but I do propose that his parents might have done everything humanly possible to keep Adam and everyone else safe – and still, this happened.  Some things are simply beyond our control.
 
I think what struck me about this story – and this scripture passage from Zechariah – is that we must learn not to question things so much…or maybe we are asking the wrong questions.  Instead of asking “Why, LORD?” or “Why me?”…let’s ask, “What are You doing with this?”  Let’s look at how God can use all circumstances in our lives for HIS purposes…and let’s operate with fairness, mercy and kindness in every situation.  Instead of asking God why He allowed a man or woman to die and leave a spouse, let’s ask, “What can I do for the widows in my church or community?  How can I help them?”  Instead of shaking our heads and wagging our tongues about orphans and foster children and their plight, let’s roll up our sleeves and ask, “What needs to be done for these children?”  Let’s discover how God can use these innocents to enrich OUR lives as we minister to them.
 
Rather than be so upset about “foreigners” and the poor among us…let’s work on how to help them.  What if we asked God to show us how we are supposed to respond and react toward these people for HIS glory, rather than gripe and grumble about their presence…and make things even worse for them?!  Suppose we got busy asking the right questions and learning about others and their needs…then worked to find solutions and ways to truly help.
 
Instead of trying to figure out how to get even with others…or how to outsmart “the system”…suppose we worked together with love, compassion, grace, mercy and forgiveness – and found real, viable solutions and ways to share Jesus’ love with others.  Understand that I am NOT saying we shouldn’t look for ways to keep guns out of the hands of children and others who might use them for evil.  I do not mean to imply that we should turn and look the other way…and just “let the chips fall” – or excuse true laziness or an illegal or immoral act.  But I do believe we must quit trying to wish away unpleasant or difficult people and circumstances - and face them head-on…“with the full armor of God”.
 
Jesus never shied away from anyone or any situation.  In Jesus Christ, we find the perfect demonstration of how to conduct our own lives…and how to serve Him in the process.  We have work to do!  It’s time to get up and get going…to be about the business of loving others in Jesus’ name and sharing His Good News.  Are you awake and alert?  Is your heart filled with compassion, grace, mercy and forgiveness through Jesus?  Are you really ready for the work of serving others?  Isn’t it time you were?
 
©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for April 5, 2013

Would you believe this little girl's
dress and pants was once a
ladies' beaded knit shirt?
2 Corinthians 5:17
Anyone who belongs to Christ is a new person. The past is forgotten, and everything is new.
 
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
 
If you know anything about me, you know that I love to take old pieces of clothing and repurpose them into new garments.  I cut around holes and stains… I pick out the best parts of the garment… and I make something fresh and new that often barely resembles the previous piece – if at all.  You might see a jeans pocket here or be able to discern a t-shirt there.  But generally, the former “life” of the garment is totally forgotten.  I am somehow able to see beyond a discarded piece of clothing and find the good that still lies there… and to restore it to something clean and up-to-date.
 
As people who have committed our lives to Christ, we are like repurposed garments.  All of the old excuses… our stains, our sins – our past – are exactly that… in the past!  God has seen beyond those things that wore us down and made us tired and unlovely.  He has cut out the best parts and fashioned them into something totally different – and often unrecognizable.  Some of us just needed a little sprucing and updating… others needed a major overhaul.  But in the end, we are all new creatures… and Jesus Christ is the King of repurposing!
 
So the next time you start to make excuses… when you begin to say that God can’t use you or won’t want you because of this or that – your past mistakes or a present flaw in your makeup – remember these repurposed garments.  Let Jesus put His creativity and power to work to design a totally new you… one who is fresh, pristine, and beautiful in His glory.  If you don’t yet belong to Jesus, this should be reason enough to choose to live for Him.  You have the opportunity for a clean slate… a new beginning…a chance to create a completely different life!
 
Doesn’t this sound exciting?  Wouldn’t you like to change your “old garments” for new ones?  Do you truly get it that this is possible in Jesus Christ?  Isn’t today a great day to change your wardrobe and lose the excuses?
 
©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 10, 2013

Luke 22:34
But Jesus said, “Peter, let me tell you something. Before the rooster crows tomorrow morning, you will deny three times that you even know me.”

Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

If we are to be totally honest, there are probably at least one or two people who could deny knowing us, and we really wouldn’t care! But for the most part, when someone treats us poorly… fails to acknowledge us… or even betrays us by skipping out when the chips are down… we are insulted, disappointed, and sometimes deeply hurt. And I am sure that Jesus felt the same way when Peter told more than one person that he had no relationship with Him… that he didn’t know Him… that he had not been in His company.

Jesus had every right to throw up His hands and say to Peter, “That’s it! I’m done with you.” But we know better, don’t we?! Thankfully, Jesus doesn’t operate this way… and neither should we. Now understand me… I am not saying that people have license to walk all over us… mistreat us… come and go in our lives according to their whims or how we react toward them, and suffer no consequences. Everyone deserves respect and fair treatment. But there will come a time in each person’s life when someone mistreats him/her… and your first reaction may be to say, “That’s it! I’m done!”

Think about that significant other you thought was so wonderful when you first met… and now you can’t believe you ever gave him/her the time of day. Consider the person who pretended to be your friend, then took advantage of your time, talents, knowledge, or possessions... and ran for the hills. What about the person who embarrassed you or tried to make you look ridiculous to others? You probably are pretty angry and disgusted with him/her…right? And you may have good reason to be!

Nobody should be another person’s doormat. But at the same time, we must be ready and willing to offer forgiveness, grace, and mercy to those who “deny” us in some way. We have all treated Jesus terribly… and He still finds a way to forgive us. We have all denied Him in one way or another… yet He loves us. We may not have actually uttered the words, “I don’t know Him,” but we have done this in ways great and small… from failing to love others in His name to ignoring the gentle whisper of His Holy Spirit to acting like fools on more than one occasion.

We lie, cheat, steal, gossip…take advantage of others’ generosity…treat people poorly…walk, talk and dress like someone who has no pride or respect…mistreat our bodies with food, drugs and alcohol…and fail to share the GOOD NEWS of Jesus Christ with those we encounter. In short, we do not live as disciples of Christ… we are not acting in a manner that would make us suitable representatives of the hands and feet of Jesus… and our actions essentially are a denial of our Jesus Christ, who gave His very life on the cross for ours. And still He forgives us.

Just like with Peter, Jesus knows what we will do before we do it. He allows us the rope for either a rescue - or a hanging… and the choice is ours. Jesus stands ready to offer us grace, mercy and forgiveness – if only we will ask Him. Can you say that you do the same for others? We all “deny” Jesus… and others will “deny” us. What will you do when this happens? Just how committed to are you to Christ? Isn’t it time you decided?

©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 9, 2013

James 1:12
God will bless you, if you don’t give up when your faith is being tested. He will reward you with a glorious life, just as he rewards everyone who loves him.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

This morning, I read a post on Facebook from the mother of two small children, both of whom are very sick. One is in the PICU at Children’s Hospital in Little Rock… the other is at home with his dad, battling pneumonia. These two 4-year-olds have literally fought for their lives since birth. Their sister didn’t make it to her first birthday and spent all 10 months of her life in the hospital. In the last few days, one of these children lost some teeth and had a visit from the tooth fairy. Both siblings now attend “school”… their name for Mother’s Day Out. Life was starting to feel a little “normal” for this family… now things have changed drastically in a matter of days.

As I thought about this family, I was reminded of another mother whose adult son is undergoing radiation treatments following the removal of a cancerous brain tumor. This woman balances daily 60-mile-round-trip shuttles of her son to his radiation treatments with the care of herself, her husband, and her household. I know another woman who is struggling with decisions about the future of her elderly mother… and wrestling with the possibility of placing her in a skilled care facility. I know from personal experience that this is a daunting test of faith.

Just a few days ago, I read about a friend on Facebook whose dog has gone blind and appeared to be in constant pain, so they took him to have his eyes removed. There are all sorts of things that test our faith each and every day. I know that you can probably tell me half a dozen stories of your own. Like those whose situations I have described, I hope the people you call to mind have not given up. On any particular day, our tests can seem more than a little overwhelming.

Perhaps YOU are struggling with a situation in your own life. Maybe your challenge is not of a physical nature… but more a test of character and emotional fortitude. Maybe you are dealing with an overbearing professor or a relationship issue… and your feelings are raw. Perhaps someone has disappointed or betrayed you. Forgiveness may seem like the last thing you want to consider… but to fail to do so would be the same as giving up. And I’ll be honest…some days, this seems like a good option! But we know better… and scripture tells us that we must press on toward the mark…look to Jesus… trust Him to number our steps, and love Him for making a way where we can see none.

Forgiveness takes courage… and often requires a lot of faith. Today may very well bring tests of both for you... how well will you perform?

©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 8, 2013

Luke 17:3-4
“Be alert. If you see your friend going wrong, correct him. If he responds, forgive him. Even if it’s personal against you and repeated seven times through the day, and seven times he says, ‘I’m sorry, I won’t do it again,’ forgive him.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

The other night, Timothy was sitting at the table drinking a cup of milk. He was holding his “Puff” – a loosely stuffed toy Puffalump bear that had been his mother’s when she was little. He said, “Aunt Debbie, Puff keeps hitting me in the head!” I told him to ask Puff to stop. He replied, “I did, and he keeps hitting me.” So I suggested that perhaps Puff should sit in another chair in “time out” until he could be nice. Timmy had an adorable conversation with “Puff,” lovingly chastising him and explaining why he had to go to “time out.” After a minute or so, he asked if Puff could come out again. I asked, “Is he ready to be nice?” He took Puff in his hands and asked, “Puff, did you think about what you did? Do you think you are ready to be nice?” Apparently Puff said “Yes”… but a few seconds later, he was “hitting” Timmy again and had to return to the chair!

This was a game… and a bit of role playing on Timothy’s part. He wants to please… and when he misbehaves, he is always sorry – for the moment. But at 3½, he is still sorting through how to honor his commitments. So we are quick to forgive him. But part of good “parenting” or teaching is making sure you forgive the child… but do not forget nor endorse the transgression. In other words, I can forgive Timothy’s “Puff” all day long for hitting him, but I cannot tolerate this behavior – and there will have to be consequences.

Here’s a grown-up example… in the book Adult Children of Alcoholics, author Janet Geringer Woititz, Ed.D., writes of alcoholics (and others) who ask for forgiveness…”The promises of reform, although shortlived, are believed because those who care want to believe them, and, as a result, they unknowingly become part of the disease pattern.” In other words, we want to forgive others… we are commanded to do so in scripture. But as a dear pastor friend of mine reminds me, there is a fine line between enabling and helping.

What does this mean for us as Christians? How do we know when we are truly operating in forgiveness… and when we have crossed the line into enabling? I am not sure I have an answer for you… but God does. We must stay in very close contact with God… we must study scriptures on forgiveness and fairness. We most certainly must not judge others. At the same time, we have to be very sure that the “offender” is forgiven and loved… but not supported in wrongdoing or poor judgment. In other words, as with Timothy or his toy, we may hug the child or the bear and tell them we love them – and then march them off to sit in a “time out” chair!

I have thought a lot about this as I studied these scripture passages on forgiveness. I have asked myself… “What does this scenario look like in terms of me as the offender and Jesus as the One who is being asked to forgive? What happens if He turns His back on me… and why doesn’t He do this?” I have concluded that Jesus never fails me, even when I deserve it. But sometimes He allows me to wallow in my own screw-ups for a while, so that I learn from my mistakes. And maybe that is the answer for us today. We must be careful to remain nonjudgmental… but maybe we are called to say, “You messed up, buddy… you’ll have to make restitution for this. There will have to be some fences mended – and trust will have to be regained over time. But I still love you… and I forgive you.”

You don’t necessarily have to forgive others in person. You do have to forgive them in your heart. Hear me well on this… unforgiveness will eat a hole in your soul – and it could separate you from God. I can’t say for certain that God will not forgive us when we don’t forgive others, but scripture makes it pretty clear that it’s not worth taking the chance! Ask God to give you a spirit of wisdom… and courage. When someone has behaved wrongly – whether toward you or someone else – forgive him/her in a spirit of love, grace and mercy. If you do this in person, extend forgiveness to the offender… but also offer to help him/her figure out how to move forward and rectify the situation once and for all.

One more thing… forgiveness is not about YOU… it’s totally about being obedient to God with regard to how you treat others. Do not make this about your feelings… how hurt or offended you are by this person. Jesus doesn’t do this. He doesn’t say, “After all I did for you, this is how you repay Me?” He may think it – and He would have every right to lower the boom on us – but this is where we see His amazing grace and mercy in play. So we must stay focused on helping this person who needs forgiveness to align his/her heart – and actions – with God. Remember that God knows you are hurting and offended…and He cares for you, as well. But if we are modeling Christian behavior, we will ask Him to help us put our feelings aside and focus on the needs of others.

Today is a great day to ask God to show us how to give the “Puffs” of our lives another chance at redemption without helping to push them further over the edge. Jesus is our Helper… not our enabler. Model Him to others and see just how richly God will reward you for doing so. Do this to honor Jesus and His amazing, unending capacity to offer grace, mercy, love and forgiveness to us. Forgive others over and again for His glory… and begin to heal your own heart in the process.

©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 30, 2013

Matthew 18:21-22
At that point Peter got up the nerve to ask, “Master, how many times do I forgive a brother or sister who hurts me? Seven?”

Jesus replied, “Seven! Hardly. Try seventy times seven.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

A few years ago, I backed my car out of a parking spot one afternoon… and promptly hit the back of another car that had just pulled into a slot directly behind me. I never saw the other car until I heard the awful crash. The only damage was a broken tail light on that car…no one was hurt. However, my grandmother was a passenger in my car, and she made sure I knew that I was making her late for her beauty shop appointment… and that she surely hoped I had not hurt my husband’s car! Let’s just say she was less than forgiving that I had inconvenienced everyone!

As it turns out, the car I hit was a foreign model, and that “little tail light” cost $1600 to repair. My insurance agent called with the estimate from the body shop, and my heart sank. However, she said, “Since you have a clean driving record and have never had an accident before, this is considered a ‘forgiven one.’ It will not count against your deductible. We’ll take care of everything.” I was more relieved than I can put into words. And I have been incredibly careful since then, because 1) I do not want to have another accident; and 2) there are no second “forgiven ones” with my insurance company!

Aren’t you glad that Jesus doesn’t berate us about the ways we inconvenience Him? Aren’t you thrilled to know that Jesus does not limit His forgiveness to one offense? Don’t you think that we should forgive others as Jesus forgives us? In fact, He has told us that we must forgive seventy times seven! It’s pretty clear to me that we are not supposed to impose a forgiveness quota on others!

The next time you are irritated with someone and tempted to say, “That’s it! I’m done for good!” - consider Jesus’ words to Peter. If you continue reading in Matthew 18, you will see that Jesus makes it clear that we cannot be unforgiving toward others and expect God to forgive us. Furthermore, your “forgiveness” cannot be mere lip service. Jesus tells us to forgive from the heart. I know this is really hard… and God knows this, too. But nobody said the life of a Christian was easy!

Insurance companies may not forgive seventy times seven… but Christian discipleship is nothing like State Farm, Allstate, Geico or Aflac! We are given much by our Heavenly Father. When it comes to how we treat others, much is expected in return. God will strengthen you and give you the courage - and the capacity to forgive over and again, if only you will call on Him. Who needs to be a “forgiven one” in your circle today?

©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 20, 2013

Matthew 5:11-12
“Not only that—count yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable. You can be glad when that happens—give a cheer, even!—for though they don’t like it, I do! And all heaven applauds. And know that you are in good company. My prophets and witnesses have always gotten into this kind of trouble.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

I once worked for someone who did not see eye to eye with me about some aspects of a particular project. Despite her best efforts to convince me that I was wrong and she was right, I finally told her that we would have to respectfully agree to disagree. She killed the project. I was momentarily wounded by her reaction. But in the long run, it didn’t hurt me as deeply as she had anticipated. In fact, a series of blessings followed that “course-changer,” and I’ve never looked back. There was a moral dilemma at play here… I could compromise my values and opinions – and my loyalty to my community at large - and fall into her camp, or I could “suffer the consequences.” I refused to budge.

Was this a hard decision? Maybe in some ways. Do I regret it? Not in the least! Have I seen the hand of God in many circumstances because of the choice I made? You betcha! Have I forgiven this person? Absolutely! To do anything else would be contrary to everything I believe and all that God teaches.

Here’s the deal…we are not the judge and jury. It’s not up to us to decide who is punished… or where or how. We are called to love others as we love ourselves… and that means to forgive them when they ridicule us or cause us pain in any form. Yes, your faith may cost you a job, a significant other, or any friends all. Yes, your allegiance to God could very well cost your very life. But what is the alternative? It’s certainly nothing I wish to consider… do you?

Read this scripture passage again… count your blessings every time people put you down, throw you out or speak lies about you because you are doing what God has told you to do. If you can, be glad when this happens. I know this is a tall order… but try to find joy in this “suffering.” And hear the applause of Heaven. Know that God is saying, “He/she passed the test with flying colors!” Realize that you are not the first… nor will you be the last… to be treated this way. And most importantly, your actions have pleased God. Isn’t that really all that matters?

Stand ready today to be who and what God called you to be… at all times… regardless of how others react or treat you. Be willing to step up and step out in His name, despite the cost. Prepare to hear the roar of Heaven as your grace, mercy, faithfulness and forgiveness in the name of Jesus are commended. Bask in the confidence that you have pleased the only One who really matters… His rewards blessings are the ultimate compensation.

©2013 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for December 11, 2012

December 11 ~ Philippians 4:13
Christ gives me the strength to face anything.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

In his book, Become a Better You, Joel Osteen admonishes us to quit putting ourselves down… that doesn’t do us any good. Forget the past… it’s over and done and can’t be changed. If we continue feel guilty about the past, we will lack the strength to live victoriously today – and beyond.” I’m paraphrasing here, but Pastor Osteen makes a very important point.

While Christ gives us the strength to face anything, a lot of us are pretty busy counteracting that strength at every turn by living in the past, wallowing in guilt and shame over something that happened ten years ago, or blaming our childhood for the mistakes we make today! We need to recognize that we are all human. We all have moments that we regret… something we said that was not so kind, a poorly made choice. Who among us hasn’t said (if only to ourselves), “You didn’t do your best on that test… you should have studied more,” or “You should pray more… longer… harder…” or “I can’t believe you gave such a lousy performance – on the court, the field, or in the concert. You should have practiced more”… or even “You are a lousy mom/dad/grandparent/friend. How could you treat this person so badly”?

You can fill in the blanks with your own litany of criticisms. But the point is that we are wasting valuable time living in guilt, shame and resentment and frustration instead of saying, “LORD, I have all of the strength I need because of You… help me to focus my thoughts and actions in a positive direction. Forgive me for the things I’ve done… and help me to do better.” This is what God asks of us… that we humbly admit our shortcomings and disappointments – then try to do better moving forward.

We must remember that God knows what flawed creatures we are… and He loves us anyway. He wants us to succeed… to be happy, productive, hopeful servants. And He has equipped us with everything we need. OUR JOB is to recognize His power within us… and to embrace it!

I’m not suggesting that we limp along in life, make mistakes, then throw up our hands and say, “Oh, well!” We must take responsibility for our actions… and our faults. But we serve a God who stands ready to pick us up and deliver us into a better day… if only we will receive His gifts of wisdom, hope, forgiveness – and strength.

We have a choice today… we can continue to wallow in the past and let the devil remind us about the mistakes we have made – or we can invite Christ Jesus to fill us with His Holy Spirit and give us all the strength we will ever need… and more. We can stay stuck in our rut… or we can let Jesus propel us into a hopeful, productive future. Which way will you decide to go?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for November 14, 2012

Matthew 12:31-32
“There’s nothing done or said that can’t be forgiven. But if you deliberately persist in your slanders against God’s Spirit, you are repudiating the very One who forgives. If you reject the Son of Man out of some misunderstanding, the Holy Spirit can forgive you, but when you reject the Holy Spirit, you’re sawing off the branch on which you’re sitting, severing by your own perversity all connection with the One who forgives.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

Last night, my husband and I watched a movie called The Miracle. This is the true story of three whales that were trapped in 1988, in the ice near Barrow, Alaska. I don’t want to give away the story, in case you have not seen the movie and/or do not know/remember what happened. But in order to breathe and stay alive, the whales were rising from the water in a small hole in the ice, and a massive rescue operation was organized.

Temperatures dipped to well past 50 degrees below zero, and the ice began to freeze faster than the Eskimos of Barrow could chip it away. The hole was closing… the whales were in serious danger of losing their airway. So the Eskimos began to create a pathway of holes that led toward open sea, hoping to guide the whales toward safety. And it worked for a while… until the whales were spooked and reversed course. These whales didn’t understand what was happening, so you couldn’t fault them… but at the same time, they were headed toward disaster as the holes froze over behind them.

Okay… this is a rather vague analogy, maybe… but we are often like the whales. We see the path to Jesus… we follow Him and head in the direction of his mercy and goodness. But then, many of us turn back. Some are like the whales… they really do not understand. Perhaps you find things not going so well in your life and you lose hope. Maybe you suffer a major disappointment… or people mistreat you… and you decide that being an obedient Christian isn’t all it’s cracked up to be… that you are getting nowhere fast. Or maybe “life” gets in the way and you get busy. Before you know it, a few days/weeks have passed without a single conversation between you and God. You haven’t opened your Bible… much less attended a worship service or shared fellowship with other believers. People get stuck in a rut… headed in the wrong direction… and often, they have no clue that the way OUT of that rut is to turn back to Jesus!

Others take a more drastic course. For whatever reason, they allow the devil to get a firm grip on them, and they not only move away from God… they disown Him completely. They listen to that inner voice telling them that God is not on their side… that He is not even real. They hear the devil whisper, “He doesn’t care about you, or He would never allow this/that to happen! You don’t need Him. You can do better on your own – and have a whole lot more fun in the bargain!” This deliberate denouncement can have fatal consequences. If the course is not altered, the doors of Heaven could be closed forever… and an eternity in the pits of hell could be the end result.

Here’s the deal… it is not too late to turn to God. Forgiveness and acceptance is totally within your reach today. Hope is alive… a life in Christ is available to everyone who accepts Him. I cannot imagine anyone rejecting the promise of heaven. But I know that there are those who do not believe it exists. OUR JOB is to live in a way that shows them that heaven DOES exist – that heaven is real… and the way to get there is through Jesus Christ. We must live in such a way that this promise is so appealing and encouraging – even in the midst of disappointments and heartaches – that others are clamoring to follow Jesus, as well.

Additionally, we must offer compassion to others… whether they are like the whales who became momentarily confused and disoriented, or they have rejected Jesus outright. We must show them His grace, mercy, and the opportunity for real forgiveness. And… we must never give up. As long as we draw breath, there is the possibility of salvation and pardon. And we must never give up… for ourselves – or on others.

As you sit out on the “branch of life” today, are you trusting Jesus to support and sustain you? Or do you have saw in hand, ready to sever the ties, crash and burn? Will you allow Jesus to guide you safely past the “ice holes” that freeze over… will you continue to believe in Him for your very breath? Will you show others the way and lead by example? Are you fully operating in the love, grace, mercy and forgiveness of Jesus? Isn’t it time you did?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 29, 2012

Matthew 6:12
Keep us forgiven with you and forgiving others.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

Our 13-year-old cats are fairly asocial. They particularly do not like sudden movements, loud noises… and children. Ironically, our little ones like Timothy and my cousin Owen want nothing more than to get close to the cats. They so want to see them, touch them, talk to them… and become friends! So one day when Owen bent down in front of a chair that housed our cat, Lucy, she reached out and gave him a declawed swat on the head. Owen was devastated. He cried, “That kitty hit me! Why that kitty not like me?” We all justified Lucy’s little swat as a reaction to someone she didn’t know – an innate fear and dislike of something unfamiliar. And even Owen still asks every time, “Where are the kitties?” Although he has not forgotten the swat, he has forgiven the cat!

Isn’t it funny that we can forgive the outburst of a small animal… but not of a human being? We can readily understand – and excuse – the behavior of a pet that reacts to particular situations and circumstances, but we have no compassion for people who are responding out of their own fears and stresses.

I’m not saying that people have a license to be rude and disgruntled – or to gripe, complain and snap at others and expect to be given a free pass. But we often react to others quickly – and rashly – (if only in our thoughts) and fail to consider what may be their “back-story”… what may be really happening within their heart and mind. More importantly, we don’t see how often we do the very same thing… toward others, and toward God. We snap, we are rude, brash, unkind, judgmental and uncaring… and we expect God and others to forgive and forget our own lapses.

I’m pretty sure that most of us have a deep desire for forgiveness. We want God to bury the hatchet and offer us a chance to make a fresh start – and we want this from our human counterparts, as well. What we don’t realize is that we have to make the first move. We have to let bygones be bygones with others and reconcile our differences in order to unblock our own forgiveness.

The more you put this into practice, the easier it becomes… and the more you see areas where you need to offer mercy and compassion to others. When you stop and consider how you feel when you are judged and unforgiven… how much you desire God’s grace and understanding in your own life… you will see more clearly how important it is that you forgive others in the same way.

The most important thing you say today could possibly be, “I am willing to forgive one person.” If you can say that you are willing to stop judging and criticizing others, or harboring ill feelings toward even one person, you will have taken a step closer to operating in God’s love and redemption. As we strive to walk more closely with Jesus every day – to emulate His tenderness and affection for us in our daily living – amazing things will happen. We will be released from the burdens of our own recklessness. We will have the peace of God’s forgiveness – and knowing His pleasure as we forgive others.

Who are you willing to forgive today?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 28, 2012

July 28 ~ Matthew 6:14-15
"In prayer there is a connection between what God does and what you do. You can't get forgiveness from God, for instance, without also forgiving others. If you refuse to do your part, you cut yourself off from God's part.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

In so many areas of life, we understand that there are direct correlations. Eat too much and sit on the couch all the time, and you will probably gain weight and become unhealthy. If you don’t study and do your homework, it’s likely you won’t pass your classes and graduate. Fail to show up on time for work and do a good job, and you will probably be dismissed. We get it! We know how these things work. This doesn’t mean we always do the right thing… but we are fully aware of the consequences.

Spiritually, I don’t think enough people make the connection between forgiving others and receiving God’s forgiveness. Please understand that I am not saying that God won’t forgive your sins and offer you salvation through Jesus Christ if you fail to forgive others – although forgiving others is an integral part of the life of a Christian (or should be). What I am saying is that even we Christians say and do things that displease God every single day. As faith-filled believers who continually strive to be more like Christ, we often ask God to forgive us… to strengthen us in our commitment, guide our steps, and bless us in our daily living.

The point is that we cannot ask God to do something for us that we are unwilling to do for others. We can’t say, “God, I was unkind and uncaring… please forgive me,” and then hold a grudge against someone for something they said or did that insulted us. We can’t ask God to pardon us for failing to spend time in His presence and then be critical of others who we think don’t come to church often enough or are not devoted Christians in some manner. We cannot expect God to excuse our lack of faith and courage in Spiritual matters… and become angry with those who fail to encourage us or seem to let us down along the way.

In other words, before we ask God for love, grace, mercy and forgiveness, we should ask ourselves… “Is there someone to whom I need to offer these same gifts?” When we come before God in the right frame of mind, He hears our prayers with a generous heart… ready and willing to open the floodgates of heaven and bless us beyond measure. And don’t we all want this?

Who do you need to forgive today? What do you need to correct or adjust before you spend time asking God for your own favors? Have you blocked your blessings with an unforgiving spirit? Isn’t it time you got busy making this right?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 27, 2012

Matthew 7:1-5
"Don't pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults— unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It's easy to see a smudge on your neighbor's face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do you have the nerve to say, 'Let me wash your face for you,' when your own face is distorted by contempt? It's this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

When I was in my late twenties, I got really sick and had to have some major surgery. My surgeon weighed 300 pounds if he weighed an ounce… and he was a chain smoker! Thankfully, he was a really good, well-respected surgeon, and everything turned out well. But I remember him sitting behind his desk one day, cigarette in hand, telling me, “Today’s runners are tomorrow’s arthritics.” I was running somewhere around six miles a day at the time.

While my knees tell me today that he was probably right, the words seemed a little ridiculous at the time as spoken by this man who was anything but the picture of health. And while I have not always been necessarily skinny myself, I find it hard to take medical advice from a physician who is clearly not taking care of himself/herself. Even if we know the advice to stay out of the sun, lose a few pounds, or stop eating so much red meat is sound… it’s a tough pill to swallow, when we hear it from someone who could obviously do better themselves.

To put this in perspective for us, consider telling a teenager not to smoke and drink while you are holding a cigarette in one hand and a cocktail in the other. How much stock do you think a young person would put in advice from adults to work hard and be responsible, pay their bills on time and live within a budget if those same adults are either barely getting by because of careless spending habits… or these folks won’t work and depend on handouts from others for survival?

What does it say to others when we claim to be Christians (which implies that we at least want to be like Jesus), and then we are critical of those who don’t believe as we do and treat people of other races, political leanings and/or lifestyles with open contempt and/or disgust? How can we expect God to bless us with His favor when we blatantly mistreat even one of His children or creations?

We often laugh (if only nervously) at those who are openly critical of us or others while they appear to be oblivious to the fact that they engage in many of the same behaviors or opinions. But it’s really not funny… and it displeases God. In the Contemporary English Version of this passage, Verse 1 says, “God will be as hard on you as you are on others! He will treat you exactly as you treat them.” Let this soak in for a minute. Before you start to criticize, pity, or correct another person, take a good look in the mirror. It may be that you have plenty of work to do at home without dabbling in another’s business!

Ask God to show you how and where to be more compassionate, less cynical and critical… and more patient with others. Call on Him to remove the “speck in your eye”… and to temper your desire to do the same for others. Get your own house in order, and give God room to work in your life. Let Him handle the smudges on the other guy’s face!

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 26, 2012

Matthew 18:21-22
Peter came up to the Lord and asked, “How many times should I forgive someone who does something wrong to me? Is seven times enough?” Jesus answered: Not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

There seems to be a general consensus that you can make a behavior a habit in twenty-one days – or three weeks. So it would follow that forgiving someone for doing something wrong every day for three weeks would pretty well solidify our ability to forgive that person. Yet Jesus says to forgive seventy-seven times… or 10 weeks! Why do you suppose He chose this time frame? If something becomes a habit or “part of our nature” in three weeks, why continue working on it another seven?

If you read the parable in Matthew 18 that follows this command from Jesus in Verses 21-22, you will see that He is trying to get us to a point where we don’t even think about the offense… where forgiveness is second nature. He illustrates our forgiveness from God and makes the point that literally forgiving someone seventy-seven times is not the issue – it’s about treating others as God treats us.

Look… we cannot hope to be even the least bit like God and harbor feelings of un-forgiveness in our heart. We must practice forgiveness of all people and things until this becomes habitual… second nature. Notice Jesus didn’t say, “Don’t be cautious or smart. Don’t become a doormat for others.” This is not about allowing someone to mistreat you or take advantage of you in some way. But when someone or something is offensive to you, and you harbor a feeling of ill will toward that person or situation, YOU are the one who is most affected.

Forgiveness is liberating. Forgiveness says that we are better than the offense (which is a tool of the devil). Forgiveness indicates that we are striving to be like our Heavenly Father, Who forgives us over and again each and every day. Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness… but rather, a sign of strength in the LORD!

Who do you need to forgive today? Where do you need to implement a “three-week course” in forgiveness and make this a habit in your life? Do you truly desire to grow closer to Jesus and become more like Him? Start exercising forgiveness in your life today. Work hard at forgiving seventy-seven times… and more! Operate in the freedom of Christ’s love, grace and mercy… and extend it to those you meet. This is one habit we could all stand to cultivate!

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 25, 2012

Mark 11:22-25
Jesus was matter-of-fact: "Embrace this God-life. Really embrace it, and nothing will be too much for you. This mountain, for instance: Just say, 'Go jump in the lake'—no shuffling or shilly-shallying—and it's as good as done. That's why I urge you to pray for absolutely everything, ranging from small to large. Include everything as you embrace this God-life, and you'll get God's everything. And when you assume the posture of prayer, remember that it's not all asking. If you have anything against someone, forgive—only then will your heavenly Father be inclined to also wipe your slate clean of sins."

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

Have you ever attempted to open a drawer, and it stuck on something? Try as you might, the drawer would only open so far, and then it would catch on whatever was sticking up and trapping the drawer’s forward progress in some manner. If you’re like me, sometimes it’s pretty tough to remove the displaced item and get the drawer to open smoothly…which probably says something about the organization and overall condition of my drawers!

Our personal lives are much like a household drawer… often unorganized and cluttered… perhaps filled to overflowing with all sorts of things. And once in a while, something will get turned “cattywompus” and derail everything. Until we take time to remove the source of our problem, nothing will go smoothly, and certainly “the drawer will not open!”

Let’s be honest… there are times when we just leave the “drawer” ajar and move on for a while. But that situation is not going to change. We have to do something. And in our personal lives, this most often means asking God to forgive us… or to help us forgive someone else. If you ever find that you have a situation where you feel like no answer comes… where you just can’t seem to have a breakthrough… stop and ask yourself, “What is blocking this? Where do I need to make an adjustment? Is there something or someone I need to forgive? Is there someone I need to ask to forgive me?”

Once we “get our drawer straight,” we often find that all sorts of things begin to operate more smoothly. Remember, with God all things are possible. But often, He is waiting on us to tidy up a few things before He delivers an answer or makes good on a promise. When was the last time you gave your drawers a good cleaning and organizing… for real, and in your personal life? Don’t you think it’s time you did?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 22, 2012

Luke 6:26-30
"There's trouble ahead when you live only for the approval of others, saying what flatters them, doing what indulges them. Popularity contests are not truth contests—look how many scoundrel preachers were approved by your ancestors! Your task is to be true, not popular.

"To you who are ready for the truth, I say this: Love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer for that person. If someone slaps you in the face, stand there and take it. If someone grabs your shirt, giftwrap your best coat and make a present of it. If someone takes unfair advantage of you, use the occasion to practice the servant life. No more tit-for-tat stuff. Live generously.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

The glass-topped coffee table on our back porch holds a potted begonia, some wrought-iron candleholders, and a decorative bird house. This house is presently the home of a rather ugly-looking, spotted Great Plains Toad, who I have named Frodo. Most of the day, Frodo sits in the birdhouse, draping his head out of the hole. At night, he often attaches himself to one of our windows and feasts on bugs drawn to the lamplight there.

I’ve kinda grown attached to Frodo. He’s cute, in an ugly sort of way. But I did my homework… he is also poisonous! Behind his eyes are glands that secrete a protective (to him) milky solution that could be toxic to dogs or cats who might find him fun to pursue. This substance can even cause some serious harm to a human, if one were to handle the frog and not wash your hands thoroughly afterward. My research indicates that Frodo may have come to this abode because his regular haunt – warm, damp ground in which to burrow – is not available right now. Ditto for his traditional fare of grubs, which he digs from the moist earth! So I will be kind to Frodo and allow him to stay in the birdhouse. I will “live generously” where he is concerned. But I will also see him for the potential scoundrel that he is… I’m aware of his truth!

There is a lesson here for all of us in our daily living. There are “scoundrels” among us… people who are a bit of a chameleon at best… changing with the wind or whatever best suits their desires at the moment. And while I don’t like to think I have any actual “enemies,” I know that there are people who only want what they feel I can give them… those who are nice enough to me when necessary but don’t actually give a hoot about my feelings or wellbeing. I recognize these people (most of the time)… and I hope I treat them generously in spite of their behavior - because God calls me to do so. I urge you to do the same.

I also ask that we would never be the scoundrel… that we would not treat others in a dishonest or disrespectful way or use them to get ahead or for our own benefit. I pray that we would operate in honesty and truth… love and genuine big-heartedness. God is calling us to be the real deal… to be sincere and authentic with others… but also to be charitable – even when we are being treated anything but kindly. It’s a tall order… but as we have discussed many times, we Christians were never promised “easy!”

I’m going to continue to allow Frodo to inhabit our birdhouse… but I won’t be doing anything to antagonize him! As for the “scoundrels” I encounter in life, I pray that I will have the wisdom to recognize them, the strength and courage to handle whatever they deliver, and the ability to treat them generously. In doing this, I hope that God will allow my best to shine through for Him. What about you?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 21, 2012

Luke 11:4
Forgive our sins, as we forgive everyone who has done wrong to us. And keep us from being tempted.’”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Virtually everyone is thinking about the tragic shooting that occurred at Aurora, Colorado, yesterday. And how could you not? People are covering this story on every news media outlet – it’s all over social media. And the question of the day seems to be, “Why?” Why would someone do this? What drove them to such madness? How could someone who high school classmates described as an ordinary, albeit geeky nerd do such heinous things? What makes a seemingly brilliant student lose focus and become so dark and evil?

Before you jump straight to placing the blame on Satan, consider that it’s not quite that simple. I heard one analyst this morning describe this behavior as possibly being the result of “injustice collecting.” In other words, some people do not seem to react to “injustice” in their life… from what seems like the smallest insult to a much larger affront. Instead, these offenses build up… they are collected over time. Sometimes the person becomes sullen, withdrawn, and someone we might call an “angry old cuss.” But sometimes… this “collection” is so distressing that the person becomes totally unbalanced because of it… and he/she may react in a serious – if not violent – manner.

Either way, you can see that failure to forgive those who have wronged you can lead to some serious consequences. And yes, the devil will dance over this! We are all guilty of “injustice collecting” to some degree. There has been a point in all of our lives where we have said, “I’ve HAD it!” We’ve “blown our tops” and behaved disruptively… if only on a relatively small scale. But any time we do this, we have succumbed to the temptation to harbor our grudges or ill feelings – and allow them to fester.

This is a good time for all of us to stop and ask God to give us strength… to help us to operate in forgiveness… to let go of even the smallest offenses and grudges. Ask God to help you forgive quickly and move forward. Call on Him to remove any sense of irritation or unsettled feelings – and to help you operate in love and peace in every situation. Whenever you feel tempted to add an offense or injustice to your “collection,” stop and ask God to remove this desire. Never give the devil an inch – or a moment’s pleasure!

I will be the first in line to tell you that forgiveness is often hard. But there is no way we can ask God to pardon us if we are unwilling to do the same for others. I am so thankful that God doesn’t harbor my offenses toward Him. If I want His forgiveness – if I want to be more like Him - I can’t do this, either. What about you? Do you have an “injustice collection?” Isn’t this the perfect day to get rid of it?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 20, 2012

Luke 17:3-4
"Be alert. If you see your friend going wrong, correct him. If he responds, forgive him. Even if it's personal against you and repeated seven times through the day, and seven times he says, 'I'm sorry, I won't do it again,' forgive him."

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.

Once again, our country is deep in the throes of a horrific tragedy, as we learn more details about the senseless shooting that took place in a movie theater in Aurora, Colorado, early this morning. We are heartsick for the victims and their families. We shake our heads and ask, “What sort of derelict could do this?” And therein lies part of the answer… this had to be the work of someone who was not of sound mind.

Certainly this person deserves to be punished for his crimes. Surely he must be kept away from society, so that no one else is harmed. But we must also remind ourselves that he has a mom and a dad… maybe siblings, other family members, and friends. He could be your brother… or my son… or a beloved cousin, significant other, or roommate. He is most assuredly a precious child of God. And as such, we must find it in our hearts to forgive him.

We do not diminish what this young man has done… we do not excuse his behavior in any way… we merely release any feelings of hate or unkindness we have toward him and allow God to heal our hearts. As the Aurora, Colorado, police chief said in a press conference, we will all get through this.

I pray that none of us ever has to personally experience anything as dreadful as the events of today. But all of us will be offended, insulted, mistreated or hurt in some way – most likely many times in our lives. How will we handle this? Will we become angry and sullen, hold a grudge and let the bitterness eat us alive? Will we give Satan this satisfaction? Or will we operate in the love of Christ and forgive not only those who ask us to do so… but also those who don’t?

We weren’t there when Jesus died on the cross, but He did it anyway… and asked God to forgive us. We may have asked His forgiveness since that time… and we should… but Jesus offered us love and compassion long beforehand. And we should do the same for others.

Everywhere we turn, people are saying, “Pray for the people of Colorado.” I would offer that we should also pray for the shooter… his family and friends… and anyone who has wronged us in any way – whether he/she has asked for our forgiveness or not. If we want Jesus to forgive us and love us unconditionally, we must be prepared to do no less than this for others. Who do you need to forgive today?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 19, 2012

Luke 23:34
Jesus said, “Father, forgive these people! They don’t know what they’re doing.”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

I saw a cartoon on Facebook today where a woman was talking with Jesus. She told him that she had met some fellow believers who were on the opposite end of the political spectrum from her own views. She said, “I just don’t see how they can reconcile their faith with their position on…” Jesus interrupted her, “I’ll handle the reconciling… your job is just to love them – or maybe not to hate them.”

We have a hard time with this, don’t we? Oh, if only everyone saw things exactly as we do, the world would be such a wonderful place! But we know better… or we should! Jesus has given us the ultimate example of this when He asked God to forgive those who were beating Him, spitting on Him, stripping Him naked and gambling for His clothing… and nailing Him to a cross. Jesus said, “Father, YOU handle the reconciling… I’ll do the loving.”

It would have been so easy for Jesus to hate these people. It would have been no sweat at all for Him to say, “You know what? These people are not worth My time. I’m outta here!” He could have returned to heaven, or even continued to live on earth unbothered if He chose. He could have turned the tables and wiped out every human being who was “on the opposite end of the spectrum.” But this is not at all what Jesus did.

If we want to have even the most remote chance of being like Jesus, we have to get over ourselves. We have to start operating in love instead of hate. We have to offer acceptance to those who don’t think as we do… and forgiveness to the ones who are unkind or mistreat us in some way. We don’t have to be doormats and put ourselves in positions to be continually disrespected. But we are called to love the unlovely – to give them far better than they deserve… because that’s what Jesus does – for each of us!

The next time someone treats you rudely or disrespectfully, ask God to forgive them… and then make an effort to do the same. When you encounter someone whose position – on anything from politics to religion to the weather – is different than your own, be kind and do not act as if you are superior. Allow that this person is a child of God, too – just like you! Remember that when you point your finger at someone, four are pointing in your own direction. And never forget that Jesus didn’t die on the cross for you alone… He died for all of us.

Was it worth the price Christ paid for you? Are you truly living for Him and trying to follow His example? Isn’t it time you did?

©2012 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 11, 2012

2 Corinthians 2:6-7
Most of you have already pointed out the wrong that person did, and that is punishment enough for what was done.

When people sin, you should forgive and comfort them, so they won’t give up in despair.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Imagine if God hung onto your every sin. What if all of your friends and family remembered EVERY SINGLE THING you ever did that they felt was offensive, irritating, or immoral… and reminded you of these actions continually? What if people treated you with an “I-know-what-you-did-and-you-disgust-me” attitude? Would you feel loved and accepted? If you felt that others held a grudge, would you desire more of their form of “grace and mercy?” Would this reflect the love of Christ for you… would you feel His presence and tender care?

There have been times when I have had to remove children from an activity and place them in “time out.” When a child disobeyed, he/she had to suffer the consequences for the action. But at the end of the “punishment,” I tried to offer them a hug and an “I-still-love-you.” And then I made every effort to put the incident behind us and move forward. This is fairly easy to do with small children. It’s harder when you are dealing with teenagers and adults. We often find that we are far less forgiving… we have learned to carry a grudge.

Don’t misunderstand me. There are times when we are right to step away from someone… to distance ourselves from toxic situations. If you know someone who is using illegal drugs, you are smart not to hang around him/her. If someone you know is involved in something illegal or immoral… or this person has hurt your feelings or harmed your reputation… you may need to take a step back and love from afar for a little while. But withdrawing love and concern for this person is never appropriate. We never want to leave the other person asking “What’s the point of caring/trying?”

I am so glad God does not do this with His children. I am grateful beyond measure that when I fail Him and fall short, He picks me up and says, “I’m still here. I still love you.” I may have to suffer consequences for my action. There may be a period of time where God steps back and lets me wallow in my mistakes and learn a hard lesson. But He NEVER deserts me or stops loving me… and we must never do this to anyone we encounter.

Think over your circle of influence – friends, family members, acquaintances, fellow students of co-workers, church members and those in your community? Where have you exhibited an attitude of un-forgiveness? Where are you holding a grudge – and holding a past offense over someone’s head? Who have you given the impression that there is no hope… that there is nothing he/she can do to make amends? Is this how you would want to be treated by others? How would you feel if God treated you this way?

In Philippians 3:13-14, Paul tells us, “But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for what is ahead. I run toward the goal, so that I can win the prize of being called to heaven. This is the prize that God offers because of what Christ Jesus has done.” This “prize” is available to all who believe in Jesus Christ. Does your treatment of others reflect the hope of this reward… or the despair of unforgotten grudges? Who needs your offering of forgiveness and comfort in Jesus today?

©2012 Debbie Robus