Matthew 6:14-15
“In prayer there is a connection between what God does and what you do. You can’t get forgiveness from God, for instance, without also forgiving others. If you refuse to do your part, you cut yourself off from God’s part.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
The other day, I tried to open a utensil drawer in my kitchen, and I couldn’t get it to budge. Something inside was sticking up and blocking the drawer from opening fully. Until I removed whatever was in the way, I was not going to be able to get to the tool I ultimately needed.
As Christians, we do this a lot… we block God’s blessings by refusing to forgive others. We fail to recognize that God loves the person with whom we have a beef of some sort just as much as He loves us. God has commanded us to “love one another” – and even to “love your enemies.” So when we fail to be obedient… when we harbor feelings of anger, resentment, disappointment, disgust, jealousy, frustration – or even rage… we effectively “block the drawer” of God’s grace, mercy, forgiveness and blessings from opening.
I understand… I get it. There are times when we get so upset with someone else that we cannot even utter their name to pray for them – much less offer forgiveness. And the devil absolutely goes ape with delight over this! But God is not amused. He understands… He really does… because He sees us in our human form (warts and all!). And He loves us and is willing to forgive us for these emotions – when we humbly ask for pardon. But God also expects us to turn around and share that same mercy with the person for whom we expressed such disdain.
This is a hard, hard lesson… one that takes many of us years to learn. We are bullied as children, and we harbor grudges. We may have teachers who are hard on us… parents who frustrate us… bosses who make going to work every day downright miserable…and friends, family and church family members who never seem to give us a break. So of course, we go to God and ask, “Can you please help me here?” And God will gladly do this. But we have to do our part, too.
You know that stuck drawer I mentioned? Have you ever been able to reach in and grab something – maybe even what you wanted or needed – but the drawer stayed stuck and you couldn’t get to everything? This is what I’m talking about. God may allow you a few things. But He has so much more “in the drawer” that He wants to share with you. Why on earth would you want to miss out on a single blessing or opportunity that God has for you?
Stop what you are doing for a few minutes today and examine your heart. Ask God to reveal to you the areas where you are blocking a blessing and/or a pardon because of your unwillingness to offer the same to others. Figure out how to get unstuck, so that you can free yourself from the burdens of an unforgiving heart… and bask in the joy of receiving all of God’s grace, mercy and abundance.
©2012 Debbie Robus
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