Ephesians 4:25-27
What this adds up to, then, is
this: no more lies, no more pretense. Tell your neighbor the truth. In
Christ’s body we’re all connected to each other, after all. When you lie
to others, you end up lying to yourself.
Go ahead and be angry.
You do well to be angry—but don’t use your anger as fuel for revenge.
And don’t stay angry. Don’t go to bed angry. Don’t give the Devil that
kind of foothold in your life.
Scripture
quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002
by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs,
CO. All rights reserved.
My
mother always taught me that “if you can’t say something nice, don’t
say anything at all.” At the other end of the spectrum, my Mam-ma Polly
frequently seemed to operate more in the “speak your mind now and worry
about the consequences later” mode. And I think there is room for a
healthy balance between these two stances.
I try to be very fair
and balanced with others…particularly as I write these devotionals. I
understand that not all people believe as I do on a variety of
subjects…and that’s okay. But I have found that often, when we sit
quietly on the sidelines, others wrongly assume that we believe exactly
as they do…and that we fully support their expressed opinions. And this
can be hurtful to everyone.
A few weeks ago, I was attending a
meeting in which some comments were made that deeply wounded several
people…including me. The persons who made them initially assumed that
everyone in the room felt as they did…so they “went at it” with wild
abandon. I’ll admit…I initially willed myself to stay quiet. But then
another lady spoke up and explained why she disagreed with what was
said…and one by one, more of us spoke up and expressed our feelings. I
wish I could say this made a difference…that the ugly talk was stifled.
But it wasn’t…and some of us came away more offended than anything
else…but yes, we were angry, too.
The anger and
disappointment affected me in a profound way…but I did not seek revenge.
I prayed…a lot. I asked God to show me how to overcome my feelings of
resentment toward those who spoke their own truth…to keep me from
allowing the devil to have the last laugh in this. And He has done
this. I am at a calm and peaceful place where I can actually encounter
these people and not feel antagonistic – or even judgmental of them. I
didn’t come to this resolution overnight, but I am grateful that God has
begun to heal my heart.
I am also glad that I spoke out.
Otherwise, I think I would have always felt a little ashamed…like I was
living a lie by allowing others to assume that I agreed with them on
this issue. And I’ll admit…speaking honestly about my views on several
political and social issues has “cost” me some friendships...or at least
greatly changed how we interact and the frequency of our contacts. And
that is unfortunate…but also freeing. Let’s be honest…living a lie
takes its toll.
I hope and pray that I am never judgmental or
rude…that I don’t “speak my mind” to someone in such a way as to anger
or offend them. By remaining truthful, I trust that God will bless my
efforts and soften the ears of those who hear my words, so that they
accept them – and me – in the spirit of Christian brotherhood and
sisterhood. I’ve tried to “sugarcoat the truth” before in an effort to
spare another person’s feelings. And I can tell you, when this
backfires (and it often does), it’s a royal disaster!
At the end
of the day, our only responsibility is to please God…and remaining
truthful honors our commitment to Him. By seeking His wisdom and
guidance as we speak the truth, we demonstrate our faith in Him to
handle how our words are received…and put the devil in his place
simultaneously! Honesty IS the best policy! How truthful are you being
these days?
©2015 Debbie Robus
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Daily Devotional for August 18, 2012
Psalm 34:13
Guard your tongue from profanity, and no more lying through your teeth.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
According to information gathered at www.rotary.org, Rotary International is a world-wide (and widely respected) service organization whose mission is…”to provide service to others, promote integrity, and advance world understanding, goodwill, and peace through its fellowship of business, professional, and community leaders.” I was a member of Rotary International for several years. Like most members, I carried a card in my wallet that outlined the Rotary “4-Way Test”…
We are on the threshold of a new school year… a new beginning for many – particularly those under the age of 25. When I was teaching, the end of August held more of a “New Year/Fresh Start” feeling for me than January 1st. So it is fitting that as we approach the “back-to-school” date on the calendar, we renew our determination to speak the truth… to avoid all unkind language (not just profanity)… to seek fairness, goodwill, better friendships…and to make sure that our words and actions are beneficial to all concerned.
Let’s make this our prayer for today and every day. Let’s incorporate the 4-Way Test into our daily Christian discipleship. Ask God to help you make this a great year… and to start it off on the right foot!
©2012 Debbie Robus
Guard your tongue from profanity, and no more lying through your teeth.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
According to information gathered at www.rotary.org, Rotary International is a world-wide (and widely respected) service organization whose mission is…”to provide service to others, promote integrity, and advance world understanding, goodwill, and peace through its fellowship of business, professional, and community leaders.” I was a member of Rotary International for several years. Like most members, I carried a card in my wallet that outlined the Rotary “4-Way Test”…
- Is it the TRUTH?
- Is it FAIR to all concerned?
- Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?
- Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?
We are on the threshold of a new school year… a new beginning for many – particularly those under the age of 25. When I was teaching, the end of August held more of a “New Year/Fresh Start” feeling for me than January 1st. So it is fitting that as we approach the “back-to-school” date on the calendar, we renew our determination to speak the truth… to avoid all unkind language (not just profanity)… to seek fairness, goodwill, better friendships…and to make sure that our words and actions are beneficial to all concerned.
Let’s make this our prayer for today and every day. Let’s incorporate the 4-Way Test into our daily Christian discipleship. Ask God to help you make this a great year… and to start it off on the right foot!
©2012 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for April 1, 2012
April 1 ~ 1 Corinthians 14:1-3
Go after a life of love as if your life depended on it—because it does. Give yourselves to the gifts God gives you. Most of all, try to proclaim his truth. If you praise him in the private language of tongues, God understands you but no one else does, for you are sharing intimacies just between you and him. But when you proclaim his truth in everyday speech, you're letting others in on the truth so that they can grow and be strong and experience his presence with you.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Do you have a best friend? Maybe this person is someone you have been close to for a number of years… or maybe this is your spouse, or a relative. I’m talking about a person with whom you can share anything… someone with whom you trust private information you would not share with another living soul. You may even feel like there isn’t another person on the planet who understands you the way this friend does. And someone else may feel the same way about you.
There is nothing wrong with having a close friend with whom you share your private thoughts. But what if you never interacted with anyone else? What if the only person you ever spent time with was this friend… and nobody else ever got to know you? What if this kept your friend from growing as a person and interacting with other people? Wouldn’t you both miss out on a lot? Other people would never get to truly know you… or love you. The many gifts that make you special and unique would never be discovered – or enjoyed - by others… and in turn, you would probably be pretty boring!
Do you see that this is how many of us treat our relationship with God? Some of us never even bother to develop a relationship with Him at all. Others draw close to God and share their deepest, most innermost thoughts and feelings with Him. We enjoy His blessings and bask in the love, grace and mercy of His power and protection over our lives. We seek His wisdom… and sometimes we listen when He speaks. But we never bother to turn around and share God with others. We never show His love, grace and mercy to those we interact with on a daily basis. We don’t live by example… demonstrating by our behavior and lifestyle just how much God has done for us… and showing others we meet what He can do for them!
I have two questions for us to consider today…
©2012 Debbie Robus
Go after a life of love as if your life depended on it—because it does. Give yourselves to the gifts God gives you. Most of all, try to proclaim his truth. If you praise him in the private language of tongues, God understands you but no one else does, for you are sharing intimacies just between you and him. But when you proclaim his truth in everyday speech, you're letting others in on the truth so that they can grow and be strong and experience his presence with you.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Do you have a best friend? Maybe this person is someone you have been close to for a number of years… or maybe this is your spouse, or a relative. I’m talking about a person with whom you can share anything… someone with whom you trust private information you would not share with another living soul. You may even feel like there isn’t another person on the planet who understands you the way this friend does. And someone else may feel the same way about you.
There is nothing wrong with having a close friend with whom you share your private thoughts. But what if you never interacted with anyone else? What if the only person you ever spent time with was this friend… and nobody else ever got to know you? What if this kept your friend from growing as a person and interacting with other people? Wouldn’t you both miss out on a lot? Other people would never get to truly know you… or love you. The many gifts that make you special and unique would never be discovered – or enjoyed - by others… and in turn, you would probably be pretty boring!
Do you see that this is how many of us treat our relationship with God? Some of us never even bother to develop a relationship with Him at all. Others draw close to God and share their deepest, most innermost thoughts and feelings with Him. We enjoy His blessings and bask in the love, grace and mercy of His power and protection over our lives. We seek His wisdom… and sometimes we listen when He speaks. But we never bother to turn around and share God with others. We never show His love, grace and mercy to those we interact with on a daily basis. We don’t live by example… demonstrating by our behavior and lifestyle just how much God has done for us… and showing others we meet what He can do for them!
I have two questions for us to consider today…
- Have we truly developed an intimate relationship with God… one where we share the innermost details of our heart and soul… and He speaks to us in return?
- Have we honored our relationship with God by sharing His truths with others, through our words and actions? Do we demonstrate Christian faith in action? Do others have an opportunity to grow and strengthen in God because of our example?
©2012 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for February 13, 2012
Romans 3:1-6
So what difference does it make who's a Jew and who isn't, who has been trained in God's ways and who hasn't? As it turns out, it makes a lot of difference—but not the difference so many have assumed. First, there's the matter of being put in charge of writing down and caring for God's revelation, these Holy Scriptures.
So, what if, in the course of doing that, some of those Jews abandoned their post? God didn't abandon them. Do you think their faithlessness cancels out his faithfulness? Not on your life! Depend on it: God keeps his word even when the whole world is lying through its teeth. Scripture says the same: Your words stand fast and true; rejection doesn't faze you.
But if our wrongdoing only underlines and confirms God's rightdoing, shouldn't we be commended for helping out? Since our bad words don't even make a dent in his good words, isn't it wrong of God to back us to the wall and hold us to our word? These questions come up. The answer to such questions is no, a most emphatic No! How else would things ever get straightened out if God didn't do the straightening?
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Have you ever been “stood up”? Has someone ever told you they would call you, stop by and see you, or help you with something… then they either called and said they weren’t available – or you never heard from them at all? It stinks, doesn’t it? And honestly, don’t you know people who seldom – if ever – keep their word? I have said of more than one such person… “If their lips are moving, they are probably lying.” That’s a pretty sad commentary, isn’t it?
You may also know people who profess to be Christians… but they take great license with their salvation. It’s as if they feel that because they are saved by the blood of Jesus, they have a free ticket to do as they please without fear of any consequences. Clearly, this passage shows us that God is not happy by our assumptions. GOD’s words matter… OUR words matter… and so do the actions we put behind them!
God would never think of going back on His word… and neither should we! We should never “abandon our post” and dishonor Him by interpreting scripture to suit our own purposes…taking our salvation for granted… or speaking “bad words” to others. As Disciples of Christ, we are called to honor His sacrifice by speaking words that are true, hopeful, positive, kind, and reliable. When we say we will do something, we should do it. When we promise to call or help someone, we must follow through and show up. We must remember WHOSE we are – and what it cost for us to become heirs to His throne… and we must behave honorably even when all around us seem to have lost their heads!
There will be times when we become discouraged. We will feel that God’s promises of blessings, good health and prosperity must be meant for someone else. We will have struggles, challenges, and disappointments… and the natural tendency will be to blame God – or at least complain to Him loudly. We will be tempted to throw up our hands and ask, “What’s the point?” The short answer is that every word from God is true, whether it lines up with physical fact or not. We can’t always see what God is doing in our lives… so we live in faith that He is really at work in us.
Don’t become discouraged. Work hard to be more like Jesus every day. Make your word your bond… and believe that God’s word is infallible. Honor your commitments… to God and to others. In my notes, I have written… “You can’t expect things to come if you don’t call them. Call healing when you are sick… call prosperity when you are poor… call light when there is darkness. Keep asking… seeking… calling until it comes. Get violent (intense) faith.” What are you speaking today? Are your words your bond… or are you merely offering lip service - to God and others? Do you believe what God is speaking over your life? Can others believe your words, as well? What is God saying to you this day… and how will you respond?
©2012 Debbie Robus
So what difference does it make who's a Jew and who isn't, who has been trained in God's ways and who hasn't? As it turns out, it makes a lot of difference—but not the difference so many have assumed. First, there's the matter of being put in charge of writing down and caring for God's revelation, these Holy Scriptures.
So, what if, in the course of doing that, some of those Jews abandoned their post? God didn't abandon them. Do you think their faithlessness cancels out his faithfulness? Not on your life! Depend on it: God keeps his word even when the whole world is lying through its teeth. Scripture says the same: Your words stand fast and true; rejection doesn't faze you.
But if our wrongdoing only underlines and confirms God's rightdoing, shouldn't we be commended for helping out? Since our bad words don't even make a dent in his good words, isn't it wrong of God to back us to the wall and hold us to our word? These questions come up. The answer to such questions is no, a most emphatic No! How else would things ever get straightened out if God didn't do the straightening?
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Have you ever been “stood up”? Has someone ever told you they would call you, stop by and see you, or help you with something… then they either called and said they weren’t available – or you never heard from them at all? It stinks, doesn’t it? And honestly, don’t you know people who seldom – if ever – keep their word? I have said of more than one such person… “If their lips are moving, they are probably lying.” That’s a pretty sad commentary, isn’t it?
You may also know people who profess to be Christians… but they take great license with their salvation. It’s as if they feel that because they are saved by the blood of Jesus, they have a free ticket to do as they please without fear of any consequences. Clearly, this passage shows us that God is not happy by our assumptions. GOD’s words matter… OUR words matter… and so do the actions we put behind them!
God would never think of going back on His word… and neither should we! We should never “abandon our post” and dishonor Him by interpreting scripture to suit our own purposes…taking our salvation for granted… or speaking “bad words” to others. As Disciples of Christ, we are called to honor His sacrifice by speaking words that are true, hopeful, positive, kind, and reliable. When we say we will do something, we should do it. When we promise to call or help someone, we must follow through and show up. We must remember WHOSE we are – and what it cost for us to become heirs to His throne… and we must behave honorably even when all around us seem to have lost their heads!
There will be times when we become discouraged. We will feel that God’s promises of blessings, good health and prosperity must be meant for someone else. We will have struggles, challenges, and disappointments… and the natural tendency will be to blame God – or at least complain to Him loudly. We will be tempted to throw up our hands and ask, “What’s the point?” The short answer is that every word from God is true, whether it lines up with physical fact or not. We can’t always see what God is doing in our lives… so we live in faith that He is really at work in us.
Don’t become discouraged. Work hard to be more like Jesus every day. Make your word your bond… and believe that God’s word is infallible. Honor your commitments… to God and to others. In my notes, I have written… “You can’t expect things to come if you don’t call them. Call healing when you are sick… call prosperity when you are poor… call light when there is darkness. Keep asking… seeking… calling until it comes. Get violent (intense) faith.” What are you speaking today? Are your words your bond… or are you merely offering lip service - to God and others? Do you believe what God is speaking over your life? Can others believe your words, as well? What is God saying to you this day… and how will you respond?
©2012 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for February 19, 2011
Matthew 27:18-19; 24-25
Pilate knew that the leaders had brought Jesus to him because they were jealous. While Pilate was judging the case, his wife sent him a message. It said, "Don't have anything to do with that innocent man. I have had nightmares because of him."
Pilate saw that there was nothing he could do and that the people were starting to riot. So he took some water and washed his hands in front of them and said, "I won't have anything to do with killing this man. You are the ones doing it!" Everyone answered, "We and our own families will take the blame for his death!"
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
There often comes a time when we have done all we can do in a particular situation. We see things headed toward disaster… a “train wreck” in the making… and there is no way we can stop this. It’s like telling a toddler repeatedly, “Get down, or you’re going to fall.” Much as it hurts the child… and those who are watching… sometimes the child has to fall to really learn his/her lesson.
Sometimes, as in the case of Pontius Pilate, we see a huge mistake in the making, and rather than speak up and say, “This is wrong,” we merely step aside and “wash our hands” of the situation. In Pilate’s case, things had to happen as they did for God’s plan to be accomplished. But we are often not operating within God’s plan when we do this. We just don’t want to be “the bad guy,” suffer any ridicule or fallout, or get heavily involved in what could be a complicated situation.
How do you know “when to hold ‘em and when to fold ‘em,” as the song says? The only sure way to know you are making the right choice is to stay in constant communication with God. Be so in tune with His word and His will that you know whether to get involved or “wash your hands” of a particular situation or person. There is a time for both… the key is confidently discerning which is which! Only God can decide… and only when you know that He is behind the choice can you be sure you’ve made the right one.
There are times to step up and speak out… and there are times to step aside and let the chips fall where they may. Will you depend on God’s wisdom in your decision? Or will you be swayed by the people, like Pilate? Life is filled with choices… Who is helping you make yours?
©2011 Debbie Robus
Pilate knew that the leaders had brought Jesus to him because they were jealous. While Pilate was judging the case, his wife sent him a message. It said, "Don't have anything to do with that innocent man. I have had nightmares because of him."
Pilate saw that there was nothing he could do and that the people were starting to riot. So he took some water and washed his hands in front of them and said, "I won't have anything to do with killing this man. You are the ones doing it!" Everyone answered, "We and our own families will take the blame for his death!"
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
There often comes a time when we have done all we can do in a particular situation. We see things headed toward disaster… a “train wreck” in the making… and there is no way we can stop this. It’s like telling a toddler repeatedly, “Get down, or you’re going to fall.” Much as it hurts the child… and those who are watching… sometimes the child has to fall to really learn his/her lesson.
Sometimes, as in the case of Pontius Pilate, we see a huge mistake in the making, and rather than speak up and say, “This is wrong,” we merely step aside and “wash our hands” of the situation. In Pilate’s case, things had to happen as they did for God’s plan to be accomplished. But we are often not operating within God’s plan when we do this. We just don’t want to be “the bad guy,” suffer any ridicule or fallout, or get heavily involved in what could be a complicated situation.
How do you know “when to hold ‘em and when to fold ‘em,” as the song says? The only sure way to know you are making the right choice is to stay in constant communication with God. Be so in tune with His word and His will that you know whether to get involved or “wash your hands” of a particular situation or person. There is a time for both… the key is confidently discerning which is which! Only God can decide… and only when you know that He is behind the choice can you be sure you’ve made the right one.
There are times to step up and speak out… and there are times to step aside and let the chips fall where they may. Will you depend on God’s wisdom in your decision? Or will you be swayed by the people, like Pilate? Life is filled with choices… Who is helping you make yours?
©2011 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 30, 2011
Matthew 5:33-37
"And don't say anything you don't mean. This counsel is embedded deep in our traditions. You only make things worse when you lay down a smoke screen of pious talk, saying, 'I'll pray for you,' and never doing it, or saying, 'God be with you,' and not meaning it. You don't make your words true by embellishing them with religious lace. In making your speech sound more religious, it becomes less true. Just say 'yes' and 'no.' When you manipulate words to get your own way, you go wrong.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I tried a few years ago to read the whole Bible in one year by following a study guide… a passage from both the Old and New Testaments, Psalms and Proverbs each day. I made it quite a few months before “life” got in the way and I fell short. I am determined once again to do this… and after nearly a month, I am finding that I actually look forward to this time each day and seeing what God will reveal to me through His word.
One of the neatest things about this study is discovering how verses in these various sections of the Bible work together. The passage in the Old Testament is often referenced in some way in the Psalms or the New Testament scriptures. And so it was when I read in recent days about Moses confronting Pharaoh (at God’s instruction) and asking him to release the Israelites so that they could move from Egypt. Moses did several things to prove to Pharaoh that this was God’s doing, not his own. And each time, Pharaoh would say, “Okay… you can go.” And then he would turn right around and change his mind.
With God’s power, Moses and his brother Aaron turned walking sticks into snakes, brought plagues of gnats, frogs, and flies upon the land. They turned all of the water in the Nile and every river, pond, stream – even the water in the pots and pans in the houses – into blood. After several of these demonstrations, Pharaoh could not deny that God was behind them, but still his heart was hardened. Pharaoh’s word was no good. He made promises and did not keep them. And in the end, he and his people suffered for this.
In Matthew 5, Jesus is reminding us that our words are important. When we tell someone we are going to do something – it matters. Whether you promise to pick someone up and give them a ride and then never show or you say, “I’ll pray for you,” and never do so… your words matter. When you tell someone you’ll call them tomorrow, call them. When you say, “Yes, I’ll help you move,” you had better show up on moving day! When you tell someone you are coming for dinner, be there… and be on time! When you tell someone, “I will do this for you for such-and-such price” – don’t change the amount later. When you borrow something and promise to pay back the lender, be sure you do just that! When you promise to do something for someone else, don’t let them down – do the job, and do it to the best of your ability.
More importantly, do not fall short on your promises to God. When you tell Him you are ready to serve, do what He asks. Let your “Yes” be “Yes” and your “No” be “No” – as Jesus says in Matthew 5. If you are asked to do something or make a commitment you know you cannot honor, it’s better to tell the person who is asking, “No” than to fail to come through on the promise. There really are situations where the appropriate response is a “No” or to say, “I’m sorry, but I just cannot do this” or “I am simply unable to serve at this time.”
Our words and commitments do have value – and consequences. We know we can count on God to keep His word to us… can He count on us to do the same?
©2011 Debbie Robus
"And don't say anything you don't mean. This counsel is embedded deep in our traditions. You only make things worse when you lay down a smoke screen of pious talk, saying, 'I'll pray for you,' and never doing it, or saying, 'God be with you,' and not meaning it. You don't make your words true by embellishing them with religious lace. In making your speech sound more religious, it becomes less true. Just say 'yes' and 'no.' When you manipulate words to get your own way, you go wrong.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I tried a few years ago to read the whole Bible in one year by following a study guide… a passage from both the Old and New Testaments, Psalms and Proverbs each day. I made it quite a few months before “life” got in the way and I fell short. I am determined once again to do this… and after nearly a month, I am finding that I actually look forward to this time each day and seeing what God will reveal to me through His word.
One of the neatest things about this study is discovering how verses in these various sections of the Bible work together. The passage in the Old Testament is often referenced in some way in the Psalms or the New Testament scriptures. And so it was when I read in recent days about Moses confronting Pharaoh (at God’s instruction) and asking him to release the Israelites so that they could move from Egypt. Moses did several things to prove to Pharaoh that this was God’s doing, not his own. And each time, Pharaoh would say, “Okay… you can go.” And then he would turn right around and change his mind.
With God’s power, Moses and his brother Aaron turned walking sticks into snakes, brought plagues of gnats, frogs, and flies upon the land. They turned all of the water in the Nile and every river, pond, stream – even the water in the pots and pans in the houses – into blood. After several of these demonstrations, Pharaoh could not deny that God was behind them, but still his heart was hardened. Pharaoh’s word was no good. He made promises and did not keep them. And in the end, he and his people suffered for this.
In Matthew 5, Jesus is reminding us that our words are important. When we tell someone we are going to do something – it matters. Whether you promise to pick someone up and give them a ride and then never show or you say, “I’ll pray for you,” and never do so… your words matter. When you tell someone you’ll call them tomorrow, call them. When you say, “Yes, I’ll help you move,” you had better show up on moving day! When you tell someone you are coming for dinner, be there… and be on time! When you tell someone, “I will do this for you for such-and-such price” – don’t change the amount later. When you borrow something and promise to pay back the lender, be sure you do just that! When you promise to do something for someone else, don’t let them down – do the job, and do it to the best of your ability.
More importantly, do not fall short on your promises to God. When you tell Him you are ready to serve, do what He asks. Let your “Yes” be “Yes” and your “No” be “No” – as Jesus says in Matthew 5. If you are asked to do something or make a commitment you know you cannot honor, it’s better to tell the person who is asking, “No” than to fail to come through on the promise. There really are situations where the appropriate response is a “No” or to say, “I’m sorry, but I just cannot do this” or “I am simply unable to serve at this time.”
Our words and commitments do have value – and consequences. We know we can count on God to keep His word to us… can He count on us to do the same?
©2011 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for January 24, 2011
Matthew 12:35-37
A good person produces good deeds and words season after season. An evil person is a blight on the orchard. Let me tell you something: Every one of these careless words is going to come back to haunt you. There will be a time of Reckoning. Words are powerful; take them seriously. Words can be your salvation. Words can also be your damnation."
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I am utilizing a Bible study guide designed to help me read the entire Bible in one year. Each day, I read a passage from the Old Testament, the New Testament, Psalms, and Proverbs. Recently, this passage from Matthew 12 was accompanied by scripture from Genesis 37 and 38. In Chapter 37, the story of Joseph is told – how his father made him a beautiful coat that caused great jealousy among his brothers. They captured Joseph and ripped off his beautiful coat, tossed him into a dry well, and left him to die. The brothers bloodied the coat with an animal carcass. When they returned home, they showed it to their father and let him assume that animals attacked Joseph and killed him.
I’ll let you read Genesis 38 and the story of Judah for yourself, but suffice it to say it’s pretty dicey reading… and a good example of someone who gave their word and kept it – albeit for a stiff price! If you want to read it in Contemporary English Version and don’t have a copy of this translation, go to http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%2038&version=CEV.
The point is, our words mean something… but we’ve gotten pretty fast and loose with them. We are quick to judge others… and to publicly condemn. We casually commit to one relationship after another. And while Genesis 38 points out that having sex with someone and getting them pregnant is nothing new, stepping up to the plate and owning responsibility for our actions – keeping our word – has become much less commonplace. We lie when it suits our purpose. We are all too quick to act like Joseph’s brothers – to do one thing and say another… and never give it a second thought.
My mother and I have been having a conversation lately about some things that have taken place where people said one thing and did another, and how frustrating it can be if you are on the “receiving end.” I made the comment that the people who make promises and do not keep their word will have to answer for this someday. As long as I know that I am doing what is right and pleases God, I cannot worry about what the other guy chooses to do. She replied that my dad used to say, “If they can live with it… so can I.”
This is well and good if you are living right… if your word truly is your bond. But some of us have taken the position that we can live with half-truths and saying things we don’t mean… and we will deal with the fallout as it comes – or sometime down the road. The trouble is… while we may be okay with this, God is not. He will hold us accountable for what we said… for promises and commitments made… for lies and misdeeds. And as this passage so eloquently expresses… careless words will come back to haunt you.
It’s time for us to take a long, hard look at our lives… to see where we need to make serious changes. We must assess how well we are lined up with the word – and will – of God. The time for becoming a person who chooses words carefully and honors commitments – whose word is a solid bond – is now! If each of us will do our part to make sure that we produce good deeds and words, season after season, we will be amazed at the ripple effect.
We need to live in such a way that we know we can live with what we have said and done because it pleases God. We need to set the bar high – and to be a good example for others. Who knows… maybe they will be impressed enough with our integrity and example that they want to make these changes in their own lives. Isn’t it worth a shot?
©2011 Debbie Robus
A good person produces good deeds and words season after season. An evil person is a blight on the orchard. Let me tell you something: Every one of these careless words is going to come back to haunt you. There will be a time of Reckoning. Words are powerful; take them seriously. Words can be your salvation. Words can also be your damnation."
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I am utilizing a Bible study guide designed to help me read the entire Bible in one year. Each day, I read a passage from the Old Testament, the New Testament, Psalms, and Proverbs. Recently, this passage from Matthew 12 was accompanied by scripture from Genesis 37 and 38. In Chapter 37, the story of Joseph is told – how his father made him a beautiful coat that caused great jealousy among his brothers. They captured Joseph and ripped off his beautiful coat, tossed him into a dry well, and left him to die. The brothers bloodied the coat with an animal carcass. When they returned home, they showed it to their father and let him assume that animals attacked Joseph and killed him.
I’ll let you read Genesis 38 and the story of Judah for yourself, but suffice it to say it’s pretty dicey reading… and a good example of someone who gave their word and kept it – albeit for a stiff price! If you want to read it in Contemporary English Version and don’t have a copy of this translation, go to http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%2038&version=CEV.
The point is, our words mean something… but we’ve gotten pretty fast and loose with them. We are quick to judge others… and to publicly condemn. We casually commit to one relationship after another. And while Genesis 38 points out that having sex with someone and getting them pregnant is nothing new, stepping up to the plate and owning responsibility for our actions – keeping our word – has become much less commonplace. We lie when it suits our purpose. We are all too quick to act like Joseph’s brothers – to do one thing and say another… and never give it a second thought.
My mother and I have been having a conversation lately about some things that have taken place where people said one thing and did another, and how frustrating it can be if you are on the “receiving end.” I made the comment that the people who make promises and do not keep their word will have to answer for this someday. As long as I know that I am doing what is right and pleases God, I cannot worry about what the other guy chooses to do. She replied that my dad used to say, “If they can live with it… so can I.”
This is well and good if you are living right… if your word truly is your bond. But some of us have taken the position that we can live with half-truths and saying things we don’t mean… and we will deal with the fallout as it comes – or sometime down the road. The trouble is… while we may be okay with this, God is not. He will hold us accountable for what we said… for promises and commitments made… for lies and misdeeds. And as this passage so eloquently expresses… careless words will come back to haunt you.
It’s time for us to take a long, hard look at our lives… to see where we need to make serious changes. We must assess how well we are lined up with the word – and will – of God. The time for becoming a person who chooses words carefully and honors commitments – whose word is a solid bond – is now! If each of us will do our part to make sure that we produce good deeds and words, season after season, we will be amazed at the ripple effect.
We need to live in such a way that we know we can live with what we have said and done because it pleases God. We need to set the bar high – and to be a good example for others. Who knows… maybe they will be impressed enough with our integrity and example that they want to make these changes in their own lives. Isn’t it worth a shot?
©2011 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for December 10, 2010
Jeremiah 5:3
Search Jerusalem for honest people who try. If you can find even one, I'll forgive the whole city. Everyone breaks promises made in my name." I answered, "I know that you look for truth. You punished your people for their lies, but in spite of the pain, they became more stubborn and refused to turn back to you."
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
We were watching a silly television sitcom recently where a man visited his ex-wife, and while he was there, he “lifted” a pair of diamond earrings he had given her shortly before she filed for divorce. He needed a birthday gift for his new girlfriend and had no money – and his justification was not only revenge but the claim that his first wife “never wore them!” The show ended with this man’s brother asking if he felt any remorse, and he held up a necklace and said something to the effect of “No… and it was even easier the second time.”
Albert Einstein defines insanity as “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Yet this is exactly what we seem to do with the truth. We know that our lies, cheating and deceit dishonor and disappoint God. We know that in the end, these behaviors create even larger problems for us. But we continue down the same path, repeating the same mistakes, and hoping for different results – this time!
The sitcom was truly silly, but it does serve to illustrate a very real point. Lying… and sin in general… becomes easier with practice. So while we may not consciously set out to get better at this over time, what seemed daunting and risky today may not seem so bad tomorrow. This is how people get into serious trouble with things like money. They “rob Peter to pay Paul” by taking a little money from their kids’ piggy bank to gamble, thinking the winnings will be more than enough to pay everyone back… and then some. But when the bet fails, and the money is gone, the gambler has to become more creative – and dishonest – about how and where to find more money for the next bet.
When you lie to a friend or family member about what you are doing or where you are going, it may be hard the first time. But it gets easier the more you practice. It may not seem like a bad thing to tell someone you accomplished something you didn’t – or to stretch the truth a little. But soon, you are well-versed in stretching things, and nobody can believe a word you say, because your claims are so outlandish and your reputation for exaggerating, at best, precedes you.
Maybe you have gotten so “good” at this that you honestly don’t know how to stop. If this is the case, it’s too late for me to tell you to never begin! But I do have help for you…and His name is Jesus. We can call on Jesus to help us accomplish whatever we cannot do on our own. We can ask Jesus to forgive us for our sins (which is the first step), and then we can call on Him to help us begin to rebuild our character and reputation. Jesus will give us the strength to tell the truth… even if it means we have to do without or make personal sacrifices. Believe me, none of them compares to the sacrifice HE made on the cross for us.
Examine your life today. Look in the nooks and crannies and see where you are practicing the insanity of lies, deceit, and sin of any kind. Confess these to Jesus and ask Him to help you get on your feet. Ask Jesus to help you avoid repeating the sins of your past. Give Him your burdens and free your mind to focus on what – and Who – really matters!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Search Jerusalem for honest people who try. If you can find even one, I'll forgive the whole city. Everyone breaks promises made in my name." I answered, "I know that you look for truth. You punished your people for their lies, but in spite of the pain, they became more stubborn and refused to turn back to you."
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
We were watching a silly television sitcom recently where a man visited his ex-wife, and while he was there, he “lifted” a pair of diamond earrings he had given her shortly before she filed for divorce. He needed a birthday gift for his new girlfriend and had no money – and his justification was not only revenge but the claim that his first wife “never wore them!” The show ended with this man’s brother asking if he felt any remorse, and he held up a necklace and said something to the effect of “No… and it was even easier the second time.”
Albert Einstein defines insanity as “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Yet this is exactly what we seem to do with the truth. We know that our lies, cheating and deceit dishonor and disappoint God. We know that in the end, these behaviors create even larger problems for us. But we continue down the same path, repeating the same mistakes, and hoping for different results – this time!
The sitcom was truly silly, but it does serve to illustrate a very real point. Lying… and sin in general… becomes easier with practice. So while we may not consciously set out to get better at this over time, what seemed daunting and risky today may not seem so bad tomorrow. This is how people get into serious trouble with things like money. They “rob Peter to pay Paul” by taking a little money from their kids’ piggy bank to gamble, thinking the winnings will be more than enough to pay everyone back… and then some. But when the bet fails, and the money is gone, the gambler has to become more creative – and dishonest – about how and where to find more money for the next bet.
When you lie to a friend or family member about what you are doing or where you are going, it may be hard the first time. But it gets easier the more you practice. It may not seem like a bad thing to tell someone you accomplished something you didn’t – or to stretch the truth a little. But soon, you are well-versed in stretching things, and nobody can believe a word you say, because your claims are so outlandish and your reputation for exaggerating, at best, precedes you.
Maybe you have gotten so “good” at this that you honestly don’t know how to stop. If this is the case, it’s too late for me to tell you to never begin! But I do have help for you…and His name is Jesus. We can call on Jesus to help us accomplish whatever we cannot do on our own. We can ask Jesus to forgive us for our sins (which is the first step), and then we can call on Him to help us begin to rebuild our character and reputation. Jesus will give us the strength to tell the truth… even if it means we have to do without or make personal sacrifices. Believe me, none of them compares to the sacrifice HE made on the cross for us.
Examine your life today. Look in the nooks and crannies and see where you are practicing the insanity of lies, deceit, and sin of any kind. Confess these to Jesus and ask Him to help you get on your feet. Ask Jesus to help you avoid repeating the sins of your past. Give Him your burdens and free your mind to focus on what – and Who – really matters!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for December 9, 2010
Proverbs 12:22
The LORD hates every liar, but he is the friend of all who can be trusted.
Proverbs 19:22
What matters most is loyalty. It's better to be poor than to be a liar.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
If you have ever had to make a hard decision about being truthful, you know how gut-wrenching it can be. In your heart, you may know that covering for your boss/coach/best friend/family member would make things more pleasant. But at the same time, you know that this is not what God would have you do. And believe me, God understands that you find yourself in a pickle!
I can tell you from personal experience that choosing the truth will be the best decision. I know of a teacher who was asked to lie and say that he was certified to teach a certain course so that the school would not get into trouble with the state evaluators. He was told that to be honest would mean he would be fired. Now, I seriously doubt the principal could have really accomplished this without some more lies to trump up charges on this teacher for a “just cause” dismissal. But the threat was strong enough to scare the teacher into feeling trapped. Ultimately, the teacher chose to be honest… and find a new job in a new school district. And you know what? The teacher reports that this new job is far better than the one he left!
I know other people who have been told to do something deceptive or dishonest or be kicked off a team… or lose their job. I’ve told the truth and been cut off from a circle of “friends” and activities. I refused to go along with something dishonest when I was in high school, so my classmates blackballed my sister and didn’t elect her to participate on the sophomore service team for our prom. Then they wanted me to ask her to come to prom anyway and play the piano to accompany someone who was singing. We refused. My classmates were astonished that I would not be party to this, but it was the right thing to do, and my sister appreciated that I stood up for her.
As an adult, I’ve experienced the good and bad ends of truth and lies… and you will, too. There have been times when I have told the truth and answered honestly, and it “cost” me. People lie about all sorts of things, such as finances and physical needs/ailments in order to “play the system.” But in the end, this will catch up with them. I know there are people who even lie in order to get the church to help them… and the church does this… but GOD knows the truth, and we will have to answer to Him someday for all of this.
One of the best assets you will ever have is your honesty and moral character. Do not compromise this reputation with even the smallest “white lie.” Be poor before you will be dishonest. Be cut off from “friends” before you will lie or cheat for them. Trust that God will bless your efforts and see you through the rough times… value His friendship and approval above all else, and always be His loyal servant.
©2010 Debbie Robus
The LORD hates every liar, but he is the friend of all who can be trusted.
Proverbs 19:22
What matters most is loyalty. It's better to be poor than to be a liar.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
If you have ever had to make a hard decision about being truthful, you know how gut-wrenching it can be. In your heart, you may know that covering for your boss/coach/best friend/family member would make things more pleasant. But at the same time, you know that this is not what God would have you do. And believe me, God understands that you find yourself in a pickle!
I can tell you from personal experience that choosing the truth will be the best decision. I know of a teacher who was asked to lie and say that he was certified to teach a certain course so that the school would not get into trouble with the state evaluators. He was told that to be honest would mean he would be fired. Now, I seriously doubt the principal could have really accomplished this without some more lies to trump up charges on this teacher for a “just cause” dismissal. But the threat was strong enough to scare the teacher into feeling trapped. Ultimately, the teacher chose to be honest… and find a new job in a new school district. And you know what? The teacher reports that this new job is far better than the one he left!
I know other people who have been told to do something deceptive or dishonest or be kicked off a team… or lose their job. I’ve told the truth and been cut off from a circle of “friends” and activities. I refused to go along with something dishonest when I was in high school, so my classmates blackballed my sister and didn’t elect her to participate on the sophomore service team for our prom. Then they wanted me to ask her to come to prom anyway and play the piano to accompany someone who was singing. We refused. My classmates were astonished that I would not be party to this, but it was the right thing to do, and my sister appreciated that I stood up for her.
As an adult, I’ve experienced the good and bad ends of truth and lies… and you will, too. There have been times when I have told the truth and answered honestly, and it “cost” me. People lie about all sorts of things, such as finances and physical needs/ailments in order to “play the system.” But in the end, this will catch up with them. I know there are people who even lie in order to get the church to help them… and the church does this… but GOD knows the truth, and we will have to answer to Him someday for all of this.
One of the best assets you will ever have is your honesty and moral character. Do not compromise this reputation with even the smallest “white lie.” Be poor before you will be dishonest. Be cut off from “friends” before you will lie or cheat for them. Trust that God will bless your efforts and see you through the rough times… value His friendship and approval above all else, and always be His loyal servant.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for December 8, 2010
Leviticus 19:11
Do not steal or tell lies or cheat others.
Psalm 101:7
No one who cheats or lies will have a position in my royal court.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Friends and I were sharing stories the other day, and one of the women in the group said she used to work at a grocery store in California called Vons. The employees were told not to so much as taste a grape from the produce bins… that it would be considered stealing. I laughed, because it reminded me of when I was a child, and my friend Shaun and I went to Mr. Hicks' grocery store one day with our mothers. The store was a small neighborhood market located on Main Street near Pizza Piezazz. Shaun and I were about 5, and we each ate a grape from the produce display. We had seen adults sample the grapes as they were purchasing them, so we thought we’d try it.
The results may have been different for Shaun, but when I got in the car, I got in a LOT of trouble. My mother had seen me eat the grape, and she let me know in no uncertain terms that this was stealing. And to this day, I’ve never sampled a grape or any other produce in the store, unless a vendor offered me a sample. When I see someone pick a grape and taste it, I always think of this incident!
So what’s the big deal about eating one lone grape in the grocery store? And why was it such a big deal for my friend and her co-workers at Vons? The point is that little things have a way of becoming bigger things. It starts with one grape, but soon, workers would be going by and helping themselves to a handful every day… or just one apple, or one banana. This adds up in a hurry. And customers are eating food for which they have not paid!
As for us, the “one grape,” becomes something bigger, and soon we think nothing of taking office supplies from work that are not ours, or stealing road signs to make a cool display in our room, or making excuses to our teachers/coaches/parents/bosses about why we were late or why we want the day off from work or a certain event. “One grape” can become a huge deal… and the cost can be incredibly high – not for us in a monetary way, maybe – but in the eyes of God.
Psalm 101:7 says that no one who cheats or lies will have a position in the royal court. In other words, God doesn’t have the time or energy for liars and cheats. Yes, He is loving and forgiving… but do you really want to anger Him or challenge His authority? He has spoken… and the rule is, NO STEALING, CHEATING or LYING… not even a grape! Are you paying attention?
©2010 Debbie Robus
Do not steal or tell lies or cheat others.
Psalm 101:7
No one who cheats or lies will have a position in my royal court.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Friends and I were sharing stories the other day, and one of the women in the group said she used to work at a grocery store in California called Vons. The employees were told not to so much as taste a grape from the produce bins… that it would be considered stealing. I laughed, because it reminded me of when I was a child, and my friend Shaun and I went to Mr. Hicks' grocery store one day with our mothers. The store was a small neighborhood market located on Main Street near Pizza Piezazz. Shaun and I were about 5, and we each ate a grape from the produce display. We had seen adults sample the grapes as they were purchasing them, so we thought we’d try it.
The results may have been different for Shaun, but when I got in the car, I got in a LOT of trouble. My mother had seen me eat the grape, and she let me know in no uncertain terms that this was stealing. And to this day, I’ve never sampled a grape or any other produce in the store, unless a vendor offered me a sample. When I see someone pick a grape and taste it, I always think of this incident!
So what’s the big deal about eating one lone grape in the grocery store? And why was it such a big deal for my friend and her co-workers at Vons? The point is that little things have a way of becoming bigger things. It starts with one grape, but soon, workers would be going by and helping themselves to a handful every day… or just one apple, or one banana. This adds up in a hurry. And customers are eating food for which they have not paid!
As for us, the “one grape,” becomes something bigger, and soon we think nothing of taking office supplies from work that are not ours, or stealing road signs to make a cool display in our room, or making excuses to our teachers/coaches/parents/bosses about why we were late or why we want the day off from work or a certain event. “One grape” can become a huge deal… and the cost can be incredibly high – not for us in a monetary way, maybe – but in the eyes of God.
Psalm 101:7 says that no one who cheats or lies will have a position in the royal court. In other words, God doesn’t have the time or energy for liars and cheats. Yes, He is loving and forgiving… but do you really want to anger Him or challenge His authority? He has spoken… and the rule is, NO STEALING, CHEATING or LYING… not even a grape! Are you paying attention?
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for October 28, 2010
Proverbs 23:15-16
My children, if you show good sense, I will be happy, and if you are truthful, I will really be glad.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Watching a child master something you have taught him/her is incredibly rewarding. I remember countless times when I was teaching kindergarten and first grade students and a child would master a task or skill… learning to tie his/her shoes, being able to write his/her name legibly, counting to twenty or more, reading a passage in a book and understanding the meaning… so many accomplishments. Each one was a victory for the child… but also for me as I watched this child grow and develop with my guidance.
I related to someone recently how my husband and I have observed the little boy we sponsor through Compassion International go from drawing self-portraits that consisted of a circle with two big eyes and a smile and stick arms and legs protruding to intricately detailed drawings of himself, cars, buildings, and more… all in the span of four years. We can physically see the growth and development that is occurring in Kodjo, and we are proud of all he is accomplishing.
God takes the same kind of pride in seeing us grow… mentally, physically, and spiritually. And as we develop a deeper relationship with Him and truly start to “get it,” He is delighted. But the real joy comes when we begin to share His truths with others… and to genuinely walk in them and speak them.
It’s one thing to love God and want to serve Him, but it’s quite another to cultivate a deep, abiding relationship with Him… one where He is front and center, and the focus of your very being is to serve Him truthfully in everything you say and do. Imagine the joy you can experience, knowing that you are pleasing God. Envision His joy and pride in you, as you serve Him truthfully, with good sense!
This should be our goal as Christian disciples. Once we get to a point (or closer to it) where we operate totally from a desire to please God… to always use good sense and speak His truths… doors open, opportunities to serve Him even more appear, and blessings flow. Ask God to show you how you can cultivate a deeper relationship with Him. Ask Him to give you common sense and the wisdom to always speak His truths. He will be glad you asked… and so will you.
©2010 Debbie Robus
To learn more about Compassion, International - or to sponsor your own child - visit www.compassion.com.
My children, if you show good sense, I will be happy, and if you are truthful, I will really be glad.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Watching a child master something you have taught him/her is incredibly rewarding. I remember countless times when I was teaching kindergarten and first grade students and a child would master a task or skill… learning to tie his/her shoes, being able to write his/her name legibly, counting to twenty or more, reading a passage in a book and understanding the meaning… so many accomplishments. Each one was a victory for the child… but also for me as I watched this child grow and develop with my guidance.
I related to someone recently how my husband and I have observed the little boy we sponsor through Compassion International go from drawing self-portraits that consisted of a circle with two big eyes and a smile and stick arms and legs protruding to intricately detailed drawings of himself, cars, buildings, and more… all in the span of four years. We can physically see the growth and development that is occurring in Kodjo, and we are proud of all he is accomplishing.
God takes the same kind of pride in seeing us grow… mentally, physically, and spiritually. And as we develop a deeper relationship with Him and truly start to “get it,” He is delighted. But the real joy comes when we begin to share His truths with others… and to genuinely walk in them and speak them.
It’s one thing to love God and want to serve Him, but it’s quite another to cultivate a deep, abiding relationship with Him… one where He is front and center, and the focus of your very being is to serve Him truthfully in everything you say and do. Imagine the joy you can experience, knowing that you are pleasing God. Envision His joy and pride in you, as you serve Him truthfully, with good sense!
This should be our goal as Christian disciples. Once we get to a point (or closer to it) where we operate totally from a desire to please God… to always use good sense and speak His truths… doors open, opportunities to serve Him even more appear, and blessings flow. Ask God to show you how you can cultivate a deeper relationship with Him. Ask Him to give you common sense and the wisdom to always speak His truths. He will be glad you asked… and so will you.
©2010 Debbie Robus
To learn more about Compassion, International - or to sponsor your own child - visit www.compassion.com.
Daily Devotional for October 20, 2010
Proverbs 17:28
Even fools seem smart when they are quiet.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
How many times have you assumed you knew what someone else was thinking because that person didn’t say anything to give you another impression? Here’s an example… you are standing with a group of people, and one of them expresses a social opinion about a particular religious group. Many in the crowd speak up and agree with the comments, but a couple of people don’t say a word. How many people in the group do you suppose will assume that those who didn’t speak up are in agreement with what was said?
See, it’s not just what you say and how you say it. As this scripture points out, even foolish people can seem smart when they are not saying anything. Haven’t you ever heard someone say, “I thought Joe was really smart until he opened his mouth!”? We often make assumptions about a person based on their environment, their education level, social status, and more. But unless they communicate with us and express their thoughts and feelings, we can’t be certain of anything.
Why am I sharing this scripture? What importance does it have for us today? I believe that a lot of people are operating heavily in the realm of assumption. If you stand silent while others berate people of other races, religions, lifestyle choices and more, many will assume you endorse these opinions. I’m not saying you have to go on a verbal attack or start participating in public protests. But quite often, we feel like we simply don’t want to get involved… and by default, that’s exactly what we do.
Additionally, if we are silent about our faith, we not only waste opportunities to honor and serve Christ… we pretty well deny our own walk with Him. Not standing up - or speaking up - for the teachings of Jesus… failing to act and speak in a way that conveys our dependence upon the love, grace and mercy of the Holy Spirit and how He works in our lives… is as foolish as the actions and words of a person who says something ridiculous – or downright stupid.
The Christian life is a delicate balance. We must ask God to continually guide our thoughts, words, and deeds. But I would rather open my mouth and stand up for the teachings of my Lord and Savior – and risk seeming foolish – than to stand silent and have others assume I agree with something that denies my faith. I would rather stand up for the values I cherish and risk being ostracized or ridiculed than to remain silent and have those who think differently decide I agree with their opinions. The “delicate balance” comes in how I express my views. I must always remember to behave and speak in a manner that honors God and respects my relationship with Him.
Talk with God and ask Him to show you how and when to speak… and to give you the words and actions that honor your relationship with Him. And the next time you are with someone who remains visibly silent on an issue, do not assume you know what he/she is thinking or feeling. Silence can be a result of great wisdom – or Spiritual foolishness. Make sure you are listening to God as you choose your opportunities to speak up for Him … and the times when your silence is appropriate.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Even fools seem smart when they are quiet.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
How many times have you assumed you knew what someone else was thinking because that person didn’t say anything to give you another impression? Here’s an example… you are standing with a group of people, and one of them expresses a social opinion about a particular religious group. Many in the crowd speak up and agree with the comments, but a couple of people don’t say a word. How many people in the group do you suppose will assume that those who didn’t speak up are in agreement with what was said?
See, it’s not just what you say and how you say it. As this scripture points out, even foolish people can seem smart when they are not saying anything. Haven’t you ever heard someone say, “I thought Joe was really smart until he opened his mouth!”? We often make assumptions about a person based on their environment, their education level, social status, and more. But unless they communicate with us and express their thoughts and feelings, we can’t be certain of anything.
Why am I sharing this scripture? What importance does it have for us today? I believe that a lot of people are operating heavily in the realm of assumption. If you stand silent while others berate people of other races, religions, lifestyle choices and more, many will assume you endorse these opinions. I’m not saying you have to go on a verbal attack or start participating in public protests. But quite often, we feel like we simply don’t want to get involved… and by default, that’s exactly what we do.
Additionally, if we are silent about our faith, we not only waste opportunities to honor and serve Christ… we pretty well deny our own walk with Him. Not standing up - or speaking up - for the teachings of Jesus… failing to act and speak in a way that conveys our dependence upon the love, grace and mercy of the Holy Spirit and how He works in our lives… is as foolish as the actions and words of a person who says something ridiculous – or downright stupid.
The Christian life is a delicate balance. We must ask God to continually guide our thoughts, words, and deeds. But I would rather open my mouth and stand up for the teachings of my Lord and Savior – and risk seeming foolish – than to stand silent and have others assume I agree with something that denies my faith. I would rather stand up for the values I cherish and risk being ostracized or ridiculed than to remain silent and have those who think differently decide I agree with their opinions. The “delicate balance” comes in how I express my views. I must always remember to behave and speak in a manner that honors God and respects my relationship with Him.
Talk with God and ask Him to show you how and when to speak… and to give you the words and actions that honor your relationship with Him. And the next time you are with someone who remains visibly silent on an issue, do not assume you know what he/she is thinking or feeling. Silence can be a result of great wisdom – or Spiritual foolishness. Make sure you are listening to God as you choose your opportunities to speak up for Him … and the times when your silence is appropriate.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for October 16, 2010
Proverbs 15:28
Good people think before they answer, but the wicked speak evil without ever thinking.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I watched an episode of The View recently where one of the guests was a television commentator who has written a new book. I won’t name him here, because I don’t feel he deserves further recognition. I will preface my comments by saying that I understand that controversial talk show guests sell books and boost ratings. But this man made such vile statements about certain people in relation to the events of 9.11 that two of the hosts of The View – Joy Behar and Whoopi Goldberg – stood and left the studio in protest. While they may have used language and behavior that was less than stellar themselves, their visible protest to the wicked statements of this man were the only recourse they felt possible at the moment.
Aside from the fact that what the man said was wrong – and he did somewhat apologize and rephrase his remarks – the basic intent of his statements was evil. This man didn’t necessarily think about what he was saying … at least I hope he didn’t. He didn’t give his answer to the interviewers’ questions any thought … he just spouted off an opinion and comments he thought would be popular among the viewers – or generate controversy. His comments were designed to sell books and promote his own agenda.
Do you know people who do this? Do you know people who make outlandish statements, and when called on them, defend them with comments like, “Well, it’s true,” (whether they know it is or not) or “That’s what I heard!” It’s sort of like the crazy things that are printed on those tabloids sold in the supermarket check-out aisles. You know those claims are ridiculous. You know that those words are designed to sell the rags on which they are printed. You know that the claims are hurtful, absurd, and downright evil. But people still buy these publications – and buy into the lies they contain.
We’re seeing a lot of this in e-mails about the state of our country, politics and politicians, and personal lifestyle choices. We’re hearing a lot of this on those “comedy” shows on cable television. Sadly, we’ve elevated some of those “comedians” to the status of “expert analyst” and begun to actually listen to their opinions. And worse yet, we’re learning from them in many cases – and beginning to speak without thinking, just as they do.
It’s time for us to “get a grip” – on the hand of Jesus. It’s time for us to firmly root ourselves in the word of God and time spent in His presence … to ask for wisdom, discernment, patience and a protective cover over our mouths as we speak. We need to ask God to protect us from the wicked speech and evil thinking of others as Satan attempts to permeate our mind and our heart with it. We should be busy every day asking God to fill us with His love, grace, mercy, kindness, and peace … and to control our every thought and word accordingly.
Quite frankly, more of us need to stand and walk out of the room (albeit quietly and without profanity) when we are confronted with the evil speech of others. At best, we should become confident in the presence of the Holy Spirit in our hearts and lovingly let the person speaking know that we do not agree. I have had to say to others, “I do not agree with you on this,” or “We will have to agree to disagree on this subject and talk about something else.” We do not have to tolerate evil or wicked speech in our presence, but we cannot descend to the level of such talk in an effort to confront it.
Ask God to guide your thoughts and your speech. Ask Him to send the Holy Spirit to fill your heart, guide and protect you as you go about your day. And pray for those who speak evil without thinking. Ask God to change their hearts and minds, to fill them with His presence and goodness … and to give each of us loving, positive thoughts and words to share with others.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Good people think before they answer, but the wicked speak evil without ever thinking.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I watched an episode of The View recently where one of the guests was a television commentator who has written a new book. I won’t name him here, because I don’t feel he deserves further recognition. I will preface my comments by saying that I understand that controversial talk show guests sell books and boost ratings. But this man made such vile statements about certain people in relation to the events of 9.11 that two of the hosts of The View – Joy Behar and Whoopi Goldberg – stood and left the studio in protest. While they may have used language and behavior that was less than stellar themselves, their visible protest to the wicked statements of this man were the only recourse they felt possible at the moment.
Aside from the fact that what the man said was wrong – and he did somewhat apologize and rephrase his remarks – the basic intent of his statements was evil. This man didn’t necessarily think about what he was saying … at least I hope he didn’t. He didn’t give his answer to the interviewers’ questions any thought … he just spouted off an opinion and comments he thought would be popular among the viewers – or generate controversy. His comments were designed to sell books and promote his own agenda.
Do you know people who do this? Do you know people who make outlandish statements, and when called on them, defend them with comments like, “Well, it’s true,” (whether they know it is or not) or “That’s what I heard!” It’s sort of like the crazy things that are printed on those tabloids sold in the supermarket check-out aisles. You know those claims are ridiculous. You know that those words are designed to sell the rags on which they are printed. You know that the claims are hurtful, absurd, and downright evil. But people still buy these publications – and buy into the lies they contain.
We’re seeing a lot of this in e-mails about the state of our country, politics and politicians, and personal lifestyle choices. We’re hearing a lot of this on those “comedy” shows on cable television. Sadly, we’ve elevated some of those “comedians” to the status of “expert analyst” and begun to actually listen to their opinions. And worse yet, we’re learning from them in many cases – and beginning to speak without thinking, just as they do.
It’s time for us to “get a grip” – on the hand of Jesus. It’s time for us to firmly root ourselves in the word of God and time spent in His presence … to ask for wisdom, discernment, patience and a protective cover over our mouths as we speak. We need to ask God to protect us from the wicked speech and evil thinking of others as Satan attempts to permeate our mind and our heart with it. We should be busy every day asking God to fill us with His love, grace, mercy, kindness, and peace … and to control our every thought and word accordingly.
Quite frankly, more of us need to stand and walk out of the room (albeit quietly and without profanity) when we are confronted with the evil speech of others. At best, we should become confident in the presence of the Holy Spirit in our hearts and lovingly let the person speaking know that we do not agree. I have had to say to others, “I do not agree with you on this,” or “We will have to agree to disagree on this subject and talk about something else.” We do not have to tolerate evil or wicked speech in our presence, but we cannot descend to the level of such talk in an effort to confront it.
Ask God to guide your thoughts and your speech. Ask Him to send the Holy Spirit to fill your heart, guide and protect you as you go about your day. And pray for those who speak evil without thinking. Ask God to change their hearts and minds, to fill them with His presence and goodness … and to give each of us loving, positive thoughts and words to share with others.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for October 15, 2010
Psalm 141:3
Help me to guard my words whenever I say something.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Every single one of us has said something we regret. Some of us make a career out of doing this. This doesn’t necessarily make us bad people … but it does reflect on our character – and our maturity. “But I know people in their 80’s and 90’s who are continually speaking their mind and saying hurtful things,” you may say. So do I … but age is no excuse for misbehaving!
The maturity of which I speak is not the kind that comes with age or experience. I am speaking of a maturity and character that comes from spending time in the presence of God. I can tell you from personal experience that the closer I get to God, the easier it becomes for me to check my words before I speak them. This doesn’t mean I never say things I shouldn’t … or speak without thinking. But I can say that I do this far less often than I once did.
More than once I have opened my mouth to say something to someone and stopped short. I’m still a work in progress, but I’m learning that often what I am about to say is not something I should be saying … or telling … or discussing. I’m learning that sometimes I need to re-evaluate the words I am about to speak and figure out a better way to say it – or keep it to myself. And again, I am a work in progress!
We cannot do this on our own. God may use our personal experiences and time to direct us in this area. But truly, the only way to guard your mouth and the words you speak is to stay close to God … to vocally seek His help with this … to study the scriptures and learn how to call on the Holy Spirit at all times as you go about your daily living.
This is a wonderful scripture to commit to memory … and committing to keeping it could have amazing results – for yourself and everyone you encounter. Imagine if we all began to guard our words more closely. Even better, imagine if GOD were guarding our words and helping us choose them. Are you willing to give this a try? Let’s do this together and see where God takes us. Let’s expect great things and give Him praise when He delivers. I’m in … are you?
©2010 Debbie Robus
Help me to guard my words whenever I say something.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Every single one of us has said something we regret. Some of us make a career out of doing this. This doesn’t necessarily make us bad people … but it does reflect on our character – and our maturity. “But I know people in their 80’s and 90’s who are continually speaking their mind and saying hurtful things,” you may say. So do I … but age is no excuse for misbehaving!
The maturity of which I speak is not the kind that comes with age or experience. I am speaking of a maturity and character that comes from spending time in the presence of God. I can tell you from personal experience that the closer I get to God, the easier it becomes for me to check my words before I speak them. This doesn’t mean I never say things I shouldn’t … or speak without thinking. But I can say that I do this far less often than I once did.
More than once I have opened my mouth to say something to someone and stopped short. I’m still a work in progress, but I’m learning that often what I am about to say is not something I should be saying … or telling … or discussing. I’m learning that sometimes I need to re-evaluate the words I am about to speak and figure out a better way to say it – or keep it to myself. And again, I am a work in progress!
We cannot do this on our own. God may use our personal experiences and time to direct us in this area. But truly, the only way to guard your mouth and the words you speak is to stay close to God … to vocally seek His help with this … to study the scriptures and learn how to call on the Holy Spirit at all times as you go about your daily living.
This is a wonderful scripture to commit to memory … and committing to keeping it could have amazing results – for yourself and everyone you encounter. Imagine if we all began to guard our words more closely. Even better, imagine if GOD were guarding our words and helping us choose them. Are you willing to give this a try? Let’s do this together and see where God takes us. Let’s expect great things and give Him praise when He delivers. I’m in … are you?
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for October 10, 2010
Proverbs 15:2
Knowledge flows like spring water from the wise; fools are leaky faucets, dripping nonsense.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Years ago, an elderly cousin took my mother, my sister and me to a place located just northeast of Wilburn where my great-grandmother and her family lived when she was a child. The home was near a wet-weather spring that my cousin called “Slate Springs.” He had been there earlier in the morning and dug back leaves and debris in the creek to reveal a slab of slate in a creek bed where the water bubbled forth, clean and clear. According to this cousin, my great-grandmother’s family lived in a house up on the hill above this spring and hiked down to collect water for their daily use. Why they lived so far from the spring itself is a mystery … the climb back to the house with a heavy pail of water must have been exhausting.
Equally mysterious and intriguing to me is how the water bubbles forth from the ground as a spring. I know in scientific terms what causes this, but I am still in awe of the process, the force, and the result. On the other hand, there is no mystery about the frustration and aggravation of a dripping, leaky faucet! So when you think of knowledge and the words of a wise person as like a spring of clear, clean water versus the talk of a foolish person resembling the irritation of a leaky dripping faucet, you get the picture, don’t you?
For my great-grandmother and her family, the spring represented life. It provided the water they needed for everyday living. And the words of someone who speaks prayerfully and carefully add much to life, as well. On the other hand, those who speak without thinking or say unkind, irritating things… those who drone on incessantly without saying anything of substance or merit … are like the nagging faucet drip.
Which one represents you these days? Do you think before you speak? Do you offer encouraging, positive, hope-filled messages to others that convey your faith in Jesus and your joy in His salvation? Or do you rant and rave, criticize and gossip, speak unkindly and use unsavory language – and irritate the dickens out of everyone you meet?
The next time you speak, think of the spring and the faucet. Choose your words carefully … choose knowledge and wisdom over nonsense. Choose the bubbling spring over the dripping faucet, and bless others rather than irritate them. You will honor God in the bargain … and that is the biggest blessing of all!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Knowledge flows like spring water from the wise; fools are leaky faucets, dripping nonsense.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Years ago, an elderly cousin took my mother, my sister and me to a place located just northeast of Wilburn where my great-grandmother and her family lived when she was a child. The home was near a wet-weather spring that my cousin called “Slate Springs.” He had been there earlier in the morning and dug back leaves and debris in the creek to reveal a slab of slate in a creek bed where the water bubbled forth, clean and clear. According to this cousin, my great-grandmother’s family lived in a house up on the hill above this spring and hiked down to collect water for their daily use. Why they lived so far from the spring itself is a mystery … the climb back to the house with a heavy pail of water must have been exhausting.
Equally mysterious and intriguing to me is how the water bubbles forth from the ground as a spring. I know in scientific terms what causes this, but I am still in awe of the process, the force, and the result. On the other hand, there is no mystery about the frustration and aggravation of a dripping, leaky faucet! So when you think of knowledge and the words of a wise person as like a spring of clear, clean water versus the talk of a foolish person resembling the irritation of a leaky dripping faucet, you get the picture, don’t you?
For my great-grandmother and her family, the spring represented life. It provided the water they needed for everyday living. And the words of someone who speaks prayerfully and carefully add much to life, as well. On the other hand, those who speak without thinking or say unkind, irritating things… those who drone on incessantly without saying anything of substance or merit … are like the nagging faucet drip.
Which one represents you these days? Do you think before you speak? Do you offer encouraging, positive, hope-filled messages to others that convey your faith in Jesus and your joy in His salvation? Or do you rant and rave, criticize and gossip, speak unkindly and use unsavory language – and irritate the dickens out of everyone you meet?
The next time you speak, think of the spring and the faucet. Choose your words carefully … choose knowledge and wisdom over nonsense. Choose the bubbling spring over the dripping faucet, and bless others rather than irritate them. You will honor God in the bargain … and that is the biggest blessing of all!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for October 6, 2010
Exodus 20:16
Do not tell lies about others.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
The other day, my grandmother was mad at me, and she told me that her “Meals on Wheels” didn’t ever contain cornbread. She said, “They never send cornbread.” I told her that was interesting, because I’ve gone with my husband several times to deliver the meals, and I’m pretty sure I’ve seen cornbread on the trays. “Well,” she backed up, “they don’t send any that’s fit to eat!”
This reminds me of the time our great-nephew filled his aunt’s garden tub full of hot water and then claimed he didn’t know how it happened, saying, “I didn’t touch the hot water … just the cold!”
In both of these cases, I can’t truly say that my grandmother and our little great-nephew were telling lies. But both were certainly stretching the truth! And that’s what we tend to do over and over again. The trouble is … we blur the lines, and before we know it, lying comes quite easy for some of us. Or, we are so driven to succeed – or accomplish/acquire something – that we will go to any lengths to get it … even telling lies about others.
My grandmother will soon be 98. Our great-nephew was about four when he filled the tub. While both stretched the truth, they do have age as a bit of an excuse … one older and desperate to maintain an independent lifestyle, and the other too young to fully know better – although he knew enough to try to explain how the water got into the tub! But we know better! If we don’t realize what we are doing at the time and how we are essentially lying, we’re fooling ourselves.
Lies about anything – particularly other people – help no one. They have the potential to hurt a lot of people. Do not tell lies about others – or lie about anything. Be honest, straightforward, morally upright, and pleasing to God. This is not a license to be cruel or unkind to others in an effort to tell the truth. If someone is dressed unattractively, you don’t have to tell them how bad they look. But if they ask if they look okay, you need to find a kind, tactful way to tell the truth.
If you back into something with your vehicle, don’t pretend you have no clue how the dent got in your car fender. If your friends are participating in activities that are illegal or immoral, don’t give them the idea you are okay with it when you aren’t – or worse yet, cover for them with authorities and others. Don’t try to build yourself up by telling lies and cutting down others. Don’t lie for your boss, your job, your spouse, your friends, or even your parents!
One more thing… those who become known for telling lies and/or stretching the truth develop a reputation for being unreliable. Don’t you know people for whom it’s said, “You can’t believe a thing he/she says!”? You do not want to become one of these people!
Tell the truth … always. This may not make you the most popular person in the world, but it will garner you top billing with God. He wants honest servants who don’t tell lies – or even stretch the truth. He will guide you and protect you in your honesty, and He will show you how to speak the truth with tact and kindness. God will bless those known for their honesty and make them men and women of character and sound reputation. Be one of these people. Honor your faith and your relationship with God by telling the truth … and never anything less.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Do not tell lies about others.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
The other day, my grandmother was mad at me, and she told me that her “Meals on Wheels” didn’t ever contain cornbread. She said, “They never send cornbread.” I told her that was interesting, because I’ve gone with my husband several times to deliver the meals, and I’m pretty sure I’ve seen cornbread on the trays. “Well,” she backed up, “they don’t send any that’s fit to eat!”
This reminds me of the time our great-nephew filled his aunt’s garden tub full of hot water and then claimed he didn’t know how it happened, saying, “I didn’t touch the hot water … just the cold!”
In both of these cases, I can’t truly say that my grandmother and our little great-nephew were telling lies. But both were certainly stretching the truth! And that’s what we tend to do over and over again. The trouble is … we blur the lines, and before we know it, lying comes quite easy for some of us. Or, we are so driven to succeed – or accomplish/acquire something – that we will go to any lengths to get it … even telling lies about others.
My grandmother will soon be 98. Our great-nephew was about four when he filled the tub. While both stretched the truth, they do have age as a bit of an excuse … one older and desperate to maintain an independent lifestyle, and the other too young to fully know better – although he knew enough to try to explain how the water got into the tub! But we know better! If we don’t realize what we are doing at the time and how we are essentially lying, we’re fooling ourselves.
Lies about anything – particularly other people – help no one. They have the potential to hurt a lot of people. Do not tell lies about others – or lie about anything. Be honest, straightforward, morally upright, and pleasing to God. This is not a license to be cruel or unkind to others in an effort to tell the truth. If someone is dressed unattractively, you don’t have to tell them how bad they look. But if they ask if they look okay, you need to find a kind, tactful way to tell the truth.
If you back into something with your vehicle, don’t pretend you have no clue how the dent got in your car fender. If your friends are participating in activities that are illegal or immoral, don’t give them the idea you are okay with it when you aren’t – or worse yet, cover for them with authorities and others. Don’t try to build yourself up by telling lies and cutting down others. Don’t lie for your boss, your job, your spouse, your friends, or even your parents!
One more thing… those who become known for telling lies and/or stretching the truth develop a reputation for being unreliable. Don’t you know people for whom it’s said, “You can’t believe a thing he/she says!”? You do not want to become one of these people!
Tell the truth … always. This may not make you the most popular person in the world, but it will garner you top billing with God. He wants honest servants who don’t tell lies – or even stretch the truth. He will guide you and protect you in your honesty, and He will show you how to speak the truth with tact and kindness. God will bless those known for their honesty and make them men and women of character and sound reputation. Be one of these people. Honor your faith and your relationship with God by telling the truth … and never anything less.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for September 27, 2010
1 Peter 3:10
Summing up: Be agreeable, be sympathetic, be loving, be compassionate, be humble. That goes for all of you, no exceptions. No retaliation. No sharp-tongued sarcasm. Instead, bless - that's your job, to bless. You'll be a blessing and also get a blessing.
Whoever wants to embrace life and see the day fill up with good,
Here's what you do: Say nothing evil or hurtful;
Snub evil and cultivate good; run after peace for all you're worth.
God looks on all this with approval, listening and responding well to what he's asked; But he turns his back on those who do evil things.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Do you know someone who seems to enjoy constantly stirring up trouble? This person never seems to have anything kind or positive to say – about anything or anyone. And their “frankness” is often hurtful to those on the receiving end.
We’ve really gotten to a point as a culture where we run fast and loose with our criticism and sarcasm. From late night talk show hosts to the “fashion show” critics to, most certainly, the political analysts and commentators, everything seems to be “fair game.” Even the “judges” on the reality shows like “America’s Got Talent” and the sports commentators have come to feel they have a license to say whatever they think – or to try to be cute and witty – all at someone else’s expense.
We get so caught up in this that we don’t even realize when we start to blur the lines between truth and fiction. It’s much like the elderly people who tell others, “my kids never visit me,” when in fact, the person to whom they are speaking met the senior’s children in the doorway. At least these folks have old age and the onset of dementia for excuses! But we don’t have any excuse. Saying things that are unkind, cutting, sarcastic, and downright untrue at times – or constantly griping, grumbling and being disagreeable – does not please God.
I love the first lines of this passage and feel they bear repeating… “Be agreeable, be sympathetic, be loving, be compassionate, be humble. That goes for all of you, no exceptions. No retaliation. No sharp-tongued sarcasm. Instead, bless - that's your job, to bless. You'll be a blessing and also get a blessing.
Don’t you want to be a blessing? Don’t you want to get a blessing? Then start today to bless – let all of the junk go by the wayside and focus on running after peace, cultivating good, and snubbing evil. You’ll be amazed as you watch your days “fill up with good” … and you will bask in the approving response of our loving God.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Summing up: Be agreeable, be sympathetic, be loving, be compassionate, be humble. That goes for all of you, no exceptions. No retaliation. No sharp-tongued sarcasm. Instead, bless - that's your job, to bless. You'll be a blessing and also get a blessing.
Whoever wants to embrace life and see the day fill up with good,
Here's what you do: Say nothing evil or hurtful;
Snub evil and cultivate good; run after peace for all you're worth.
God looks on all this with approval, listening and responding well to what he's asked; But he turns his back on those who do evil things.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Do you know someone who seems to enjoy constantly stirring up trouble? This person never seems to have anything kind or positive to say – about anything or anyone. And their “frankness” is often hurtful to those on the receiving end.
We’ve really gotten to a point as a culture where we run fast and loose with our criticism and sarcasm. From late night talk show hosts to the “fashion show” critics to, most certainly, the political analysts and commentators, everything seems to be “fair game.” Even the “judges” on the reality shows like “America’s Got Talent” and the sports commentators have come to feel they have a license to say whatever they think – or to try to be cute and witty – all at someone else’s expense.
We get so caught up in this that we don’t even realize when we start to blur the lines between truth and fiction. It’s much like the elderly people who tell others, “my kids never visit me,” when in fact, the person to whom they are speaking met the senior’s children in the doorway. At least these folks have old age and the onset of dementia for excuses! But we don’t have any excuse. Saying things that are unkind, cutting, sarcastic, and downright untrue at times – or constantly griping, grumbling and being disagreeable – does not please God.
I love the first lines of this passage and feel they bear repeating… “Be agreeable, be sympathetic, be loving, be compassionate, be humble. That goes for all of you, no exceptions. No retaliation. No sharp-tongued sarcasm. Instead, bless - that's your job, to bless. You'll be a blessing and also get a blessing.
Don’t you want to be a blessing? Don’t you want to get a blessing? Then start today to bless – let all of the junk go by the wayside and focus on running after peace, cultivating good, and snubbing evil. You’ll be amazed as you watch your days “fill up with good” … and you will bask in the approving response of our loving God.
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for September 24, 2010
Proverbs 13:3
Keep what you know to yourself, and you will be safe; talk too much, and you are done for.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I’ve had to shake my head at some of the posts on Facebook, particularly from teens and young adults. “Joe 123 is in a relationship,” followed a few days later by “Joe 123 is single.” Or “Sue ABC is ‘it’s complicated.’” We’ve had some fun with a few folks who have been married for years but never filled out their personal profile info until lately, and then all of a sudden, “Jim XYZ is married!” Old news … Jim has been married for 30 years!
The thing is … Facebook, Twitter, and other social media outlets have become tremendous vehicles for gossip. There is so much room for interpretation – or mis-interpretation. There is room for things to become twisted and distorted in epic proportions. And more than ever, there is room for misunderstanding and misery. We’ve all come to understand TMI – too much information – and there truly is plenty to go around.
So our lesson for today is to put a lid on it! If more people were less eager to announce that they were in a relationship after the first glance, the relationship might have a chance to actually develop into something that could last! If we didn’t share all of our deepest thoughts and information with every “friend” we have, we might have smoother sailing in life. People love to talk, so the “friend who would never tell,” very well may tell another “friend who would never tell.” Do you see what I mean?
Think about what you are saying and sharing - everywhere - not just on social media networks. If you wouldn’t feel comfortable knowing someone was standing up in a crowded room and telling everyone what you are about to say, then don’t share it with even your “closest friends.” If there is even a remote chance that what you are saying about someone could get back to them, you had better be 100% sure they would be okay with it. The better policy is to never repeat personal information or “news” to others. And while you are at it, think about what you are posting on Facebook, Twitter and other social media outlets. If you couldn’t tell the same things to your grandmother in person, they probably are not suitable for posting!
God wants us to be good stewards of our mouths. He wants us to spend time sharing His love, grace, mercy and Good News … not the latest gossip or unkind talk and opinions. Before we speak, let’s stop, take a breath … maybe even try the sentence out in our heads … and then ask ourselves if what we are about to say would be pleasing to God. This should determine how we proceed. It’s a tough order, but to do otherwise could have serious consequences. Keep what you know to yourself … please God … and preserve your reputation and your conscience!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Keep what you know to yourself, and you will be safe; talk too much, and you are done for.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I’ve had to shake my head at some of the posts on Facebook, particularly from teens and young adults. “Joe 123 is in a relationship,” followed a few days later by “Joe 123 is single.” Or “Sue ABC is ‘it’s complicated.’” We’ve had some fun with a few folks who have been married for years but never filled out their personal profile info until lately, and then all of a sudden, “Jim XYZ is married!” Old news … Jim has been married for 30 years!
The thing is … Facebook, Twitter, and other social media outlets have become tremendous vehicles for gossip. There is so much room for interpretation – or mis-interpretation. There is room for things to become twisted and distorted in epic proportions. And more than ever, there is room for misunderstanding and misery. We’ve all come to understand TMI – too much information – and there truly is plenty to go around.
So our lesson for today is to put a lid on it! If more people were less eager to announce that they were in a relationship after the first glance, the relationship might have a chance to actually develop into something that could last! If we didn’t share all of our deepest thoughts and information with every “friend” we have, we might have smoother sailing in life. People love to talk, so the “friend who would never tell,” very well may tell another “friend who would never tell.” Do you see what I mean?
Think about what you are saying and sharing - everywhere - not just on social media networks. If you wouldn’t feel comfortable knowing someone was standing up in a crowded room and telling everyone what you are about to say, then don’t share it with even your “closest friends.” If there is even a remote chance that what you are saying about someone could get back to them, you had better be 100% sure they would be okay with it. The better policy is to never repeat personal information or “news” to others. And while you are at it, think about what you are posting on Facebook, Twitter and other social media outlets. If you couldn’t tell the same things to your grandmother in person, they probably are not suitable for posting!
God wants us to be good stewards of our mouths. He wants us to spend time sharing His love, grace, mercy and Good News … not the latest gossip or unkind talk and opinions. Before we speak, let’s stop, take a breath … maybe even try the sentence out in our heads … and then ask ourselves if what we are about to say would be pleasing to God. This should determine how we proceed. It’s a tough order, but to do otherwise could have serious consequences. Keep what you know to yourself … please God … and preserve your reputation and your conscience!
©2010 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for September 23, 2010
Proverbs 10:11
The mouth of a good person is a deep, life-giving well, but the mouth of the wicked is a dark cave of abuse.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Hype. Dictionary.com defines hype as “exaggerated publicity; hoopla … an ingenious or questionable claim, method, etc., used in advertising, promotion, or publicity to intensify the effect … a swindle, deception, or trick.” We hear a lot these days about hype … and there’s a whole lot of hype about a whole lot of issues. Frankly, a lot of the hype is a mask for evil words of the wicked.
More and more in our society, we are bombarded through all kinds of media with outlandish claims and statements – hype - that sound just true enough to reel us in and catch us off guard. We’ve bought into everything from “reality TV” to tabloid journalism to political spin. And the lines between truth and fiction have become so blurry that often no one is sure of anything.
Hype about the Razorbacks and how good they are predicted to be this year may be one thing. Hype that is designed to scare us into believing one way or another about serious social and religious issues is totally different. We need to all take a deep breath, stop and think about what we are seeing and hearing, and ask ourselves if it lines up with the word of God. We need to surround ourselves with people who are level-headed, spend time in prayer and Bible study, and listen to our Heavenly Father … not the “spin doctors” on television and in the media or some of those who like to share letters and opinions in our local newspaper. We need to use our head … and check things out on websites like www.urbanlegends.com and www.snopes.com.
Be informed – do some digging and get to the heart of what people are saying. Choose your friends and your role models carefully. Ask God to give you discernment in all things, and remember that He does not operate in fear. Sadly, there are people who will invoke the Lord’s name as they spew untruths, and yes … evil poison. There are “Christians” who operate in fear and threats. Think of e-mails that say… “If you love Jesus, you will forward this e-mail” or even “Send this to six friends and get six blessings … nine friends and get nine blessings.” We can’t bargain with God for His favor!
On Facebook, I’m blessed to be “friends” with a young woman who posts frequent messages of hope and encouragement … prayer requests for those in need … uplifting scriptures, mentions of specific needs in our community, and praise for her church and the work God is doing there. I sometimes see posts from a few “friends” who want to spew hype … most of it negative. Sadly, some of them invoke their faith as they do so … and honestly, I have to hide them – or even block them completely. I’m learning that I cannot be surrounded by such thoughts and words. The more I remove the “hype” from my life and my heart, the more room I have for the life-giving words of God Almighty.
And that’s what it’s all about. We need plenty of room in our daily lives for the life-giving well of good words from good people. If you find that your life is getting cluttered with hype, it may be time for a good old-fashioned cleaning. Ask God to help you with this. Ask Him to surround you with good people who speak truthfully. Ask God to give you wisdom and discernment to sift through the hype and get to His truths. It’s time for us to all make a little extra room in our hearts for the good stuff!
©2010 Debbie Robus
The mouth of a good person is a deep, life-giving well, but the mouth of the wicked is a dark cave of abuse.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Hype. Dictionary.com defines hype as “exaggerated publicity; hoopla … an ingenious or questionable claim, method, etc., used in advertising, promotion, or publicity to intensify the effect … a swindle, deception, or trick.” We hear a lot these days about hype … and there’s a whole lot of hype about a whole lot of issues. Frankly, a lot of the hype is a mask for evil words of the wicked.
More and more in our society, we are bombarded through all kinds of media with outlandish claims and statements – hype - that sound just true enough to reel us in and catch us off guard. We’ve bought into everything from “reality TV” to tabloid journalism to political spin. And the lines between truth and fiction have become so blurry that often no one is sure of anything.
Hype about the Razorbacks and how good they are predicted to be this year may be one thing. Hype that is designed to scare us into believing one way or another about serious social and religious issues is totally different. We need to all take a deep breath, stop and think about what we are seeing and hearing, and ask ourselves if it lines up with the word of God. We need to surround ourselves with people who are level-headed, spend time in prayer and Bible study, and listen to our Heavenly Father … not the “spin doctors” on television and in the media or some of those who like to share letters and opinions in our local newspaper. We need to use our head … and check things out on websites like www.urbanlegends.com and www.snopes.com.
Be informed – do some digging and get to the heart of what people are saying. Choose your friends and your role models carefully. Ask God to give you discernment in all things, and remember that He does not operate in fear. Sadly, there are people who will invoke the Lord’s name as they spew untruths, and yes … evil poison. There are “Christians” who operate in fear and threats. Think of e-mails that say… “If you love Jesus, you will forward this e-mail” or even “Send this to six friends and get six blessings … nine friends and get nine blessings.” We can’t bargain with God for His favor!
On Facebook, I’m blessed to be “friends” with a young woman who posts frequent messages of hope and encouragement … prayer requests for those in need … uplifting scriptures, mentions of specific needs in our community, and praise for her church and the work God is doing there. I sometimes see posts from a few “friends” who want to spew hype … most of it negative. Sadly, some of them invoke their faith as they do so … and honestly, I have to hide them – or even block them completely. I’m learning that I cannot be surrounded by such thoughts and words. The more I remove the “hype” from my life and my heart, the more room I have for the life-giving words of God Almighty.
And that’s what it’s all about. We need plenty of room in our daily lives for the life-giving well of good words from good people. If you find that your life is getting cluttered with hype, it may be time for a good old-fashioned cleaning. Ask God to help you with this. Ask Him to surround you with good people who speak truthfully. Ask God to give you wisdom and discernment to sift through the hype and get to His truths. It’s time for us to all make a little extra room in our hearts for the good stuff!
©2010 Debbie Robus
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