Showing posts with label true Christian discipleship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label true Christian discipleship. Show all posts

Daily Devotional for December 17, 2016

Matthew 25:31-46
When the Son of Man comes in his glory with all of his angels, he will sit on his royal throne. The people of all nations will be brought before him, and he will separate them, as shepherds separate their sheep from their goats.

He will place the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. Then the king will say to those on his right, “My father has blessed you! Come and receive the kingdom that was prepared for you before the world was created. When I was hungry, you gave me something to eat, and when I was thirsty, you gave me something to drink. When I was a stranger, you welcomed me, and when I was naked, you gave me clothes to wear. When I was sick, you took care of me, and when I was in jail, you visited me.”

Then the ones who pleased the Lord will ask, “When did we give you something to eat or drink? When did we welcome you as a stranger or give you clothes to wear or visit you while you were sick or in jail?”

The king will answer, “Whenever you did it for any of my people, no matter how unimportant they seemed, you did it for me.”

Then the king will say to those on his left, “Get away from me! You are under God’s curse. Go into the everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels! I was hungry, but you did not give me anything to eat, and I was thirsty, but you did not give me anything to drink. I was a stranger, but you did not welcome me, and I was naked, but you did not give me any clothes to wear. I was sick and in jail, but you did not take care of me.”

Then the people will ask, “Lord, when did we fail to help you when you were hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in jail?”

The king will say to them, “Whenever you failed to help any of my people, no matter how unimportant they seemed, you failed to do it for me.”

Then Jesus said, “Those people will be punished forever. But the ones who pleased God will have eternal life.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I almost didn’t go to school to help in the kids’ classrooms yesterday.  I’ve been a little under the weather lately, and I almost “called in sick.”  But I woke early and felt pretty decent, so I dressed and headed for the school. Within 5 minutes of my arrival, I knew why I was there. A young mother approached me and began to thank me for the sympathy card and message I sent when her dad passed away recently.  She said my words were just what she needed to hear, and she had hoped to see me to thank me in person.

About 30 minutes later, I visited with a teacher whose mother was buried earlier in the week. I hugged her as she cried and asked, “Will it ever get better?”  I assured her that it would – in time…that it has been eleven months since my mother died, and I sometimes feel that I am still numb.  I also told her that God is shielding her now from more pain and sadness than she could otherwise bear, and He will continue to do this.  She squeezed me tightly and said, “You really do know how this feels.”

I don’t share these experiences for any other reason than to show you that “hunger” comes in many forms.  These two women needed a word of encouragement from someone who has “been there, done that”…and God apparently chose me.  I told one of them that when my own dad and brother died in a span of 13 months, I was struck by how many dear friends and loved ones said and did absolutely NOTHING to comfort us…and I vowed to never be that person for someone else.  God made a believer out of me in a profound way…and I am so glad He did!

I don’t know what God is calling you to do to minister to the hungry, thirsty, naked, sick or jailed.  I don’t know what strangers He will insert into your path to be shown His grace, mercy, forgiveness, kindness, hope and promise.  But I know that God WILL do this. We had best all be watching and listening for any and all opportunities to serve as the hands and feet of Jesus to everyone we encounter…whether they are a stranger or someone we know and love dearly.  And we need to begin today.  Are you paying attention?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 28, 2016

Matthew 5:43-47    
“You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves. This is what God does. He gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. If you simply say hello to those who greet you, do you expect a medal? Any run-of-the-mill sinner does that.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

I had to “unfollow” a few Facebook friends this week, because their posts became so vile and disgusting that I could no longer read them. And while I am not as faithful and obedient about this as I should be, I do pray for people who are spouting rhetoric that is confusing at best…and downright appalling and demeaning in many cases. I ask God to bring truth to the forefront, to rebuke those who are spreading hateful rumors and ideologies, and to heal the hearts of those who have made such toxic thoughts their stock in trade.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve been on the receiving end of untruths and unkind treatment. I know how much that hurts. I also know how difficult it can be to receive undeserved grace from someone I have offended or insulted in some way – even if unintentionally. If you are honest, you probably will agree that when we receive grace and kindness from someone we know we have mistreated or disrespected, we usually feel at least a tad embarrassed.  You’ve heard people say, “I wish you would just hit me and get it over with”…meaning that a physical punishment would be easier to stomach than having to accept the other person’s leniency and mercy.

What does this mean for us as Christians?  I think Jesus is pretty clear.  When someone insults us or offends us in some way, we are to swallow our pride, anger, and indignation…and “take the high road.”  We are to genuinely and sincerely pray for that person with a real desire for God to speak to this individual and heal his/her heart – but not in the sense of “LORD, You need to FIX him/her!” - or even out of a desire to make the other person feel badly.

We need to be gracious, tender, and “kill ‘em with kindness!”  And here’s why…this is exactly what God does for us, each and every day.  You and I continually insult and demean God.  We trample on Him in ways we can’t even count.  And He lovingly and graciously continues to care for us and meet our every need. This humbles me…because I know that most of the time, I don’t deserve such compassionate treatment.

If we want to be true servants, we have to do this for others.  If we want to be real disciples of Christ, we have to obey His commands – including this one!  As Jesus put it…we are either all in with Him…or we are just one more run-of-the-mill sinner.  I know which “camp” I want to be in…what about you?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for September 26, 2016

Luke 3:12-14
When tax collectors came to be baptized, they asked John, “Teacher, what should we do?”

John told them, “Don’t make people pay more than they owe.”

Some soldiers asked him, “And what about us? What do we have to do?”

John told them, “Don’t force people to pay money to make you leave them alone. Be satisfied with your pay.”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
The children in Timothy’s Sunday school class have been studying the book of James this month – in particular, James 1:22…”But be doers of the word, and not hearers only…”  We have talked each Sunday about how important it is to learn what God wants for us…and to put it into action.

So as we look at these verses from James 1 and Luke 3 - and think about our own lives - we may sometimes wonder, “How will we convince people that we have really changed?  What about the person who knew us ‘back in the day’…how will he/she ever believe that we are a new creature in Christ?  How can we be sure that others see Jesus in our everyday living?”

The answer lies in John’s response to the tax collectors and soldiers…demonstrate the love and teachings of Jesus in how you live – and how you treat others.  Be doers of the Word.  You have to go the extra mile, do the right thing, and conduct yourself in a manner that honors Jesus in all things.

Too many “Christians” accepted Jesus’ gift of salvation…then went right back to their old habits. They still gossip, discriminate, call people names, take bribes and overcharge. They gripe and complain about everything from their job to the weather.  Their circle of friends and the influences in their lives have not changed - and neither have their attitudes.  Most observers would be hard-pressed to say that any transformation has occurred in these people…that Jesus has really made any difference in their lives.

It is one thing to say, “I’ve given my heart to Jesus…but it is totally another to demonstrate this in our daily living.”  The tiniest details are what will make a real difference for God’s Kingdom. We can attend worship services on Sundays and participate in weekly Bible study groups…carry our Bibles…quote scripture…do “mission work” and listen to “Christian” music.

We can wear our crosses and drive cars with bumper stickers that say, “Honk if you love Jesus.” We can post those memes on social media about loving Jesus and believing in God. But none of this makes us a true Christian disciple.  If our attitude and even SOME of our actions do not line up with God’s word and will - and the teachings of Jesus – our “witness” is contaminated.

Examine your daily living – every thought, word and action.  See if what you are demonstrating represents true Christian discipleship – and glorifies Jesus. Make His teachings on attitudes and actions your daily habits. If second and third graders can learn to be “doers of the Word,” surely we adults can do the same. Are you with me?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for August 11, 2016

Galatians 5:13-15
My friends, you were chosen to be free. So don’t use your freedom as an excuse to do anything you want. Use it as an opportunity to serve each other with love. All that the Law says can be summed up in the command to love others as much as you love yourself. But if you keep attacking each other like wild animals, you had better watch out or you will destroy yourselves.
  
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

There is a sweet elderly man named Rayburn who works at our local Walmart. The other day I heard him tell a young family, “I’m 92 years old!”  I strongly suspect that Rayburn doesn’t have to work any longer.  Judging from his friendly demeanor toward shoppers, I’d say that Rayburn loves his job – and works because it makes him happy!

A lot of retirees continue to work at something. Don’t misunderstand…these folks have plenty of options.  They could literally do anything they want with their time, but many choose to give at least some of it back to others.  They volunteer at thrift stores, animal shelters, schools, libraries, historical museums, and more.  They deliver Meals on Wheels, work with youth groups, and care for grandchildren and other loved ones.  They serve in every capacity under the sun for their church and its missions and ministries.  And they do it all because they love others and want to pay forward the blessings they receive in life.

Each of us has a choice about how we spend our time.  Some of it is mandated…work, school, family obligations. But we have plenty of minutes in the day that are left to our own discretion. Some of us choose to spend them acting in love and kindness…demonstrating the teachings of Jesus to others.  Some of us spend them attacking others, criticizing, finding ways to tear down rather than build up, complaining, sharing unkind or untrue information with others…and in general, stirring up a mess of trouble!

Author and activist Eldridge Cleaver is attributed with the quote, “You either have to be part of the solution, or you're going to be part of the problem.”  This is a fairly good interpretation of what is stated in Galatians 5:15.  We have a choice.  We can spend our time loving others and building them up, or we can act selfishly and unlovingly toward each other…foster attacks on one another with our critical and judgmental words and actions…and ultimately cultivate an environment where hatred – and at least the potential for eventual destruction – are the end results.

Sadly, some of us are headed toward the latter scenario with lightning speed!  But we can turn it around.  I’m not saying that at 92, we still have to be pushing a janitorial cart at Walmart and greeting the public – or volunteering for anything else!  But we can look for opportunities every day to share the love and Good News of Jesus Christ with others. I know some wonderful seniors who are unable to get out of a chair, but they are some of the best and most fervent prayer warriors you will ever meet!

We can strive to be positive…to see the good in others and to promote it - even at the expense of our own recognition and/or appreciation. It is past time for us to recognize that life as a Christian is bigger than any single one of us! We are called to put Jesus – and others – ahead of ourselves…to love big…and to serve even bigger!  It may not always be fun – or easy – but there truly IS a great freedom in serving in this manner.

This is not something we can afford to ignore.  Are you ready to “hitch up your britches” and serve Jesus by serving others with love?  Will this be the day that you get started?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 4, 2016

Luke 14:33
“Simply put, if you’re not willing to take what is dearest to you, whether plans or people, and kiss it good-bye, you can’t be my disciple.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

“God has other plans.”  This is the phrase my mother uttered over and again, particularly in her last days.  I’ll be honest…as I have gone through things at my Mother’s house - and even sorted and “purged” my own closets and drawers – I’ve wondered…”What was the significance of this item?  Why was it saved and/or treasured?” Over the years, I have wondered what brings certain people together. The old saying that “opposites attract” seems to apply to many friendships and relationships where people on the fringe scratch their heads and wonder, “What does this person see in that one?”  And yet, the relationships are strong – and important to those involved.

So when it comes time to part with some of our prized possessions…or a “breakup” or “death” of some sort occurs between people or relationships (even a job or a move of some kind)…we are often left devastated.  We have attached so much personal significance to these things or people that we cannot imagine a life in which we could function without them.  And yet…this is exactly what Jesus calls us to do.

Understand that Jesus says you must be willing to give up what is dearest to you.  He doesn’t say you will be required to do so.  You may never be asked to sacrifice belongings or people in order to serve Jesus.  But you must be ready and willing to do so, all the same.  This is what separates us and signifies that we are Christ’s disciples…our willingness to forego everything and trust Him to make everything alright.

So if I am truly a disciple of Christ, I have to be able to say, “It’s okay that my parents and other loved ones are no longer alive on this earth.  I trust Jesus to fill in the gaps and comfort me.”  When God tells me that an association or relationship is toxic and I need to detach from the other parties, I have to trust that He will deal with these persons according to His will…and bring new relationships to fill my life and give me joy.  When I hear God saying, “You don’t need another pair of shoes…but a foster child in your town needs clothes,” I know that I must give up satisfying my selfish desire (and cluttering my closet) in favor of meeting someone else’s true need.

My mother had plans to travel…spend time with her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, friends and family members…write books and visit her beloved Branson “family”…nurture others, and more.  She had stacks of books she was reading or planned to read.  She planted tulip bulbs in the fall and anticipated their blooms in the spring.  She wrote of picking up her apron next Thanksgiving Day and cooking a family dinner once again.  And God had other plans. 

In this case, my mother could do little to change the fact that God was calling her to heaven…but she had a choice about how to react.  She could have gone kicking, screaming and complaining.  She could have told everyone how bitter and angry she was and encouraged us to be mad at God. Instead, she smiled over and over and said, “God has other plans.”  She encouraged us to stay faithful…to trust that God’s will is perfect…to accept that everything on this earth is temporary – both physical possessions and the people we know and love.

This is a daunting question…”Who and what would you be willing to sacrifice for Jesus?”  When we think about what Jesus sacrificed for us, this seems like a rather silly query.  When we consider what Jesus offers us in exchange for our “surrender,” it seems even more absurd.  So today, I suggest that we all spend some time thinking about our discipleship…our relationship to the One who has given us everything, including the promise of Eternal Life…and ask, “what – and who – are we willing to give up for Jesus?”  If/when God has other plans, are we ready to smile and accept them?  Isn’t it time we were?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for April 24, 2016

John 17:3
Eternal life is to know you, the only true God, and to know Jesus Christ, the one you sent.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

This morning, I subbed in the 2nd/3rd grade Sunday school class, and our scripture passage was from John 17.  I gave the children a recap of earlier chapters of John, where Jesus washed His disciples’ feet, broke bread and shared the cup with them, and then gave them instructions for how to live after He returned to heaven.  That brings us to John 17, where Jesus prayed.  He asked God to glorify Him, that He (Jesus) might fully glorify the Father who sent Him.  Jesus asked God to care for His believers…and then He prayed for non-believers.

This led to the next part of our discussion, which was about how well Jesus knows us…and how well we know Him!  We talked about how important it is to really know God through Jesus Christ…how necessary it is to talk to Him about everything – and to listen for His voice.  We discussed how critical it is that we demonstrate to others a positive Christian witness – and an abiding faith in God.

All of these things are direct indicators of how well we know God.  One child asked where God came from…and who made GOD!  I didn’t have a good answer for that…but I did stress to the students that what is important for us is that we believe that God is our Father, Shepherd, Protector, and LORD.  On the way home, I asked our three little ones what they learned at Sunday school, and Zola began to tell us all about God in these terms…and how important it is that we know Him. 

Timothy said, “Oh! I have known God since I was a little baby!”  We smiled at that, because he has always seemed to have an amazing faith and understanding of God.  But this is key for all of us.  To know God is to trust Him…to fully believe that He is our LORD, Protector, Shepherd, and Father…and to accept this with confidence – even when we cannot explain where God came from or who birthed Him into existence.  I know it’s confusing…and it’s REALLY hard for little kids to grasp…but they sometimes seem to accept this with faith and confidence that eludes many adults.

Today, let’s make sure we really know God…not in the same way that you know a good friend and his/her likes, dislikes, favorite foods and colors, and such.  Let’s make sure we know God in terms of how He cares for us…how He loved us enough to send Jesus to save us from our sins – and to send the Holy Spirit to remain with us.  Let’s know God in terms of who scriptures say He is, and how He protects us and guides us…forgives us when we fall short…heals and restores us…and gives us wisdom and comfort.  Let’s know God for His incredible gift of Jesus…and the sacrifices that He made on the cross for our sins. 

Let’s claim beyond the shadow of a doubt that there is only ONE GOD who could do all of this…only ONE LORD and Savior, Jesus Christ. Because we know this to be true - and demonstrate that we have a deep and abiding knowledge of God through Jesus - we are assured a seat at the Lord’s table for all Eternity.  Do YOU know God this well?  Isn’t it time you do?


©2016 Debbie Robus 

Daily Devotional for March 15, 2016

2 Corinthians 4:3-4
If our Message is obscure to anyone, it’s not because we’re holding back in any way. No, it’s because these other people are looking or going the wrong way and refuse to give it serious attention. All they have eyes for is the fashionable god of darkness. They think he can give them what they want, and that they won’t have to bother believing a Truth they can’t see. They’re stone-blind to the dayspring brightness of the Message that shines with Christ, who gives us the best picture of God we’ll ever get.

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

How many times have you been told that in order to lose weight – or even maintain your current body mass – you must take in fewer calories than you are burning.  Yet we continue to eat whatever tastes good – and put off exercising until tomorrow, next week, next year – or never!  And we wonder why our clothes appear to be shrinking!  We have convinced ourselves that it’s not us…it must be the clothes dryer!

This is how we often act with God. We’ve heard the Word of God…we know how He works. We understand on some level that God’s will for our lives is perfect and right – even when it doesn’t seem easy or go like we intended. We believe God when He says that He will answer our prayers (but we ignore the part about it happening when they fit within His parameters!).  We never fail to call on Him whenever we need something – anything!

But here’s the thing…we have “selective hearing” when it comes to God.  We pick and choose what to engage in and what to trust…and WE try to decide when it is important to follow God closely – and when it is okay to “bend the rules” a bit.  And others pick up on this. They see how we treat our relationship with God…and they pay very close attention to what we are doing.  “If it’s good enough for Joe or Kate…it’s surely okay for me, too,” they assume.  So we perpetuate the mistaken idea that it’s acceptable to design Christ’s message to suit our own desires and agendas.  Not only are we deluded in this thinking, but we misrepresent Jesus to others, as well…and give flawed witness to what it means to be His disciple.

We see this everywhere we look. People are loudly claiming the name of Jesus while acting like fools…misbehaving in ways that are both appalling – and sadly, somewhat mainstreamed.  We’ve let down our guard and become complacent…about everything from foul language to physically abusing people who don’t agree with us.  And it needs to stop.

We know better…it’s time to DO better! Just like we cannot keep eating whatever and whenever we want and fit into our clothes, we can’t “have it our way” and call ourselves honest and faithful disciples of Christ.  It’s time to open our eyes to the truths of Jesus – and the blessings that He offers to us when we genuinely follow Him.  I’m more than ready…what about you?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 26, 2016

Matthew 28:18-20
Jesus, undeterred, went right ahead and gave his charge: “God authorized and commanded me to commission you: Go out and train everyone you meet, far and near, in this way of life, marking them by baptism in the threefold name: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Then instruct them in the practice of all I have commanded you. I’ll be with you as you do this, day after day after day, right up to the end of the age.”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

When I was a child, the local Young Business Men’s Association (YBMC for short) held an annual Easter egg hunt in our city park.  There were several prize eggs hidden amongst the “real” ones…and these could garner the person who found them a live baby chick or a bunny rabbit to take home.  My sister, brother and I never got either one!

A year or so ago, my best friend (and former neighbor) and I were discussing this, and she was talking about how she always got a prize egg.  She said, “I can’t believe that my daddy didn’t make sure that at least one of you three went home with a prize egg.  He was a member of the YBMC…he would surely have made that happen!”  I told her I felt quite sure that my mother made sure that this didn’t happen…and when I asked her, she readily confirmed my suspicion!  Mother must have threatened our neighbor within an inch of his life if it even looked like one of us might pick up a prize egg and bring home a chick or bunny!

Another friend, J.R., related to me last year that because his family ran the local feed store, the chicks came to them prior to the egg hunt.  And somehow, one year, several ended up at his house.  It was cold, and J.R.’s grandmother took pity on the chicks, so she let them come inside…which was a royal disaster.  The chicks that survived were ultimately relocated to a farm on the outskirts of town, and J.R. and his brother, Larry, visited them there.

Here’s where I’m headed…it was one thing to win the prize egg and be awarded a chick or bunny…but there was work to be done afterward!  It didn’t end with the glory of the found treasure!  And the same can be said for our salvation and Eternal life in Christ!

I sometimes worry that people might think twice about following Jesus if they really understood just what true Christian discipleship entails!  And I don’t say this lightly or to imply that people should NOT give their hearts to Jesus. But we really do a poor job of nurturing new believers…and even some of those who have grown “long in the tooth” since their initial commitment to follow Christ.  We cannot claim the victory and “prize” and then fail to take care of the “reward,” which no doubt accounts for countless mothers and fathers scrambling to make sure that their children did not “win” a chick or bunny at the annual Easter egg hunt!

My point is this…NOTHING compares with becoming a true child of God by committing your heart to Jesus.  The most liberating and wonderful thing anyone can do is to confess his/her sins to Jesus and feel Him wash them all away with His own blood. The promise of spending Eternity in Jesus’ presence is the greatest gift we will ever receive.  But in exchange for all of this, God wants us to nurture His “Gift”…to grow in our faith and share the Good News with others.  He wants us to “feed the sheep” and tend to those in need…to share in the joys and triumphs, trials and sorrows of everyone we encounter.

Jesus could not have been plainer when He told us to go and make disciples of all nations.  And we have to start in our own back yards.  Like winning the prize at an Easter egg hunt, too many of us want to claim the victory in Jesus - and then “leave the prize at the park.”  We cannot do this!  We must do whatever God tells us to do…go wherever He sends us…and minister in whatever way He instructs – to everyone He puts in our path.  Nurturing a baby chick or bunny may have been too much for some parents and children…but feeding God’s sheep is a small price to pay for the glory of the LORD and promise of Eternity with Him in Heaven.

When it comes to Christian discipleship, we don’t get to pick and choose – or to “rig the game.” And aren’t we glad?!  Where is God calling you to disciple and minister in Jesus’ name today?  Are you listening?  Are you ready to take His hand and step up and out – to feed His sheep and further His kingdom?  Isn’t it time you were?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 20, 2016

John 21:15-19
When Jesus and his disciples had finished eating, he asked, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than the others do?”

Simon Peter answered, “Yes, Lord, you know I do!”
“Then feed my lambs,” Jesus said.
Jesus asked a second time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
Peter answered, “Yes, Lord, you know I love you!”
“Then take care of my sheep,” Jesus told him.
Jesus asked a third time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”

Peter was hurt because Jesus had asked him three times if he loved him. So he told Jesus, “Lord, you know everything. You know I love you.”

Jesus replied, “Feed my sheep. I tell you for certain that when you were a young man, you dressed yourself and went wherever you wanted to go. But when you are old, you will hold out your hands. Then others will wrap your belt around you and lead you where you don’t want to go.”

Jesus said this to tell how Peter would die and bring honor to God. Then he said to Peter, “Follow me!”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
   
This is one of my favorite passages in the Bible…and one of the most important passages for us as true Disciples of Jesus.  It is especially fitting today as I think about a dear, sweet servant who I have referenced many times in these devotionals -  Mrs. Peggy Logan.  Mrs. Peggy went to be with Jesus this week.  This faithful octogenarian devoted much of her life to the feeding of Jesus’ sheep.  She and her husband, Wilford, adopted a baby – and you would never have known that Paul was not her own flesh and blood.  She reveled in his accomplishments…and those of her three grandsons and their children. 

When Paul was a child, Mrs. Peggy often took in other children in the church and community for a few days or more when their parents were in need of a babysitter.  One friend recalled to me this week how she and her two brothers spent a few nights at Mrs. Peggy’s when they were little and her parents had to be away.  She marveled at how Mrs. Peggy – a then-single-mother with a job as the church secretary – managed the care of four little children for a few days!

In later years, Mrs. Peggy cared for her mother-in-law when her health declined. She would often tell me how NO ONE from Mrs. Logan’s church called on her.  Mrs. Peggy vowed that this would never happen again on her “watch.”  So she made it her “mission” to visit, cook for, telephone, and support others in any and every way at her disposal.  To say that Mrs. Peggy was a human dynamo would be an understatement.  Even in recent years, she maintained a calendar that would make most 30-somethings faint with exhaustion.  She was a tremendous role model - and an example to all of us that we can do more!

I will be the first to tell you that I will probably never be a “Mrs. Peggy”…but I can do more to share the love of Christ with others.  I can be more attuned to the people around me…the needs right here in my own circle of influence that are begging to be met…the “sheep” that need to be “fed.”  I can look around at those who feel isolated and forgotten…the grieving who have been left behind as those who rushed to comfort them early on move on with their lives…those who are sitting with someone who is ill – and wondering if anybody cares…the families whose lives are so harried with the “busyness” of life and could use a “you’re doing a great job” pat on the back or a note of encouragement…the elderly who feel like life has moved on without them – and they are merely marking time until Jesus calls them home…the children who simply need a hug and someone to say, “You matter!”

There are SO MANY opportunities for us to feed the sheep of Jesus.  Our life as Christians is not just about adding to God’s Kingdom…we have to nurture those who have already given their hearts to Christ! Too often, we rush to get to the next person…to “add one more to the flock”…and we totally forget the sheep we already have.  Jesus would NEVER do this…and neither should we!  Look around you…which sheep need your love and care today?  Mrs. Peggy totally “got” this scripture passage – and I know that Jesus must be mightily pleased with her earthly efforts.  I want Him to be pleased with mine, also.  What about you?


©2016 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 16, 2016

John 13:34-35
“And so I am giving a new commandment to you now—love each other just as much as I love you. Your strong love for each other will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Greg and I have a front-row seat for observing sibling rivalry in action!  Zola had a day off from school recently, so she came with Nathan to our house while their parents worked.  Nathan was in a “snit” about it all day long. He did NOT want to share us with his sister.  When I poured “shoklit” milk for lunch, he had a fit because that was “his” milk and Zola was not to have any.  I assured him that I had plenty for both of them.  “But it’s MINE!” he tearfully insisted.

By contrast, Zola had come to our house to spend the night about a week ago, and she was totally “in the zone” when she arrived…so much that she would not even look up at her dad and Timothy and tell them “Good-bye” as they left.  So Timothy took matters into his own hands, walked over to Zola, cupped her face in his little hands and planted a big kiss on her forehead - and told her to have a good time!

Here’s where I am going with these illustrations…1) when it comes to God’s love, we do not have a “corner on the market;” and 2) we cannot pick and choose who we love – or how and when.

We are commanded to love others as God loves us.  And God loves each one of us – the good, the bad, and the ugly!  He doesn’t love Joe more than Bill…He doesn’t provide for the needs of Sue and not Betty.  God doesn’t have a fridge full of “shoklit milk” for Nick and refuse to share any with Nora!  God’s gifts of love, forgiveness, grace, mercy, healing, wisdom, and so much more are available to each and every one of us.

If we want to enjoy God’s love and blessings, we have to be willing to share them with others…and we must be ready to treat them as God treats us.  So this means that we have to not only be willing to “plant a kiss on the forehead” of a brother or sister in Christ who might not deserve it…we have to watch and listen for needs that must be met.  We have to be alert to joys and heartaches that should be recognized…to insecurities and problems that we cannot even begin to imagine that cause people to behave in a sometimes off-putting manner.  We have to understand that God loves each of us, warts and all…and we are supposed to do the same.  Does this mean that we have to be “best buds” with someone who rubs us the wrong way?  Absolutely not!  But we must learn to look at that person as God sees him/her…and to remind ourselves that WE have idiosyncrasies, too!

I will be honest…when I was younger, I saw a lot of people through the “lenses” of older adults – my parents and grandparents, teachers, adult church members and pastors.  I judged a lot of people based on the opinions of these people and those of my peers.  And I “loved” accordingly.  In doing this, I almost missed out on some really lovely friendships and relationships.  Kids who we thought were “weird” or “crazy” might have simply been too intellectual and “nerdy” for us at the time – but they were - and are - great people.

Others, we liked or disliked merely because those in our circle felt this way.  And this had consequences – both good and bad, depending on the circumstances.  Ultimately, we often failed to recognize that each person, no matter how much he/she irritates us, is precious to God.  I still struggle with this in many instances.  It is hard for me to accept that God loves some persons I consider pretty despicable, like those who murder, rape, and abuse or molest people and animals. 

I wrestle with kindness toward those whose minds are closed - who want to discriminate against people of other races, ethnic backgrounds, religious preferences, sexual orientations, and more…particularly when they tout their views on these people as “Gospel” and try to set themselves apart – and above – the other guy.  I want to scream when I hear “Christians” denounce the ideas and opinions of those who disagree with them – on any subject – and declare that they are “right” and others are “wrong”…then use whatever measures they deem necessary to prove their point, including the suggestion that certain people should be exiled, jailed, or even killed for their opinions.

And yet…I love Jesus more than life itself.  I am “all in” with Him…so I must love ALL of God’s children and treat them as Jesus would…with grace, mercy, humility, forgiveness, compassion and kindness.  I must meet their needs as God directs…I must “feed His sheep” - even the unlovable ones. 

I will not sugarcoat this - it’s hard work!  But if we want to be like Jesus, we have to be like Jesus in everything…and toward everyone.  We have to “share our shoklit milk” and be the one to take the first step, cup another person’s face in our hands and plant a kiss on their forehead – and let them know, “I care about you regardless of who you are or how you act.  I love you with the love of Christ anyway!”  Have you committed to Jesus enough to do this?  Will this be the day that you begin?


© Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for May 26, 2015

James 2:19-20
Do I hear you professing to believe in the one and only God, but then observe you complacently sitting back as if you had done something wonderful? That’s just great. Demons do that, but what good does it do them? Use your heads! Do you suppose for a minute that you can cut faith and works in two and not end up with a corpse on your hands?

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

When Timothy was in pre-K, his class presented a Christmas program for parents, family members and friends in the sanctuary of the church campus where his “school” was held.  We were not sure what Timothy would do – or if he would even perform.  But as his class took its turn on the stage, he sang sweetly, did all of the choreography, and beamed with pride.  And when his group finished their numbers, he bowed to the audience’s applause.  He gave us the “thumbs up” and grinned from ear to ear…obviously proud of how he had performed. 

After this performance, everyone had two choices…1) to celebrate the children’s performance and encourage them to continue learning new “material” and sharing it with others; or 2) to say, “Good job!” and go on our merry way and forget about what happened…and leave those children to their own devices.  We have these same choices with new Christians, and I’m afraid that the latter is what happens quite often.

As James points out in this passage, it is one thing to decide to accept Jesus Christ…and totally another to truly live for Him.  A lot of us seem to be playing a “numbers game” in our churches.  Let’s add new members, put them to work and encourage them to “give of their time, talents and money.”  We’re all about bringing someone to know Jesus and/or join our church body.  But what happens then?  Do we nurture these people in their faith?  Do we check up on them to see how they are doing…encourage them to get to know God through scriptures and time spent in prayer and fellowship with other believers…offer them support and uplift them in their newfound faith or church home?  Or do we record their name on a membership roll and move on to the next “target”?

What about your own Christian relationship?  Have you invited Jesus to be your Lord and Savior…accepted His gift of salvation and the promise of Eternal Life in Paradise…then gone right back to your old way of living?  As I have asked before, are you “in it” for the “get-out-of-hell ticket”…or do you really want a relationship with Jesus?  Do you truly want to live in the light of His grace, mercy, forgiveness and unconditional love…or did you accept Him out of a sense of guilt, desperation, fear - or even peer pressure? 

Are you really ready to study, learn and grow in your faith…and to become all that Jesus is calling you to be as His disciple?  Or are you just one more mark in the Lamb’s Book of Life who took a bow, gave the thumbs up, and then went on your merry way?  Are you making a point as a Christian…or is Jesus really making a difference in your life?  ANYONE can say that they love Jesus and accept His gift of salvation…but this is only the beginning – or at least it should be!

What will your next move be? Will you move forward with Jesus…or remain stuck in the mud and muck of your old, sinful life?  Will this be the day that you start to figure out where to go from here?  Don’t you think it should be?


©2015 Debbie Robus


On a "housekeeping" note...I should have included these "homemade cleaner" recipes yesterday...so here goes...

Basic Cleaner
...2 parts hydrogen peroxide to 1 part Dawn® dishwashing liquid.  Great for pre-soaking clothing!  If you are cleaning something like a rug stain and need less suds, use less Dawn®!

Heavy Cleaner (tile grout, etc.)...add 2-3 teaspoons of baking soda to the peroxide and Dawn® mixture.  Do this in smaller quantities to get the full benefit of the "fizz" that the soda creates...similar to Oxy-clean.

Hardwood Floor Cleaner - 1 cup water, 1 cup vinegar, 1 cup alcohol, 2-3 drops Dawn® dish soap.  This works GREAT, cleans the floors AND smells wonderful!

Daily Devotional for May 10, 2015

Isaiah 56:10-11
Israel’s watchmen are blind,
    they all lack knowledge;
they are all mute dogs,
    they cannot bark;
they lie around and dream,
    they love to sleep.
They are dogs with mighty appetites;
    they never have enough.
They are shepherds who lack understanding;
    they all turn to their own way,
    they seek their own gain.

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
 
People are watching.  So when we act like fools while driving and gesture wildly at the person who sits at the green light or slips into a parking spot ahead of us – all while sporting a Christian fish symbol or a bumper sticker advertising our church - people scratch their heads. On social media, we bash our ex…post suggestive or off-color comments and stories…or go off on tangents about political candidates and social issues, how lousy the refs were at our favorite team’s latest game, and gripe about whatever is bugging us.  Then our next post is about the new Bible study or small group at our church – or a personal request for prayer over some situation.  And people wonder…”Is this what it means to be a disciple of Christ?”

When we become Christians and give our hearts to Jesus, we become God’s “watchmen” and “shepherds”.  We cannot focus on our own agendas or say that we trust God for all things while wringing our hands over the latest struggle or frustration.  We cannot say, “I give God complete power and authority over my life,” and then post a cartoon on Facebook that makes a “dig” at someone else – or expresses a sentiment that is in any way unkind, disrespectful, or self-serving.

In this scripture passage, Isaiah is talking about the religious leaders as “shepherds” who were more like the “sheep” they were supposed to be guiding…lost, confused, and wandering aimlessly.  We who are true Disciples of Christ must not do this.  We must pay attention to what God is calling us to do…and where He is leading us.  We must fully trust Him to number our steps…and our words and actions have to reflect this!

You cannot have an agenda and be a true – and effective – Disciple of Christ. It just cannot be about you…or me…or the other guy. It has to be about Jesus!  I’ll be honest with you…I work on this every day.  But lately I have been strongly convicted that even my private thoughts must reflect Jesus’ teachings.  Even if I say and do all the right things…but I have unkind, critical, or selfish thoughts about other people and situations, I am a “shepherd who lacks understanding.” 

We must give EVERYTHING to God…and strive daily to operate in His will…on His terms…and completely under His leadership. Will this be easy?  Absolutely not!  Will it be worth the effort?  Remember…with God, ALL THINGS are possible!  Whose agenda are you focused on?  Are you a “mute dog” or a dedicated servant?  It’s time for us to open our eyes, wake up, watch and listen to the Holy Spirit as He guides us through each and every day.  It’s time to make a difference – not a point…to seek God’s gain – not our own.  People ARE watching.  When they look at you...what - and WHO - do they see?

   
©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for March 17, 2015

Matthew 25:33-40
He will place the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. Then the king will say to those on his right, “My father has blessed you! Come and receive the kingdom that was prepared for you before the world was created. When I was hungry, you gave me something to eat, and when I was thirsty, you gave me something to drink. When I was a stranger, you welcomed me, and when I was naked, you gave me clothes to wear. When I was sick, you took care of me, and when I was in jail, you visited me.”

Then the ones who pleased the Lord will ask, “When did we give you something to eat or drink? When did we welcome you as a stranger or give you clothes to wear or visit you while you were sick or in jail?”

The king will answer, “Whenever you did it for any of my people, no matter how unimportant they seemed, you did it for me.”

Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.

Yesterday, a card arrived in the mail from my friend Connie.  On the front was a cute little fuzzy kitten, and inside, Connie had written a note expressing how sad she was for us when she read my post on Facebook about the death last week of our cat, Lucy…and how she was praying for our peace and comfort.  DOZENS of others commented to my post to express their sympathies…and we were greatly comforted by each and every word. In each one of these gestures, I felt the love of Jesus. I felt His hand on my shoulder…His arms wrapped tightly around me…His peace and comfort flooding my heart. 

Sunday morning, the children settled on a rug at church for their Sunday school opening.  I was kneeling on the floor nearby.  Suddenly, Zola stood up and ran to me, threw her arms around my neck, and planted a big kiss on my cheek…then she ran back to her spot on the rug. That little almost-4-year-old girl will never know the impact of her gesture…but for me, it was like a kiss from Jesus!

We underestimate the power of little things…a smile…a gentle touch…a hug…a simple comment on Facebook or a wave across the aisle or parking lot at Wal-Mart.  As much as true Christian discipleship is about getting into God’s word and spending time in prayer and fellowship – with Him and others – it’s also about being the hands and feet of Jesus in ways great and small. 

Sometimes we get so busy trying to APPEAR “Christian” through things like attending worship services, meetings and Bible studies...writing out big checks to the church...and making sure that everything “looks pretty”…and we forget to “be a sheep who feeds the sheep” in Jesus’ name.  When we do this, we are instantly thrust into the “goat” pen.  I don’t know about you, but that’s not where I want to be!

Look around today.  Who needs to be “fed, clothed, healed, comforted or visited” by you in Jesus’ name?  Who is ministering to YOU in this manner?  Do you recognize the power and presence of God in these gestures?  Do you understand that THIS is our true role as Christian disciples…letting the love of Christ flow through us to others in this manner…sharing Him with each other through acts of love, respect and service?  Are you acting like a “sheep”…or have you somewhat become a “goat”?  This is the perfect day to “change pens”!  Are you ready to make a move?


©2015 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for October 20, 2014

Matthew 9:35-38
Then Jesus made a circuit of all the towns and villages. He taught in their meeting places, reported kingdom news, and healed their diseased bodies, healed their bruised and hurt lives. When he looked out over the crowds, his heart broke. So confused and aimless they were, like sheep with no shepherd. “What a huge harvest!” he said to his disciples. “How few workers! On your knees and pray for harvest hands!”

Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.

Have you ever watched a child play with bubbles?  You know the ones I'm talking about - those in the bottle or tube with the little wand that has a circular band on the end for creating delicate - and elusive - prismatic spheres that quickly drift away or fall to the ground and burst.  Children are often all about catching those bubbles and holding onto them for a few seconds.  But their attention quickly turns to the next batch.

I'm afraid this is just how we Christians often treat new believers.  We are so invested in them...so concerned about their spiritual future...so eager for them to invite Jesus to be the LORD of their life. We want to add their names to our membership rolls at church and share their story with others. We are excited about their decision and hold them up as examples of how Jesus can work in the lives of others.  And then we are done.

This is how we interpret Jesus's challenge to be "harvest hands".  We're a lot like the child with bubbles...or a kid opening presents at Christmas or on his/her birthday.  Each package holds our attention for a few minutes...and then we move on to the next one.  In my opinion, many of the "confused and aimless" to whom Jesus refers in this passage are not the "lost"...at least not in the sense of this word that we generally recognize.

Take a good look at the prayer list for your church.  How many of those folks do you know personally?  Have you not only prayed for them, but also connected with some of them...sent a card, made a phone call, dispatched an encouraging e-mail or just offered a hug or handshake when you met them in public?  Take a mental inventory of those who attend your church - or rather, attended. Where are they now?  If they have stopped coming on Sunday, do you know why?  What about that person in your circle or the community at large who seems to have dropped off the face of the earth?  Have you made any inquiries about these folks?  Are their hearts bruised and hurting?  Are they sick or in need of some kind?

What about the elderly and infirm?  Are they shut away in a facility or at home, and no one other than paid employees or immediate relatives are checking on them to let them know that they matter?  Are we so busy flitting from one "pretty bubble" or gift to the next that we have neglected the "sheep" in our midst?  I honestly believe that when Jesus "visits our towns and villages", He is grieved at how quickly we lose interest and focus in those who are in our own back yards. 

Remember the story in Luke 15:3-4 of the "lost sheep", and how Jesus talks about going after one out of 99 that was missing.  Each person is precious to Him.  We all matter!  Our transformation in Jesus is instantaneous...and at the same, we are ongoing "works in progress".  We all need continual nurture and care.  And as much as Jesus seeks "harvest hands" to bring more people into a relationship with Him, He wants us to cultivate strong discipleships and kinship among fellow believers.

We desperately need real "harvest hands"...believers who are awake, alert and "dialed in" to the needs of those in their midst. In every "town and village", there are sick, bruised, hurting and lonely people who are hungry for a touch of Jesus' love and care...and YOU may be the person He has chosen to deliver it.  Will you be so busy blowing new bubbles that you fail to recognize those all around you?

Are you ready to get your "harvest hands" dirty for Jesus?  Don't you think you should be?

©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for September 18, 2014

Acts 4:20-30
We cannot stop telling about the wonderful things we saw Jesus do and heard him say.”

The Council then threatened them further and finally let them go because they didn’t know how to punish them without starting a riot. For everyone was praising God for this wonderful miracle - the healing of a man who had been lame for forty years.
As soon as they were freed, Peter and John found the other disciples and told them what the Council had said.
 

Then all the believers united in this prayer:

“O Lord, Creator of heaven and earth and of the sea and everything in them - you spoke long ago by the Holy Spirit through our ancestor King David, your servant, saying, ‘Why do the heathen rage against the Lord, and the foolish nations plan their little plots against Almighty God? The kings of the earth unite to fight against him and against the anointed Son of God!’

“That is what is happening here in this city today! For Herod the king, and Pontius Pilate the governor, and all the Romans—as well as the people of Israel—are united against Jesus, your anointed Son, your holy servant. They won’t stop at anything that you in your wise power will let them do. And now, O Lord, hear their threats, and grant to your servants great boldness in their preaching, and send your healing power, and may miracles and wonders be done by the name of your holy servant Jesus.”

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.


On the September 17th episode of her new talk show, journalist Meredith Vieira disclosed that she was involved in an abusive relationship more than 30 years ago.  She provided details of this abuse on her program and explained why she stayed in such a situation for so long. She talked of fear...and yes, guilt...and how her abuser was usually quite remorseful afterward. I don’t know for sure why Vieira shared this on her program.  Perhaps she felt it would garner ratings, since abuse and neglect are currently hot-button issues in the news.  Or maybe she felt God telling her, “Someone needs to hear this information. Your words can be the rescue vehicle...the healing balm for those who are hurting and in trouble.”

We’ve all been in situations where we may have felt an urge to say or do something...and then we thought, “That is none of my business,” or “I can’t say or do THAT!”  And often, we kept silent...or held back. As we observed what happened next, we sometimes regretted our hesitation.  Other times, we boldly forged ahead, even though we might not have known the person well. We offered suggestions, shared our own personal experiences, or simply said, “I’m praying for you,” and faithfully trusted God to do the rest...and the results were amazing.

Understand that I am not suggesting that we all start getting up in each other’s business!  This must always be done prayerfully and responsibly. But when you get that nagging feeling that you need to share a scripture or a prayer with someone...to pick up the phone...to drop by for a visit...to reach out to another person in a particular manner...or to step up and offer your assistance...ask God what to do with these urges. Then listen for His answer...and when you feel that He is telling you to proceed, do not hesitate.

I will not deal in specifics, but in recent weeks, I’ve had the opportunity to reach out to more than one person in situations where I really did not know him/her all that well...they were more what I would consider “acquaintances” than close friends. Yet I saw that they had needs and struggles, and I sensed strongly that I needed to send them a message in some way.  Trust me when I say that in more than one instance, I hesitated...I procrastinated – delayed hitting the “send” button or making a call.  But to a person, every time I trusted that God was leading me and took a leap of faith, that person responded and said, essentially...”Your timing was perfect! Your care and concern meant so much...and I am better for it.”

We don’t fully comprehend how vital we “disciples” are to the mission and ministry of Jesus Christ.  Every day, He reaches out to us and gives us “assignments”...ways great and small that we are to minister and heal others in His name.  Too often, we are so caught up in the busyness of OUR day...our own selfish desires and agendas...that we miss these opportunities.  We are fearful and timid...embarrassed and insecure. For whatever reason, we don’t really want to get involved.  Surely God can’t mean for US to do these things!  Surely He doesn’t think we are the right vehicle for reaching others in His name!  Doesn’t God know who – and what – we are?!

God has equipped us with everything we will need to accomplish His plans.  If we are confident that He is powering and endorsing our efforts, we truly have nothing to fear...and everything to gain!  He knows exactly who is the right person for every task...and that includes each of us!

Where has God been gently nudging you toward discipleship? Where are you being shown opportunities for “healing” in Jesus’ name?  Are you paying attention?  Are you “show and tell Disciples” for the amazing love, grace, mercy, forgiveness – and healing power – of Jesus Christ?  Are you ready to truly serve Him obediently and confidently?  Are you “all in” for Jesus?  Isn’t it time you were?


©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 26, 2014

Ephesians 4:31-32
Stop being bitter and angry and mad at others. Don’t yell at one another or curse each other or ever be rude.  Instead, be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of Christ.
 
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
 
Our little 3-year-old niece, Zola, spent a couple of nights with us recently, and we enjoyed seeing what she has learned since her last visit...hearing how her speech has improved...and listening to her laugh.  Her speech becomes clearer each week...and she has a LOT to say!  One of the things she repeatedly told us this time is, “I can say nice words, but I can’t say bad words.  Mommy says I can’t say bad words.  I can say ‘Yes, Ma’am’ and ‘Yes, Tir (Sir)’...but I can’t say bad words.”  A couple of times, she told me a word and said, “My mommy says I can’t say that word.”  I would remind her, “If Mommy says you shouldn’t say that word, let’s not say it!”
 
Zola’s mother (my niece, Jasmine) is trying really hard to teach her children the important lessons of Ephesians 4:31-32.  When we are with Timothy and Zola, they often tell on themselves...”I had an attitude,” or “I hit Zola because she made me mad,” or “I tore up Timmy’s book.”  They don’t always share with their baby brother, Nathan...and they don’t like it when he bothers their things.  I know that it is part of being two, three and five...and that the children do have to learn the proper behaviors.  But the sad thing is that some of us are more than ten times their ages, and we still don’t get it!  We yell, scream, curse and treat others terribly.  We hold grudges, we retaliate, we get angry...and we are terribly spiteful and bitter.  And the worst part of all is that we do this while claiming to be born-again believers in Jesus Christ!
 
We go to church on Sunday morning...and curse at the television while watching a sporting event on Sunday afternoon.  We give God the glory for the “great things He has done”, as the hymn says...and then we take His name in vain as we rake someone over the coals for something that isn’t even all that significant in the scheme of things.  We shake our fists at the guy who pulled out in front of us at the grocery store... and pretty well come unhinged over the little old lady who pulls into a parking space ahead of us. We have absolutely no patience for the young mother of two or more who is trying to sort her groceries at the check-out counter so that she can qualify for the Women, Infants and Children (WIC) assistance.  We do nothing to hide our disdain toward people who do not meet our standards for appearance...we judge everything from body piercings and tattoos to clothing, cleanliness, size, shape and hair color.  And don’t even get me started on how we treat those whose race or ethnicity is different from ours!
 
We do not take into account what is happening in other people’s lives at any given time.  We can’t possibly know everything...but we sure try to act like we do much of the time.  The Apostle Paul does a great job in these verses of reminding us to remember well what Jesus did for us...how He treats us...and to treat others the same way.  Offer them mercy and forgiveness...gentleness and kind talk...the benefit of the doubt.  Take a lesson from a young mother trying to teach her preschoolers to say nice words and to regard others with kindness, courtesy, compassion and respect.
 
Stop and ask yourself what Jesus would do...and how He would have you respond.  Remind yourself of the commitment you made when you accepted Jesus’ gift of Salvation on the cross in exchange for your sins. Start saying nice words instead of bad ones...and be kind and merciful toward others.  If you really want to be Jesus’ disciple, you’ve got to act like one!  When you interact with others, who do you truly represent?  Are you a pre-school Christian disciple... or a bonafide grown-up?
 
©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for July 18, 2014

Acts 3:17-20
“Dear brothers, I realize that what you did to Jesus was done in ignorance; and the same can be said of your leaders. But God was fulfilling the prophecies that the Messiah must suffer all these things. Now change your mind and attitude to God and turn to him so he can cleanse away your sins and send you wonderful times of refreshment from the presence of the Lord and send Jesus your Messiah back to you again.

The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

It happens every day...all over the world...in workplaces, among family members and friends, on social media, and yes – in even in our churches.  People make snap judgments, say and do hurtful things, and mistreat others out of their own ignorance – or at best, a failure to collect all of the facts beforehand.

  • “We wouldn’t need Food Stamps and other forms of public assistance if people would quit being so lazy and get a job.”  There is no effort to understand how difficult some families and individuals find it to stretch a dollar while working at a minimum wage job.
  • “He has such musical talent...if he really loved the LORD, he’d sing in the choir.”  Perhaps this person has a “plate” already so full - and burdens so big  - that there simply is not a spare minute to devote to such an activity, even if he wanted to do so!
  • “She must not care about her aging mother...I never see her visit, and I’ve noticed that other people are always doing things for this dear woman that her daughter should be doing.”  Maybe this person’s needs exceed what the daughter is medically qualified to handle...or maybe she visits at odd hours.  Perhaps she has a spouse who is ill...or small children - and a job...and others have offered to step in and help her with these duties.  Or perhaps her mother has told her that she does not want her care and “interference”.
  • “I don’t understand why that child’s parents allow him/her to look/behave that way...they should try harder.”  Perhaps this child has special needs that offer a challenge to everyone concerned with his/her care.  Maybe the parents ARE trying...or maybe they need a loving, caring person to offer them gentle, concrete assistance and guidance.
  • “Tell your mom that you all need to get to church on time...your family is always late!”  Is this really the child’s fault?  Does this help get the family to church sooner, or will it make the children feel badly – and irritate the parents that someone nagged them?  Shouldn’t this person be glad the children actually came to church, rather than berate them for their tardiness?
  • “That kid is just weird.  He never does anything with other students. He isn’t all that friendly, and all he does is read or stare into space.”  This kid lives with a single mom who has a drug addiction and an eating disorder.  He never knows if she will be alive when he returns home.  Or perhaps there is abuse and neglect in his home.  His heart is heavy...and his mind is full.  It’s all he can do to get back and forth to school each day.
These are but a few examples of judgments that we pass on others...often without all of the facts or a “Spiritual filter” in place.  Whether we know what we are doing or truly do act out of innocence and ignorance, we must often depend on the forgiveness and mercy of the other guy...and God...to set us straight and keep us in “good graces”.  And I would be willing to bet that all of us have experienced the refreshment of said grace and forgiveness at least once in our own lives!

Here’s the thing...we would all do well to stop “shooting from the hip” so often.  We would be better served to pause, look, listen...and PRAY before we pass judgment, open our mouths, or jump into action.  We need to start at the top...and treat our relationship with Jesus more tenderly, reverently and respectfully...then ask Him to help us expand these mercies outwardly in our interactions and associations with others.  We should remember that we are representatives of Jesus to the world at large...and when we fail to operate in grace and mercy, we project a false depiction of the love of Christ and the refreshing renewal that He offers to each of us through His blood on the Cross.

We have been given such an incredible gift in the form of salvation through Jesus.  His mercies toward us are poured out new every single day – often many times!  Now it is our time to share these mercies with others...to turn around and face His cleansing refreshment, receive His restoring love and care – and share it with the world. 

Which direction are you facing today?


©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 8, 2014

1 Peter 4:7-11
Everything in the world is about to be wrapped up, so take nothing for granted. Stay wide-awake in prayer. Most of all, love each other as if your life depended on it. Love makes up for practically anything. Be quick to give a meal to the hungry, a bed to the homeless—cheerfully. Be generous with the different things God gave you, passing them around so all get in on it: if words, let it be God’s words; if help, let it be God’s hearty help. That way, God’s bright presence will be evident in everything through Jesus, and he’ll get all the credit as the One mighty in everything—encores to the end of time. Oh, yes!
 
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson.  Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO.  All rights reserved.
 
My brother Tim started to lose his hair in his late 20s.  By his mid-thirties, he wore his hair trimmed very closely to his head, because he was almost bald on top.  But shortly before he died at age 37, his hair started to grow for some reason.  He didn’t necessarily reclaim the receding hairline, but he had enough hair that he started to look shaggy around the edges.  Tim was very sick and had trouble breathing.  So our friend Shelly, who is a hairdresser, came to my parents’ house and gave Tim a haircut.  It was a simple task that comes very easily for Shelly.  But to us, it was a huge gift.  This was an act of love for our Tim…a gesture of compassion from one friend to another.  I can still see my brother sitting on the carport on a stool as Shelly trimmed his hair and gave him a neat, clean appearance…and lifted his mood in the process.
 
Not everyone can offer someone else a haircut.  After my brother died, our friend Allison, who is a veterinarian, came and got Tim’s dog Carmen for the day…bathed her and checked her over.  My cousin Franklin took Carmen out for a car ride and a romp.  These don’t seem like a big deal…but trust me, it was to us!  A young friend of ours had all four wisdom teeth removed at once.  His mom reported that his face was swollen – and he was in a lot of pain.  I made him a “rice bag” that could be placed in the freezer and used like an ice pack.  The young man’s mom said that this was the only thing that felt gentle and soothing to him.  It took all of maybe 10 minutes to make this bag…and a little side trip to deliver when I ran errands.  But it meant the world to a mother who doesn’t sew and her son who was in pain.
 
The words of this scripture are pretty clear.  Every one of us has “gifts” we can use to help others.  Some possess skills like cutting hair, sewing and veterinary care…while others are “gifted” cooks, chauffeurs, pet-sitters, listeners, and all-around good friends.  Some know just what to say and when to say it…others are better at “doing” things to show their care and concern.
 
I don’t know what “gifts” you possess…but just as these verses in 1 Peter tell us – each of us has been blessed with certain gifts and skills from God…and He wants us to use them!  When we offer others God’s love and care through the gifts He has given us, He gets the glory.  This is what true Christian discipleship is all about!
 
Our job as disciples of Christ is to show our gratitude for all we have been given by prayerfully asking God continually to show us how – and where – to love others.  Notice how important Peter says this is - he tells us to “love each other as your life depended on it”…because truly it does!  A full life in Christ Jesus happens when we love cheerfully, unconditionally, and generously.  Ask God to reveal your “gifts” to you…and to show you what you are supposed to do with them.  Someone needs you…even now!  Are you ready to offer “God’s hearty help” today?  How will you honor His gifts to you by giving to others?
 
©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for February 4, 2014

Ephesians 4:31-32
Stop being bitter and angry and mad at others. Don’t yell at one another or curse each other or ever be rude.  Instead, be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of Christ.
 
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
 
Virtually every day, each one of us has a reason to become bitter, angry, or mad at others.  I have dear friends who have endured so much in the last year that it would make your head spin…the loss of loved ones, the loss of pets, physical illness and/or injury – and I’m talking about all of this happening to the same person!  Others have endured insults, setbacks, and personal heartaches that boggle the mind.  Still, they manage to keep going…to love others, and to operate in grace, mercy, forgiveness, and compassion.
 
“Kudos to those people!” you may say.  “I don’t know how they do it.”  And let’s be real here…there are a lot of so-called “Christians” who walk around with a chip on their shoulder and cannot operate in compassion, grace and mercy.  You know what I mean.  We all could name people who are continually angry at someone or about something…who are mad at the world…who hold onto grudges and belittle others – or express disdain for certain people and/or their behaviors.  Their general attitude is one of superiority…or at best, gratitude that they are “not like that guy!”  They do not project an image of one who is kind, merciful, forgiving, and accepting of others.  And their behavior demonstrates clearly to others that God’s love is only for a select few…because if they belong to Christ, He surely would not want someone with the kind of flaws average people like you and I have!
 
I’m afraid there are more than a few Christian snobs in our midst…and it’s time for us to each examine our hearts and see if we fall into this category – even once in a while.  The Bible is clear that anger, bitterness and being mad at others are not hallmarks of a true Christian disciple.  Yelling, cursing, and rudeness of any kind have no place in the life of one of Christ’s followers.
 
My challenge to you today is to stop and take a hard look at yourself.  Examine your heart…your words…your body language…and your thoughts.  Think about your recent conversations and what you might have said or done that could be viewed by another as operating in anger, bitterness or rudeness.  If you can make amends…do so.  But vow to God – and to yourself – to do better.  Make this the day that you take this scripture passage to heart and incorporate it fully into your daily Discipleship.  Ask God to forgive you...knowing that He will…and then forgive others - and yourself.  Call on Him to give you the strength and the resolve to operate in love, grace, mercy, and compassion for everyone – all of the time!
 
Jesus died on the cross for all of our anger, bitterness, unkindness, and sin of every nature.  If we truly are His disciples, we will leave these things at the foot of the cross where they belong.  Have you done this?  Isn’t it time you did?
 
©2014 Debbie Robus

Daily Devotional for January 9, 2014

John 14:9
Jesus replied, “Have I been with you all this time, Philip, and yet you still don’t know who I am? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father! So why are you asking me to show him to you?

Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

My sister shared with me yesterday that the last time Timothy’s mother took him and his siblings for “booster” shots, Timothy did not know that he was going to receive an injection.  He and his sister Zola got the nasal mist vaccine for flu…but he also got a “booster” injection of vaccine for something else.  Afterward, he cried to his mother and said, “Why did you let them do that?  You let them hurt me!”  Of course, this tugged at his mother’s heartstrings (as he knew it would) to think that her firstborn felt she had betrayed him and allowed him to suffer. Timothy thought he knew his mother… he thought surely she would never let any harm or pain come to him!  So when she allowed this momentary “stick”, he questioned who she really was!

Perhaps you have had a relationship with someone that didn’t turn out so well… you thought you truly knew this person, only to discover that he/she was not who you believed them to be… that there were aspects of this person’s life that you found surprising…even unbelievable.  I felt this way when a fellow teacher was strangled to death by her husband - a police sergeant, no less!  I would never have dreamed that my friend was being abused.  I trusted her husband implicitly.  I was with this couple a lot over the course of almost eight years, and I still did not truly know who they were.

Let’s be honest…we humans often listen to Satan - who is the ultimate master of deception - and we become expert at this iniquity in our own lives.  People often have no clue who we really are.  Sometimes, it’s because we cover well and have truly honed the craft of deception.  At other times, this is due to a lack of focus…and perhaps even a touch of apathy on our part.

Here’s another way to explain this…there are people who “appear” to be amazingly faith-filled servants of God.  They show up at every church function, are front and center for service projects and “talk a good game”… but it’s all for show.  Behind closed doors, they become a totally different person.  There are others who quietly go about God’s work…who serve Him by serving others...maintain a close communication with Him at all times…and earnestly seek His will for their lives.  They aren’t flashy or obvious…but friends and acquaintances know that God has captured their heart - that they live to serve Him.

Then there is a group of Christians who are “on the fence”.  They are not out in the forefront creating a scene or drawing attention to their actions...but there is nothing about their daily living that tells you they are a Disciple of Christ, either.  These people “fly under the radar”, so to speak.  The average person cannot tell who they are – or what they truly believe.  How many times have you heard it said of someone, “He is a really nice guy!”?  I hope you understand that not all “nice guys” are representing our Heavenly Father.  Not all “nice guys” are Disciples of Christ…and sadly, not all Disciples of Christ are “nice guys”!

The GOOD NEWS is that Jesus is the real deal!  If you have “seen” Him - if you know Him for yourself - you know God Almighty.  What you “see” truly is what you get with Jesus…it’s not a façade or a gimmick.  Jesus isn’t “in your face”…but He isn’t hiding in the shadows, either.  In Jesus, we have the perfect example of sharing love, grace, mercy, compassion, forgiveness, strength, hope and more.  All we have to do is open our Bibles and read about His teachings and demonstrations to learn how we are to conduct our own lives.  We must maintain an open dialog with God to make sure that our words, thoughts and actions line up each and every day with His plans…that others truly know who we are…and that we are sharing the love of Christ with each of them.

Like Timothy’s mother, there are occasions when God allows a momentary “stick” or “sting” in our lives.  But He will never truly betray us…or be Someone we do not know.  Can we say the same in our own daily living?  Are we always the “real deal” for Jesus?  Do others truly know who we are…can they say that they have seen the Father in you?

©2014 Debbie Robus