Psalm 103:12
How far has the Lord taken
our sins from us?
Farther than the distance
from east to west!
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
When
I strapped Timothy into his car seat after church today, he said,
“Momma says when we come home, we need to have a good attitude...forever
and ever!” We took the children home after lunch, and Greg and I
laughed that my niece had probably told them to come home with a good
attitude, and Timothy asked her “for how long?”...hence, the “forever
and ever” comment!
I think sometimes, we ask a version of this
same question with regard to the grace, mercy, forgiveness and love of
God...”LORD, how long will you love me? Father, how many times will you
forgive my sins? Is my name really written in the Lamb’s Book of Life
just because I surrendered my heart to Jesus and accepted His gift of
salvation?” And the answer comes back over and again...”as far as east
is to west...that’s how far I’ve taken your sins. This is how much I
love you...this is the depth and breadth of My grace and compassion for
you as one of My children.”
We need to let this soak in a while.
We need to really stop and think about how much God loves us...how much
He gives us...all that has been sacrificed on our behalf, and just how
vast His care for us really is. Honestly, the magnitude and extent of
God’s mercy over us is astounding...incomprehensible...beyond all that
we can ever fully understand – but incredibly unending, all the same.
Now
here’s a question for us to consider...how is OUR attitude in return?
Do we behave in a way that respects these gifts? Do we honor God’s
commitment to us with a reciprocal dedication – or the best that we can
possibly muster? Do we reflect God’s extraordinary grace, mercy and
forgiveness in our daily living...and in how we interact with others? Do
we model a Christian discipleship that reflects a love of Christ for
His church so great that it scatters sins farther than the distance from
east to west? Isn’t it time we did?
Will this be the day that
you develop a “good attitude forever and ever”...one that truly displays
God’s handiwork in your life each and every minute? How far HAS the
Lord taken your sins from you? Is this reflected in your life as a
Christian? Don’t you think it should be?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 30, 2014
Philippians 3:12-16
I don’t mean to say I am perfect. I haven’t learned all I should even yet, but I keep working toward that day when I will finally be all that Christ saved me for and wants me to be.
No, dear brothers, I am still not all I should be, but I am bringing all my energies to bear on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God is calling us up to heaven because of what Christ Jesus did for us.
I hope all of you who are mature Christians will see eye-to-eye with me on these things, and if you disagree on some point, I believe that God will make it plain to you—if you fully obey the truth you have.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
In Feathers From My Nest*, author Beth Moore talks about how she woke up one morning and looked in the mirror, and someone had taken her neck and replaced it with a saggy, wrinkled one! That same “person” gave her saggy, wrinkled knees, as well! She humorously proceeds to describe aging and all that happens to us – and how we try our hardest to bring this to a screeching halt with all sorts of creams and procedures!
At the same time, I’ve been reading some diaries and journals of our ancestors – both mine and Greg’s – and learning about the activities and circumstances that shaped their lives. Then I stumbled onto a Facebook page for my very dearest friend from college, who I have not spoken to in more than 35 years. All of this has culminated in something of a “trip down Memory Lane” and a serious reflection on where I am – and how I got here!
A flood of thoughts and memories filled my head as I thought about our lives and how we grow and change. The things that seemed so important...the goals that were so lofty when we were teenagers and young adults...the near-obsession some of us had with our outward image and appearance...all have such a different implication and/or significance now. The old adage that...“hindsight is 20/20” and the Proverbs 31:30 reminder...”beauty fades away” take on even more meaning as we mature. And as Beth Moore points out...”sooner or later, we’ll be looking good...new necks...new knees...no spot or wrinkle. That and Jesus, too? Blessings all mine with ten thousand beside!”
So where does this fit in our “theme” of scriptures that speak to grace, mercy and forgiveness? I’m glad you asked! These days, I find myself in an interesting position. I am smack in the middle of “middle age”! And from this vantage point, I can see what lies behind me...and to some degree, what lies ahead. I am blessed to know and love many truly beautiful women (and a few men) who are ahead of me on this journey...folks who have “been there and done that” – and not only survived but continue to grow and improve (in every sense of the word) with age.
I also have a birds-eye view of the lives of several people who are younger than I...to observe their daily living with my own “been there, done that” view. There are times when I am swelled with pride at how they are growing and becoming more beautiful – inside and out ...and times when I wish I could say, “Let me save you some hassle and heartache.” I am not in the same league as the Apostle Paul by a long shot...but I do think this was how he was feeling when he wrote this letter to the Philippians.
So here’s my grace-filled, merciful, forgiving message for today...a lot of what we think is important really isn’t. Our goals and desires are not all that different from those who preceded us...and a lot of us have not really paid attention and learned from both their successes and their mistakes. We have shining examples at every turn of people who have grown...and who have developed a life in Christ in a manner that has made all the difference in their personal lives. Nobody gets it right all of the time...there was only one perfect human being - Jesus Christ. But Paul is calling us to focus on Jesus...to keep our “eyes on the prize” of His salvation, blessings...and ultimately, Eternity in His presence.
If you are a young person reading this message, take a look around and find some older mentors who are demonstrating that they are focused on “pressing toward the mark” of an abundant, obedient life in Jesus Christ. Listen to them...learn from their mistakes and how they correct them. Figure out what makes them “age” so beautifully...and pattern your own life after them.
If you are an older person who has experienced the grace, mercy, patience and forgiveness of Jesus - and grown in your walk with Him - make yourself available to others who need your example. Be on the lookout for people to nurture and support in their own faith walk and growth. Be merciful and kind toward those who seem to keep repeating the same mistakes over and again...offer them gentle encouragement and examples of how to step out of this rut and move forward.
If you find yourself where I am - smack in the middle...take advantage of your position, and offer encouragement and support to those on both sides. Learn from and reassure those who are ahead of you...and share your blessings with those who follow. Be the “light of Christ” you are called to be. Embrace the physical wrinkles and sags that chronicle your life’s journey.
In the television show, “Brothers and Sisters,” actress Sally Field portrayed Nora Walker, the 60-something matriarch of a family fraught with issues of all kinds. Nora becomes concerned with her wrinkles. A loved one points out to Nora that a facelift and rearranging her face will not change anything – unless she changes herself! Nora decides to embrace her wrinkles, saying something to the effect of...“I earned every one of them.” What do your “sags and wrinkles” say about you...or what WILL they say (if you are yet young and have not experienced this)? Will you be beautiful and ageless because of your inner efforts to press forward with Jesus? Or will you wear your life’s journey like a road map in a congested metropolitan area?
Will you share the mercy and grace of Jesus with others as you grow...and encourage those who are just getting started? Are you “straining to reach the end of the race and reach the prize” of heaven? How are you “aging” in your walk with Jesus? When others look at you, what – and WHO – do they see?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*Feathers From My Nest: A Mother’s Reflections ~ ©2005 by Beth Moore ~ Published by B & H Publishing Group – Nashville, Tennessee
I don’t mean to say I am perfect. I haven’t learned all I should even yet, but I keep working toward that day when I will finally be all that Christ saved me for and wants me to be.
No, dear brothers, I am still not all I should be, but I am bringing all my energies to bear on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God is calling us up to heaven because of what Christ Jesus did for us.
I hope all of you who are mature Christians will see eye-to-eye with me on these things, and if you disagree on some point, I believe that God will make it plain to you—if you fully obey the truth you have.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
In Feathers From My Nest*, author Beth Moore talks about how she woke up one morning and looked in the mirror, and someone had taken her neck and replaced it with a saggy, wrinkled one! That same “person” gave her saggy, wrinkled knees, as well! She humorously proceeds to describe aging and all that happens to us – and how we try our hardest to bring this to a screeching halt with all sorts of creams and procedures!
At the same time, I’ve been reading some diaries and journals of our ancestors – both mine and Greg’s – and learning about the activities and circumstances that shaped their lives. Then I stumbled onto a Facebook page for my very dearest friend from college, who I have not spoken to in more than 35 years. All of this has culminated in something of a “trip down Memory Lane” and a serious reflection on where I am – and how I got here!
A flood of thoughts and memories filled my head as I thought about our lives and how we grow and change. The things that seemed so important...the goals that were so lofty when we were teenagers and young adults...the near-obsession some of us had with our outward image and appearance...all have such a different implication and/or significance now. The old adage that...“hindsight is 20/20” and the Proverbs 31:30 reminder...”beauty fades away” take on even more meaning as we mature. And as Beth Moore points out...”sooner or later, we’ll be looking good...new necks...new knees...no spot or wrinkle. That and Jesus, too? Blessings all mine with ten thousand beside!”
So where does this fit in our “theme” of scriptures that speak to grace, mercy and forgiveness? I’m glad you asked! These days, I find myself in an interesting position. I am smack in the middle of “middle age”! And from this vantage point, I can see what lies behind me...and to some degree, what lies ahead. I am blessed to know and love many truly beautiful women (and a few men) who are ahead of me on this journey...folks who have “been there and done that” – and not only survived but continue to grow and improve (in every sense of the word) with age.
I also have a birds-eye view of the lives of several people who are younger than I...to observe their daily living with my own “been there, done that” view. There are times when I am swelled with pride at how they are growing and becoming more beautiful – inside and out ...and times when I wish I could say, “Let me save you some hassle and heartache.” I am not in the same league as the Apostle Paul by a long shot...but I do think this was how he was feeling when he wrote this letter to the Philippians.
So here’s my grace-filled, merciful, forgiving message for today...a lot of what we think is important really isn’t. Our goals and desires are not all that different from those who preceded us...and a lot of us have not really paid attention and learned from both their successes and their mistakes. We have shining examples at every turn of people who have grown...and who have developed a life in Christ in a manner that has made all the difference in their personal lives. Nobody gets it right all of the time...there was only one perfect human being - Jesus Christ. But Paul is calling us to focus on Jesus...to keep our “eyes on the prize” of His salvation, blessings...and ultimately, Eternity in His presence.
If you are a young person reading this message, take a look around and find some older mentors who are demonstrating that they are focused on “pressing toward the mark” of an abundant, obedient life in Jesus Christ. Listen to them...learn from their mistakes and how they correct them. Figure out what makes them “age” so beautifully...and pattern your own life after them.
If you are an older person who has experienced the grace, mercy, patience and forgiveness of Jesus - and grown in your walk with Him - make yourself available to others who need your example. Be on the lookout for people to nurture and support in their own faith walk and growth. Be merciful and kind toward those who seem to keep repeating the same mistakes over and again...offer them gentle encouragement and examples of how to step out of this rut and move forward.
If you find yourself where I am - smack in the middle...take advantage of your position, and offer encouragement and support to those on both sides. Learn from and reassure those who are ahead of you...and share your blessings with those who follow. Be the “light of Christ” you are called to be. Embrace the physical wrinkles and sags that chronicle your life’s journey.
In the television show, “Brothers and Sisters,” actress Sally Field portrayed Nora Walker, the 60-something matriarch of a family fraught with issues of all kinds. Nora becomes concerned with her wrinkles. A loved one points out to Nora that a facelift and rearranging her face will not change anything – unless she changes herself! Nora decides to embrace her wrinkles, saying something to the effect of...“I earned every one of them.” What do your “sags and wrinkles” say about you...or what WILL they say (if you are yet young and have not experienced this)? Will you be beautiful and ageless because of your inner efforts to press forward with Jesus? Or will you wear your life’s journey like a road map in a congested metropolitan area?
Will you share the mercy and grace of Jesus with others as you grow...and encourage those who are just getting started? Are you “straining to reach the end of the race and reach the prize” of heaven? How are you “aging” in your walk with Jesus? When others look at you, what – and WHO – do they see?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*Feathers From My Nest: A Mother’s Reflections ~ ©2005 by Beth Moore ~ Published by B & H Publishing Group – Nashville, Tennessee
Daily Devotional for August 29, 2014
Philippians 2:1-4
If you’ve gotten anything at all out of following Christ, if his love has made any difference in your life, if being in a community of the Spirit means anything to you, if you have a heart, if you care— then do me a favor: Agree with each other, love each other, be deep-spirited friends. Don’t push your way to the front; don’t sweet-talk your way to the top. Put yourself aside, and help others get ahead. Don’t be obsessed with getting your own advantage. Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Greg and I have two cats...litter mates we rescued 15 years ago from the local Humane Society animal shelter. Mabel is a calico – mostly white with splotches of black and orange, and even a spot of orange and white stripes! Lucy is a “tuxedo”, which means that her long black and white fur make her look like she is wearing a formal evening suit. “The girls” - as we lovingly refer to them - were both our office mates when they were kittens. Over time, they have each somewhat “chosen sides”. Mabel is never very far from Greg...Lucy is almost always within at least earshot of me and spends much of her day in my office sleeping in a chair. In recent months, both of our cats have begun to slow down and show their age somewhat...especially Lucy. But she still wants to sit in my lap from time to time...especially in the morning right after breakfast.
Lucy will lead me to my office and stand by my desk and cry. That is my cue to sit down and pick her up...and RUB HER! She doesn’t like for me to look at e-mail – or worse yet, type on my keyboard. She wants ALL of my attention...and my hands are to be busy about her face, rubbing and scratching as I softly coo to her and tell her what a good girl she is. This can last anywhere from a minute to almost a half an hour, depending on her mood.
There are days when I truly am too busy for “lap time”...times when I have something pressing that MUST be attended to – an appointment, a house guest, or some household chore. This doesn’t happen often...and usually I find time at some point every day to hold Lucy and “love on her” in this manner. Here’s the thing I’ve learned...we won’t have these precious four-legged companions forever. All too soon, there will come a day when I would give anything for just 30 more minutes to hold my beloved pet and scratch her face and ears. The time to share my attention and affection with her is NOW!
I know some of you are thinking, “She’s just a CAT, for goodness sake!” And I would say to you...this same thing applies to others. The little children who demand so much of your time and attention will be teenagers and/or adults tomorrow. The friend or neighbor...or even your family member or elderly loved one who seems so needy at times...might not always be around. Often, opportunities that present themselves over and again - and go untended - cease to exist. The person you meant to visit...the card you intended to send...the care you thought you should show to another but never got around to doing so has an expiration date in many cases...both figuratively and quite literally.
Everyone is busy. We all “have a life”...and many of us have an inordinate amount of things to do and places to be – often all at the same time! But more than a few of us have made life all about ourselves and our own agendas...and others strictly get the leftovers. I know, because I’ve done it. I’ve looked at my little “tuxedoed” Lucy at the end of a busy day and realized that we never had our “quiet time” together...that I barely looked in her direction other than to plunk some food into her bowl or brush hurriedly past her. And I know I have essentially done this in countless other situations with people who truly are important to me – but I did not act in the least as if that were the case.
I am so thankful that God doesn’t do this! He always has time for us...always has our best interest at heart, even though HE is truly superior in every way – and far more important than we could ever hope to be. God always has a lap for us...an ear to bend...time to hear our every word...and the right support and answers for our every need. In Him, we find comfort AND the model of perfect grace, mercy, forgiveness, kindness, and compassion toward others. The question is...are we paying attention? Are we honoring Jesus by serving others in His name...and in a like manner?
Has his love has made any difference in your life? Does being in a community of the Spirit mean anything to you? Do you have a heart...and do you really care? What kind of Christian disciple are you...or are you truly His disciple in the first place? Your answers to these questions matter...to others, and more importantly – to GOD! How are you representing the love, grace and mercy of Jesus in your own life? Is it time for a change of heart, attitude and actions? Wouldn’t today be a great day to begin?
©2014 Debbie Robus
If you’ve gotten anything at all out of following Christ, if his love has made any difference in your life, if being in a community of the Spirit means anything to you, if you have a heart, if you care— then do me a favor: Agree with each other, love each other, be deep-spirited friends. Don’t push your way to the front; don’t sweet-talk your way to the top. Put yourself aside, and help others get ahead. Don’t be obsessed with getting your own advantage. Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Greg and I have two cats...litter mates we rescued 15 years ago from the local Humane Society animal shelter. Mabel is a calico – mostly white with splotches of black and orange, and even a spot of orange and white stripes! Lucy is a “tuxedo”, which means that her long black and white fur make her look like she is wearing a formal evening suit. “The girls” - as we lovingly refer to them - were both our office mates when they were kittens. Over time, they have each somewhat “chosen sides”. Mabel is never very far from Greg...Lucy is almost always within at least earshot of me and spends much of her day in my office sleeping in a chair. In recent months, both of our cats have begun to slow down and show their age somewhat...especially Lucy. But she still wants to sit in my lap from time to time...especially in the morning right after breakfast.
Lucy will lead me to my office and stand by my desk and cry. That is my cue to sit down and pick her up...and RUB HER! She doesn’t like for me to look at e-mail – or worse yet, type on my keyboard. She wants ALL of my attention...and my hands are to be busy about her face, rubbing and scratching as I softly coo to her and tell her what a good girl she is. This can last anywhere from a minute to almost a half an hour, depending on her mood.
There are days when I truly am too busy for “lap time”...times when I have something pressing that MUST be attended to – an appointment, a house guest, or some household chore. This doesn’t happen often...and usually I find time at some point every day to hold Lucy and “love on her” in this manner. Here’s the thing I’ve learned...we won’t have these precious four-legged companions forever. All too soon, there will come a day when I would give anything for just 30 more minutes to hold my beloved pet and scratch her face and ears. The time to share my attention and affection with her is NOW!
I know some of you are thinking, “She’s just a CAT, for goodness sake!” And I would say to you...this same thing applies to others. The little children who demand so much of your time and attention will be teenagers and/or adults tomorrow. The friend or neighbor...or even your family member or elderly loved one who seems so needy at times...might not always be around. Often, opportunities that present themselves over and again - and go untended - cease to exist. The person you meant to visit...the card you intended to send...the care you thought you should show to another but never got around to doing so has an expiration date in many cases...both figuratively and quite literally.
Everyone is busy. We all “have a life”...and many of us have an inordinate amount of things to do and places to be – often all at the same time! But more than a few of us have made life all about ourselves and our own agendas...and others strictly get the leftovers. I know, because I’ve done it. I’ve looked at my little “tuxedoed” Lucy at the end of a busy day and realized that we never had our “quiet time” together...that I barely looked in her direction other than to plunk some food into her bowl or brush hurriedly past her. And I know I have essentially done this in countless other situations with people who truly are important to me – but I did not act in the least as if that were the case.
I am so thankful that God doesn’t do this! He always has time for us...always has our best interest at heart, even though HE is truly superior in every way – and far more important than we could ever hope to be. God always has a lap for us...an ear to bend...time to hear our every word...and the right support and answers for our every need. In Him, we find comfort AND the model of perfect grace, mercy, forgiveness, kindness, and compassion toward others. The question is...are we paying attention? Are we honoring Jesus by serving others in His name...and in a like manner?
Has his love has made any difference in your life? Does being in a community of the Spirit mean anything to you? Do you have a heart...and do you really care? What kind of Christian disciple are you...or are you truly His disciple in the first place? Your answers to these questions matter...to others, and more importantly – to GOD! How are you representing the love, grace and mercy of Jesus in your own life? Is it time for a change of heart, attitude and actions? Wouldn’t today be a great day to begin?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 28, 2014
Numbers 14:19-23
You are merciful, and you treat people better than they deserve. So please forgive these people, just as you have forgiven them ever since they left Egypt.
Then the Lord said to Moses:
In answer to your prayer, I do forgive them. But as surely as I live and my power has no limit, I swear that not one of these Israelites will enter the land I promised to give their ancestors. These people have seen my power in Egypt and in the desert, but they will never see Canaan. They have disobeyed and tested me too many times.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I saw a Facebook post from one of my cousins that said that her church is beginning a 90-day “read-through” of the Bible. Those participating will read the entire Bible in 90 days. She is excited to participate in this study. Several years ago, I attempted to read the entire Bible. I used a study guide that suggested a passage each day from the Old Testament, New Testament, and a Psalm or verses from Proverbs. I’ll admit...I only made it to the month of May before I allowed other things to swallow up my time - and that particular study fell by the wayside. But I’m determined to try this again someday, because this “parallel look” at the Old and New Testaments was incredibly revealing.
For the first time, I truly came to understand why and how the passages of the Old Testament have relevance for us today. If nothing else, these chapters illustrate to us how dramatically – and completely – Jesus changed everything when he came to earth and subsequently died on the cross for our sins. No longer do we have to kill our best fowl and livestock and offer them to God as living sacrifices for our sins. While we should confess our sins daily and strive to humbly repent, Jesus settled the debt...we don’t have to look over our shoulder and wonder if THIS is the time that God says, “That’s it...you’ve crossed the line this time! I’m done with you!” From the Old Testament writings, we learn that there truly is nothing new under the sun...except the unfailing forgiveness and redemption of Jesus Christ. And I, for one, am so very glad to have it!
I have spoken for several days about forgiveness. Understand that these posts are as much for me and my own life as yours...because I am as prone to anger, name calling, frustration, and grudges as the next guy. There are times when each and every one of us wishes for even a single minute of revenge...a desire to make the other person suffer just a smidge of what we are feeling - or to know the insults, exasperation, and/or pain that they have inflicted upon us. We are – and always will be – human beings...and this means we will never be perfect! We will never be 100% like Jesus...but we must always keep trying to do better.
With all of this talk about forgiveness, I feel I must also address a question that arose recently about forgiving such things as human atrocities. How do we forgive the torture and slaughter of others in the Middle East...the slavery and persecution of people in African countries...cruelty to animals...physical abuse of children and adults? How do we pardon those who have repeatedly lied to us, cheated us, and taken advantage of our Christian grace and mercy at every turn? How long and how often do we “turn the other cheek”?
I have given this a lot of thought and prayerful consideration. In recent weeks, I’ve read several books that address this subject in detail, and I believe that God has used these writings to show me many things.
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
You are merciful, and you treat people better than they deserve. So please forgive these people, just as you have forgiven them ever since they left Egypt.
Then the Lord said to Moses:
In answer to your prayer, I do forgive them. But as surely as I live and my power has no limit, I swear that not one of these Israelites will enter the land I promised to give their ancestors. These people have seen my power in Egypt and in the desert, but they will never see Canaan. They have disobeyed and tested me too many times.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I saw a Facebook post from one of my cousins that said that her church is beginning a 90-day “read-through” of the Bible. Those participating will read the entire Bible in 90 days. She is excited to participate in this study. Several years ago, I attempted to read the entire Bible. I used a study guide that suggested a passage each day from the Old Testament, New Testament, and a Psalm or verses from Proverbs. I’ll admit...I only made it to the month of May before I allowed other things to swallow up my time - and that particular study fell by the wayside. But I’m determined to try this again someday, because this “parallel look” at the Old and New Testaments was incredibly revealing.
For the first time, I truly came to understand why and how the passages of the Old Testament have relevance for us today. If nothing else, these chapters illustrate to us how dramatically – and completely – Jesus changed everything when he came to earth and subsequently died on the cross for our sins. No longer do we have to kill our best fowl and livestock and offer them to God as living sacrifices for our sins. While we should confess our sins daily and strive to humbly repent, Jesus settled the debt...we don’t have to look over our shoulder and wonder if THIS is the time that God says, “That’s it...you’ve crossed the line this time! I’m done with you!” From the Old Testament writings, we learn that there truly is nothing new under the sun...except the unfailing forgiveness and redemption of Jesus Christ. And I, for one, am so very glad to have it!
I have spoken for several days about forgiveness. Understand that these posts are as much for me and my own life as yours...because I am as prone to anger, name calling, frustration, and grudges as the next guy. There are times when each and every one of us wishes for even a single minute of revenge...a desire to make the other person suffer just a smidge of what we are feeling - or to know the insults, exasperation, and/or pain that they have inflicted upon us. We are – and always will be – human beings...and this means we will never be perfect! We will never be 100% like Jesus...but we must always keep trying to do better.
With all of this talk about forgiveness, I feel I must also address a question that arose recently about forgiving such things as human atrocities. How do we forgive the torture and slaughter of others in the Middle East...the slavery and persecution of people in African countries...cruelty to animals...physical abuse of children and adults? How do we pardon those who have repeatedly lied to us, cheated us, and taken advantage of our Christian grace and mercy at every turn? How long and how often do we “turn the other cheek”?
I have given this a lot of thought and prayerful consideration. In recent weeks, I’ve read several books that address this subject in detail, and I believe that God has used these writings to show me many things.
- There are no perfect decisions.*
- “No!” is a complete sentence...and sometimes, it’s the best response.
- God doesn’t want us to sacrifice our physical, mental and spiritual well-being at another’s expense. I’m not saying He doesn’t want us to put ourselves out there – to take risks and boldly share the love of Jesus with others in all sorts of ways. But He doesn’t want us to be doormats, either! Sometimes, we are called to create a safe distance between ourselves and others...and then to forgive them from afar.
- God has the last word. We must stay in constant communication with Him, so that we know when He is telling us to boldly step forward...and when to safely love from a distance. There will be times when the “best yes” is a no...and when the most loving and merciful thing we can do for someone is to gracefully step aside and let them learn to lean on God for themselves.
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
Daily Devotional for August 27, 2014
Micah 7:18-19
Our God, no one is like you.
We are all that is left
of your chosen people,
and you freely forgive
our sin and guilt.
You don’t stay angry forever;
you’re glad to have pity
and pleased to be merciful.
You will trample on our sins
and throw them in the sea.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Somewhere along the line at one of the auctions or estate sales we attended, I acquired a white ceramic cherub. I like angels, and I have quite a few of them sitting around our house in various poses. This particular angel reclined, and I placed him on a half-table in our entryway. The cherub looked sweet there with some other “found things” from my collection.
Timothy was so intrigued with this little angel when he was a toddler. He loved to stand and look at it...and to touch its shiny, smooth surface. Many times, I reminded him, “Don’t touch! He’s ‘very breakable’.” This was a phrase that Timothy’s mother used often when SHE was little...lots of things were “very breakable.” One day when Timothy was about two, I heard a crash, and as I rounded the corner, I saw him step away from the half-table in our entryway. He was upset...the angel was on the floor, and a piece had broken off near its foot.
I told Timothy, “It’s okay...but see – this is what I told you might happen if we touched the angel. He is only to look at. I will glue him back together. It will be okay.” I’ll be honest...I might have paid a dollar for this little angel...I would never put a valuable piece where a toddler could reach it and do damage to either the piece or himself! So this was a “teachable moment!”
As I picked Timothy up to give him a hug, I noticed some blood on the top of his bare foot. A shard of the angel had apparently popped loose at just the right angle to nick his skin. It was only a superficial wound, but I once again reinforced the need to leave “very breakable” items alone as I cleaned his foot and put a little antibiotic ointment on the cut.
I’ll admit...this irritated me momentarily. I had repeatedly reminded my little nephew not to touch this angel, knowing fully well that he probably would anyway. But when he did, and the piece broke, I got aggravated – not just at the damaged piece, but that he had hurt himself in the process. But I got over it pretty quickly. I fixed the cherub...fixed the kid...and moved ahead. I tossed aside my feelings of frustration and irritation and let them go.
Do you see that this is what God does with us every single day...only on a much larger scale? These verses from Micah 7 are part of a prayer...one in which the people are acknowledging God’s love and mercy...how He doesn’t stay angry with us forever. If we have chosen to follow Jesus Christ...to make Him the LORD of our life...our sins are forgiven. As humans, we will surely sin again...but God will quickly forgive and forget. He will repair the damage, take us in His arms and remind us that “this is what happens when we disobey.” I’m sure He doesn’t like it...especially when we are hurt in the process. But He sets us on our feet again - and encourages us to move forward and make every effort to do better.
It’s easy to forgive and forget when we’re talking two-year-olds...especially when the situation involves a doting aunt and her precious nephew. But I think we sometimes forget a couple of things...1) how precious we are to God, and how much He wants to show us mercy and forgiveness – and to set us upright when we falter; and 2) how equally precious each person is to God. He expects us to treat others as He treats us...and that means extending grace and mercy to them, even when they stumble and irritate us (or “break something”) in the process. Sometimes, the transgressions seem fairly benign. Sometimes they are costly...and maybe even physically or emotionally harmful. But essentially, they are all the same to God...equally pardonable and reparable.
Think about your own life. Where have you “broken God’s treasures”? Where have you done this to others...and where have they broken things that you value...material possessions, trust, respect, sincerity, and more? Have you truly asked God – and others – to forgive you for these transgressions? Have you freely offered mercy and forgiveness to those who have “trampled” on you in some way? Do you see that in order to ask for – and receive – God’s mercy and forgiveness...you must share these same blessings with others?
Will you cling to past sins – yours or another’s – like the broken pieces of an estate sale cherub? Or will you do your best to repair the damage and move forward? Are you ready to truly live as a disciple of Christ and operate in His tenets? Isn’t it time you were?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Our God, no one is like you.
We are all that is left
of your chosen people,
and you freely forgive
our sin and guilt.
You don’t stay angry forever;
you’re glad to have pity
and pleased to be merciful.
You will trample on our sins
and throw them in the sea.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Somewhere along the line at one of the auctions or estate sales we attended, I acquired a white ceramic cherub. I like angels, and I have quite a few of them sitting around our house in various poses. This particular angel reclined, and I placed him on a half-table in our entryway. The cherub looked sweet there with some other “found things” from my collection.
Timothy was so intrigued with this little angel when he was a toddler. He loved to stand and look at it...and to touch its shiny, smooth surface. Many times, I reminded him, “Don’t touch! He’s ‘very breakable’.” This was a phrase that Timothy’s mother used often when SHE was little...lots of things were “very breakable.” One day when Timothy was about two, I heard a crash, and as I rounded the corner, I saw him step away from the half-table in our entryway. He was upset...the angel was on the floor, and a piece had broken off near its foot.
I told Timothy, “It’s okay...but see – this is what I told you might happen if we touched the angel. He is only to look at. I will glue him back together. It will be okay.” I’ll be honest...I might have paid a dollar for this little angel...I would never put a valuable piece where a toddler could reach it and do damage to either the piece or himself! So this was a “teachable moment!”
As I picked Timothy up to give him a hug, I noticed some blood on the top of his bare foot. A shard of the angel had apparently popped loose at just the right angle to nick his skin. It was only a superficial wound, but I once again reinforced the need to leave “very breakable” items alone as I cleaned his foot and put a little antibiotic ointment on the cut.
I’ll admit...this irritated me momentarily. I had repeatedly reminded my little nephew not to touch this angel, knowing fully well that he probably would anyway. But when he did, and the piece broke, I got aggravated – not just at the damaged piece, but that he had hurt himself in the process. But I got over it pretty quickly. I fixed the cherub...fixed the kid...and moved ahead. I tossed aside my feelings of frustration and irritation and let them go.
Do you see that this is what God does with us every single day...only on a much larger scale? These verses from Micah 7 are part of a prayer...one in which the people are acknowledging God’s love and mercy...how He doesn’t stay angry with us forever. If we have chosen to follow Jesus Christ...to make Him the LORD of our life...our sins are forgiven. As humans, we will surely sin again...but God will quickly forgive and forget. He will repair the damage, take us in His arms and remind us that “this is what happens when we disobey.” I’m sure He doesn’t like it...especially when we are hurt in the process. But He sets us on our feet again - and encourages us to move forward and make every effort to do better.
It’s easy to forgive and forget when we’re talking two-year-olds...especially when the situation involves a doting aunt and her precious nephew. But I think we sometimes forget a couple of things...1) how precious we are to God, and how much He wants to show us mercy and forgiveness – and to set us upright when we falter; and 2) how equally precious each person is to God. He expects us to treat others as He treats us...and that means extending grace and mercy to them, even when they stumble and irritate us (or “break something”) in the process. Sometimes, the transgressions seem fairly benign. Sometimes they are costly...and maybe even physically or emotionally harmful. But essentially, they are all the same to God...equally pardonable and reparable.
Think about your own life. Where have you “broken God’s treasures”? Where have you done this to others...and where have they broken things that you value...material possessions, trust, respect, sincerity, and more? Have you truly asked God – and others – to forgive you for these transgressions? Have you freely offered mercy and forgiveness to those who have “trampled” on you in some way? Do you see that in order to ask for – and receive – God’s mercy and forgiveness...you must share these same blessings with others?
Will you cling to past sins – yours or another’s – like the broken pieces of an estate sale cherub? Or will you do your best to repair the damage and move forward? Are you ready to truly live as a disciple of Christ and operate in His tenets? Isn’t it time you were?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 26, 2014
Matthew 6:12
... and forgive us our sins, just as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
When I was in tenth grade, I studied geometry. Our teacher, Mrs. Berry, taught us about mathematical theorems and properties. A theorem has been defined as “a general proposition not self-evident but proved by a chain of reasoning; a truth established by means of accepted truths.” We wrote “proofs” that outlined how we arrived at certain conclusions. There were lots of “if - then” statements...as in, “If 2 sides and the included angle of one triangle are congruent respectively to 2 sides and the included angles of a second triangle, then the 2 triangles are congruent.” Yeah, I know...I had a love/hate relationship with geometry class. The proofs could be fun...but they could also make us a little crazy! And for the life of me, I could not see what benefits this information would provide in adult life!
But here’s the thing...there are “if - then” statements all throughout our lives...”theorems” that dictate and determine how situations and circumstances will play out. And one of these “theorems” is that if we want God to forgive us...then we must forgive others first. Simply put, we cannot ask God to show mercy toward us if we are unwilling to do the same for our fellow man. This would amount to asking God to declare that we are better than others...deserving of special treatment...more important to Him than the next guy.
When we ask God to forgive us and refuse to forgive others, we essentially say, “I don’t have to play by the rules. God will give me a ‘pass’.” I am pretty sure Jesus didn’t hang on the cross and say, “With my very life’s blood, I forgive the sins of the world...but only some of these people will have to forgive others in my name. A few get special exceptions and advantages.”
Would you really want to serve a Savior who operated this way? Don’t worry...you don’t have to...because the forgiveness of Jesus doesn’t work this way - never has and never will! Jesus was emphatically clear about this...if you forgive others, then I will hear your requests to be forgiven.
I can still remember showing proofs to Mrs. Berry that she vetoed. The properties and evidence were not right. The logical order was out of kilter. Somehow, things didn’t quite “line up” as they should...and often it was one teeny tiny thing that was amiss. Until we got everything right, she would say, “Go back and do it again.” And until we get this right, Jesus is pretty much saying the same thing.
If there are areas in your life where you can’t seem to get headed in the right direction, take some time to do a little soul searching. If you have prayed repeatedly over an issue or situation and feel you have not received an answer, ask yourself where you might have missed a step and blocked the forgiveness of Jesus and His mercy in your life because of your unwillingness to follow His commands. Jesus doesn’t play games...but this is no “sport” with Him. Purely and simply, this is His commandment to us - to forgive others and show them mercy - in order to receive His pardon and understanding in our own situations.
Take a good look at the “proofs” in your life. Examine your “work” and see where you need make revisions. If you share grace, mercy and forgiveness with others, then you can boldly ask Jesus to do the same for you. Just as it is with geometry, no steps can be omitted if you wish to reach the right conclusion. When you logically and thoroughly trace each thought or action, you can determine where you stumbled and make the necessary changes. Will this be the day that you set things right by offering forgiveness and mercy to others? Have you successfully ordered all of the steps in your “proof”? Isn’t it time you did?
©2014 Debbie Robus
... and forgive us our sins, just as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
When I was in tenth grade, I studied geometry. Our teacher, Mrs. Berry, taught us about mathematical theorems and properties. A theorem has been defined as “a general proposition not self-evident but proved by a chain of reasoning; a truth established by means of accepted truths.” We wrote “proofs” that outlined how we arrived at certain conclusions. There were lots of “if - then” statements...as in, “If 2 sides and the included angle of one triangle are congruent respectively to 2 sides and the included angles of a second triangle, then the 2 triangles are congruent.” Yeah, I know...I had a love/hate relationship with geometry class. The proofs could be fun...but they could also make us a little crazy! And for the life of me, I could not see what benefits this information would provide in adult life!
But here’s the thing...there are “if - then” statements all throughout our lives...”theorems” that dictate and determine how situations and circumstances will play out. And one of these “theorems” is that if we want God to forgive us...then we must forgive others first. Simply put, we cannot ask God to show mercy toward us if we are unwilling to do the same for our fellow man. This would amount to asking God to declare that we are better than others...deserving of special treatment...more important to Him than the next guy.
When we ask God to forgive us and refuse to forgive others, we essentially say, “I don’t have to play by the rules. God will give me a ‘pass’.” I am pretty sure Jesus didn’t hang on the cross and say, “With my very life’s blood, I forgive the sins of the world...but only some of these people will have to forgive others in my name. A few get special exceptions and advantages.”
Would you really want to serve a Savior who operated this way? Don’t worry...you don’t have to...because the forgiveness of Jesus doesn’t work this way - never has and never will! Jesus was emphatically clear about this...if you forgive others, then I will hear your requests to be forgiven.
I can still remember showing proofs to Mrs. Berry that she vetoed. The properties and evidence were not right. The logical order was out of kilter. Somehow, things didn’t quite “line up” as they should...and often it was one teeny tiny thing that was amiss. Until we got everything right, she would say, “Go back and do it again.” And until we get this right, Jesus is pretty much saying the same thing.
If there are areas in your life where you can’t seem to get headed in the right direction, take some time to do a little soul searching. If you have prayed repeatedly over an issue or situation and feel you have not received an answer, ask yourself where you might have missed a step and blocked the forgiveness of Jesus and His mercy in your life because of your unwillingness to follow His commands. Jesus doesn’t play games...but this is no “sport” with Him. Purely and simply, this is His commandment to us - to forgive others and show them mercy - in order to receive His pardon and understanding in our own situations.
Take a good look at the “proofs” in your life. Examine your “work” and see where you need make revisions. If you share grace, mercy and forgiveness with others, then you can boldly ask Jesus to do the same for you. Just as it is with geometry, no steps can be omitted if you wish to reach the right conclusion. When you logically and thoroughly trace each thought or action, you can determine where you stumbled and make the necessary changes. Will this be the day that you set things right by offering forgiveness and mercy to others? Have you successfully ordered all of the steps in your “proof”? Isn’t it time you did?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 25, 2014
Matthew 5:43-47
“You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves. This is what God does. He gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. If you simply say hello to those who greet you, do you expect a medal? Any run-of-the-mill sinner does that.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
A friend recently shared with me that someone was spreading untruths about her. These were intended to smear her character and sully her reputation. And I am sure that people who don’t truly know this person might actually be taken in by such lies. My friend related how she was so angry...how her “gut reaction” was to conjure up thoughts of retaliation. I get that...I really do. I told her that I have a tendency to launch right into name calling – if only in the secrecy of my own home!
In her book, The Best Yes*, author Lysa TerKeurst shares an incident where she was so angry with her husband that “...I may or may not have called him a name, one that you can actually find in the Bible that starts with an A and ends in an S. Three letters. Only I didn’t mean it in the biblical sense. If you know what I mean.”
Haven’t we all been there? And honestly, didn’t this feeling drain you of a lot of energy? My friend said that when she opened her e-mail messages, she found one of my devotionals that spoke of forgiveness and mercy, and she was challenged to channel her “angry energy” in a different direction. That’s a big challenge! And I’ll admit...there are moments when I am right there with you - and Lysa TerKeurst - and a whole lot of other people!
Here’s the thing. Satan is the only winner in this. Your efforts to operate in forgiveness and mercy do not breed more lies and abuses or mistreatment from others...although it may seem that this is the case. You are not giving these people license to run unchecked over you and others. Instead, you are saying, “With God, all things are possible...including this.” You are declaring (if only to yourself) that God has instilled in you the power and courage to be your best self...to reflect Him at all times and in all ways. You are demonstrating your faith and honoring your Christian discipleship.
Is this easy? No way...especially not at first. There will be times when we are so beaten down by a circumstance or another human being that we feel like there is no love left in us. There have even been a couple of times in my life where I was so completely drained and devastated that I couldn’t even pray for a while...I didn’t know what to say or how to even begin. So you know what I did? I just sat and opened my heart to God and let Him fill me. And that is exactly what He did!
When you are at a point where you don’t know what to do...where to turn...how to even begin to call on God for help...stop and simply say, “Come, Lord Jesus!” Let Him handle the details. Allow the balm of His healing touch to wash over you and fill the nooks and crannies...and remove all traces of animosity, anger, hatred, and frustration. When you begin to get your bearings again, start to pray for the person(s) or situation that has you so unsettled. It is very hard to operate in anything but love for something or someone for whom you are praying!
Today, my challenge for each of us is to pick out one “enemy”...one person or situation toward which we have animosity, unsettled feelings, anger, and/or a desire for revenge or retaliation – or maybe just a tiny bit of ill will. Maybe you have at least had the thought that “I’d like for him/her to suffer just a little for this.” Now...start to pray. Ask God to fill you with love and mercy...compassion, kindness and forgiveness. Call on God to channel your energy in a positive direction and to enable you to rise above these feelings...to make you the honorable representative of Jesus that He has called you to be.
We in no way excuse others’ sins...or condone their abusive and dishonest behaviors or their mistreatment of us – or anyone else. But let’s take ourselves out of the equation. Let’s “let go and let God” when we begin to pray over these circumstances and to allow Him to handle things. And in doing this, we will open ourselves to God’s best...for all parties. Won’t you whisper, “Come, Lord Jesus”? How – and where – will you allow Him to give you His best today?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
“You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves. This is what God does. He gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. If you simply say hello to those who greet you, do you expect a medal? Any run-of-the-mill sinner does that.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
A friend recently shared with me that someone was spreading untruths about her. These were intended to smear her character and sully her reputation. And I am sure that people who don’t truly know this person might actually be taken in by such lies. My friend related how she was so angry...how her “gut reaction” was to conjure up thoughts of retaliation. I get that...I really do. I told her that I have a tendency to launch right into name calling – if only in the secrecy of my own home!
In her book, The Best Yes*, author Lysa TerKeurst shares an incident where she was so angry with her husband that “...I may or may not have called him a name, one that you can actually find in the Bible that starts with an A and ends in an S. Three letters. Only I didn’t mean it in the biblical sense. If you know what I mean.”
Haven’t we all been there? And honestly, didn’t this feeling drain you of a lot of energy? My friend said that when she opened her e-mail messages, she found one of my devotionals that spoke of forgiveness and mercy, and she was challenged to channel her “angry energy” in a different direction. That’s a big challenge! And I’ll admit...there are moments when I am right there with you - and Lysa TerKeurst - and a whole lot of other people!
Here’s the thing. Satan is the only winner in this. Your efforts to operate in forgiveness and mercy do not breed more lies and abuses or mistreatment from others...although it may seem that this is the case. You are not giving these people license to run unchecked over you and others. Instead, you are saying, “With God, all things are possible...including this.” You are declaring (if only to yourself) that God has instilled in you the power and courage to be your best self...to reflect Him at all times and in all ways. You are demonstrating your faith and honoring your Christian discipleship.
Is this easy? No way...especially not at first. There will be times when we are so beaten down by a circumstance or another human being that we feel like there is no love left in us. There have even been a couple of times in my life where I was so completely drained and devastated that I couldn’t even pray for a while...I didn’t know what to say or how to even begin. So you know what I did? I just sat and opened my heart to God and let Him fill me. And that is exactly what He did!
When you are at a point where you don’t know what to do...where to turn...how to even begin to call on God for help...stop and simply say, “Come, Lord Jesus!” Let Him handle the details. Allow the balm of His healing touch to wash over you and fill the nooks and crannies...and remove all traces of animosity, anger, hatred, and frustration. When you begin to get your bearings again, start to pray for the person(s) or situation that has you so unsettled. It is very hard to operate in anything but love for something or someone for whom you are praying!
Today, my challenge for each of us is to pick out one “enemy”...one person or situation toward which we have animosity, unsettled feelings, anger, and/or a desire for revenge or retaliation – or maybe just a tiny bit of ill will. Maybe you have at least had the thought that “I’d like for him/her to suffer just a little for this.” Now...start to pray. Ask God to fill you with love and mercy...compassion, kindness and forgiveness. Call on God to channel your energy in a positive direction and to enable you to rise above these feelings...to make you the honorable representative of Jesus that He has called you to be.
We in no way excuse others’ sins...or condone their abusive and dishonest behaviors or their mistreatment of us – or anyone else. But let’s take ourselves out of the equation. Let’s “let go and let God” when we begin to pray over these circumstances and to allow Him to handle things. And in doing this, we will open ourselves to God’s best...for all parties. Won’t you whisper, “Come, Lord Jesus”? How – and where – will you allow Him to give you His best today?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
Daily Devotional for August 24, 2014
Matthew 5:21-26
“You’re familiar with the command to the ancients, ‘Do not murder.’ I’m telling you that anyone who is so much as angry with a brother or sister is guilty of murder. Carelessly call a brother ‘idiot!’ and you just might find yourself hauled into court. Thoughtlessly yell ‘stupid!’ at a sister and you are on the brink of hellfire. The simple moral fact is that words kill.
“This is how I want you to conduct yourself in these matters. If you enter your place of worship and, about to make an offering, you suddenly remember a grudge a friend has against you, abandon your offering, leave immediately, go to this friend and make things right. Then and only then, come back and work things out with God.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Whew, boy! This is a tough passage to digest! I’m reading Everybody’s Got Something*, written by ABC’s "Good Morning America" co-anchor Robin Roberts. She repeats the title of her book throughout its text...a phrase frequently spoken to Roberts by her late mother, Lucimarian. Roberts uses this phrase to refer to struggles...challenges...issues. But I want to use it today to refer to an entirely different kind of “something” – offenses...grudges...hurts...insults, and those things that make you go, “Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!”
Don’t pretend for one minute that you don’t know what I’m talking about...and do not judge. Because we all have these feelings and behaviors! We are human...and human beings get angry and irritated with one another! But here’s the thing. Jesus tells us that we cannot STAY angry. We cannot call others names - even when we feel that they deserve them. In the words of this scripture passage...”The simple moral fact is that words kill.”
As a society, we have honestly grown so comfortable – and complacent – with name calling and being angry about this, that or another that I don’t think we even realize the damage we do...to others AND to ourselves. Don’t you know someone who is always angry or in turmoil about something or someone? Have you really stopped to consider their overall attitude? If you did, I bet you would see someone who is “emotionally turbulent”...a person whose “insides” must be churning much of the time with the stress and unsettledness of these feelings. Now think of someone who seems to let things “roll off his/her back”...someone who appears to have a pretty good handle on the gifts of grace, mercy, forgiveness and kindness toward others. Which one seems to have the more peaceful life? With which of these people would you prefer to spend time?
In my experience, anger and resentment are like cancers that eat away – at YOUR soul, not the other guy’s. And clearly, God is not pleased when we harbor these feelings. When we operate in anger and unforgiveness...when we speak unkindly of others and call them names...we essentially say, “Jesus wasted His time on this earth. His life – and His death on the cross – are meaningless.” I don’t believe this for one minute...do you? We also deny the scriptures that tell us that every single person is precious to God...not one person is more important or special than another. To speak angrily or hatefully of another is to say, “I’m better than him/her. God loves me more.” And this is simply not the case. So we have to make a concerted effort to change our attitudes and what comes out of our mouths.
Who’s with me here? Who is feeling pretty sheepish and “called out” right about now? I know I am! I’m telling you...Christian discipleship ain’t for sissies or wimps! The next time you are tempted to be openly critical of someone...or to call him/her a name...remember this passage. The next time you feel anger welling up in you (and you will!), take a deep breath and ask God to help you operate in a spirit of mercy and forgiveness.
Whether you ever approach the person with whom you have the beef is not really relevant. Scripture tells us to make things right with those whom WE have offended...but we are not instructed to go around confronting others and telling them, “You made me mad or hurt my feelings, and I forgive you.” It seems to be pleasing enough to God that you forgive in your heart, which He discerns – unless you are asked to by someone to forgive them verbally. Honestly, I think others will know your heart, too...because your overall demeanor will reflect your inward spirit – and your peace through Christ Jesus.
Don’t be known as someone who is angry or unforgiving. Don’t be reputed to be a cynic and a grump. This is not representative of the grace, mercy, love and forgiveness of Jesus. If we want to represent Him...to be a genuine disciple of Christ...we have to work hard and be willing to accept His instruction in all things. Everybody’s got something...don’t let yours be a grudge!
©2014 Debbie Robus
*Everybody’s Got Something - ©2014 by Robin Roberts ~ Grand Central Publishing, Hachette Book Group
“You’re familiar with the command to the ancients, ‘Do not murder.’ I’m telling you that anyone who is so much as angry with a brother or sister is guilty of murder. Carelessly call a brother ‘idiot!’ and you just might find yourself hauled into court. Thoughtlessly yell ‘stupid!’ at a sister and you are on the brink of hellfire. The simple moral fact is that words kill.
“This is how I want you to conduct yourself in these matters. If you enter your place of worship and, about to make an offering, you suddenly remember a grudge a friend has against you, abandon your offering, leave immediately, go to this friend and make things right. Then and only then, come back and work things out with God.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Whew, boy! This is a tough passage to digest! I’m reading Everybody’s Got Something*, written by ABC’s "Good Morning America" co-anchor Robin Roberts. She repeats the title of her book throughout its text...a phrase frequently spoken to Roberts by her late mother, Lucimarian. Roberts uses this phrase to refer to struggles...challenges...issues. But I want to use it today to refer to an entirely different kind of “something” – offenses...grudges...hurts...insults, and those things that make you go, “Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!”
Don’t pretend for one minute that you don’t know what I’m talking about...and do not judge. Because we all have these feelings and behaviors! We are human...and human beings get angry and irritated with one another! But here’s the thing. Jesus tells us that we cannot STAY angry. We cannot call others names - even when we feel that they deserve them. In the words of this scripture passage...”The simple moral fact is that words kill.”
As a society, we have honestly grown so comfortable – and complacent – with name calling and being angry about this, that or another that I don’t think we even realize the damage we do...to others AND to ourselves. Don’t you know someone who is always angry or in turmoil about something or someone? Have you really stopped to consider their overall attitude? If you did, I bet you would see someone who is “emotionally turbulent”...a person whose “insides” must be churning much of the time with the stress and unsettledness of these feelings. Now think of someone who seems to let things “roll off his/her back”...someone who appears to have a pretty good handle on the gifts of grace, mercy, forgiveness and kindness toward others. Which one seems to have the more peaceful life? With which of these people would you prefer to spend time?
In my experience, anger and resentment are like cancers that eat away – at YOUR soul, not the other guy’s. And clearly, God is not pleased when we harbor these feelings. When we operate in anger and unforgiveness...when we speak unkindly of others and call them names...we essentially say, “Jesus wasted His time on this earth. His life – and His death on the cross – are meaningless.” I don’t believe this for one minute...do you? We also deny the scriptures that tell us that every single person is precious to God...not one person is more important or special than another. To speak angrily or hatefully of another is to say, “I’m better than him/her. God loves me more.” And this is simply not the case. So we have to make a concerted effort to change our attitudes and what comes out of our mouths.
Who’s with me here? Who is feeling pretty sheepish and “called out” right about now? I know I am! I’m telling you...Christian discipleship ain’t for sissies or wimps! The next time you are tempted to be openly critical of someone...or to call him/her a name...remember this passage. The next time you feel anger welling up in you (and you will!), take a deep breath and ask God to help you operate in a spirit of mercy and forgiveness.
Whether you ever approach the person with whom you have the beef is not really relevant. Scripture tells us to make things right with those whom WE have offended...but we are not instructed to go around confronting others and telling them, “You made me mad or hurt my feelings, and I forgive you.” It seems to be pleasing enough to God that you forgive in your heart, which He discerns – unless you are asked to by someone to forgive them verbally. Honestly, I think others will know your heart, too...because your overall demeanor will reflect your inward spirit – and your peace through Christ Jesus.
Don’t be known as someone who is angry or unforgiving. Don’t be reputed to be a cynic and a grump. This is not representative of the grace, mercy, love and forgiveness of Jesus. If we want to represent Him...to be a genuine disciple of Christ...we have to work hard and be willing to accept His instruction in all things. Everybody’s got something...don’t let yours be a grudge!
©2014 Debbie Robus
*Everybody’s Got Something - ©2014 by Robin Roberts ~ Grand Central Publishing, Hachette Book Group
Daily Devotional for August 23, 2014
Matthew 5:11-12
“Not only that—count yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable. You can be glad when that happens—give a cheer, even!—for though they don’t like it, I do! And all heaven applauds. And know that you are in good company. My prophets and witnesses have always gotten into this kind of trouble.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
When I was in junior high, one of our teachers took a few students to Little Rock for some sort of meeting one Saturday. After the meeting, we went to a movie (I think we saw “Love Story”) and then we did some shopping. On the way home, a couple of the girls and I were in the back seat of the car, and they were whispering and peeking into their shopping bag. I asked what they were whispering about, and they “played dumb”. Finally, one of them said, “You cannot say anything...but we stole these bathing suits.” Each one of them had “lifted” a swimsuit from a well-known department store.
Here’s the thing...those girls did not want to include me in their “secret”, because they knew that I would not approve of their theft. They made this abundantly clear with some of their comments and the tone with which they delivered them. In fact, the only reason that they were having anything to do with me at all was because we were crammed together in the backseat of our teacher’s car!
Quite frankly, there were quite a few kids who didn’t want anything to do with me and some of my friends during junior high and high school, because they knew that we attended church regularly. Whether we were full-out “Jesus freaks” or not, we were judge to be “uncool” and seen as “goody-two-shoes” types. The fact that our parents made us go to church all the time was irrelevant. Some of us who actually participated regularly in church activities were even ostracized by a few of the kids who attended our church with us, but were less involved. There was definitely a “hierarchy”, based on what others perceived to be our level of faith and involvement with Jesus and the church!
Even today, this is often a tough road for young people to hoe. And I think that is why some of them go in such a totally different direction once they get out of high school and/or go off to college. Maybe this describes you. I know I was like this, to some degree. When I no longer felt I had to attend church twice on Sundays and some Wednesday nights, I didn’t go...at all. I still read my Bible and prayed. But I didn’t do a whole lot to give others any opportunity to put me down or throw me out of their “circle” because of my faith!
I’ll be really honest here...I don’t regret that time in my life. Here’s why... I believe that God used this season where I shrunk into the woodwork and tried to blend in to grow my faith. When I “emerged” as an adult and developed a full-fledged, all-in relationship with Jesus, it was that much sweeter. I felt the applause of heaven...I no longer cared whether I was “in” or not...there was only ONE I longed to please...and His name was Jesus. In the years that I have been more fully engaged in a communion with Christ and His Holy Spirit, there have been as many – or maybe more – times that I have felt like an outsider...times when I have been put down or “thrown out”, both literally and figuratively.
But now, I look at these incidents in a completely different light. The “sting” of rejection and ridicule is not there – at least not so heavily. The sense that I am doing what God desires trumps any insults or indignations that might be hurled my way. I sometimes have to remind myself that...”It’s okay...I did what God asked of me, so all will be well.” And I am human...nobody likes to be insulted or excluded...so I do occasionally get my feelings hurt a little. But all I have to do is spend some time with God, and He steers me in the right direction and sets me back on my feet. He’s like that...wise, kind, merciful and gracious!
I don’t know where you are in your journey. I don’t know what rocks of insult and indignation have been hurled in your direction...or how you have handled them. But I do know this...God will not waste your obedience and faithfulness. He wants you to be kind, generous, loving, merciful and gracious toward others – even when they treat you poorly. But He wants you to always operate in the truth, and to faithfully do and say the things that you know He is sanctioning. It may hurt for a little while in the human sense, but I assure you, God is beyond pleased. He makes a mental note for all eternity that on this day and in this way, you honored Him in your words and actions...and He will bless you for this decision.
I did not “rat out” my friends. I was a teenager eager to please and unwilling to risk being ostracized any further. And while I certainly do not condone theft in any manner, these kids grew into responsible, honorable adults. It was a childhood prank...albeit a dishonest one. As adults, at least a few of them have developed a rapport with me and a respect for my faith that was not there when we were young... and maybe that is in part due to my mercy toward them in this situation.
In her book The Best Yes*, author/speaker Lysa TerKeurst says that there are no perfect decisions...there will be positives and negatives to every choice. She maintains that “when you desire to please God with a decision, and afterwards it proves to be a mistake, it’s an error...not an end.” She adds, “If I am trusting myself, I will stare at all the possible ways I could fail. If I’m trusting God, I will stare at all the possible ways He’ll use this whether I fail or succeed. As long as you desire to please God with your decisions, no decision you make will be completely awful...nor will any decision be completely awesome. There is no perfect decision – only the perfectly surrendered decision to press through our fears and know that God is working in us to bring about good through us.”
What are you afraid of today? Where have you stood paralyzed with fear and inaction because you didn’t want to be judged, put down or thrown out? Isn’t it time we started trusting God to get us past these things... to make a way where we see none...to shield us out of His abundant love, grace, mercy, compassion – and joy – for our obedience and faith? Whose company are you keeping these days...that of the “in crowd”...or the company of God’s prophets and witnesses?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
“Not only that—count yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable. You can be glad when that happens—give a cheer, even!—for though they don’t like it, I do! And all heaven applauds. And know that you are in good company. My prophets and witnesses have always gotten into this kind of trouble.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
When I was in junior high, one of our teachers took a few students to Little Rock for some sort of meeting one Saturday. After the meeting, we went to a movie (I think we saw “Love Story”) and then we did some shopping. On the way home, a couple of the girls and I were in the back seat of the car, and they were whispering and peeking into their shopping bag. I asked what they were whispering about, and they “played dumb”. Finally, one of them said, “You cannot say anything...but we stole these bathing suits.” Each one of them had “lifted” a swimsuit from a well-known department store.
Here’s the thing...those girls did not want to include me in their “secret”, because they knew that I would not approve of their theft. They made this abundantly clear with some of their comments and the tone with which they delivered them. In fact, the only reason that they were having anything to do with me at all was because we were crammed together in the backseat of our teacher’s car!
Quite frankly, there were quite a few kids who didn’t want anything to do with me and some of my friends during junior high and high school, because they knew that we attended church regularly. Whether we were full-out “Jesus freaks” or not, we were judge to be “uncool” and seen as “goody-two-shoes” types. The fact that our parents made us go to church all the time was irrelevant. Some of us who actually participated regularly in church activities were even ostracized by a few of the kids who attended our church with us, but were less involved. There was definitely a “hierarchy”, based on what others perceived to be our level of faith and involvement with Jesus and the church!
Even today, this is often a tough road for young people to hoe. And I think that is why some of them go in such a totally different direction once they get out of high school and/or go off to college. Maybe this describes you. I know I was like this, to some degree. When I no longer felt I had to attend church twice on Sundays and some Wednesday nights, I didn’t go...at all. I still read my Bible and prayed. But I didn’t do a whole lot to give others any opportunity to put me down or throw me out of their “circle” because of my faith!
I’ll be really honest here...I don’t regret that time in my life. Here’s why... I believe that God used this season where I shrunk into the woodwork and tried to blend in to grow my faith. When I “emerged” as an adult and developed a full-fledged, all-in relationship with Jesus, it was that much sweeter. I felt the applause of heaven...I no longer cared whether I was “in” or not...there was only ONE I longed to please...and His name was Jesus. In the years that I have been more fully engaged in a communion with Christ and His Holy Spirit, there have been as many – or maybe more – times that I have felt like an outsider...times when I have been put down or “thrown out”, both literally and figuratively.
But now, I look at these incidents in a completely different light. The “sting” of rejection and ridicule is not there – at least not so heavily. The sense that I am doing what God desires trumps any insults or indignations that might be hurled my way. I sometimes have to remind myself that...”It’s okay...I did what God asked of me, so all will be well.” And I am human...nobody likes to be insulted or excluded...so I do occasionally get my feelings hurt a little. But all I have to do is spend some time with God, and He steers me in the right direction and sets me back on my feet. He’s like that...wise, kind, merciful and gracious!
I don’t know where you are in your journey. I don’t know what rocks of insult and indignation have been hurled in your direction...or how you have handled them. But I do know this...God will not waste your obedience and faithfulness. He wants you to be kind, generous, loving, merciful and gracious toward others – even when they treat you poorly. But He wants you to always operate in the truth, and to faithfully do and say the things that you know He is sanctioning. It may hurt for a little while in the human sense, but I assure you, God is beyond pleased. He makes a mental note for all eternity that on this day and in this way, you honored Him in your words and actions...and He will bless you for this decision.
I did not “rat out” my friends. I was a teenager eager to please and unwilling to risk being ostracized any further. And while I certainly do not condone theft in any manner, these kids grew into responsible, honorable adults. It was a childhood prank...albeit a dishonest one. As adults, at least a few of them have developed a rapport with me and a respect for my faith that was not there when we were young... and maybe that is in part due to my mercy toward them in this situation.
In her book The Best Yes*, author/speaker Lysa TerKeurst says that there are no perfect decisions...there will be positives and negatives to every choice. She maintains that “when you desire to please God with a decision, and afterwards it proves to be a mistake, it’s an error...not an end.” She adds, “If I am trusting myself, I will stare at all the possible ways I could fail. If I’m trusting God, I will stare at all the possible ways He’ll use this whether I fail or succeed. As long as you desire to please God with your decisions, no decision you make will be completely awful...nor will any decision be completely awesome. There is no perfect decision – only the perfectly surrendered decision to press through our fears and know that God is working in us to bring about good through us.”
What are you afraid of today? Where have you stood paralyzed with fear and inaction because you didn’t want to be judged, put down or thrown out? Isn’t it time we started trusting God to get us past these things... to make a way where we see none...to shield us out of His abundant love, grace, mercy, compassion – and joy – for our obedience and faith? Whose company are you keeping these days...that of the “in crowd”...or the company of God’s prophets and witnesses?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
Daily Devotional for August 22, 2014
Matthew 26:28
“...for this is my blood, sealing the new covenant. It is poured out to forgive the sins of multitudes.”
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
I’ve been seeing trailers for the movie Left Behind, starring Nicholas Cage. This film is set to be released in October 2014. It’s been probably a decade since I read the Left Behind series, written by Tim LaHaye and Jerry B. Jenkins. This set of 12 fictional novels gave me insights into the biblical passages of the book of Revelation and helped “unpack” this chapter of the Bible for me in a manner that I could understand. So I am anxious to see this film and see how Hollywood has treated this story.
As I read the passage from Matthew 26 today – this tiny piece of a verse in which Jesus is speaking – I was reminded of a scene in one of the last books of the Left Behind series. Jesus has returned for His church. All of His believers are gathered in one assemblage...millions of people – maybe more. And Jesus is sitting on His throne and calling their names, one by one. Each person is sitting patiently and waiting his/her turn with Jesus. No one grows impatient...and nothing is rushed. Time must quite literally stand still! As each believer comes to sit with Jesus, it is as if no one else is there. Jesus has all of the time, energy, love and focus for that one person in that moment. Everything centers on the interchange between this Christian and his/her Jesus. When I read this part of the story, I literally cried. I was so moved by this deeply personal interaction and how much Jesus loves each of us...how much He loves ME!
So as I read Jesus’ words in Matthew 26 today, I thought of His blood shed on the cross...for ME...and YOU...and the other guy...each and every one of us individually. People could easily say, “It’s really no stretch to say that Jesus’ blood was shed for each one of us, because He was there...either way He was crucified.” And anyone who believes this has totally missed the point.
When God sent Jesus to earth, knowing fully well what would happen to Him...how high the cost would be...He said, “I’m sending Him anyway. I’m sending Him to die for Joe, Sue, Jim, Margaret, Sanjay, José, Chou Ling, Svetlana, Ingrid, Marco, Dakotah, Moses, Naomi, Kenyatta...” and on and on. Jesus didn’t die on that cross for anyone else more or less significant than YOU! When Jesus surrendered His spirit to God...He was thinking of YOU! Out of His abundant love, grace, mercy and forgiveness, He stayed nailed to the cross and suffered unimaginable atrocities...for YOU!
If you don't take away anything else from these words today, hear this. Jesus died for the sins of the multitudes...but no one is any more or less precious to Him than you are. When you think of the blood of the cross...when you “drink the cup” in Holy Communion...consider this to be your “time at the throne” in His presence. Imagine that someday, you truly will have your “moment” with Him in this manner...and it will be as if you are the only one who exists for Him. You are THAT special and important!
So whatever is happening in your life today, stop and think of the cross and Jesus’ blood...shed for you. Remind yourself that you are so important to Jesus that He made this amazing sacrifice...just for you. Surely He can handle the challenges of your day. The One who sacrificed everything on your behalf is not about to abandon you now! Feel His presence. Recognize His amazing love for you...His grace and mercy over every aspect of your life. Thank Him for such glorious compassion and devotion. Honor Him with every word and action.
Jesus came to the world for YOU. If you have committed your heart to Jesus, He will come back...for YOU. This promise is signed and sealed for all who belong to Jesus...those who call on Him and trust in His power to forgive. Are you one of His already? Isn’t it time you were?
©2014 Debbie Robus
“...for this is my blood, sealing the new covenant. It is poured out to forgive the sins of multitudes.”
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
I’ve been seeing trailers for the movie Left Behind, starring Nicholas Cage. This film is set to be released in October 2014. It’s been probably a decade since I read the Left Behind series, written by Tim LaHaye and Jerry B. Jenkins. This set of 12 fictional novels gave me insights into the biblical passages of the book of Revelation and helped “unpack” this chapter of the Bible for me in a manner that I could understand. So I am anxious to see this film and see how Hollywood has treated this story.
As I read the passage from Matthew 26 today – this tiny piece of a verse in which Jesus is speaking – I was reminded of a scene in one of the last books of the Left Behind series. Jesus has returned for His church. All of His believers are gathered in one assemblage...millions of people – maybe more. And Jesus is sitting on His throne and calling their names, one by one. Each person is sitting patiently and waiting his/her turn with Jesus. No one grows impatient...and nothing is rushed. Time must quite literally stand still! As each believer comes to sit with Jesus, it is as if no one else is there. Jesus has all of the time, energy, love and focus for that one person in that moment. Everything centers on the interchange between this Christian and his/her Jesus. When I read this part of the story, I literally cried. I was so moved by this deeply personal interaction and how much Jesus loves each of us...how much He loves ME!
So as I read Jesus’ words in Matthew 26 today, I thought of His blood shed on the cross...for ME...and YOU...and the other guy...each and every one of us individually. People could easily say, “It’s really no stretch to say that Jesus’ blood was shed for each one of us, because He was there...either way He was crucified.” And anyone who believes this has totally missed the point.
When God sent Jesus to earth, knowing fully well what would happen to Him...how high the cost would be...He said, “I’m sending Him anyway. I’m sending Him to die for Joe, Sue, Jim, Margaret, Sanjay, José, Chou Ling, Svetlana, Ingrid, Marco, Dakotah, Moses, Naomi, Kenyatta...” and on and on. Jesus didn’t die on that cross for anyone else more or less significant than YOU! When Jesus surrendered His spirit to God...He was thinking of YOU! Out of His abundant love, grace, mercy and forgiveness, He stayed nailed to the cross and suffered unimaginable atrocities...for YOU!
If you don't take away anything else from these words today, hear this. Jesus died for the sins of the multitudes...but no one is any more or less precious to Him than you are. When you think of the blood of the cross...when you “drink the cup” in Holy Communion...consider this to be your “time at the throne” in His presence. Imagine that someday, you truly will have your “moment” with Him in this manner...and it will be as if you are the only one who exists for Him. You are THAT special and important!
So whatever is happening in your life today, stop and think of the cross and Jesus’ blood...shed for you. Remind yourself that you are so important to Jesus that He made this amazing sacrifice...just for you. Surely He can handle the challenges of your day. The One who sacrificed everything on your behalf is not about to abandon you now! Feel His presence. Recognize His amazing love for you...His grace and mercy over every aspect of your life. Thank Him for such glorious compassion and devotion. Honor Him with every word and action.
Jesus came to the world for YOU. If you have committed your heart to Jesus, He will come back...for YOU. This promise is signed and sealed for all who belong to Jesus...those who call on Him and trust in His power to forgive. Are you one of His already? Isn’t it time you were?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 21, 2014
Matthew 18:21-22
Peter came up to the Lord and asked, “How many times should I forgive someone who does something wrong to me? Is seven times enough?”
Jesus answered:
Not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I’ll be honest...I had a hard time committing to write a devo on this scripture passage today. Let’s just say I’m not much in a forgiving mood. I’ve no desire to forgive those who beheaded an American journalist in Syria. I am lacking in forgiveness for those who are responsible for the strife in Ferguson, Missouri – and I truly am not even sure WHO the responsible parties are! I’m not inclined to forgive those who abuse and mistreat other people or animals. I even have a few “brothers and sisters” against whom I’m pretty comfortable holding onto a grudge.
But here’s the thing. I can’t have it both ways. I cannot be a disciple of Jesus – and expect HIM to forgive ME – and carry these resentments. Jesus has made it incredibly clear that unforgiveness is not optional. If I want to be His disciple...if I want HIS forgiveness, mercy and grace in my own life, I have to forgive others...all.of.them!
Before you groan and roll your eyes and say, “Good for you, but I just cannot do this!”...hear what else I have to tell you. Forgiveness of others does not equal weakness...or an endorsement of the other person’s words and actions. Forgiveness does not make you a doormat for others’ mistreatment and/or abuse. Forgiveness can be – and often should be – offered from a safe distance. We can offer forgiveness (if only in our own hearts), and take as many steps away from a situation as necessary in order to be free of further injury. But we must release the ill feelings and ask God to help us offer genuine forgiveness.
Our willingness to forgive others represents surrender to God’s will rather than ours...a faithfulness that He is in control and will mete out perfect justice. Our acts of forgiveness signal a desire on our part to release all feelings of animosity and disdain...heartache and disappointment...and say, “LORD, I’m trusting YOU to handle this...and I am releasing it to Your care.” This frees us to focus on the work of serving God by loving others and ministering to them in His name.
God’s will is for us to enjoy our lives as Christians...not to be saddled by the yoke of unforgiveness! And here’s one other thing...our inability or unwillingness to forgive is a tool of the devil – one he really, really likes! I don’t know about you, but it makes me furious to think that I would give that old monster one more second of pleasure!
So I’m hitting the ground...on my knees...and asking God to remove any spirit of unforgiveness that I might harbor toward anyone. I am asking Him to give me a perspective of objectivity...and a heart of mercy and grace fueled by His mighty power. If you are like me, there are days when you feel like you have already offered a few people more than 77 shots at forgiveness...but let’s not get hung up on the number. Let’s surrender this process to God and let Him fill us with His peace and joy. Let’s release our negative attitudes to Him and claim that, “The LORD is my strength...He has my back...He’s got this!”
I’m reminded of author/teacher Jen Hatmaker’s question in her book Make Over...”Monkey, who are you dancing for?” Are we “dancing” for Jesus...or are we trying to do this under our own power? Let’s make this the day that we ditch the lie of Satan that we are right to harbor these ill feelings. Let’s “change dance partners” and let Jesus take the lead...once and for all. Are you with in?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Peter came up to the Lord and asked, “How many times should I forgive someone who does something wrong to me? Is seven times enough?”
Jesus answered:
Not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I’ll be honest...I had a hard time committing to write a devo on this scripture passage today. Let’s just say I’m not much in a forgiving mood. I’ve no desire to forgive those who beheaded an American journalist in Syria. I am lacking in forgiveness for those who are responsible for the strife in Ferguson, Missouri – and I truly am not even sure WHO the responsible parties are! I’m not inclined to forgive those who abuse and mistreat other people or animals. I even have a few “brothers and sisters” against whom I’m pretty comfortable holding onto a grudge.
But here’s the thing. I can’t have it both ways. I cannot be a disciple of Jesus – and expect HIM to forgive ME – and carry these resentments. Jesus has made it incredibly clear that unforgiveness is not optional. If I want to be His disciple...if I want HIS forgiveness, mercy and grace in my own life, I have to forgive others...all.of.them!
Before you groan and roll your eyes and say, “Good for you, but I just cannot do this!”...hear what else I have to tell you. Forgiveness of others does not equal weakness...or an endorsement of the other person’s words and actions. Forgiveness does not make you a doormat for others’ mistreatment and/or abuse. Forgiveness can be – and often should be – offered from a safe distance. We can offer forgiveness (if only in our own hearts), and take as many steps away from a situation as necessary in order to be free of further injury. But we must release the ill feelings and ask God to help us offer genuine forgiveness.
Our willingness to forgive others represents surrender to God’s will rather than ours...a faithfulness that He is in control and will mete out perfect justice. Our acts of forgiveness signal a desire on our part to release all feelings of animosity and disdain...heartache and disappointment...and say, “LORD, I’m trusting YOU to handle this...and I am releasing it to Your care.” This frees us to focus on the work of serving God by loving others and ministering to them in His name.
God’s will is for us to enjoy our lives as Christians...not to be saddled by the yoke of unforgiveness! And here’s one other thing...our inability or unwillingness to forgive is a tool of the devil – one he really, really likes! I don’t know about you, but it makes me furious to think that I would give that old monster one more second of pleasure!
So I’m hitting the ground...on my knees...and asking God to remove any spirit of unforgiveness that I might harbor toward anyone. I am asking Him to give me a perspective of objectivity...and a heart of mercy and grace fueled by His mighty power. If you are like me, there are days when you feel like you have already offered a few people more than 77 shots at forgiveness...but let’s not get hung up on the number. Let’s surrender this process to God and let Him fill us with His peace and joy. Let’s release our negative attitudes to Him and claim that, “The LORD is my strength...He has my back...He’s got this!”
I’m reminded of author/teacher Jen Hatmaker’s question in her book Make Over...”Monkey, who are you dancing for?” Are we “dancing” for Jesus...or are we trying to do this under our own power? Let’s make this the day that we ditch the lie of Satan that we are right to harbor these ill feelings. Let’s “change dance partners” and let Jesus take the lead...once and for all. Are you with in?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 20, 2014
Matthew 11:28-30
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Almost four years ago, my Mam-ma Polly made the heart-wrenching decision that she could no longer live at home alone. For much of her 98 years, my grandmother had taken care of herself and others...now it was time to allow others to care for her. As Greg and I loaded Mam-ma into the car for the ride to her Assisted Living Facility, we pulled out of her driveway for the last time. I felt a lump grow in my throat. This signaled the end of a season of life...and the beginning of one that would surely be her last. Had she made the right decision? Had we been right to go along with this and help her make it a reality?
In the end, I believe that we all made the best decision...one that we didn’t come to lightly. We spent hours/days/weeks in prayer over this move. And in retrospect, I believe we listened to God and entrusted this option to His infinite wisdom. I believe that He shouldered many burdens for all of us...and that He granted us grace and mercy in many aspects of the move and my grandmother’s subsequent two years of residence there.
I am reading a book called The Best Yes* by author/speaker Lysa TerKeurst. She writes about decisions we all make in our lives...some of them “kick-to-the-gut” tough choices that cause us to over-analyze. Or sometimes we become paralyzed with fear - and unable to move in any direction. She maintains that what we fail to fully acknowledge and accept is God’s wisdom – and mercy –in these choices. In many regards, our inability to give our burdens to Him is an affront. It’s like we’re saying that we think we can do a better job of handling things than God can!
TerKeurst also points out that “there are no perfect decisions.” There will be good points and bad points to each and every one of them. What IS perfect is our surrender to God...and our submission to His ability to render good in any situation. So while the Assisted Living Facility was not “home”...and in many ways it was far from perfect...God took care of my grandmother there – and used her to bless countless others in the process. When she behaved herself and didn’t try to do things she was no longer physically able to do, she was safe there. Her meals were prepared...her clothes were laundered...her room was cleaned...and her medications were properly dispensed. She had fellow residents with whom she could visit, frequent visits from family members and friends, and activities to attend. In many ways, my grandmother surrendered her burdens to God...and He carried them for her.
You and I have quite a few things we probably need to surrender to God. In the words of my cousin Natalie, some of us are “worn smack out” over decisions and struggles. Or maybe we are paralyzed with fear and are really standing still...stagnant...unable to turn in either direction for concern that we will make a wrong move. It’s time to walk in faith... to truly start to trust that God knows far more than we do...to listen to Jesus and surrender our burdens to Him, take HIS yoke (which is far lighter and better fitting!), and trust His wisdom as we make the best choices.
Will things be perfect? Absolutely not! Here’s what TerKeurst says...”My imperfections will never override God’s promises. God’s promises are not dependent on my ability to always choose well, but rather on His ability to use well. God will use the good and not-so-good parts of the decisions we make.” I’m so ready to release some decisions to God and to trust Him to operate in His infinite wisdom. I’m ready take a real rest with Jesus...and live freely and lightly in His grace and mercy. What about you?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
Almost four years ago, my Mam-ma Polly made the heart-wrenching decision that she could no longer live at home alone. For much of her 98 years, my grandmother had taken care of herself and others...now it was time to allow others to care for her. As Greg and I loaded Mam-ma into the car for the ride to her Assisted Living Facility, we pulled out of her driveway for the last time. I felt a lump grow in my throat. This signaled the end of a season of life...and the beginning of one that would surely be her last. Had she made the right decision? Had we been right to go along with this and help her make it a reality?
In the end, I believe that we all made the best decision...one that we didn’t come to lightly. We spent hours/days/weeks in prayer over this move. And in retrospect, I believe we listened to God and entrusted this option to His infinite wisdom. I believe that He shouldered many burdens for all of us...and that He granted us grace and mercy in many aspects of the move and my grandmother’s subsequent two years of residence there.
I am reading a book called The Best Yes* by author/speaker Lysa TerKeurst. She writes about decisions we all make in our lives...some of them “kick-to-the-gut” tough choices that cause us to over-analyze. Or sometimes we become paralyzed with fear - and unable to move in any direction. She maintains that what we fail to fully acknowledge and accept is God’s wisdom – and mercy –in these choices. In many regards, our inability to give our burdens to Him is an affront. It’s like we’re saying that we think we can do a better job of handling things than God can!
TerKeurst also points out that “there are no perfect decisions.” There will be good points and bad points to each and every one of them. What IS perfect is our surrender to God...and our submission to His ability to render good in any situation. So while the Assisted Living Facility was not “home”...and in many ways it was far from perfect...God took care of my grandmother there – and used her to bless countless others in the process. When she behaved herself and didn’t try to do things she was no longer physically able to do, she was safe there. Her meals were prepared...her clothes were laundered...her room was cleaned...and her medications were properly dispensed. She had fellow residents with whom she could visit, frequent visits from family members and friends, and activities to attend. In many ways, my grandmother surrendered her burdens to God...and He carried them for her.
You and I have quite a few things we probably need to surrender to God. In the words of my cousin Natalie, some of us are “worn smack out” over decisions and struggles. Or maybe we are paralyzed with fear and are really standing still...stagnant...unable to turn in either direction for concern that we will make a wrong move. It’s time to walk in faith... to truly start to trust that God knows far more than we do...to listen to Jesus and surrender our burdens to Him, take HIS yoke (which is far lighter and better fitting!), and trust His wisdom as we make the best choices.
Will things be perfect? Absolutely not! Here’s what TerKeurst says...”My imperfections will never override God’s promises. God’s promises are not dependent on my ability to always choose well, but rather on His ability to use well. God will use the good and not-so-good parts of the decisions we make.” I’m so ready to release some decisions to God and to trust Him to operate in His infinite wisdom. I’m ready take a real rest with Jesus...and live freely and lightly in His grace and mercy. What about you?
©2014 Debbie Robus
*The Best Yes - ©2014 by TerKeurst Foundation – published by Nelson Books. Available at Walmart and other major retailers. www.thebestyes.com #TheBestYes
Daily Devotional for August 19, 2014
Mark 11:22-25
Jesus was matter-of-fact: “Embrace this God-life. Really embrace it, and nothing will be too much for you. This mountain, for instance: Just say, ‘Go jump in the lake’—no shuffling or shilly-shallying—and it’s as good as done. That’s why I urge you to pray for absolutely everything, ranging from small to large. Include everything as you embrace this God-life, and you’ll get God’s everything. And when you assume the posture of prayer, remember that it’s not all asking. If you have anything against someone, forgive—only then will your heavenly Father be inclined to also wipe your slate clean of sins.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I watch so many cooking shows and competitions on cable television that I should be a Le Cordon Bleu chef by now! Often, in the “heat” of the competition, a contestant will forget something really important...like turning the water on to boil soon enough or getting the oven hot enough – or adding salt and seasoning. As a result, the dish is just not what it should be. Oh, “it’ll eat,” as we like to say in the South...but cakes and breads are a little mushy in the center sometimes...and savory dishes (do you like my “foodie” term there?!) are simply bland. A single step could have made such a huge difference in the end result.
In our spiritual lives, we often operate like the cooks in these competitions. We get so caught up in ourselves and what God will do for us and through us that we miss a step here and there...and this can make all the difference. When we leave out forgiveness and mercy for others, Jesus still forgives our sins. His Holy Spirit still guides our steps – and yes, He can still move mountains for us. But He expects us to “get all of our ducks in a row” first. It’s something akin to telling a child, “You can have ice cream...but you have to finish your dinner first.” We can have God’s “good stuff”...but we have to do what He asks and operate as He would beforehand.
We would never dream of God not forgiving us when we ask Him. We cannot imagine a God who doesn’t love us wholeheartedly. We SAY that we believe in a God who moves mountains...with whom all things are possible. And then we tie His hands by acting in a “do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do” manner. How can we expect God to forgive – and work on our behalf – when we are unwilling to do the same toward others? Where is your “bump in the road” today? Who needs the “salt and seasoning” of your mercy and forgiveness?
When you think of your life as your “best dish” served up for God...what is missing? Are you giving – and getting – the best results in your daily living, as a result of total obedience in your faith? Isn’t it time you were?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Jesus was matter-of-fact: “Embrace this God-life. Really embrace it, and nothing will be too much for you. This mountain, for instance: Just say, ‘Go jump in the lake’—no shuffling or shilly-shallying—and it’s as good as done. That’s why I urge you to pray for absolutely everything, ranging from small to large. Include everything as you embrace this God-life, and you’ll get God’s everything. And when you assume the posture of prayer, remember that it’s not all asking. If you have anything against someone, forgive—only then will your heavenly Father be inclined to also wipe your slate clean of sins.”
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
I watch so many cooking shows and competitions on cable television that I should be a Le Cordon Bleu chef by now! Often, in the “heat” of the competition, a contestant will forget something really important...like turning the water on to boil soon enough or getting the oven hot enough – or adding salt and seasoning. As a result, the dish is just not what it should be. Oh, “it’ll eat,” as we like to say in the South...but cakes and breads are a little mushy in the center sometimes...and savory dishes (do you like my “foodie” term there?!) are simply bland. A single step could have made such a huge difference in the end result.
In our spiritual lives, we often operate like the cooks in these competitions. We get so caught up in ourselves and what God will do for us and through us that we miss a step here and there...and this can make all the difference. When we leave out forgiveness and mercy for others, Jesus still forgives our sins. His Holy Spirit still guides our steps – and yes, He can still move mountains for us. But He expects us to “get all of our ducks in a row” first. It’s something akin to telling a child, “You can have ice cream...but you have to finish your dinner first.” We can have God’s “good stuff”...but we have to do what He asks and operate as He would beforehand.
We would never dream of God not forgiving us when we ask Him. We cannot imagine a God who doesn’t love us wholeheartedly. We SAY that we believe in a God who moves mountains...with whom all things are possible. And then we tie His hands by acting in a “do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do” manner. How can we expect God to forgive – and work on our behalf – when we are unwilling to do the same toward others? Where is your “bump in the road” today? Who needs the “salt and seasoning” of your mercy and forgiveness?
When you think of your life as your “best dish” served up for God...what is missing? Are you giving – and getting – the best results in your daily living, as a result of total obedience in your faith? Isn’t it time you were?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 18, 2014
Luke 7:44-48
He turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Have you noticed this woman? When I came into your home, you didn’t give me any water so I could wash my feet. But she has washed my feet with her tears and dried them with her hair. You didn’t greet me with a kiss, but from the time I came in, she has not stopped kissing my feet. You didn’t even pour olive oil on my head, but she has poured expensive perfume on my feet. So I tell you that all her sins are forgiven, and that is why she has shown great love. But anyone who has been forgiven for only a little will show only a little love.”
Then Jesus said to the woman, “Your sins are forgiven.”
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
This morning, the mail lady honked her horn...our signal that she has a package for us. We are blessed to have a mail carrier who will actually come to our doorstep with packages, rather than leave a notice for us to drive to the post office and retrieve them. So I opened the door and watched her pull pretty large box from the back seat of her vehicle. “I didn’t order anything,” I mused. Then I recognized the handwriting on the mailing label. This package was from Leslie...the wife of our nephew, John. It was clothes that our great-niece Kelsey has outgrown, and Leslie wanted to share them with our little niece, Zola.
I opened the box of “goodies”...and it was like Christmas in August! Now here’s the thing...I make most of Zola’s clothes, but occasionally, I purchase “clearance” items in stores and online. It’s always fun when the package arrives in the mail and you take out all of the cute clothes and shoes for the kids. But I have to tell you, that paled in comparison to a box like this. Why? The clothes are not brand-new. Some of the colors are not quite as bright as they were when purchased in the store.
The difference is the love and thought with which these clothes were shared. These items still have a lot of “life” in them...and some indeed look almost brand-spanking new. Zola will be adorable in them...she will love the glittery red “Mary Jane” shoes...the fleecy flannel pajamas will keep her snug and warm this winter. And there are even some “Hello Kitty®” items...which are always a hit! What makes these clothes special is the attitude they represent...someone saying, “Hey, I have extra and would like to share. I’m blessed – let me bless you, too!”
This is the difference in our spiritual lives, as well. We often have the wrong set of priorities and perspectives. If we view our sins as inconsequential or “small” in comparison to those of others, we may not be as grateful. We don’t fully understand a) just how much our sins cost Jesus; and b) the significance of our outward demonstrations of gratitude to Jesus – by how we “pay it forward” with acts of mercy and kindness toward others. When we are truly grateful for Jesus’ redemptive power in our lives, we “wash His feet” and “anoint them with oil” by demonstrating love, grace, mercy, forgiveness, and compassion toward others. Even the simplest of acts...smiling at a disheveled, dirty person on the street, dropping a note of kindness or concern to someone who is “going through something”, or sharing a box of hand-me-down clothing becomes a way to say, “Thank You, Jesus,” for the blessings you have bestowed upon MY life.
I don’t think we truly understand just how costly our sins were/are. We want to think that we’re not as bad as “the other guy”...that his/her sins are so much worse; therefore, he/she “owes” Jesus a bigger debt of gratitude. That is simply not the case. In Jesus’ eyes, we are all equal...He paid a tremendous price for ALL of our sins. And in that regard, we should all be on our knees, washing His feet with our tears and drying them with our hair.
We can’t physically do this...but symbolically we can show our gratitude by sharing His love, grace, mercy, and forgiveness with others. We will each have countless opportunities to do this – even today. You may not have a box full of children’s clothes to share with another lucky little girl...but I bet you have SOMETHING you can give away – even if it is a smile, hug, or a kind word. Just as there are no small sins...there are no small acts of thankfulness. Are you paying attention and looking for ways to show your love and appreciation to Jesus? How will you demonstrate your gratitude this day?
©2014 Debbie Robus
He turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Have you noticed this woman? When I came into your home, you didn’t give me any water so I could wash my feet. But she has washed my feet with her tears and dried them with her hair. You didn’t greet me with a kiss, but from the time I came in, she has not stopped kissing my feet. You didn’t even pour olive oil on my head, but she has poured expensive perfume on my feet. So I tell you that all her sins are forgiven, and that is why she has shown great love. But anyone who has been forgiven for only a little will show only a little love.”
Then Jesus said to the woman, “Your sins are forgiven.”
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
This morning, the mail lady honked her horn...our signal that she has a package for us. We are blessed to have a mail carrier who will actually come to our doorstep with packages, rather than leave a notice for us to drive to the post office and retrieve them. So I opened the door and watched her pull pretty large box from the back seat of her vehicle. “I didn’t order anything,” I mused. Then I recognized the handwriting on the mailing label. This package was from Leslie...the wife of our nephew, John. It was clothes that our great-niece Kelsey has outgrown, and Leslie wanted to share them with our little niece, Zola.
I opened the box of “goodies”...and it was like Christmas in August! Now here’s the thing...I make most of Zola’s clothes, but occasionally, I purchase “clearance” items in stores and online. It’s always fun when the package arrives in the mail and you take out all of the cute clothes and shoes for the kids. But I have to tell you, that paled in comparison to a box like this. Why? The clothes are not brand-new. Some of the colors are not quite as bright as they were when purchased in the store.
The difference is the love and thought with which these clothes were shared. These items still have a lot of “life” in them...and some indeed look almost brand-spanking new. Zola will be adorable in them...she will love the glittery red “Mary Jane” shoes...the fleecy flannel pajamas will keep her snug and warm this winter. And there are even some “Hello Kitty®” items...which are always a hit! What makes these clothes special is the attitude they represent...someone saying, “Hey, I have extra and would like to share. I’m blessed – let me bless you, too!”
This is the difference in our spiritual lives, as well. We often have the wrong set of priorities and perspectives. If we view our sins as inconsequential or “small” in comparison to those of others, we may not be as grateful. We don’t fully understand a) just how much our sins cost Jesus; and b) the significance of our outward demonstrations of gratitude to Jesus – by how we “pay it forward” with acts of mercy and kindness toward others. When we are truly grateful for Jesus’ redemptive power in our lives, we “wash His feet” and “anoint them with oil” by demonstrating love, grace, mercy, forgiveness, and compassion toward others. Even the simplest of acts...smiling at a disheveled, dirty person on the street, dropping a note of kindness or concern to someone who is “going through something”, or sharing a box of hand-me-down clothing becomes a way to say, “Thank You, Jesus,” for the blessings you have bestowed upon MY life.
I don’t think we truly understand just how costly our sins were/are. We want to think that we’re not as bad as “the other guy”...that his/her sins are so much worse; therefore, he/she “owes” Jesus a bigger debt of gratitude. That is simply not the case. In Jesus’ eyes, we are all equal...He paid a tremendous price for ALL of our sins. And in that regard, we should all be on our knees, washing His feet with our tears and drying them with our hair.
We can’t physically do this...but symbolically we can show our gratitude by sharing His love, grace, mercy, and forgiveness with others. We will each have countless opportunities to do this – even today. You may not have a box full of children’s clothes to share with another lucky little girl...but I bet you have SOMETHING you can give away – even if it is a smile, hug, or a kind word. Just as there are no small sins...there are no small acts of thankfulness. Are you paying attention and looking for ways to show your love and appreciation to Jesus? How will you demonstrate your gratitude this day?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 17, 2014
Luke 6:35-36“I tell you, love your enemies. Help
and give without expecting a return. You’ll never—I promise—regret it.
Live out this God-created identity the way our Father lives toward us,
generously and graciously, even when we’re at our worst. Our Father is
kind; you be kind.
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
A young woman and three little girls slid into the pew we were sitting on at worship this morning. It wasn’t long before the smallest child began to fuss. The woman, who I supposed was the girls’ mother, took the toddler out of the sanctuary. Soon she was back with the child, telling the older girls, “She wouldn’t stay.” I’m assuming she tried to leave the child in the nursery. I attempted to speak with this woman after the service, to welcome her and let her know that we have classes for all three of her children during the worship hour...and that I felt these classes might be a good fit for the girls. But she was approached by the pastor, so we went on to pick up our own kids from Sunday school.
As I collected Timothy and Zola from their classes, this same woman approached me, apologizing profusely for her children’s behavior. I assured her that no apologies were necessary. I also mentioned the wonderful children’s classes that are available...and she seemed genuinely interested. But she continued to apologize. I told her, “I fully understand...’our’ children are 5, 3 and 2.” “Oh!” she replied with surprise...and she thanked me. We introduced ourselves, and I encouraged her to investigate the children’s program further, telling her how much Timothy and Zola are learning there.
See, until this young mother realized that I understood her plight, I was just another grey-headed older person that her children were disturbing in church. I’m sure it never occurred to her that I might spend a lot of time with toddlers and preschoolers - and fully understand that they grow restless quickly and are not prone to sit still and be quiet. Once she understood that I genuinely empathized, her whole demeanor changed. Her embarrassment lifted and was replaced with relief that someone not only “got her”...they also seemed to really care.
How many times are we judged incorrectly or unfairly because people assume that we do not understand...and what do we do to correct this? How uncomfortable do we make others with our indifference? How hard would it be to smile and say to a mother in the check-out line whose child is having a complete meltdown...”It’s okay...I’ve been there.” What would be wrong with reaching out to someone who is caring for an elderly loved one and letting them know that you have been through this and understand their struggles – and offering to help in some way that YOU KNOW would be especially supportive? Or maybe you have experienced the loss of a precious loved one and see someone struggling with a similar situation...and you know the gestures that meant the most to you and might be helpful to this person.
Lots of mommas and daddies are saying “Good-bye” to kids this weekend and next who will be heading off to college, that first day of kindergarten or pre-k, or some other milestone event. If you’ve “been there, done that”...you’re in a perfect position to step out and offer some kind words and encouragement...and even a little commiseration. If you are a college student who has friends and acquaintances that are joining your campus this fall, why not reach out to them and let them know that you remember what it felt like those first few days. Offer to “be there” for them in whatever way you feel would make a difference.
The bottom line is that we need to look around...to be awake and alert to the opportunities to give to others with no expectation of anything in return...to offer kindness, compassion and empathy to those in our midst – even when they are at their worst. We need to show people that we truly care...and offer them the love of Christ – whenever and wherever possible.
It took less than five minutes this morning to reach out to this young woman and the three little girls (who turned out to be her daughter and two nieces)...but hopefully, she feels a little more welcome and a whole lot less self-conscious about visiting our church and bringing her family. We need to do more of this – to be bold and stop wasting opportunities to share the love of Christ with others...in our churches, our schools and places of work, and in the community at large. Your largest mission field might be at Wal-Mart, in the student commons area at your school, or even on the sidelines at a pee-wee football game or dance studio. Look around and see where people need to be reached...then do what God is calling you to do in Jesus’ name!
People truly don’t care what you know...until they know that you care. What do others know about you?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Scripture quotations from The Message. © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene Peterson. Used by permission of NavPress, Colorado Springs, CO. All rights reserved.
A young woman and three little girls slid into the pew we were sitting on at worship this morning. It wasn’t long before the smallest child began to fuss. The woman, who I supposed was the girls’ mother, took the toddler out of the sanctuary. Soon she was back with the child, telling the older girls, “She wouldn’t stay.” I’m assuming she tried to leave the child in the nursery. I attempted to speak with this woman after the service, to welcome her and let her know that we have classes for all three of her children during the worship hour...and that I felt these classes might be a good fit for the girls. But she was approached by the pastor, so we went on to pick up our own kids from Sunday school.
As I collected Timothy and Zola from their classes, this same woman approached me, apologizing profusely for her children’s behavior. I assured her that no apologies were necessary. I also mentioned the wonderful children’s classes that are available...and she seemed genuinely interested. But she continued to apologize. I told her, “I fully understand...’our’ children are 5, 3 and 2.” “Oh!” she replied with surprise...and she thanked me. We introduced ourselves, and I encouraged her to investigate the children’s program further, telling her how much Timothy and Zola are learning there.
See, until this young mother realized that I understood her plight, I was just another grey-headed older person that her children were disturbing in church. I’m sure it never occurred to her that I might spend a lot of time with toddlers and preschoolers - and fully understand that they grow restless quickly and are not prone to sit still and be quiet. Once she understood that I genuinely empathized, her whole demeanor changed. Her embarrassment lifted and was replaced with relief that someone not only “got her”...they also seemed to really care.
How many times are we judged incorrectly or unfairly because people assume that we do not understand...and what do we do to correct this? How uncomfortable do we make others with our indifference? How hard would it be to smile and say to a mother in the check-out line whose child is having a complete meltdown...”It’s okay...I’ve been there.” What would be wrong with reaching out to someone who is caring for an elderly loved one and letting them know that you have been through this and understand their struggles – and offering to help in some way that YOU KNOW would be especially supportive? Or maybe you have experienced the loss of a precious loved one and see someone struggling with a similar situation...and you know the gestures that meant the most to you and might be helpful to this person.
Lots of mommas and daddies are saying “Good-bye” to kids this weekend and next who will be heading off to college, that first day of kindergarten or pre-k, or some other milestone event. If you’ve “been there, done that”...you’re in a perfect position to step out and offer some kind words and encouragement...and even a little commiseration. If you are a college student who has friends and acquaintances that are joining your campus this fall, why not reach out to them and let them know that you remember what it felt like those first few days. Offer to “be there” for them in whatever way you feel would make a difference.
The bottom line is that we need to look around...to be awake and alert to the opportunities to give to others with no expectation of anything in return...to offer kindness, compassion and empathy to those in our midst – even when they are at their worst. We need to show people that we truly care...and offer them the love of Christ – whenever and wherever possible.
It took less than five minutes this morning to reach out to this young woman and the three little girls (who turned out to be her daughter and two nieces)...but hopefully, she feels a little more welcome and a whole lot less self-conscious about visiting our church and bringing her family. We need to do more of this – to be bold and stop wasting opportunities to share the love of Christ with others...in our churches, our schools and places of work, and in the community at large. Your largest mission field might be at Wal-Mart, in the student commons area at your school, or even on the sidelines at a pee-wee football game or dance studio. Look around and see where people need to be reached...then do what God is calling you to do in Jesus’ name!
People truly don’t care what you know...until they know that you care. What do others know about you?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 16, 2014
Luke 6:27-37
“Listen, all of you. Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you. Pray for the happiness of those who curse you; implore God’s blessing on those who hurt you.
“If someone slaps you on one cheek, let him slap the other too! If someone demands your coat, give him your shirt besides. Give what you have to anyone who asks you for it; and when things are taken away from you, don’t worry about getting them back. Treat others as you want them to treat you.
“Do you think you deserve credit for merely loving those who love you? Even the godless do that! And if you do good only to those who do you good—is that so wonderful? Even sinners do that much! And if you lend money only to those who can repay you, what good is that? Even the most wicked will lend to their own kind for full return!
“Love your enemies! Do good to them! Lend to them! And don’t be concerned about the fact that they won’t repay. Then your reward from heaven will be very great, and you will truly be acting as sons of God: for he is kind to the unthankful and to those who are very wicked.
“Try to show as much compassion as your Father does.
“Never criticize or condemn—or it will all come back on you. Go easy on others; then they will do the same for you.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Today marks another milestone for Greg and me. We have officially been married for FORTY YEARS! I know! We can’t believe it, either! We are both far too young to have been married so long (wink, wink!) How have we done it? Any solid, lasting relationship takes energy and effort...and a good dose of grace and mercy (God’s and ours toward each other) - and we’ve had both!
As I read this passage today and thought about our lives together, I noted how this passage has served us well as something of a road map for success in our relationship. Let me start right away by saying that I don’t think either of us has considered the other an “enemy” (at least never for more than a couple of minutes)! But there is some good “meat” here for all of us – in all kinds of relationships. So let’s roll up our sleeves and get right to it!
In the course of 40 years or more together – as friends, partners, or even business associates and family members - feelings will be hurt. Things will be said and done that shouldn’t be. Grace, mercy, forgiveness...and plenty of prayer for the other guy truly can make a difference!
“Treat others as you want them to treat you” has somewhat become our “mantra”. We don’t play games...we don’t keep score...we share everything from general information (no secrets!) to personal victories and disappointments to our “stuff”. We don’t compete or try to keep up with each other in acquisitions of any sort. We’ve never done the “he got a boat, so I get a diamond” thing – or even “she gets to do such fun things at work and I’m stuck in this crummy job”.
We genuinely enjoy each other’s company, support each other in all things, and share our joys, sorrows, and so much more. We have each other’s back! And we show each other genuine respect and care...even on the rare day when we don’t much feel like it. We choose our words carefully and try very hard not to say something that will be considered criticism or condemnation.
My mother always says that “Love is an action, not a feeling.” While I “feel” madly in love with Greg – even more so with every day that passes - I also love him for the many “actions” he performs to demonstrate his care and devotion. I love how he thoughtfully and carefully manages our home, yard, and business affairs. I love how he has embraced my family...especially Timothy, Zola and Nathan. How many grown men do you know who will wear a Burger King® crown through Sunday lunch in a restaurant filled with customers...and act like it’s the most normal thing in the world? And I love how he loves and cares for his own family...especially his mother. I know that he prays over each one of our family members and truly trusts God for their care...and that means the world to me.
Greg has stood by me during the illnesses and deaths of countless relatives...particularly my brother, dad, and my Mam-ma Polly. He sat silently with me for hours and days at their bedsides...he filled in the gaps when I had to be away for doctor visits, hospital stays and more...and he held me gently when I cried and grieved – and truly made me feel like everything would be okay. He always assures me that there is nothing we cannot face together. And when I start to doubt – myself or my circumstances – he reminds me of my faith and helps me find my footing once again! In short, he puts up with me...and I love him for that!
I could write 40 pages, but it would all add up to this...I know that God chose us for each other. I know that He has orchestrated many events of our lives that have all led us to this day. I know that we both understand how vital His role was in our getting here in one piece! And we both know that regardless of how many more years we have together on this earth, this is not the end for us! In large part, I believe that is because we have trusted God’s word and will for our lives...and we’ve remembered to treat each other as we wish to be treated. Liberal applications of grace and mercy haven’t hurt, either!
Whatever relationships you find yourself in today...marriage, friendships, family bonds, acquaintances, church “families” and more...study God’s words in Luke 6. Learn to operate with grace, mercy, and compassion for others...avoid criticism, condemnation, gossip, and unkindness. Truly strive to treat others as you wish to be treated. We give God all the glory for what He has done in and through us...and we are excited about what lies ahead.
Who is in charge of your future? Do you “go easy on others” in your daily living? How you answer makes all the difference in the success of your relationships, your discipleship, and your daily living. Exercising God’s compassion, grace and mercy works...and we’re living proof! Are you?
©2014 Debbie Robus
“Listen, all of you. Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you. Pray for the happiness of those who curse you; implore God’s blessing on those who hurt you.
“If someone slaps you on one cheek, let him slap the other too! If someone demands your coat, give him your shirt besides. Give what you have to anyone who asks you for it; and when things are taken away from you, don’t worry about getting them back. Treat others as you want them to treat you.
“Do you think you deserve credit for merely loving those who love you? Even the godless do that! And if you do good only to those who do you good—is that so wonderful? Even sinners do that much! And if you lend money only to those who can repay you, what good is that? Even the most wicked will lend to their own kind for full return!
“Love your enemies! Do good to them! Lend to them! And don’t be concerned about the fact that they won’t repay. Then your reward from heaven will be very great, and you will truly be acting as sons of God: for he is kind to the unthankful and to those who are very wicked.
“Try to show as much compassion as your Father does.
“Never criticize or condemn—or it will all come back on you. Go easy on others; then they will do the same for you.
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Today marks another milestone for Greg and me. We have officially been married for FORTY YEARS! I know! We can’t believe it, either! We are both far too young to have been married so long (wink, wink!) How have we done it? Any solid, lasting relationship takes energy and effort...and a good dose of grace and mercy (God’s and ours toward each other) - and we’ve had both!
As I read this passage today and thought about our lives together, I noted how this passage has served us well as something of a road map for success in our relationship. Let me start right away by saying that I don’t think either of us has considered the other an “enemy” (at least never for more than a couple of minutes)! But there is some good “meat” here for all of us – in all kinds of relationships. So let’s roll up our sleeves and get right to it!
In the course of 40 years or more together – as friends, partners, or even business associates and family members - feelings will be hurt. Things will be said and done that shouldn’t be. Grace, mercy, forgiveness...and plenty of prayer for the other guy truly can make a difference!
“Treat others as you want them to treat you” has somewhat become our “mantra”. We don’t play games...we don’t keep score...we share everything from general information (no secrets!) to personal victories and disappointments to our “stuff”. We don’t compete or try to keep up with each other in acquisitions of any sort. We’ve never done the “he got a boat, so I get a diamond” thing – or even “she gets to do such fun things at work and I’m stuck in this crummy job”.
We genuinely enjoy each other’s company, support each other in all things, and share our joys, sorrows, and so much more. We have each other’s back! And we show each other genuine respect and care...even on the rare day when we don’t much feel like it. We choose our words carefully and try very hard not to say something that will be considered criticism or condemnation.
My mother always says that “Love is an action, not a feeling.” While I “feel” madly in love with Greg – even more so with every day that passes - I also love him for the many “actions” he performs to demonstrate his care and devotion. I love how he thoughtfully and carefully manages our home, yard, and business affairs. I love how he has embraced my family...especially Timothy, Zola and Nathan. How many grown men do you know who will wear a Burger King® crown through Sunday lunch in a restaurant filled with customers...and act like it’s the most normal thing in the world? And I love how he loves and cares for his own family...especially his mother. I know that he prays over each one of our family members and truly trusts God for their care...and that means the world to me.
Greg has stood by me during the illnesses and deaths of countless relatives...particularly my brother, dad, and my Mam-ma Polly. He sat silently with me for hours and days at their bedsides...he filled in the gaps when I had to be away for doctor visits, hospital stays and more...and he held me gently when I cried and grieved – and truly made me feel like everything would be okay. He always assures me that there is nothing we cannot face together. And when I start to doubt – myself or my circumstances – he reminds me of my faith and helps me find my footing once again! In short, he puts up with me...and I love him for that!
I could write 40 pages, but it would all add up to this...I know that God chose us for each other. I know that He has orchestrated many events of our lives that have all led us to this day. I know that we both understand how vital His role was in our getting here in one piece! And we both know that regardless of how many more years we have together on this earth, this is not the end for us! In large part, I believe that is because we have trusted God’s word and will for our lives...and we’ve remembered to treat each other as we wish to be treated. Liberal applications of grace and mercy haven’t hurt, either!
Whatever relationships you find yourself in today...marriage, friendships, family bonds, acquaintances, church “families” and more...study God’s words in Luke 6. Learn to operate with grace, mercy, and compassion for others...avoid criticism, condemnation, gossip, and unkindness. Truly strive to treat others as you wish to be treated. We give God all the glory for what He has done in and through us...and we are excited about what lies ahead.
Who is in charge of your future? Do you “go easy on others” in your daily living? How you answer makes all the difference in the success of your relationships, your discipleship, and your daily living. Exercising God’s compassion, grace and mercy works...and we’re living proof! Are you?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 15, 2014
August 15 ~ Luke 23:43
And Jesus replied, “Today you will be with me in Paradise. This is a solemn promise.”
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
It would have been so easy for Jesus to write off those two thieves hanging on either side of Him. After all, He was more than just a little preoccupied...beaten beyond recognition...every breath more painful than the last. And yet, He took time to forgive a sinful man and welcome him preemptively into the Kingdom of Heaven. It is understandable how Jesus found the strength to say “Good-bye” to His mother, Mary, and to commend her care to John the Apostle. But it’s hard to comprehend that He cried out to God and asked Him to forgive the soldiers who “know not what they do”. It is astounding to stop and think that Jesus’ last thoughts – and breaths – were largely spent on forgiving others.
So where does this leave us? It’s a question I’ve been asking a lot lately – both of myself and of you. I have to say, I am sensing that this is highly significant for many of us right now. It would be so easy to write a few folks off. I’m not talking in the sense of “unfriending” someone on Facebook...but truly cutting off virtually all contact with these people and acting as if they pretty much no longer exist in your world. And sometimes, we have to distance ourselves from people who are causing us pain – whether physically, mentally, emotionally – or all three.
But here’s the thing...we serve a God of second chances (and third and fourth and fifth)...and in His eyes...it’s never too late for repentance – or for grace, mercy and forgiveness. So it was God’s will that Jesus forgive that thief on the cross in his waning moments of life. And it is God’s will that we forgive others who ask for a second chance. It is His will that we operate in grace and mercy - and sometimes forgiveness...even when the other person did NOT ask for it.
We’re not being weak by doing this...we are demonstrating 1) God’s amazing power in our lives and our obedience to His will; and 2) our desire to free ourselves of bitterness and anguish, because truly, when we are unable to forgive others, WE are the ones who suffer the most.
Don’t misunderstand me. If someone is threatening to harm you – physically, mentally or emotionally - remove yourself from their presence. Put a healthy distance between the two of you. Do whatever is necessary to protect yourself and those around you. No one should stay in an abusive or dangerous situation. I’m not suggesting in the least that you try to be a hero or “tough it out” in circumstances that are unhealthy or unsafe in any manner. Get to a safe place, and then ask God to show you how to find mercy and forgiveness for the person who harmed you...from a secure distance!
For the rest of us, here are the things to remember about today’s scripture passage:
©2014 Debbie Robus
And Jesus replied, “Today you will be with me in Paradise. This is a solemn promise.”
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
It would have been so easy for Jesus to write off those two thieves hanging on either side of Him. After all, He was more than just a little preoccupied...beaten beyond recognition...every breath more painful than the last. And yet, He took time to forgive a sinful man and welcome him preemptively into the Kingdom of Heaven. It is understandable how Jesus found the strength to say “Good-bye” to His mother, Mary, and to commend her care to John the Apostle. But it’s hard to comprehend that He cried out to God and asked Him to forgive the soldiers who “know not what they do”. It is astounding to stop and think that Jesus’ last thoughts – and breaths – were largely spent on forgiving others.
So where does this leave us? It’s a question I’ve been asking a lot lately – both of myself and of you. I have to say, I am sensing that this is highly significant for many of us right now. It would be so easy to write a few folks off. I’m not talking in the sense of “unfriending” someone on Facebook...but truly cutting off virtually all contact with these people and acting as if they pretty much no longer exist in your world. And sometimes, we have to distance ourselves from people who are causing us pain – whether physically, mentally, emotionally – or all three.
But here’s the thing...we serve a God of second chances (and third and fourth and fifth)...and in His eyes...it’s never too late for repentance – or for grace, mercy and forgiveness. So it was God’s will that Jesus forgive that thief on the cross in his waning moments of life. And it is God’s will that we forgive others who ask for a second chance. It is His will that we operate in grace and mercy - and sometimes forgiveness...even when the other person did NOT ask for it.
We’re not being weak by doing this...we are demonstrating 1) God’s amazing power in our lives and our obedience to His will; and 2) our desire to free ourselves of bitterness and anguish, because truly, when we are unable to forgive others, WE are the ones who suffer the most.
Don’t misunderstand me. If someone is threatening to harm you – physically, mentally or emotionally - remove yourself from their presence. Put a healthy distance between the two of you. Do whatever is necessary to protect yourself and those around you. No one should stay in an abusive or dangerous situation. I’m not suggesting in the least that you try to be a hero or “tough it out” in circumstances that are unhealthy or unsafe in any manner. Get to a safe place, and then ask God to show you how to find mercy and forgiveness for the person who harmed you...from a secure distance!
For the rest of us, here are the things to remember about today’s scripture passage:
- The next time you think it’s too late...that you have messed up too badly, and you are doomed, remember the thief on the cross and Jesus’ response to His confession and request for mercy.
- The next time you say, “I cannot get past this. I cannot forgive him/her”...remember the cross and Jesus’ words to God about those who had abused Him and nailed Him to a cross.
- The next time you think forgiveness is too hard for you – or that it will open the door for others to mistreat you or take advantage of you, remember Jesus and how He utilized His final breaths.
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 14, 2014
Luke 22:34
But Jesus said, “Peter, let me tell you something. Between now and tomorrow morning when the rooster crows, you will deny me three times, declaring that you don’t even know me.”
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
The late actress Bette Davis said, “Old age ain’t no place for sissies.” More than a few of us have had to make the excruciating admission that we can no longer adequately care for Mom, Dad, Grandma or Grandpa at home...that skilled care is required, if not a facility where security is critical in order to assure our loved one’s safety. As the mind fades, so does the capacity to behave rationally. Some become violent – or tend to wander. Others are simply mad at the world and make everyone around them miserable, too.
I still remember my own grandmother’s stint at a hospital in a nearby city, after she mixed up her prescription medications and over-the-counter “aids” and began to hallucinate. She lost her ability to speak for a while...but the day that we wheeled her into a local nursing home, she plainly and angrily asked, “Why did you put me here?” Her attitude about the facility was expected...her verbalized response was not. But overall, her anger about the situation was not a surprise...and it happens every day in skilled care nursing facilities around the world.
Often, there are situations in our lives where we know that others will be angry and upset with us. Children protest their parents’ directives to take a bath and go to bed at a reasonable hour. Teens complain that their curfew is too early...their “dress code” is too stringent...and their parents and other adults simply don’t understand – anything! Seniors insist that they can still drive, after their eyesight and hearing fail...that they can still live alone and make their one decisions, even though they can’t remember to pay bills – or what they ate for breakfast...that they do not need around-the-clock assistance, even though they fall often and can no longer care for their personal needs adequately!
Alcoholics and addicts of all kinds assure loved ones that they are “never going to do this again.” And some do make a change! But others have not fully “turned the corner”...and we know almost as quickly as they utter the phrase that their next binge is on the horizon. In many relationships, friends and partners assure the other one that they are sorry for what has been said or done, and declare that this “won’t happen again”...and often the other person knows fully well that they are receiving “lip service.”
Jesus knew that Peter would deny Him three times in one night. Peter insisted that there was NO WAY that he would ever do this! But he did. Peter was heartsick...ashamed...devastated beyond description that He could sink to such a low point. Scripture indicates that he assumed that Jesus was done with him. Surely He wouldn’t want a disciple who was so despicable and disloyal. But the thing is...Jesus treated Peter with incredible mercy – and forgave him. Then He used Peter to serve in His ministry and do tremendous things to further His kingdom.
So where does that leave us? I think you know the answer. When people rail against us, say or do hurtful things, make promises we know they can’t – or won’t – keep, we must look at Jesus’ treatment of Peter and ask, “How can I do any less?” If Jesus could forgive Peter and offer Him mercy, how can we refuse to treat others any differently? How can we operate in anything but love, kindness, grace and mercy?
Will we be hurt and insulted at times? Probably. Will we want to retaliate...or alienate the person who has betrayed or belittled us? Possibly. Will we be angry and upset...will we throw a fit and tell everyone we know how badly we have been treated? More than likely. These are common human reactions...responses that many would consider perfectly normal and appropriate. Is this how Jesus treated Peter? Absolutely not!
As Disciples of Christ, we are called to operate above the fray. If Jesus truly is the LORD of our lives...if His Holy Spirit fills our heart and guides our words and actions...our reactions to others must mirror His. We are not called to crucifixion on a cross...we will most likely never be literally beaten and bloodied for our conduct...our insults and indignations pale in comparison to those inflicted upon Jesus. Do you want to respond to others as the world at large would...or with the grace and mercy of our precious Savior, Jesus Christ?
On a much smaller scale, we will be “denied three times” over and again throughout our lives. Let me ask you...how will you react?
©2014 Debbie Robus
But Jesus said, “Peter, let me tell you something. Between now and tomorrow morning when the rooster crows, you will deny me three times, declaring that you don’t even know me.”
The Living Bible copyright © 1971 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
The late actress Bette Davis said, “Old age ain’t no place for sissies.” More than a few of us have had to make the excruciating admission that we can no longer adequately care for Mom, Dad, Grandma or Grandpa at home...that skilled care is required, if not a facility where security is critical in order to assure our loved one’s safety. As the mind fades, so does the capacity to behave rationally. Some become violent – or tend to wander. Others are simply mad at the world and make everyone around them miserable, too.
I still remember my own grandmother’s stint at a hospital in a nearby city, after she mixed up her prescription medications and over-the-counter “aids” and began to hallucinate. She lost her ability to speak for a while...but the day that we wheeled her into a local nursing home, she plainly and angrily asked, “Why did you put me here?” Her attitude about the facility was expected...her verbalized response was not. But overall, her anger about the situation was not a surprise...and it happens every day in skilled care nursing facilities around the world.
Often, there are situations in our lives where we know that others will be angry and upset with us. Children protest their parents’ directives to take a bath and go to bed at a reasonable hour. Teens complain that their curfew is too early...their “dress code” is too stringent...and their parents and other adults simply don’t understand – anything! Seniors insist that they can still drive, after their eyesight and hearing fail...that they can still live alone and make their one decisions, even though they can’t remember to pay bills – or what they ate for breakfast...that they do not need around-the-clock assistance, even though they fall often and can no longer care for their personal needs adequately!
Alcoholics and addicts of all kinds assure loved ones that they are “never going to do this again.” And some do make a change! But others have not fully “turned the corner”...and we know almost as quickly as they utter the phrase that their next binge is on the horizon. In many relationships, friends and partners assure the other one that they are sorry for what has been said or done, and declare that this “won’t happen again”...and often the other person knows fully well that they are receiving “lip service.”
Jesus knew that Peter would deny Him three times in one night. Peter insisted that there was NO WAY that he would ever do this! But he did. Peter was heartsick...ashamed...devastated beyond description that He could sink to such a low point. Scripture indicates that he assumed that Jesus was done with him. Surely He wouldn’t want a disciple who was so despicable and disloyal. But the thing is...Jesus treated Peter with incredible mercy – and forgave him. Then He used Peter to serve in His ministry and do tremendous things to further His kingdom.
So where does that leave us? I think you know the answer. When people rail against us, say or do hurtful things, make promises we know they can’t – or won’t – keep, we must look at Jesus’ treatment of Peter and ask, “How can I do any less?” If Jesus could forgive Peter and offer Him mercy, how can we refuse to treat others any differently? How can we operate in anything but love, kindness, grace and mercy?
Will we be hurt and insulted at times? Probably. Will we want to retaliate...or alienate the person who has betrayed or belittled us? Possibly. Will we be angry and upset...will we throw a fit and tell everyone we know how badly we have been treated? More than likely. These are common human reactions...responses that many would consider perfectly normal and appropriate. Is this how Jesus treated Peter? Absolutely not!
As Disciples of Christ, we are called to operate above the fray. If Jesus truly is the LORD of our lives...if His Holy Spirit fills our heart and guides our words and actions...our reactions to others must mirror His. We are not called to crucifixion on a cross...we will most likely never be literally beaten and bloodied for our conduct...our insults and indignations pale in comparison to those inflicted upon Jesus. Do you want to respond to others as the world at large would...or with the grace and mercy of our precious Savior, Jesus Christ?
On a much smaller scale, we will be “denied three times” over and again throughout our lives. Let me ask you...how will you react?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 13, 2014
Luke 17:3-4
So be careful what you do. Correct any followers of mine who sin, and forgive the ones who say they are sorry. Even if one of them mistreats you seven times in one day and says, “I am sorry,” you should still forgive that person.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Like many young children, when Timothy wants to stall and gain time to think of a question or a response, he will sometimes say, “But...but...but...” before he answers. Frankly, a lot of us let our “but” get in the way (and I’m not talking about the kind where you ask, “Does this make my butt look big” - because if you’re asking, you probably already know the answer!). We offer all sorts of blame and excuses. “But you don’t know what he/she did to me!” “But I was embarrassed!” “But he/she never even said ‘I’m sorry.’” “But this is not the first time that he/she has done this!” “But I was sick...I was too busy...I wasn’t myself!”
Dr. Phil says that frequently, when a person utters the word “but”...they are about to tell you how they really feel! So I’ve got a suggestion. The next time you feel your “but” getting in the way... follow it with one word... GOD! When you have been lied to one time too many, say, “But God...” and remind yourself that He can help you handle this situation in the right way. When you are offended or betrayed...maybe for the umpteenth time...say, “But God...” and let Him show you how to proceed according to His will – not yours. When YOU stand ready to offer an excuse to someone else for YOUR sin, pray, “But God...” and let Him give you the strength to own your mistake and make adequate restitution.
Our 3-year-old niece Zola is in a stage where she likes to quickly say “Sorry!” any time she is corrected. My mom reminded me that our late cousin Eddie used to say, “Sorry doesn’t get you out of trouble!” And there is some truth to this. When we forgive someone, we are not excusing them or giving them a “pass”...nor are we making ourselves a doormat for future mistreatment. But we are acting in obedience to God... and demonstrating our Christian faith.
Look at it this way...we are continually telling God we are “sorry” for this thing or another. What if He said, “Too bad!” and refused to forgive us? Surely we understand what our repeated sins cost Jesus...yet He has forgiven us for every single one of them – even those we’ve yet to commit! So when someone tells us, “I am sorry”...how can we refuse to forgive them? “But I don’t believe them!” you may say. (There’s that “but” again!) Here’s where we need to change what we insert after “But...”! Remember - ”but GOD” is the phrase to keep close at hand!
We are not three or five years old. It’s time to own our words and actions. When we learn to substitute God’s power for our own...when we take our emotions and excuses out of the equation and let Him handle things according to His will, the forgiveness thing becomes a whole lot easier. When we operate under His authority and quit trying to play judge and jury and decide who is really sorry or who will disappoint us again...when we let go and let GOD have control...operating in mercy and forgiveness becomes almost second nature. If we will only learn to say “but GOD”, we.can.do.this! Are you with me?
©2014 Debbie Robus
So be careful what you do. Correct any followers of mine who sin, and forgive the ones who say they are sorry. Even if one of them mistreats you seven times in one day and says, “I am sorry,” you should still forgive that person.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
Like many young children, when Timothy wants to stall and gain time to think of a question or a response, he will sometimes say, “But...but...but...” before he answers. Frankly, a lot of us let our “but” get in the way (and I’m not talking about the kind where you ask, “Does this make my butt look big” - because if you’re asking, you probably already know the answer!). We offer all sorts of blame and excuses. “But you don’t know what he/she did to me!” “But I was embarrassed!” “But he/she never even said ‘I’m sorry.’” “But this is not the first time that he/she has done this!” “But I was sick...I was too busy...I wasn’t myself!”
Dr. Phil says that frequently, when a person utters the word “but”...they are about to tell you how they really feel! So I’ve got a suggestion. The next time you feel your “but” getting in the way... follow it with one word... GOD! When you have been lied to one time too many, say, “But God...” and remind yourself that He can help you handle this situation in the right way. When you are offended or betrayed...maybe for the umpteenth time...say, “But God...” and let Him show you how to proceed according to His will – not yours. When YOU stand ready to offer an excuse to someone else for YOUR sin, pray, “But God...” and let Him give you the strength to own your mistake and make adequate restitution.
Our 3-year-old niece Zola is in a stage where she likes to quickly say “Sorry!” any time she is corrected. My mom reminded me that our late cousin Eddie used to say, “Sorry doesn’t get you out of trouble!” And there is some truth to this. When we forgive someone, we are not excusing them or giving them a “pass”...nor are we making ourselves a doormat for future mistreatment. But we are acting in obedience to God... and demonstrating our Christian faith.
Look at it this way...we are continually telling God we are “sorry” for this thing or another. What if He said, “Too bad!” and refused to forgive us? Surely we understand what our repeated sins cost Jesus...yet He has forgiven us for every single one of them – even those we’ve yet to commit! So when someone tells us, “I am sorry”...how can we refuse to forgive them? “But I don’t believe them!” you may say. (There’s that “but” again!) Here’s where we need to change what we insert after “But...”! Remember - ”but GOD” is the phrase to keep close at hand!
We are not three or five years old. It’s time to own our words and actions. When we learn to substitute God’s power for our own...when we take our emotions and excuses out of the equation and let Him handle things according to His will, the forgiveness thing becomes a whole lot easier. When we operate under His authority and quit trying to play judge and jury and decide who is really sorry or who will disappoint us again...when we let go and let GOD have control...operating in mercy and forgiveness becomes almost second nature. If we will only learn to say “but GOD”, we.can.do.this! Are you with me?
©2014 Debbie Robus
Daily Devotional for August 12, 2014
Luke 11:4
Forgive our sins,
as we forgive everyone
who has done wrong to us.
And keep us
from being tempted.’”
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
“I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” - Robin Williams as Lance Clayton in World’s Greatest Dad (2009)
Is there anyone over the age of 16 who doesn’t know at least some of the work of Robin McLaurin Williams? When the 63-year-old actor/comedian was found dead yesterday...the victim of an apparent suicide...social media and cable news networks lit up with recollections of his life...and suppositions about its end. One Facebook friend, who is an Emergency Medical Technician (EMT), posted, “Who I feel sad for are his wife, children, friends and loved ones. Suicide is so pointless & selfish.”
Many years ago, an acquaintance of mine took her own life. At her funeral, the pastor addressed this head-on. He noted that many consider suicide to be a sin...an act of “murder”, so to speak. He also said that we naturally ask, “How could this person do this? It’s so selfish...so hurtful and cruel to those left behind!” But he said of this person, “This was not the 'Jane' (not her real name) we knew and loved. She would never have done this were she in her right mind. Something was terribly wrong...she was so tormented in some way that her mental state was altered. Some people believe that even Christians who commit suicide go to hell. I believe that God understands their suffering and makes an allowance."
Forgive our sins, as we forgive everyone
who has done wrong to us.
Yes, suicide seems selfish to those of us who are left behind to grieve and wonder how we could have prevented it. Did we miss obvious signs? Were there things we could have done to prevent it? Were we too busy...too disinterested...too self-absorbed? We worry about our loved ones...in taking their own life, did they “sell their soul to the devil”? Are they doomed to hell for all eternity for this?
I don't think that anyone in their "right mind" would choose suicide...including Robin Williams. I don't believe that he would have purposely done this to his family and friends. Like my friend, I believe that Williams was so mentally tortured that he felt he had no other alternative. He may have believed that everyone else would be better off without him around to drag them down and cause them unnecessary worry and unhappiness.
Depression is insidious...and heartbreaking for everyone it affects...including onlookers. Couple depression with alcohol or drug addiction, and you potentially have the recipe for a ticking time bomb. As distressing and tragic as this loss – and others like it – are for all of us, I believe our job as Christians is to extend mercy and compassion to everyone involved...including the victim. Rather than impose our own selfishness and indignation that someone would “do this to us”...let’s consider the torment that may have overwhelmed this person and clouded his/her thoughts and actions. Like my former pastor, I believe that this is exactly what God does when a Christian succumbs to suicide.
I pray that we find it in our hearts to offer mercy and forgiveness to those who “wrong” us in some way – or those whom we feel have wronged us, whether this was truly their intention or not. May we be tenderhearted toward them and offer compassion for whatever pain and suffering may have plagued their hearts and minds. I pray that God will help us not to judge others...or to selfishly impose OUR hurts and indignations on them.
James Lipton, the host of a program called “Inside the Actors Studio,” once interviewed Robin Williams and asked him... “If heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates?” Williams replied, “There’s seating near the front!” I trust that Robin Williams had a relationship with Jesus...and that God has welcomed him with open arms and taken every single heartache and burden from him...and filled him with complete peace and joy.
Williams also told James Lipton that he hoped there was laughter in heaven. So do I! Maybe Robin Williams will be there - near the front, creating a few chuckles of his own! Meanwhile, I pray that we will become more aware of the burdens and sufferings of others...that we will offer them love, compassion, grace and mercy. I pray that Robin Williams’ death will serve as a reminder that “there is a heartache on every pew” – as my pastor tells us often. May we act in such a way that we reflect the amazing love and mercy of Jesus to everyone we encounter...and share His message of hope with each of them.
©2014 Debbie Robus
Forgive our sins,
as we forgive everyone
who has done wrong to us.
And keep us
from being tempted.’”
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
“I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” - Robin Williams as Lance Clayton in World’s Greatest Dad (2009)
Is there anyone over the age of 16 who doesn’t know at least some of the work of Robin McLaurin Williams? When the 63-year-old actor/comedian was found dead yesterday...the victim of an apparent suicide...social media and cable news networks lit up with recollections of his life...and suppositions about its end. One Facebook friend, who is an Emergency Medical Technician (EMT), posted, “Who I feel sad for are his wife, children, friends and loved ones. Suicide is so pointless & selfish.”
Many years ago, an acquaintance of mine took her own life. At her funeral, the pastor addressed this head-on. He noted that many consider suicide to be a sin...an act of “murder”, so to speak. He also said that we naturally ask, “How could this person do this? It’s so selfish...so hurtful and cruel to those left behind!” But he said of this person, “This was not the 'Jane' (not her real name) we knew and loved. She would never have done this were she in her right mind. Something was terribly wrong...she was so tormented in some way that her mental state was altered. Some people believe that even Christians who commit suicide go to hell. I believe that God understands their suffering and makes an allowance."
Forgive our sins, as we forgive everyone
who has done wrong to us.
Yes, suicide seems selfish to those of us who are left behind to grieve and wonder how we could have prevented it. Did we miss obvious signs? Were there things we could have done to prevent it? Were we too busy...too disinterested...too self-absorbed? We worry about our loved ones...in taking their own life, did they “sell their soul to the devil”? Are they doomed to hell for all eternity for this?
Forgive our sins, as we forgive everyone
who has done wrong to us.
who has done wrong to us.
I don't think that anyone in their "right mind" would choose suicide...including Robin Williams. I don't believe that he would have purposely done this to his family and friends. Like my friend, I believe that Williams was so mentally tortured that he felt he had no other alternative. He may have believed that everyone else would be better off without him around to drag them down and cause them unnecessary worry and unhappiness.
Depression is insidious...and heartbreaking for everyone it affects...including onlookers. Couple depression with alcohol or drug addiction, and you potentially have the recipe for a ticking time bomb. As distressing and tragic as this loss – and others like it – are for all of us, I believe our job as Christians is to extend mercy and compassion to everyone involved...including the victim. Rather than impose our own selfishness and indignation that someone would “do this to us”...let’s consider the torment that may have overwhelmed this person and clouded his/her thoughts and actions. Like my former pastor, I believe that this is exactly what God does when a Christian succumbs to suicide.
Forgive our sins, as we forgive
everyone who has done wrong to us.
everyone who has done wrong to us.
I pray that we find it in our hearts to offer mercy and forgiveness to those who “wrong” us in some way – or those whom we feel have wronged us, whether this was truly their intention or not. May we be tenderhearted toward them and offer compassion for whatever pain and suffering may have plagued their hearts and minds. I pray that God will help us not to judge others...or to selfishly impose OUR hurts and indignations on them.
James Lipton, the host of a program called “Inside the Actors Studio,” once interviewed Robin Williams and asked him... “If heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates?” Williams replied, “There’s seating near the front!” I trust that Robin Williams had a relationship with Jesus...and that God has welcomed him with open arms and taken every single heartache and burden from him...and filled him with complete peace and joy.
Williams also told James Lipton that he hoped there was laughter in heaven. So do I! Maybe Robin Williams will be there - near the front, creating a few chuckles of his own! Meanwhile, I pray that we will become more aware of the burdens and sufferings of others...that we will offer them love, compassion, grace and mercy. I pray that Robin Williams’ death will serve as a reminder that “there is a heartache on every pew” – as my pastor tells us often. May we act in such a way that we reflect the amazing love and mercy of Jesus to everyone we encounter...and share His message of hope with each of them.
©2014 Debbie Robus
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