Proverbs 22:8, 10
Troublemakers get in trouble, and their terrible anger will get them nowhere.
Arguments and fights will come to an end, if you chase away those who insult others.
Scripture taken from the Contemporary English Version © 1991,1992, 1995 by American Bible Society, Used by Permission.
I was having a conversation with a friend recently about Facebook. We noted that there are some people who have expressed certain views and opinions – or used language we don’t condone – and we have had to block or remove them from our “Friends” list. I don’t want others who read my wall to see these types of posts and assume I approve of the content. Like it or not, we are quite often known by the company we keep!
A lot of people post comments on Facebook that are controversial at best… and downright offensive to many. They do this to get a rise out of others… because of their own anger… and quite honestly, out of fear – both imagined and justified. And it’s not just on Facebook. People do this in e-mail messages, letters to the editor of a local newspaper, face-to-face conversations, from the pulpit and the lecturn, and at table discussions at the local coffee shop or break room. A case in point is the “evangelist” whose rant I recently saw on a TV news show. She claimed that there was a connection with Spiritual ramifications between the blackbirds falling from the sky in Beebe, Arkansas… an Arkansas governor named Beebe… and a former Arkansas governor who supported “Don’t ask, don’t tell.” She tried to tie all of this into a neat package to suggest that the “end times were near”… and this was our sign!
As Christians, we have to change the channel on such nonsense! We have to “unfriend” those who choose to post insults and obscenities on Facebook. We must delete the e-mail messages that spread vicious lies and insults. And at times, we must stand up to those who send or say such things and say, “This is offensive to me… I do not like what you are saying and doing. I encourage you to stop… but at least stop including me in your messages/circle.”
If you couple these scripture verses with those in the New Testament where Jesus often confronted those who were causing trouble, you see that we are called to do our part to diffuse troublemakers and potentially volatile situations. There are times that ignoring angry outbursts and vile comments is the appropriate action. There are also times when we must confront those who are causing trouble… but always in a loving, caring manner – never insulting or being angry in return.
Simply blocking or avoiding those with angry tempers and troublesome behaviors may not be enough… and this could signal to others that you are on board. Ask God to help you discern when to be silent… and when to challenge troublemakers and disruptive behaviors. Ask God to give you understanding and compassion for those who are operating in fear… and to show you how to encourage them to seek His direction as they express their feelings. And while you are at it, ask God to give you the right attitude… and sense and sensibility in your own conduct.
©2011 Debbie Robus
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